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How do you mean you want to learn nursing? Do you mean going to nursing school?

Do you have family or friends that can help you with capital to start a business? Because if your husband is the way.you said, you might not get a chance to develop yourself or maximize your potentials.

Why does this sound like emmanuelbrown26 or the average Nairaland redpiller.

I declare vayulence

thorpido:
Na wa for you o Kobojunkie. God initiated marriage.

And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Gen 2:22-24.

Please don't let anyone deceive you.

Genesis 3:16

[16]To the woman He said: “I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; In pain you shall bring forth children; Your desire shall be for your husband, And he shall rule over you.”

How does the above scripture translate to God cursing marriage?

Richy4:

I was laughing because anytime I tried to read any of his/her Bible submission, I feel like I took some drowsy drugs..I feel confused.. so I don't try anymore

Probably how it is interpreted in the church of s.t.n. Especially as he/she is against churches.

Anyone arguing is just losing knowledge of the REAL word of God. Someone like Janosky can try to engage since he also likes to drop Bible verses, argue and interpret it in his own way.

* runs away

[quote author=Richy4 post=111965668][/quote]Why are you laughing now?

Any cream my hand touches. Nivea shea smooth or my kids' cream...sebamed, boots, ori/coconut oil, burt's bees baby oil. Depends o my mood

thorpido:
Na wa for you o Kobojunkie. God initiated marriage.

And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Gen 2:22-24.

Kobo's understanding and interpretation of the Bible is obviously twisted. No point in engaing in an argument. It will just rip you of what you already know. And that is the point of the "twistedness"

Sureplug123:
personal experience?

Even if it were a personal experience, Nairaland is not a place to bare your truths. There are too many narrow-minded, immature and prejudiced people that cannot receive such information.

Jeon:
why those nollywood actresses likes to be a wife to a second hand men.

Single dads that have lost market value.

Sureplug123:
forming macho in my home? Very funny. Can a woman provide shelter, food etc for a man and still respect him? Women can't take half of what they dish out.

Fortunately, it's happening. You not believing it doesn't change it. Funny thing is the men's egos cannot take it. So he finds faults, and any little thing is a form of disrespect and an injury to his ego.

We can go back and forth, and our points will be valid. We just have to do better and try to live with consideration for people around us.

Sureplug123:
in other words, verbal abuse will pass but physical abuse will not. See, they are interwoven, both parties should keep their weapons aside for peace to reign, else.........
Being jailed is beter than being killed.

If you know you won't respect your partner, don't go into marriage. You can't form woke in my house.

Same women worship the ground their pastors walk upon.

That is the law. Anyone that wants to waste his life in jail is free to beat. Afterall jail is nothing since it's better than death.

That is where coexisting peacefully comes in. The same way if a man can't control his temper he should remain unmarried and not go and be forming macho in the home.

What have worshiping pastors have to do here? They should marry the pastor.

Sureplug123:
my sister's can never and will never abuse my DAD.
See, I don't support domestic violence, but can your partner just walk up to you and start hitting you? Women have their mouth as their weapon while men have their fist as their weapon.

Let's assume I attack you with a sword and you have a gun in your hands, won't you shoot at me?

The case of Bianca Ojukwu and the former governor's wife is a good example. Women can't take half of what they dish out.

10men can live in a room but 2 women can't live in a compound without fighting and you think men are the problem?

Is not only verbal abuse that warrants beating?

Women with mouth as a weapon and man with fist. Ok. If there's a fight and the woman is beaten badly as a result of her mouth, which one is punishable ny law?

If she dies, do you think the excuse of "she insulted me" will hold water? .

It's not just about women. I have also pushed for punishment for women that were abusing their partners. My point is that no spouse has a right to raise his/her hands on a partner. When it comes to self defense, it can be argued. But if the other party is dead, what happens to that argument?

I have never condoned DV. My mindset has always been that no man born of a woman, created by the same God can step to me like that. It's not pride o, it's awareness. I learnt at an early age to speak up and challenge nonsense. And it has worked for me.

I just wish that more women will respect themselves enough not to accept such rubbish from their fellow humans.

Sureplug123:
I'm not against you, I only pointed out something. Him and Tonye were having a logical discussion before you barged in, you simply became emotional.

NOTE; women don't have the right to abuse men. You can't pick a snake with your hands and not expect it to strike.

From your last paragraph, the snake can be the woman too right? I mean what happens in a relationship where the man provokes the woman? Can she also beat him? Those relationships where the guys beats the ladies, don't the men offend too?

You guys make it sound like being emotional is a bad thing? If we cannot accommodate each other's differences, are we humans? Who indeed made men more logical and women more emotional?

Look at your house for instance...do you have grown sisters? Does your dad still beat them? If not, why doesn't he? Don't they annoy him? I'm just trying to understand why men think it is their place to beat their women.

Sureplug123:
try comparing your tone with Tonye's tone, you both are on the same page but compare the tone, you'll know why men hit women.

Regardless, men do not have the right to hit women.

Did you read the guy's comments and saw how he disregards women? Did you go for him? But instead you came for me. Why?

Sabadon:
As for me when i was single i wake up to eat by 2am, well it has not stopped

Abolonjeku

emmanuelbrown26:
If after reading through d cited example and u couldn't comprehend how DV is being caused by women, we'll I am not shock at all bcs women are same in different packages

Guy rest.

luminouz:
I am one but I don't hate women. So your claim is ridiculous.

That dude gave you an example but you didn't analyse it, rather you deflected it and said he is not logical? Why not analyse the example and come back at him with your results? That dude has not been abusive for far. That and the OP have my respect so far, on being logical.

DV is not just about physical assault. There is emotional,mental and psychological aspects and that's where women rule. Tackle all forms of DV and you will have my support.

N.B: I had an experience with a wild horse. A girl who grabs a knife any time we have a disagreement about her drinking habits. One day, she rose up as usual and came at me with it, I defended myself and gave her three hot slaps, yanked the knife from her hand and held it to her throat. She started crying blah blah blah and went to sleep straight and even snored. If I hadn't defended myself and she stabbed me, she would have said I raped her or some shiit.

I tossed her out the next day. She still sees me as an OG till this day. The respect never dwindled.
It was two weeks later that I learned she actually stabbed her last ex (she told me a different story).

Now your ex needed a brain reset obviously. Though some men would have handled the situation without beating her right?

In a case of DV against men...women hitting their husbands, would we then say that it is the fault of the man at all times? Since the guy I quoted keeps saying it's the woman's fault. My issue with him is the fact that men can do no wrong but women solely carry the blame. That's a typical case of blame shifting.

And being a "Nairaland redpiller" is almost always equals to hatred or prejudice towards women especially on this forum. You can attest to that if you are sincere. You might be one of the exceptions.

I only mentioned some hard facts and you had to come to save him because you and him know deep down that what I said was real. Someone that said his head is not correct for women's matters should not be taken seriously in real issues like this that have to do with lives.

You sound intelligent and more exposed so I'm sure you understand my point.

emmanuelbrown26:
I told u to go to page 1 or 2 and see where I cited an example of what happened in my former place of work. Either u hv read it and decided to look away as usual which is normal with women whenever something is not favouring them

Unfortunately, your example does not hold water because as you stated "my head no too correct for woman matter". That means you are biased and prejudiced when it has to do with women. And you don't have the ability to make objective conversation and arguments. That has shown in your comments so far.

Just look at how you described the guy as "cool and gentle" "spoke politely". You can't even hide your bias.

Your head no correct for woman matter and you are here trying to make sense. It's obvious you are a redpiller. People that hate women for a living.

Mariangeles:
Please, do yourself and the world a favour; do not marry any woman.
Please.

Very good advice. No woman should be subjected to such a mindset.

emmanuelbrown26:
Read from page 1 or 2 and see where I cited an example

You didn't give any examples. But it's ok. It won't matter anyway.

emmanuelbrown26:
Domestic Violence are majorly caused by women, d earlier u ladies tell yourselves d truth for u all.

This here is the reason why domestic violence can not be eradicated, because of men with such mindset.

emmanuelbrown26:
Domestic Violence yes, women are d major cause

Explain. Give examples.

emmanuelbrown26:
I still maintain my stand that some women deserves better beating.
I never chose to be right on my own, d fact still remains that women are d major cause of DV. Normal man can not just wake up in d morning and start beating his wife, many women pushed their husband's to d wall. It's only an abnormal man that just lay his hands on how wife. Women we hv this days are something else

But normal woman will just wake up and start pushing her husband to the wall right?

Men we have these days are perfect. They don't commit offences.

emmanuelbrown26:
It was how women made d society to be.
Back then, every young man dreams of having his own family, every woman dreams of coming to another family.
Back then, women united so many families that a brother would like to marry from d family of sister inlaw.
DM was less then, Love was more then, understanding was more then but this day, women want to eat their cake and still hv it.

And men don't want to eat their cake and have it right? As I said guys are innocent. You people don't have any blame. The women are the cause of the world's problems.

TONYE001:
I tried to make him see things differently but I couldn't.

Maybe he'd have a rethink sometime. I hope it won't be too late.

People like that are set in their thinking. They cannot see beyond their own narrow-minded thinking.

But you cannot blame him. It was how he was brought up to view women and the relationship between men and women. He has to make a conscious effort to get enlightenment.

emmanuelbrown26:
When it comes to DV, women are simply d cause, that's d fact. I would hv narrated stories upon stories but I won't go their bcs this is not why we are here.
Yes I know some stupid men in boys skin that can't reason at all.
Yes I know some men that are not worthy to be called men at all.
Yes I know some idiotic men in boys skin that are not suppose to associate with human beings.
But domestic violence are being caused by women and d earlier women start knowing that they are d cause d better for them

Noooo there are no stupid or idiotic men. They are all right and guiltless. The women are the problem.

When it comes to DV, the woman is to blame completely as per she was created to be the cause while the man is so innocent, above reproach that he has no other choice than to beat her...as per the beating that she deserves.

The stories you have heard are not basis for conclusion. Have you heard other stories from other people? But you choose to be right on your own. Please don't get married with this kind of one way thinking. It will end in divorce.

emmanuelbrown26:
D earlier women start telling themselves d truth d easier to eradicate DV but species of women we hv this days are not ready to hear d truth.
A man can not just wake up and lay his hands on a woman without d woman pushing d man to d wall, mind u not all men can be allowed to be pushed to d wall before fighting back. If a woman want peace she should bring d peace

From your comments men are saints, and are only pushed to the wall by women. They are completely blameless in all their dealings and can never be wrong. Any wrong in them is caused by the woman. So they have to beat the woman because they are pushed. Ok I see your point.

Way to go!

No man owns you. You have an obligation first to yourself. Violent men should start getting the memo that women will no longer take such nonsense in the name of marriage.

It has nothing to do with FEMINISM or lack of submission by today's woman. Enlightenment brings sense.

12k hotel in Lagos and he's complaining. They even gave him tv

Janosky:
In other words, ImaIma1 is telling Nairaland she lacks comprehension skills.
Pastorpreneurs can not give sheeples the knowledge of holy scriptures they do not have.

Hebrews 4:12, Matthew 10:5-6,Acts 1:8 is the word of God.
@Matthew 10:5-6, did the word of God, Jesus say preach to the Gentiles?

@Acts1:8 ,did the word of God say preach, witness to only the Jews?

Do you want more examples from your Bible?

Knowledge like "don't give or receive blood", then "sorry we made a mistake, you can now give or receive blood"

Or

"Watching TV is a sin"...then..."you can now watch TV. It is no longer a sin"

Stick to the Word of God. God doesn't make mistakes.

NB

You guys are quick to quote and quote scriptures without understanding. Continue. Quote more.

Janosky:
Hebrews 4:12,"the word of God is alive."
Is your Bible the word of God?
Matthew 10:5-6.
5These twelve Jesus sent out with the following instructions: “Do not go onto the road of the Gentiles or enter any town of the Samaritans. 6Go rather to the lost sheep of Israel."



Acts 1:8
"But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth"

Acts1:8, did the word of God change?

3 deities worshippers go just dey talk anyhow.

Acclaimed Bible scholars be posting scriptures with no correlation. Word of God and doctrines are they the same?