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Travel › Re: My Naturetrip To Aspen, Colorado by Helpout12345: 3:59pm On Oct 29, 2022
oliviatwist:
Driving down the Pass

Finally down the mountain and driving through the twin lakes
Beautiful!

I love to visit here too. Did you have to book entry, packing or anything at Maroon Bells before you embark on this visit ?
Family › Re: '40 Yrs Now, No Child, No Husband': Lady Laments In Video, Begs God For Help by Helpout12345: 5:38pm On Oct 28, 2022
This is mostly where many of "I don't need a man" lands.

I salute her courage to even openly admit this as many of them will be forming online "strong women" while they are crying and praying for husbands in their closets.
Travel › Re: Usa Immigrant Visa by Helpout12345: 5:31pm On Oct 28, 2022
rsunky2:
Thank you so much sir

God bless you
You are welcome. Good luck!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Nancy Pelosi's Husband Hospitalised After Attack In Couple's Home. Suspect Arr by Helpout12345: 3:32pm On Oct 28, 2022
It's their lover that came to visit them. Pelosi and democrats love criminals more than victims.

Pelosi and her party should continue to release more criminals into the society, it will reach everyone.
Family › Re: My Wife Chatt With Her Ex Boyfriend by Helpout12345: 10:19pm On Oct 27, 2022
Chai. Guy man has married another man's woman again.

Or another runs girl is on time off in a man's house again.
Family › Re: Another DNA Problem by Helpout12345: 5:42pm On Oct 27, 2022
What is the title of the movie?
Family › Re: Most Husband Find It Difficult To Accept Divorce. Why by Helpout12345: 5:12pm On Oct 27, 2022
OP, I also think you should take this type of topic to romance section where immature children can be confused on the topic and turn it to men vs women fight as usual.

Family section is for matured minds. The topic will not sell here.

I am out.
Family › Re: Most Husband Find It Difficult To Accept Divorce. Why by Helpout12345: 5:08pm On Oct 27, 2022
Acidosis:
...depends on who is initiating the divorce. Whoever is on the receiving end will find it difficult to accept, whether male or female.

As per the colleague in your story, she's definitely not a serious person. Which abused person will continue to wait for the abuser to sign a divorce paper? Take your evidence to the magistrate and get your divorce. His consent is useless.
@bolded. Correct
Family › Re: Most Husband Find It Difficult To Accept Divorce. Why by Helpout12345: 5:07pm On Oct 27, 2022
To the OP, this is just women party jist or gossip.

The truth is that both men and women refuse to grant divorce when they are going to be the loser in the divorce.

It’s never about men or women ego or otherwise.

Go read about women killing their husbands just because he wants to divorce them.
Family › Re: Most Husband Find It Difficult To Accept Divorce. Why by Helpout12345: 5:00pm On Oct 27, 2022
If you never marry before, don't talk here please.
Travel › Re: Schools Abroad That Accept HND by Helpout12345: 4:43pm On Oct 27, 2022
Jennito:
Hello everyone,
Please I would like any information as regards schools abroad that accept HND for masters.
I have a HND in statistics and I am looking to do my masters abroad but I’ve been hearing that most schools over there don’t accept HND.
Any useful information will be much appreciated thanks.
Nigerian HND is equivalent to American Bachelors degree.

You need to contact WES, USA to do credential evaluation for you and start applying for your masters in American universities.

Good luck!
Travel › Re: Usa Immigrant Visa by Helpout12345: 4:39pm On Oct 27, 2022
rsunky2:
good morning please thanks as always for the advice,

kindly tell me the thread to follow for family preference on nairaland so i will be able to read through
thanks as always
Read and follow this thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/3979737/nvc-processing-stage-u-family
Family › Re: Between Your Mother And Wife by Helpout12345: 5:36pm On Oct 26, 2022
Most women are guilty of numbers 1 and 4 on wife side.

Only 2 and 3 are strictly for bad wives.

The truth of the matter is mother's love is the surest and most unconditional love a man can get.

Having said that, a mother has her place and a wife has own place.

If you as a man is looking for a wife that will love you like your mother, you can NEVER see such wife.
Family › Re: Donald Trump will be Americas president one day. by Helpout12345: 5:32pm On Oct 26, 2022
Why put this in Family section instead of Politics section?
Family › Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Helpout12345: 5:30pm On Oct 26, 2022
Made up story.
Travel › Re: Usa Immigrant Visa by Helpout12345: 2:02pm On Oct 26, 2022
rsunky2:
GOOD MORNING THANKS FOR THE CANDID REPLY YESTERDAY PLEASE AM JUST EAGER TO KNOW DOES IT MEAN THAT 5 YEARS STRAIGHT UP IS FOR F2B WONT THERE BE ANY REDUCTION LIKE 3YEARS DONT MIND ME AM JUST EAGER KINDLY REPLY ASAP
It can be 3 or 4 or 5 years to reach your turn.

It depends on number of applications before you and if force majeure like Covid disruption don't happen.

Just keep checking the visa bulletin periodically to see how they are moving on the priority dates.
Travel › Re: Usa Immigrant Visa by Helpout12345: 1:56pm On Oct 26, 2022
Olayinkagrace78:
Good morning. Please I want to know if a registered nurse can work in US and what are the things she needs to do. Thanks
And can she further her studies too. If yes how? Thanks
There's a thread here on Nairaland that has all the information you need


https://www.nairaland.com/2863557/nigerian-nurses-midwives-dream-working
Family › Re: Asking Men Sensitive Questions Before Marriage by Helpout12345: 1:12am On Oct 26, 2022
Interesting.

So the sensitive questions to ask your potential husband is sex and his choice between you and his mother?

Okay. No problem
Family › Re: Help: My Husband Is Now Heartless And Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Helpout12345: 1:02am On Oct 26, 2022
You are a good woman. It's always disturbing to see men that don't appreciate good women like you.

As for that man you call your husband, shame on him.

1. Continue to say no to sex with him until he goes for that STD tests and you are sure he has stopped cheating.

2. As for your school, I will suggest you pursue part-time accounting program so that you can combine the school, your business and taking care of your children.

3. If he is not beating you, since you are the sole owner or part owner of the house, stay in the marriage and focus on yourself, your happiness and your children.

Nothing dey outside ooo. Not even with 2 beautiful children.

With time, your husband might come back to his senses.
Romance › Re: Why Do Men Fall Asleep Immediately After Having Sex by Helpout12345: 8:09pm On Oct 25, 2022
obembet:
Most men don't understand that A woman's need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking.

Some men don't even know how to care for woman after having quality time. A friend of also complain that her man falls asleep immediately after the act. I know that when a man is having sex, his endorphin level is very high. But what Man need to understand what woman need after love making.

To me, I see it as wickedness.
This is seeing thing from selfish view. What about the man's need? The man don't need tendering too?

And by the way, women also sleep off after better knacking. If you and your friends don't sleep off after knacking with your men, it means the men are not doing a good job on you.

After your legs had shaken vigorously for close to 20 minutes before you have a full brain involved orgasm, you as the woman will sleep off too.
Travel › Re: Usa Immigrant Visa by Helpout12345: 5:24pm On Oct 25, 2022
rsunky2:
THANK YOU FOR THE REPLY HOW LONG FOR THE F2B WAIT COZ MY FATHER TOLD ME THAT THEY ARE GOING TO APPROVE THE PETITION NEXT YEAR THAT IS SO SURE ABOUT IT....PLEASE I JUST NEED ALL THE ADVICE YOU CAN GIVE ME THANK YOU SIR
For you on F2B, your application was submitted in 2019, they are currently attending to September 2015 applications. Your wait time is around 2019 minus 2015, which is 4years from now.

This is assuming the current pace of movement remains same.

Another big advise I will give you is this: If you plan to apply for any non-immigrant visa while waiting for this F2B to be ready, DO NOT LIE on the application or during interviews in order to get the non-immigrant visa.

Also avoid using agents to apply for your non-immigrant visa. This is because any lie on your previous non-immigrant visa applications will affect your F2B visa up to a refusal.
Family › Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Helpout12345: 11:19pm On Oct 24, 2022
nicerod:
Small boy like u ..u don't know what Yoruba people call "'eda'"


Meaning the semen will flow out immediately after a woman have sex
That "eda" has no scientific backing. The virginal has fluid that aid the spermatozoans to swim to the fallopian tube where fertilization occurs.

There are millions of spermatozoans in a drop of an healthy man's semen, and only one is required to get to the egg of the woman for fertilization to occur.

Once the semen touches any part of the virginal, even if the woman stands up immediately and semen flows out, she will still get pregnant normally, if both partners are fertile and she is on ovulation.
Family › Re: Help: My Wife Is Asking To Sleep With Another Man. by Helpout12345: 11:11pm On Oct 24, 2022
Haba! Marriage of less than 1 year? Come on.

This your story sounds very fake. I mean the part that your wife sat you down suggesting to sleep with another man to get pregnant in a marriage of less than a year.
Travel › Re: Usa Immigrant Visa by Helpout12345: 5:49pm On Oct 24, 2022
Another advise I have for you is that you are currently on F2B which is for unmarried adult children of LPR. If you get married during this process, you will be moved to F3, married adult children of US citizens.

F3 has longer wait time. Your priority date is in 2019 and they are currently on 2008 for F3. 2019 minus 2008, is 11 years from now for you in F3.

To avoid being moved to F3, remain unmarried but you can have children while waiting.

If you need more specific information further, just ask
Travel › Re: Usa Immigrant Visa by Helpout12345: 5:39pm On Oct 24, 2022
Helpout12345:
You and your married sister started as F2B category since your dad filled when he was a LPR.

Since your dad is now a citizen, your married sister will move to F3 and you unmarried will move to F1.

According to visa bulletin showing current priority dates, link below, they are currently attending to F2B of September 2015, F1 of December 2014 and F3 of November 2008.

https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/legal/visa-law0/visa-bulletin/2023/visa-bulletin-for-november-2022.html

Your application was filled in 2019. Therefore, you still have a long wait before they get to your turn.

Unfortunately your married sister will have a longer wait time but that a sacrifice to pay for her marriage.
Use this to calculate your wait time
Romance › Re: He Found Out His Wife Was A Former Runs Girl by Helpout12345: 4:02pm On Oct 24, 2022
Unfortunately people hardly change.

Most retired olosho that got married are just on time off, especially if the husband cannot handle her like those clients with more than 7inches on tramadol etc.

She will make life miserable for the husband.
Politics › Re: 2023: God Called Us To Change Lagos Story — Funke Akindele by Helpout12345: 11:28pm On Oct 23, 2022
I need the voice note of the call before I can believe this. Sorry.
Culture › Re: Ooni Of Ife To Marry 6th Wife On Monday by Helpout12345: 11:25pm On Oct 23, 2022
Yoighaman:
Nice strategy.

Marry a wife, she gives you problems, marry two, they double the trouble, but marry three or more, they face their children and give you peace of mind. Las las, they call you a useless husband, but, you sha have peace of mind and would live long to even marry more.
You are on point!
Culture › Re: Ooni Of Ife To Marry 6th Wife On Monday by Helpout12345: 11:22pm On Oct 23, 2022
Romanoff:
And two of the ones he just married are beating up each other over packing space.

E be like say them no give them orientation on how to comport themselves.
That's the exact purpose of him marrying many of them now. If it's just one wife, she will have no one to trouble except the man.

With rival wives, the women have enough people to fight with in the palace and the man can focus on other things.
Culture › Re: Ooni Of Ife To Marry 6th Wife On Monday by Helpout12345: 11:19pm On Oct 23, 2022
Correct. Now Ooni is representing the culture correctly. One man, one wife is not our culture.
Politics › Re: Security advisory: Elevated risk of terror attacks in Abuja - US warns citizens by Helpout12345: 11:14pm On Oct 23, 2022
Okay. The terrorists should go to right places in Abuja where Nigerians' problems are.

Na thunder go fire any terrorists that kill innocent markets people and children.
Family › Re: No Family Planning, No Sex by Helpout12345: 5:03pm On Oct 23, 2022
I think the decision on number of children should be mutually reached by both parties.

If you both cannot come to mutual and happy agreement on this, you might want to involve the elders in both families.

She should not be forced to have more children and you should not be forced to accept to limit your number of children either if you can afford it.

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