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Any relative that wants to fight for front seat with the wife is just foolish. I won't bother to fight and equal myself with such a person.

But then, I usually leave the front seat for them because they might want to chit chat and I'm just fine sitting at the back. How many times does it happen? They will go and I can go back to sitting there.

The husband should see that the route has changed since he's the one who booked the ride.

This has happened to me. Hubby booked ride to my sister's place. My sister was at the salon, so I told the driver to drop me there. Hubby called to ask how far and I told him.

Except, he's not observant, he should see it. Or this story is another hoax to discredit my gender.

Only because you are looking at marriage through the failed marriage of your parents.

People that had a healthy family relationship long to have a home like that, and therefore look forward to getting married.

So the way you feel is normal. You can choose to allow your past experience shape your future actions or you chose to break free from the hold it has on you. In any case,it's your choice.

Tell him it won't be possible. It's your bus and you can choose to help who you want. Is your neighbour entitled to the bus whether he congratulated you or not?

OP please how much did they pay for the eggs. I'm asking for someone

Znation:
Hello nairalanders!

What are your top 5 most favorite romantic song?

Mine is;

1. Whitney Houston: I will always love you.

2. Celine Dion: To love you more.

3. Westlife: flying without wings.

4. Brym Adams: breaking my heart.

5. Elton John: sacrifice,

Keep the list going, so i can update my playlist!

I wanna grow old with you - westlife

Book of Love - Peter Gabriel

Give me Love - Ed Sheeran

A Thousand Years - Christina Perri feat Steve Kazee

Speechless - Michael Jackson

emmy4real94:
But this is clearly a connection. Not everyone had a friend' that could send his or her CV in, even if they could speak all the languages in the world to impress, even if they were first class.. connection starts with recommendation and referral.

My friend was not working in the company. He just saw a vacancy online and sent my CV. So it was not a referral or recommendation.

I could have still got the chance to speak one of the languages of the world if I was the one who saw the vacancy and sent my CV myself. So relax.

kayperry:
i find it relieving, ladies here don't seem surprise, no lady so far as doubted the authencity of the story curious tho

Well...you can't expect strawberries to come from agbalumo seeds.

Whether the story is true is not, not really my concern. We see a lot of propaganda here. Nothing new.

She's good at cooking, washing and in the "oza room" . So what else were you expecting from someone with just the above functions?

You picked your woman from God knows where. Please let her stay to continue washing, cooking and doing what she does best in the oza room..

First one

My friend sent in my CV and I was called for an interview. The HR manager who was conducting the interview studied French and I had done some months in a French school which was on my CV. She switched the interview to French and I was responding same. Others on the panel were just watching us .

After the interview, someone on the panel said I should rest assured that I had already got the job. And I got it.


Second

It was a full time writing job and I was given a test with a topic to write on. My article was preferred by the senior writer who was supposed access us. But apparently, the group head was threatened because I was going to be working with her husband (that was what I heard later).

So, they went with someone else against the senior writer's recommendation. A month or 2 after, I was called to come resume. They had fired the group head and in turn fired the person she employed. I resumed immediately.

One was really conscious of the COVID spread and refused to go to church. But COVID was not in the club every friday night sha.

emmanuelbrown26:
If u don't hv elders at home, Atleast respect d ones outside.

Elders are usually wise. Although there are also foolish elders. Just saying.

VictorUSA:
ImaIma1 swear to God with your destiny that you never cheated on your boyfriend/husband and stop telling me stories for the gods.

VictorUSA swearing here is of no consequence. And you mean nothing in our matters.

You have said nothing. Give details. What is the person jealous of? Is the person trying to harm you?

You are not overreacting. Thank God you know where she is getting the influence from. Children learn a lot of bad things from other children whose parents are careless with their upbringing.

If you can find a way to stop your child from going to the shop, please do. It's even better for her to be in "after school" than to be with rough kids.

Emmanuel, op said the thread is for mature guys. What are you doing here?

Leaves thread*

bukatyne:
If you caught her several times doing same thing pre-marriage, why are you complaining now?

Confront her, she would apologize like she always does and you move on like you always do.

True. He still went ahead despite the suspicions behaviour.

But you are mean @ the second paragraph.

VictorUSA:
Thats not the issue here.Will you boldly swear that you never cheated on your boyfriend/husband? I was born to different parent at a different time in a different place.Stop comparing a stone with an ice block.

Swear where? And to whom? Nairaland is not a shrine or a law court, neither is it anything respectable with a good amount of sensible people to swear by.

Besides, my fidelity is not on trial.

VictorUSA:
Thats not the issue.Again, can you swear that you never cheated on your boyfriend/husband? And in your shallow mind you think everybody wants to get married? I pity any single guy that is thinking of marriage.

Don't worry as you grow older, your small mind will mature and you will realize that many married people said this exact same thing before you. Nothing new here.

That teacher has guts. It might be a good idea to split and send her back to her father who always begs for her. So that she can have the space and time to chat with her co-teacher.

peepydelano:
Imagine the sort of women we have these days, maybe they should reintroduce female circumcision so as to help control their raging urges and promiscuity, gush.

Let's start with your daughter

Solacemk:
Yeah she do. I caught her several times making calls in the middle of the night before we were Married, she always says she's sorry she won't do it again. But why won't i worry? Thank you

This is suspicious. Who was she always calling at midnight? If she is still making such suspicions calls, it doesn't mean she is already cheating. If it's to a guy, she's getting attached to him and it's just a matter of time and place for intimacy to happen.

Please confront her and quit killing yourself. Since you know the number, let her call the person in front of you. Whatever decision you make after that should be for your peace of mind.

VictorUSA:
I do not care about likes or e-pat on the back, i'm saying the reality.Can you boldly swear that you never cheated on your boyfriend/husband?

I should swear to who or because of who? You? As per my e-inlaw right? You are a joker.

Since you think cheating is a general thing that all women do, don't worry your wife will cheat on you.

VictorUSA:
Another cheat on the beat trying to justify her fellow cheat's cheating acts.

Oh please shut up!

You think everything is about cheating. Your little mind has been conditioned by the Nairaland syndrome that affects most guys here.

You can't even think clearly and objectively because you want to get likes and a pat on the back for aligning with the prevailing mindset. Keep it up and don't try to use your brain.

Sweetplum:
Your baby is just acting like a baby. She ll change with time.
But you SensualMan is a dumb father that doesn't know how babies react. You are such inexperienced that you should still be with your mum learning fatherhood

Change with time? Baby that should be 9yrs by now.

First be sure that it's a guy she's talking to you. Aside that, there might be nothing wrong with going to another room to call your friend. I do it, especially when we want to gossip.

Seriously...no insult intended. But how is this your business?

neonly:
Do u know d kind of sacrifice yur dad endure to raise you to d point where u can afford a phone common it just a phone
U hurt him but you might no know d kind gravity
He probably showing off indirectly to yur step mum dat my children listen to me etc
Yes if you were staying in yur own place d case wound be different but wait his house his rules
My own dad was still beating with correct slap even though I was staying in my own house till I got d age of 38
Bro's it was just a phone you could have saved again to buy another one
It shows u are rude
U try dat my late papa u are done
What yur did was bad accept and try to build trust and d bridge between you and yur dad back OK

The father didn't make any sacrifice. He brought the op into this world without the OP's permission. So it is his job to take care of him till he can take care of himself.

He has no right to seize his son's phone or bully him because he's his father. Children also deserve respect especially as adults. Unfortunately our African culture condones this kind of behaviour from parents.

On the other hand, your dad is very wrong for treating you the way he did, and you accepted it as normal and you are trying to pass it on like that is the norm. It is not. Such behaviour from parents should be addressed.

It will be best for the op to leave such a toxic environment for his own sake.

Lick palm oil mixed with avocado with a little sprinkle of salt at least 3 times a week.

Dip garden egg in honey and chew 4 times a week.

If your baby is not fair when you put to bed, make you bend.

98%...where did she get her statistics from?

That's something I never did.

Yawns*