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Many people don't have sense in Nigeria including those turning this to tribal and ritual killing on this thread.

Allow proper investigation outcome to be revealed before you start jumping to senseless conclusions

Did the man agree that the pregnancy belonged to him when she got pregnant? Did he accept the child?

If he rejected the pregnancy or the child, you first need to overcome the hurdle of making him accept the child before thinking of any child support.

This below is translation of Putin Speech in full.

https://rumble.com/v1m58me-mg-show-season-4-episode-168.html

For people interested in full translation of Putin speech, please find it below on Rumble.com

https://rumble.com/v1m58me-mg-show-season-4-episode-168.html

That arrangement your wife told you is not what is called Surrogacy. That arrangement is just giving out your child.

The sister-in-law should pursue IVF, legal adoption or legal Surrogacy.

Don't do this arrangement they are pushing to you. It looks like only "women" arrangement without deep thought about it.

@Meteoritey, is there anything not true in what your husband has just narrated?

CNN can lie sha. Tufia

This cannot be true. I thought CNN, MSNBC and rest of western media have been telling us how Russia has been losing in Ukraine.

No lawyers in Saudi Arabia again? Get a lawyer as soon as possible.

I have observed same thing also.

abbey621:
Everybody knows that it can be contested that was never my argument, he is saying all prenups are useless because the judge will side with the woman for any reason which is a comical way of reasoning. A competent lawyer makes sure all the conditions of the prenups satisfies the legal requirement and beyond.

Okay. Got you now. But where can we find data on prenuptial agreement success in court? Do you have any trusted source?

abbey621:
Come on you're better than this, stop being vague, show me the percentage of prenups that were prepared by a lawyer, signed in good faith with witnesses and a notary and were later on invalidated by a judge or jury. If it is more than 10% of all cases over the past 50 years in the USA, I'll personally deposit $100 or 70k Naira into an account of your choice, come on I dare you!

I don't have the data but he is right that prenuptial agreement can be contested and thrown out completely or partially if entered into by duress, no legal representation for both parties before signed, have terms contradicting laws etc.

You are also right that duress must be proven by the party who claims it.

The key message here is that people should be aware that prenuptial agreement can be contested in court.

abbey621:
You're spewing nonsense, I prefer to believe my colleagues over here than you, continue arguing with your phone.....PEACE!

He is right. Many prenuptial agreements have been invalidated by the courts before.

The man will get alimony for sure. And he can contest the prenuptial agreement on marital property acquired during the marriage. Prenuptial agreement is always contestable and can be thrown out of the court or modified by the court.

GerogeI:
No, she will end up denying in order to save herself from jail and her family. Find any precedence in Nigeria where a man successfully claimed parternity in court by dna. I have not heard of a precedence. You can only have a chance if the woman is at least on your side. If she has other kids, she has plenty of reasons not to be on your side.

With current technology and the boyfriend has documented evidences ? And in this OP case, the wife affair was not a secret affair. Even her children knows the boyfriend, neighbors know and even their other colleagues might know as well. Plenty witnesses also.

And DNA is a new technology to Nigeria, it has not been court tested yet. That's why we don't have precedence in court yet.

GerogeI:
You can talk about it two years later.
A lot can happen in prison. Lets me ask you, will you go to Nigerian jail for two years to claim another mans raised child, knowing fully well how easy it is to get you offed while in prison. Especially since you are threatening the existence of his family, and already slept with his wife?

Technically yes, practically no. The worst you will do is convince the wife to breakup. But thats hard, she has other kids to think about. Or you wait for the kid to grow up, and introduce yourself. By then you are already a visitor.

Forget. If the biological father is ready, he will get the child.

Look at it this way. The law will put both the woman and the boyfriend in prison once the boyfriend can proof that they had an affair and it resulted in sex. With today technology, the boyfriend can have many chats and other evidences to proof the affair and even the sex.

The moment the boyfriend shows up to the woman and he is very serious, the woman will not want to go to jail too and she will end up confessing even before the matter gets to court.

GerogeI:
He can not. The first battle is even getting access to the child for dna test. Stolen dna test is not admissible in court. Secondly, the penal code purnishes adultery, irrespective of north or south.
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/07/adultery-crime-liable-to-2-years-imprisonment-%E2%80%95-police/amp/

What off if he is ready to go to prison for 2 years and get his child. And he claimed to be the biological father, will the court not summon DNA test?

jimmychang:
As in,she sleepwalked and rode dick and she no wake up .The man and the woman don plan am already .

AS THE DIVK COMOT,SHE STILL USE SLEEPWALKING EYE PUT AM BACK

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Sluacoast:
Let me tell you something. There's a lady who lives in the next street after mine. But kasala really scatter for this women matter. She think say her husband no go find out. She went for a wedding and because of traffic congestion on the way. She couldn't return back home and she spend the night at her colleague house. But you know. Things always turn around so quick in a tickle of an eye. When they were in her colleague house. They were both obviously drunk after taking a lot of drink's at the ceremony. To cut the story short.. she was given a room to pass the night. Her colleague is married and she lives with her husband. Do you know in the middle of the night. She got out of her room completely naked and I don't know what I'll call this. She was probably sleep walking. She walked in the sitting room and her colleague husband was obviously watching tv. Something led to another and they had sex. Some men can never control their sexual urge. How can you take advantage of your visitor who came to spend the night at your place. The both had sex and she was pregnant o. Just like that sharp shooter lol. She knew something was wrong ever since so she confronted him and he told him. And you know Ladies. She hurriedly maybe had another sexual pleasure with her ownhusband to cover her footprint but after the child was Born. See where matter cast. This man and his 3 kids has small eye's yes I Said eyes. And he was kind of surprised how come his New child come carry Big eyes. If you see this man eyes and that of his kids. You don't need to asked if he's the Father of his children. He did DNA test and the results shows he wasn't the father. So sometimes all this women cheat not because they enjoy cheating. It might occur accidentally just like this. Thanks

This is the lie the cheating woman told you guys.

GerogeI:
Lol
I hope you know there is a law punishing Adultery by upto 2 years imprisonment. The man will never approach any court and admit to sleeping with a married woman. He will first go to jail, before he gets the child. Ask a lawyer. Thats why he will forever live in pains.

This is only if they married under the Act, Court Marriage, and not in all states in Nigeria. This law punishing adultery is only mainly in the northern parts of Nigeria and not common in the south.

And circumstances can make the biological father to come back for his child even with possibility of 2 year imprisonment.

Slynation:
And how is it a bad decision... Do you think it's easy to be seeing a product of cheating playing around with your legitimate kids??

Anyways, Johnnyjohnnyman the most annoying part is that at one point the dick slipped off but your wife inserted it saying harder...

Hahahaha. Side guys knacking married women are most times reckless at it though.

They have nothing to lose. So they drill the well with reckless abandon.

Johnnyjohnnyman:
I have no doubts about my other 3 children because they are mine 2 are my carbon copy and the other one is his mother carbon copy

Please go and do DNA tests on those 3 also. Don't be too certain until the test results come back.

judeolokor:
true bro but to advice the brother it is pure wickedness to carry anoda man's child and kept mute over more Dan 9 months and you expect him to be blindly I love with someone who have such mind bros it's very risky call it parents together tell them the situation of things probably if you have money investigate the other babies and bros don't trust her

let me share this with you I have seen this kind of case the woman begged cried I even advice my friend against divorcing the wife after he did DNA test for his two girls if you see the way I beg my friend that the result was faked we all begged he accepted her back only for this woman to start giving him otapiapia for him to die slowly so dat no wan will suspect before we knew na kwashiorkor my friend turn to any woman that can cheat is very wicked and to carry anoda man's child to pin on uu is wicked pls run for ur life oooo


if the other children are urs pls take them away from her and train if not she will turn them against you

Of course, this type of woman can kill the husband.

Wittyglam:
she said three and that is a lot.

3 more kids. That man is unreasonable. If it's just one more child, I will have said the wife should give in.

Husband needs how many more kids?

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good day all. I have posted exactly 2 months ago concerning my fourth child I went ahead with the DNA test unfortunately I am not her father. Right now a lot of things have been going through my head i am shattered and depressed. . I don't know yet what is going to happen in my marriage I just don't know if the marriage will work or not.
I just wanted to keep you updated about the DNA.

I went back to read all your previous posts. I can tell you your wife came back to you because her boyfriend refused the pregnancy.

My advise is leave the marriage.

EgunMogaji2:
Another American Dalemosu loading up - how cute

Hahahaha

lawalosky:
Thesame problem I am presently having with my wife to be!

Thank God, I am not the person who started the issue, I have all my evidences just for the
day, it will explode

Thank your star the wife to be is showing you this character now. It is left to you to re-evaluate to continue or pull out.

Just remember it's very difficult to change people. And more disturbing attitudes might show up when you marry her.

If you are still interested in the marriage, go and apologize to your husband and make all necessary amends.

You cut off your husband call and cut him out completely for 9WEEKS. Haba! And you are here looking for people that will give you kudos for acting well.

1stGenAmerican:
Individual income is listed as is many other statistics about earnings and income in America. The stats are there, it’s not my mission to convince you of something I’m already certain about.
Please enlighten me about where you retrieved the inaccurate figures you provided.

You have been providing household income percentage.

For the source of my data. I prefer data from the most trusted authorities, not from blogs or news articles. In this case, IRS is my most trusted source because people are bound by the laws to report accurately their incomes to IRS otherwise they can go to jail if caught. IRS has published data for 2019 but not yet published for 2020.

https://www.irs.gov/statistics/soi-tax-stats-individual-income-tax-returns-complete-report-publication-1304#_IndReturns

Please visit the link above, under the section called "Individual Income Tax Returns", download 2019 report. Go to pages 45, 50 and 52.

Page 45 is for all filling statuses - Married filling jointly, married filling separately, etc. Using columns 1 and 2, all filings with 100k to 200k AGI are 13.9pct, fillings with 200k to 500k AGI are 4.6pct. Higher than 500k, all add up to about 1pct. A total of 19.5pct.

Page 50 is for married filling separately and qualifying widow or er. These are married people filling as individuals, or widow(er). Using column 25 and by calculations, filling with income of 100k and above came out to be 10.8pct.

Page 52 is for single or unmarried persons. Using columns 49 and by calculations, fillings with income of 100k and above came out at 6.5pct.

1stGenAmerican:
I gave you links to both the US Census and the Pew Institute, both of which gave that same information. I didn’t find the statistic you quoted anywhere credible.
https://www.census.gov/library/publications/2021/demo/p60-273.html

Tell me, where did you get the figure you quoted?

What is on the census website is household and not individual income