₦airaland Forum

advanceDNA:
U people are just trying too hard to sound politically correct....all these talk is western trash, mixed with feminism, giving women more power to deal with men....

.when u hear a rape case back in the day...the evidence is the body of the woman..very clear.... now ..women will just wake up and claim rape.. and its just the womans word against the man..

I even heard this new definition of rape covers when u are already fvcking with consent....and she suddenly decides its no longer consent...

This op claiming she was raped by her husband is still in the house eating food, using light, staying in the place where she claimed her attacker abused her, the same place where she's claiming what she ddnt want happened to her.....okay ooo....i'm not supporting rape..but lets know when someone is actually raped and when someone is just trying to be vindictive..

Don't mind them. Raped while enjoying all marital benefits.

I think Nigerians should stop copying all these nonsense woke laws from western countries that only came out of mere politics.

What is my husband raped me under his roof, when he is still performing his marital and fatherly duties to the family?

If you don't want to have sex with him again, you should separate and seek divorce him.

You don't want the man to commit adultery while married and the wife will withhold sex, up to claiming rape under the man's roof while enjoying all marital benefits from the husband.

People should research rules and regulations of countries before traveling there.

Most conservative countries don't allow social media madness before it causes revolution in their country.

He said, “As I speak with you now, I am with Apostle Suleman, and I am examining the vehicle in his compound. 

Right here is very disturbing. Vehicle that contains lots of evidence is still in Sulaiman's compound being tampered with by everyone.

Is this how Nigeria Police is going to investigate this assassination attempt?

You are lucky to see these red flags before marriage. Though you omitted lots of information about the lady, those red flags should not be over looked.

The red flags will multiply when you marry her. You cannot know a partner fully until you marry them and they have enough money to take care of themselves.

Those red flags you have seen will take away your peace in your marriage if you marry her.

Lastly, don't tell her these are red flags to you even if you want to advise her to change. If you tell her they are red flags, she will perfect her pretence game for you and you will not see any red flag again until you marry her.

The police men that charged only John to court need to be fired.

Police investigation should start from the nollywood oloshos accusing him of sexually inappropriateness

immg5:
I do appreciate your feedback.

The Form I-131 is supposed to be filed for and approved before you leave US. It'll grant you permission to re-enter US easily. To the best of my knowledge we can't apply for this as we're already outside US .

Read the link I gave, you will see you can file I-131 for refugees from outside the US.

Under section "Checklist for Required Initial Evidence"

ATLIEN2027:
Pls let's respect the dead. I happen to know this boy, he's my son's friend at the University.
He was a gentle, caring and loving person.
May Allah grant him aljana firdaus and grant his parents the fortitude to bear this great loss.

I know that most of you are thinking that he paid a lot of money for the plane ride and that it cost a lot of money but in fact it's called 100 hamburger plane ride which usually cost around 100 to 250 dollars or less. Also the Pilot and the co pilot are his friends and he probably didn't even pay anything for this ride.

It's just a sad event. It's affecting us all real badly.

Since you know him. You should have just tell us if he is politician son or not.

Nigerians are right to hate and disrespect any dead politician sons and daughters.

I pity you. You think there's something outside with 2 children.

Yes. He wronged you by inflating the price of the land. So what? Women do this everywhere to their husbands and heaven don't fall.

Everybody has begged you and you refused to reason well.

Continue oooo. Body go tell you.

immg5:
This Asylum was granted and supporting documents of Asylum approval is in my FOIA. Minimum time before you can apply for Green card is 1yr after an approved Asylum. Green card was already being filled for me and my sister but I believe he cancelled that before it was approved.

Again, the problem now is, me and my sister have a status in US, Asylees, which means getting a Visa is unlikely possible. So, how do we return back?

In that case, you can try to apply for refugee travel document from outside. Research more on this route, probably with an attorney familiar with the process.

https://www.uscis.gov/i-131

It's still a gamble because you have already lived safely in Nigeria for 6 years after your asylum claim.

Or if you can withstand all the troubles that come with it, you can explore the Mexico route.

Very good. Lagosians also have their constitutional rights not to vote for you.

It looks like your uncle filed the asylum through affirmative process as you were minors then. Also, it appears your asylum was not granted yet before you were taken back to Nigeria.

If the process was fully approved, you would have gotten green card as permanent residents.

Because the process was not completed, you have been in Nigeria safely since 2016, and most likely now adults, forget about that asylum started by your uncle. Even if you return to the U.S. to continue with that application, it will most likely be denied.

You and your married sister started as F2B category since your dad filled when he was a LPR.

Since your dad is now a citizen, your married sister will move to F3 and you unmarried will move to F1.

According to visa bulletin showing current priority dates, link below, they are currently attending to F2B of September 2015, F1 of December 2014 and F3 of November 2008.

https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/legal/visa-law0/visa-bulletin/2023/visa-bulletin-for-november-2022.html

Your application was filled in 2019. Therefore, you still have a long wait before they get to your turn.

Unfortunately your married sister will have a longer wait time but that a sacrifice to pay for her marriage.

Because of child support.

Inability to get child support because they cannot get custody has made many women in western countries to become murderers.

This is simple na. Just stop feeding her. She will receive sense within 1 week of serious hunger.

Scientifically, short gene is a recessive gene. Therefore there's 75pct chance that your children will have your height.

Having said that, blissful marriage is not determinant on height of the spouses. If you both love each other and she is a good person, please go ahead.

Remember that, as a woman, she will still add more flesh as time goes on. The tinyness will soon go away.

Here we go again.

A single inexperienced wayward woman wants to be advising married, responsible and good women.

3 men, 3 children. You need to examine yourself before you think of any marriage again.

Forget about what the fake pastor told you. That's how they feed.

Chai. This man don dig bottomless pit, come burst out for the other side.

Wetin he go tell God now that made him come before his time?

What ?? Ordinary drones, Ukraine cannot shoot down?

Na wah ooo. Is this how Ukraine wants to win this war with Russia?

bisqit:
but most will argue its becos of old age?

That can be true for people marriage is meant for.

For example some people are so irresponsible to be married. Their marriages will mostly likely end in divorce or produce dysfunctional children.

Such people will not even be able to manage their marriages till old age.

Emperor88:
I love this .. same way not everyone will have or deserves to have kids.

You are right. Not everyone will or deserve to have children.

It's best for some people themselves, for the children and for the society at large if they remain childless.

bisqit:
then why is everybody getting married

In Nigerian, almost everybody wants to get married or are getting married because of "what our society demands". The society demand of marriage is coming from our culture and religion.

But the truth still remains that marriage is not meant for everyone irrespective of what society is calling for. When people that are best single get married due to societal demands, most of the time, the marriages are full of troubles and mostly result into divorce and dysfunctional family and children.

The dysfunctional children from such marriages will go on to negatively affect the society at large.

Which good candidate among all the thieves parading themselves as the current presidential candidates in upcoming elections?

I hope you know children of almost all politicians in Nigeria are also running or currently living abroad.

When elders are advising young boys of nowadays to keep their third leg in one place and young girls to close their yansh, you people will not hear.

See where you land yourself and both families now?

Terminator0x0:
My mum is trying her best but the baby is not cooperating she don't want milk or foods she want breast milk

See, there's nothing online strangers will tell your girlfriend father that will make him take the child with his daughter.

Your girlfriend is currently sick and undergoing treatment herself. Let your mother continue to take care of the baby for now. The baby will be fine. With time, she will get used to baby formula. Try different baby formulae for her age to see the one she will eventually like. I know your mother can handle this part.

Though I don't agree with your girlfriend father to separate baby and mother at this age of the baby but I want to give him the benefit of doubt that he just wants to concentrate on the medical treatment of his daughter for now.

You and your family should hang in there, take care of the baby for now until your girlfriend is medically okay. Then approach her father again.

If after your girlfriend is medically okay, and the baby is still young, you can involve the welfare system.

Both the boy and the girl messed up in this case. Both brought headaches to their families. Both should be blamed.

And we should train both our boys and girls to stay away from sex until they are grown up to face the consequences.

doggedfighter:
How much is condom ?


We should start training our boys to know the kind of homes they come from .

And what should we do for our girls ?

doggedfighter:
I got my girlfriend pregnant I accepted the responsibility I am not financially buoyant I am not doing anything for now

The bolded is what I find really hard to understand about some boys


A broke foolish guy with a sharp dick will only bring misery to himself and those around him.


Now the poor girl is traumatized and sick while your parents are struggling to feed and carter for you, the baby .


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I agree the boy is meant to be tongue-lashed as you did. But you seem to put all the blames on the young boy alone.

What about the mumu young girl also that cannot close her yansh? She should be clapped for?

You cannot force her to marry. Marriage is not for everyone also. Some people are better off single for themselves, for the family and for the society.

Terminator0x0:
She will clock 6 months on the 30th

What off your own mom?