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TravelRe: Usa Immigrant Visa by Helpout12345: 5:24pm On Oct 25, 2022
rsunky2:
THANK YOU FOR THE REPLY HOW LONG FOR THE F2B WAIT COZ MY FATHER TOLD ME THAT THEY ARE GOING TO APPROVE THE PETITION NEXT YEAR THAT IS SO SURE ABOUT IT....PLEASE I JUST NEED ALL THE ADVICE YOU CAN GIVE ME THANK YOU SIR
For you on F2B, your application was submitted in 2019, they are currently attending to September 2015 applications. Your wait time is around 2019 minus 2015, which is 4years from now.

This is assuming the current pace of movement remains same.

Another big advise I will give you is this: If you plan to apply for any non-immigrant visa while waiting for this F2B to be ready, DO NOT LIE on the application or during interviews in order to get the non-immigrant visa.

Also avoid using agents to apply for your non-immigrant visa. This is because any lie on your previous non-immigrant visa applications will affect your F2B visa up to a refusal.
FamilyRe: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Helpout12345: 11:19pm On Oct 24, 2022
nicerod:
Small boy like u ..u don't know what Yoruba people call "'eda'"


Meaning the semen will flow out immediately after a woman have sex
That "eda" has no scientific backing. The virginal has fluid that aid the spermatozoans to swim to the fallopian tube where fertilization occurs.

There are millions of spermatozoans in a drop of an healthy man's semen, and only one is required to get to the egg of the woman for fertilization to occur.

Once the semen touches any part of the virginal, even if the woman stands up immediately and semen flows out, she will still get pregnant normally, if both partners are fertile and she is on ovulation.
FamilyRe: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Helpout12345: 11:11pm On Oct 24, 2022
Haba! Marriage of less than 1 year? Come on.

This your story sounds very fake. I mean the part that your wife sat you down suggesting to sleep with another man to get pregnant in a marriage of less than a year.
TravelRe: Usa Immigrant Visa by Helpout12345: 5:49pm On Oct 24, 2022
Another advise I have for you is that you are currently on F2B which is for unmarried adult children of LPR. If you get married during this process, you will be moved to F3, married adult children of US citizens.

F3 has longer wait time. Your priority date is in 2019 and they are currently on 2008 for F3. 2019 minus 2008, is 11 years from now for you in F3.

To avoid being moved to F3, remain unmarried but you can have children while waiting.

If you need more specific information further, just ask
TravelRe: Usa Immigrant Visa by Helpout12345: 5:39pm On Oct 24, 2022
Helpout12345:
You and your married sister started as F2B category since your dad filled when he was a LPR.

Since your dad is now a citizen, your married sister will move to F3 and you unmarried will move to F1.

According to visa bulletin showing current priority dates, link below, they are currently attending to F2B of September 2015, F1 of December 2014 and F3 of November 2008.

https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/legal/visa-law0/visa-bulletin/2023/visa-bulletin-for-november-2022.html

Your application was filled in 2019. Therefore, you still have a long wait before they get to your turn.

Unfortunately your married sister will have a longer wait time but that a sacrifice to pay for her marriage.
Use this to calculate your wait time
RomanceRe: He Found Out His Wife Was A Former Runs Girl by Helpout12345: 4:02pm On Oct 24, 2022
Unfortunately people hardly change.

Most retired olosho that got married are just on time off, especially if the husband cannot handle her like those clients with more than 7inches on tramadol etc.

She will make life miserable for the husband.
PoliticsRe: 2023: God Called Us To Change Lagos Story — Funke Akindele by Helpout12345: 11:28pm On Oct 23, 2022
I need the voice note of the call before I can believe this. Sorry.
CultureRe: Ooni Of Ife To Marry 6th Wife On Monday by Helpout12345: 11:25pm On Oct 23, 2022
Yoighaman:
Nice strategy.

Marry a wife, she gives you problems, marry two, they double the trouble, but marry three or more, they face their children and give you peace of mind. Las las, they call you a useless husband, but, you sha have peace of mind and would live long to even marry more.
You are on point!
CultureRe: Ooni Of Ife To Marry 6th Wife On Monday by Helpout12345: 11:22pm On Oct 23, 2022
Romanoff:
And two of the ones he just married are beating up each other over packing space.

E be like say them no give them orientation on how to comport themselves.
That's the exact purpose of him marrying many of them now. If it's just one wife, she will have no one to trouble except the man.

With rival wives, the women have enough people to fight with in the palace and the man can focus on other things.
CultureRe: Ooni Of Ife To Marry 6th Wife On Monday by Helpout12345: 11:19pm On Oct 23, 2022
Correct. Now Ooni is representing the culture correctly. One man, one wife is not our culture.
PoliticsRe: Security advisory: Elevated risk of terror attacks in Abuja - US warns citizens by Helpout12345: 11:14pm On Oct 23, 2022
Okay. The terrorists should go to right places in Abuja where Nigerians' problems are.

Na thunder go fire any terrorists that kill innocent markets people and children.
FamilyRe: No Family Planning, No Sex by Helpout12345: 5:03pm On Oct 23, 2022
I think the decision on number of children should be mutually reached by both parties.

If you both cannot come to mutual and happy agreement on this, you might want to involve the elders in both families.

She should not be forced to have more children and you should not be forced to accept to limit your number of children either if you can afford it.
FamilyRe: GOD is Good by Helpout12345: 4:31pm On Oct 23, 2022
advanceDNA:
U people are just trying too hard to sound politically correct....all these talk is western trash, mixed with feminism, giving women more power to deal with men....

.when u hear a rape case back in the day...the evidence is the body of the woman..very clear.... now ..women will just wake up and claim rape.. and its just the womans word against the man..

I even heard this new definition of rape covers when u are already fvcking with consent....and she suddenly decides its no longer consent...

This op claiming she was raped by her husband is still in the house eating food, using light, staying in the place where she claimed her attacker abused her, the same place where she's claiming what she ddnt want happened to her.....okay ooo....i'm not supporting rape..but lets know when someone is actually raped and when someone is just trying to be vindictive..
Don't mind them. Raped while enjoying all marital benefits.
FamilyRe: GOD is Good by Helpout12345: 4:27pm On Oct 23, 2022
I think Nigerians should stop copying all these nonsense woke laws from western countries that only came out of mere politics.

What is my husband raped me under his roof, when he is still performing his marital and fatherly duties to the family?

If you don't want to have sex with him again, you should separate and seek divorce him.

You don't want the man to commit adultery while married and the wife will withhold sex, up to claiming rape under the man's roof while enjoying all marital benefits from the husband.
TravelRe: Dunchi Lar, Nigerian Jailed For Tweeting About Her Detention In Dubai Airport by Helpout12345: 12:49pm On Oct 23, 2022
People should research rules and regulations of countries before traveling there.

Most conservative countries don't allow social media madness before it causes revolution in their country.
Christianity EtcRe: Apostle Suleman Slams Police For Killing Suspect On The Spot by Helpout12345: 8:49pm On Oct 22, 2022
He said, “As I speak with you now, I am with Apostle Suleman, and I am examining the vehicle in his compound. 

Right here is very disturbing. Vehicle that contains lots of evidence is still in Sulaiman's compound being tampered with by everyone.

Is this how Nigeria Police is going to investigate this assassination attempt?
FamilyRe: Help, I Am About To Marry A Good Girl Naricisssit. by Helpout12345: 2:59pm On Oct 22, 2022
You are lucky to see these red flags before marriage. Though you omitted lots of information about the lady, those red flags should not be over looked.

The red flags will multiply when you marry her. You cannot know a partner fully until you marry them and they have enough money to take care of themselves.

Those red flags you have seen will take away your peace in your marriage if you marry her.

Lastly, don't tell her these are red flags to you even if you want to advise her to change. If you tell her they are red flags, she will perfect her pretence game for you and you will not see any red flag again until you marry her.
FamilyRe: Pure Water Seller Arrested Over Sex With Top Businessman’s Wife by Helpout12345: 2:35pm On Oct 22, 2022
The police men that charged only John to court need to be fired.
Christianity EtcRe: Gunmen Attack Apostle Suleman’s Convoy, Kill 3 Policemen, 4 Others by Helpout12345: 10:15pm On Oct 21, 2022
Police investigation should start from the nollywood oloshos accusing him of sexually inappropriateness
TravelRe: Need Help! US Asylum by Helpout12345: 10:05pm On Oct 20, 2022
immg5:
I do appreciate your feedback.

The Form I-131 is supposed to be filed for and approved before you leave US. It'll grant you permission to re-enter US easily. To the best of my knowledge we can't apply for this as we're already outside US sad.
Read the link I gave, you will see you can file I-131 for refugees from outside the US.

Under section "Checklist for Required Initial Evidence"
TravelRe: Nigerian Student Killed By Propeller Of Private Plane He Rented For Dinner Date by Helpout12345: 10:03pm On Oct 20, 2022
ATLIEN2027:
Pls let's respect the dead. I happen to know this boy, he's my son's friend at the University.
He was a gentle, caring and loving person.
May Allah grant him aljana firdaus and grant his parents the fortitude to bear this great loss.

I know that most of you are thinking that he paid a lot of money for the plane ride and that it cost a lot of money but in fact it's called 100 hamburger plane ride which usually cost around 100 to 250 dollars or less. Also the Pilot and the co pilot are his friends and he probably didn't even pay anything for this ride.

It's just a sad event. It's affecting us all real badly.
Since you know him. You should have just tell us if he is politician son or not.

Nigerians are right to hate and disrespect any dead politician sons and daughters.
FamilyRe: How Do I Forgive Him? by Helpout12345: 3:36pm On Oct 20, 2022
I pity you. You think there's something outside with 2 children.

Yes. He wronged you by inflating the price of the land. So what? Women do this everywhere to their husbands and heaven don't fall.

Everybody has begged you and you refused to reason well.

Continue oooo. Body go tell you.
TravelRe: Need Help! US Asylum by Helpout12345: 2:07pm On Oct 20, 2022
immg5:
This Asylum was granted and supporting documents of Asylum approval is in my FOIA. Minimum time before you can apply for Green card is 1yr after an approved Asylum. Green card was already being filled for me and my sister but I believe he cancelled that before it was approved.

Again, the problem now is, me and my sister have a status in US, Asylees, which means getting a Visa is unlikely possible. So, how do we return back?
In that case, you can try to apply for refugee travel document from outside. Research more on this route, probably with an attorney familiar with the process.

https://www.uscis.gov/i-131

It's still a gamble because you have already lived safely in Nigeria for 6 years after your asylum claim.

Or if you can withstand all the troubles that come with it, you can explore the Mexico route.
PoliticsRe: I Exercised My Constitutional Right In Picking Funke As My Running Mate - Jandor by Helpout12345: 1:39pm On Oct 20, 2022
Very good. Lagosians also have their constitutional rights not to vote for you.
TravelRe: Need Help! US Asylum by Helpout12345: 1:35am On Oct 20, 2022
It looks like your uncle filed the asylum through affirmative process as you were minors then. Also, it appears your asylum was not granted yet before you were taken back to Nigeria.

If the process was fully approved, you would have gotten green card as permanent residents.

Because the process was not completed, you have been in Nigeria safely since 2016, and most likely now adults, forget about that asylum started by your uncle. Even if you return to the U.S. to continue with that application, it will most likely be denied.
TravelRe: Usa Immigrant Visa by Helpout12345: 11:49pm On Oct 19, 2022
You and your married sister started as F2B category since your dad filled when he was a LPR.

Since your dad is now a citizen, your married sister will move to F3 and you unmarried will move to F1.

According to visa bulletin showing current priority dates, link below, they are currently attending to F2B of September 2015, F1 of December 2014 and F3 of November 2008.

https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/legal/visa-law0/visa-bulletin/2023/visa-bulletin-for-november-2022.html

Your application was filled in 2019. Therefore, you still have a long wait before they get to your turn.

Unfortunately your married sister will have a longer wait time but that a sacrifice to pay for her marriage.
CrimeRe: Mum Who Poisoned Ex-boyfriend's Porridge And Strangled Him Jailed For 115 Years by Helpout12345: 9:18pm On Oct 18, 2022
Because of child support.

Inability to get child support because they cannot get custody has made many women in western countries to become murderers.
FamilyRe: My Married Sister Wants to be a liability to us by Helpout12345: 6:20pm On Oct 18, 2022
This is simple na. Just stop feeding her. She will receive sense within 1 week of serious hunger.
FamilyRe: Relationship Advice by Helpout12345: 6:04pm On Oct 18, 2022
Scientifically, short gene is a recessive gene. Therefore there's 75pct chance that your children will have your height.

Having said that, blissful marriage is not determinant on height of the spouses. If you both love each other and she is a good person, please go ahead.

Remember that, as a woman, she will still add more flesh as time goes on. The tinyness will soon go away.
FamilyRe: Why Are Women Always Scared Of Divorce? - Blessing Okoro Ask by Helpout12345: 5:49pm On Oct 18, 2022
Here we go again.

A single inexperienced wayward woman wants to be advising married, responsible and good women.
FamilyRe: I'm In A State Of Confusion, Moderator Please Help Me Move It To A Front Page by Helpout12345: 5:40pm On Oct 18, 2022
3 men, 3 children. You need to examine yourself before you think of any marriage again.

Forget about what the fake pastor told you. That's how they feed.
RomanceRe: Lady Lands In Trouble As Man Dies In Popular Hotel During Sex Romp by Helpout12345: 11:24pm On Oct 17, 2022
Chai. This man don dig bottomless pit, come burst out for the other side.

Wetin he go tell God now that made him come before his time?

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