₦airaland Forum

maynation:
Marriage na scam.
I swear to God.

fatymore:
Fear of not having enough money.
Fear of changing after marriage
Fear of marrying a second wife
Fear of falling out of love
Fear of divorce
Fear of fear itself

nowpresence:
freedom like when I was single

mrkings84:
Taking care of a whole lineage of who knows all in the name of marriage.

Na only in Nigeria it happens that u marry a girl and u are marrying all her family most especially when they aren't the rich type

ednut1:
Marriage these days look like a scam

feelmeTy:
I am facing it now oooo, I lost my job, n my wife don born, baby is 1 year plus, I dey get high blood pressure ooo. And wife business crashed too. A times I will wake up enter street of Ibadan looking for where them dey load frozen fish or noodles from truck to warehouse!

Sonnobax15:
Fear of ending up with a womb-less woman,perhaps one who has rolled with series of yahoo yahoo boys in the past...that's why it's now recommendable to give her *stomach* first before doing altar things.

Newguyhere:
being committed to one pussy for the rest of my life.
I don't think I can handle that

GeeSpyce:
I will come back to say something

Ancecoker:
Cooking during wife’s pregnancy

Aidejay:
Death
That is your partner dying before you

very4tune8:
Nice one. Let him that have ears listen.

lilwetdick:
virginity

a beautiful virgin woman is prouder than a peacock

tillaman:
makes a lot of sense @bolded but tell me it’s a joke how can a sane person tell some random chic you just met I love you, I find it hard to believe, I can’t even remember when last I said that to anyone! I’ll rather show the love through my actions

MEGA4BILLION:
This one no enter evening newspaper. That time she will even demand proposal through phone call.

tillaman:
trip to Maldives ?? Send me your Ac no so I can appreciate your beauty

dipoolowoo:
CBN Retains Rates at OMO Auction, as One-Year T-Bills Yield Falls to 10.91%
https://businesspost.ng/economy/cbn-retains-rates-at-omo-auction-as-one-year-t-bills-yield-falls-to-10-91/

Nigeria Offers 30-Year Bond at 14.80%, 5-Year at 12.75%
https://businesspost.ng/economy/nigeria-offers-30-year-bond-at-14-80-5-year-at-12-75/

Nigerian Stocks Gain 1.91% as Investors Abandon Fixed Income Market
https://businesspost.ng/economy/demand-for-nigerian-stocks-raises-index-by-1-91/

DigitalMallam:
Ghana is currently doing 19.5% for 364 days.
You can try your luck, some Nigerian bank like Ecobank, UBA and GTB has earned themselves good name in the Ghanaian market. Please note you will require a recidency permit to open an account with any bank in Ghana

DigitalMallam:
'any business' is generic. Aside your 1st degree and nysc descaherge cert, what other skill set do you have?. On a more serious note I personally believe it will be difficult to get help this way. I mean by just jumping on a discussion. If you were my younger one, I will advise you go and mentor some people who are self employed since getting good job is almost impossible if you don't have big politician as s father. There millions of things you can learn at this age, I watch a clip of one young man that established garri processing factory in his village after service and he's doing really well, such venture is what I can assist with. As for white collarjob it's difficult securing one.

Pettyprincess:
*when are you coming over to my place on first visit?
God knows i hate this question with passion!!! Coming to visit for what exactly? Mtchew

send me a picture of what you look like today, asin how kwan?? For what!!??
Lol i tire o,as if my bank account balance will increase bcus of that mtchew

-video calls!
Like if you not the one subscribing for me why would you be asking for video calls? mtchew

- my night was boring I wish you were here with me
And so? How is that my business oga?
Guys please these stupid questions needs to stop!!! We ladies are tired!!! Try more romantic questions not all these boring questions!!!

uthlaw:
And you will also be paying bills!

Tallesty1:
Linda couldn't marry when she doesn't have a child e come be now that she is a single mom. Genevieve is a single mom and she is single with all her wealth and achievements, Tiwa too and the best she could get with all her money is fvcking a boy.


Guy, you're just trying to blackmail other guys without making sense.

Apart from the fact that most single mothers(who aren't unfortunate widows) are promiscuous, there are a million and one other reasons to stay away from them.


But before I go down to one or maybe two of these reason, I will like to point out something to some of you. You especially.


Single mothers should stop this always failing attempt to blackmail men to marry them.
For every single mother out there, there's at least 20 ladies that have not had a child who are still single.

If your being single is a result of having a child then explain these other ladies who are also single even though they have never had a child? You go online to claim that being a single parent is bliss and the only way and then come offline to wail that you can't find a husband? Who takes such an unstable person serious.

You make it seem like they're single because they're single mothers but truth is they're single because they have issues just like other single ladies out there. Women generally have issues, matter of fact, anything that has tire, engine or boobs have issues but boobs that have fed a child have complicated issues.


Now down to the reasons.

Which you have not experienced.


Women have undying love for things that give them pain.

High heels give them pain but they wear it anyways. Skimpy dresses makes them uncomfortable, but they can't do without it. You see them cling to shitholes that treat them like trash and then make you their best friend so you can console them when they are treated like thrash. It's illogical to us but they seem to understand it.

A lot of the guys that put these ladies in the family way are assholes so your woman, because of this their inexplicable love for things that give them pain will once in a while go back to this guy.

Women who suffered terribly in the hands of an ex lover see their child as a consolation price. For this reason, this child will come first before the one she will have for you.

I know you don't understand this because you've not experienced anything like that.



Picture this family.


A single father married a single mother.

By your logic, they're birds of the same feather and similar experience so they are going make a one happy family.

But that's not the case.

The union produced a kid but these kid was starved of her parents love. The father gives 70% of his love to the other child and the mother gives 90% of her love to the other child. The child they have together manage whatever is left.


Single mothers of today cling on the child without any reasonable source of income, so the moment you marry them, the child becomes your responsibility.

So before you jump on marrying a single lady just to prove a useless point, answer this question.


How will you feel seeing your wife give most of her love and attention to a kid she had for another man and you helped her to raise while your own kids get just whatever is left of her love? If you are okay with it then please by all means, marry a single mother and leave us to our choice.

I can't do it and neither you nor any single mom can blackmail me to do it.

And finally, blaming everything that happens in Africa on religion is becoming very lame.


Please note that all single mothers are not the same. There are many many good single mothers who are just unfortunate with men but finding a wife is difficult and I am not going to make it more difficult by including single mothers.

writefreely:
There are still human beings with morals everywhere else in the world, don't let a lazy demented youth fool you.