₦airaland Forum

Lionpikin:
most of them are weaklings who are not matured enough to handle relationships talk more of marriages.....just sitting down to think for a moment will solve most of the problems they are crying of....too many sissies nowadays

Fizzymike1:
Who told u am not married

Lindaa97:
Most guys are too self centred to allow that plus the Nigerian factor.

MedicH:
Lol i know men and i use a lot of psychology. Anyman addicted to soccer cant help but seek reward for his passion via bet9ja. On this pedestal, he is doomed. I hardly watch soccer games. Hardly. Betting na no no no.

fatymore:
lol

maynation:
Yeah from experience, I have seen enough.

Not personal experience tho.

Godsonkemz:
Economic reason such as uncertainty in finance and job security to sustain the union, and psychological reason such as trust and betrayal.

maiahsaiah:
Probably, but from observations, not completely.

UnknownQueen:
I used to have same thoughts but today, I'm an overcomer with two children via Vaginal birth..
And u know what only you can help yourself, yes the process is extremely painful but the koy they bring afterwards is immeasurable, but please of you must do, have great financial plans before venturing into child rearing oo also it' isn't a must u birth one via V. B ELECTIVE C. S IS LESS PAINFUL compared to V. B

MJBOLT:

i agree with some of the ladies here because i have seen boys do these stupid things.

WhereIsOldRoger:
That so? then 90% of guys have back up plans that's why when it's time to marry they will ask their friends which should they marry between Kehinde, Aisha or Amaka.Why date multiple gals?

maiahsaiah:
Is it a baby boy you had? When most couples birth boys, all manner of hardship comes. You’ll have to endure and pray.

Try and birth a girl the next time for uncountable blessings. To birth a girl, you need to show your wife overwhelming love so that she loves you genuinely in return. Girls only come from a place of genuine love. There is a science way too. But I only believe in tradition. (Joys of Motherhood)

realtalk19:
Marrying the wrong partner who isn't able to cater and provide for the family hereby making me a bread winner.

anslem04:
cheatin for men is nt a norm rather it is all about our biological edge over woman when the worst happens.
1. A man can keep multiple wives under one roof n the world won't end,
2.Men appreciate with body counts buh women depreciate over body counts.
3. A man can. av babies outside n till be fully available to his wife.
4. like i said b4 it natural in play ... a man can cheat becos his emotions are not attached to sex, the wife remains d luv of his life but asides whores , can a woman sleep around n stil respect his man talkless of love.
5. when a man cheat n get caught is either d wife leave or stays becos its d man's house ..
reverse be the case can women do all these, can a woman sleep around n stil respect his man talkless of love. lets even ignore what d society think.

Simplep:
That he doesn't wake up one day and say he's no longer interested without doing anything wrong..

Advancedman:
3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first


Just marry any or all of them Fool!

makavelli80:
The fear of marrying a second hand lady. Aside family I can't imagine living with another person for the rest of my life. Is there any thing one can enjoy in a woman without getting tired of one day?

Heineken:
hahaha nawao. Some women bad

FuckThaMod:
She might run away cos i will destroy her pussy day and night.. I love sex too much and I'm hardly satisfied. Today alone i had 14 rounds with 3 different girls. I'm a sex freak and I've tried so hard to control it but it's very difficult.

maynation:
Marriage na scam.
I swear to God.

fatymore:
Fear of not having enough money.
Fear of changing after marriage
Fear of marrying a second wife
Fear of falling out of love
Fear of divorce
Fear of fear itself

nowpresence:
freedom like when I was single

mrkings84:
Taking care of a whole lineage of who knows all in the name of marriage.

Na only in Nigeria it happens that u marry a girl and u are marrying all her family most especially when they aren't the rich type

ednut1:
Marriage these days look like a scam

feelmeTy:
I am facing it now oooo, I lost my job, n my wife don born, baby is 1 year plus, I dey get high blood pressure ooo. And wife business crashed too. A times I will wake up enter street of Ibadan looking for where them dey load frozen fish or noodles from truck to warehouse!

Sonnobax15:
Fear of ending up with a womb-less woman,perhaps one who has rolled with series of yahoo yahoo boys in the past...that's why it's now recommendable to give her *stomach* first before doing altar things.

Newguyhere:
being committed to one pussy for the rest of my life.
I don't think I can handle that

GeeSpyce:
I will come back to say something

Ancecoker:
Cooking during wife’s pregnancy

Aidejay:
Death
That is your partner dying before you

very4tune8:
Nice one. Let him that have ears listen.