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Bizmagnet:
Let mother's age be x, then the girl's age will be x/2 being the half of her mother's.
Since the father's age is 5 years greater than the mother's, his age will be x+5.
According to the girl, the sum of their ages is 100. Therefore,
girl's age (x/2 years)+ mother's age(x years) + father's age((x+5)years) = 100.
Now, x/2 + x + x+5= 100
2x + x/2 = 100-5
2x + x/2 = 95
4x + x = 190
5x = 190
x = 190/5
x= 38.
Therefore, the mother is 38 years old, the girl is 19 years old and her dad is 43 years old.

Mathematician. Nice

He still didn't address the issue. He might buy popular artist's songs to play but what about upcoming artists? Does he collect money?

tohyorsih2:
i love him because he's funny

Is he?

Nigerian fathers need to break down the protective walls around them and allow their children be close to them

Broke and bad... double tragedy

goodmandgreat:
Who told you its nonsense?

Pardon my french

boiz2men:
how about not every car you enter... have some standards

We were talking about the op. I didn't mention at any point that i enter stranger's cars

Project indeed. We really need to focus on building a good life while we are still young instead of all this nonsense.

Kids of these days are so sex conscious... always thinking sex sex sex. While some are doing exceedingly well academically and making waves with their talents, some are daydreaming about boyfriend and gf

They are living with the consequences of their actions.

I am sure her people advised her and she didn't listen. Her hormones were raging and she was in love. Her eye will clear now as reality dawns on them

nicepoker101:
Very good. The moment you keep a certain distance from ladies that when you can think normal. Most of them are dream killers.

The guy nko? Is he a dream builder?

Woman walking her baby in a stroller. Stroller on Lagos road and Ojuelegba for that matter. She should be flogged

themonk:
It's very difficult to swap a baby because both births have to be about the same time. Since it is about 500 births a year, we are looking at about 1000 births whereby two people gave birth about the same time and the circumstances permits her to swap successfully. Since there are two genders and she must swap a boy for a boy and a girl for a girl we are looking at a much harder probability. She is either mad or the bloggers are insane with the figures.

Cc Nbote ken6488

When i gave birth, two other women gave birth the same day almost at the same time and it wasn't a general hospital where there are more people. Anything is possible when one is determined. Never say never

kkins25:
Beautiful, beautiful... Help me ask her if it were her own daughter, would she have taken that drastic step?

But she is not. Will she disobey and disrespect her parents this way?

Let her be with the people that gave birth to her and she can still help her till university level from there

LUCKIE2014:
Don't mind folks telling you to send her back. We all know how we were in our teenage days when our hormones were raging and we could poke a hole in the wall if given the chance. Her behavior is absolutely normal. What she needs is your guidance, direction and education on sex. She's probably enjoying all the attention that she is getting especially if she grew up in an environment where she wasn't constantly told how valuable she is. Probably hearing this for the first time coming from boys. Howbeit after one or two heartbreaks, she will learn that this is just "guys" game.

Your job as an adult is to help her sail this stage. We have all been there. Don't chase her away please. Treat her as if you would have wanted to be treated when you were her age, clueless and outright naive.

God bless.

We all passed through the stage of "raging hormones" but it didn't make us all disrespect our parents. Is she the first to reach puberty? The person that will listen will listen.

My sister's help did the same and she eventually left to live with a guy. When her eye cleared, she wanted to return but no way.

Op should send her to her parents that she might listen to. She is not taking advice or obeying. No point of her staying.

Saviola247:
@Lacapine, make I advice you, if you like you take, if you no like you leave am, You see, now she don know man, and she is even doing it without fear, what will end it is, mark my words, when her curves starts to show wella, and she start to use better soap and cream bath, na your hubby go be her next target. Listen, eh, am talking from experience. I know it's hard for you to send her away after her sec sch just like you said, but that will be your best decision. Even if your husband na pastor eh, penis wey u see so no go school oohhhh. So the earlier you send her packing after sec sch. The better for you. Then you can go to look another 12yrs pikin

Not all men are dogs like the one from "your experience". It is easy for one to categorize all men as the same when they have had a bad experience. It gives some kind of comfort.

UjuJoan2:
I don't subscribe to flogging an 18 year old. If you can no longer control her then send her home.

For me just one thing is important here? Is she still useful to you? Does she still render required services? If yes, then just ignore her. Stop paying too much attention to her social life. But don't miss any opportunity to define to her that if she gets pregnant she will be sent back to her parents ASAP. Just so she is sure of the implications of her actions.

Then you need to inform her parents of what she is doing and the efforts you have made to stop her, and her continuous flouting of rules. Also let them know that you have decided to stop talking about her waywardness since they keep falling on deaf ears, and lastly let them know your plan of returning her if she gets pregnant.. Just so they can start preparing their minds.

Don't give yourself high BP. The fact that you are not her mother already makes you the enemy. She will not believe you mean well for her, rather her adventurous mind will interprete your concerns as a way of preventing her from having fun. At this point, there is not much you can do to change that. She will come to the realization on her own when she is ready

Just let her be!

She cannot ignore her. She is her caretaker. What if she gets pregnant under her roof and worst still, loses her life trying to do an abortion?

She shouldn't let her be. If it's her own child, will she ignore her? It's better she sends her back to her parents

Sometimes people may not know that it is the guy that pushes the lady away because he cannot handle being broke and he doesn't want to string the babe along. And he could even become violent like a wounded lion.

I dated someone like that. He succeeded in pushing me away saying he needed to sort things out. By the time he was back on his feet and he came back, i wasn't interested.

oglalasioux:
The bolded is the only reason. Others listed are the results of the hate. I'll tell you how that hate emanates.

Once women are married, society limits what they do. From how they dress to the company they keep, they are restricted from many things. The worst is when child birth changes their body. When they see the freedom men have, the hatred begins. And that's where their cheating start.

I'll add that every woman will cheat on or before the third wedding anniversary. When I say every woman I EVERY WOMAN!

Wrong marriage intent or wrong reason for marriage doesn't result from hate. In fact, hate could result from it because the wrong reason is the foundation

Did you have to get a date because you gave her a lift? You shouldn't have picked her up. Besides, you guys need to know that it is not every girl you toast. Have some standards

Dshocker:
Fear Nigerian girls,fear Nigerian girls....I repeat fear Nigerian girls,because they are chameleons that lie at every given time

Every Nigerian girl has a cousin that stays in her area(but are both taking on each other)

Every Nigerian girl has a multi male friend(half of them have taken on her)

Every Nigerian girl is dependent,even if their father was the current governor

Every Nigerian girl causes heart attack

National anthem

Nbote:
While children of d supporters of these politicians will b jostling for N-power teaching jobs even with their degree and higher degrees even afta compulsorily serving their fatherland

And they will be fighting each other online even here on NL...PDP...APC. i just see such people as dunces

Speakdatruth:
This is what happens when kids are doing what adults does, they get hurt.

The stupid girl was expected to face her studies.

You didn't read it

You somehow absorbed the guy of blame and blamed the girl.

Prejudice against women

Rextizzle come and see your fellow white worshipper

Excessive love for sex. Sex seems to be all a lot of youths think of

tehn6421:
Time to target South African businesses in Nigeria let us loot shops and they will have common sense to understand that you don’t treat people like that. A country we contributed immensely for them to achieve independence can turn back on us. Nigeria contributed wealth and resource to poor South Africans to make sure they don’t die of starvation during the apartheid. All Nigerian artist started singing about free Mandela and South Africa. We were made to sing apartheid songs in public schools.

You are looking for trouble from xhosanostra. She hates to hear this. She doesn't think Nigeria did enough for SA

johnmartus:
I never see his fault yet.some people just hate to be corrected.

I know you are just kidding

perfectcrown:
Pls go to SDK BLOG and read dis story. She sent her story with this pic. The op here culled it from there,im sure.
She actually wanted advice bcus she said her hubby is complaining that she spends too much. She has a biz whc she said she doesnt spend from and they also want to start building their own house. The hubby earns 350k monthly!

I did already. And it is obvious she is a wasteful and unwise person. Less than half of that money will be enough to run the house for a month. Instead she is spending like he owns an oil block.

She obviously doesn't know where mile12, oyingbo and Lagos Island are. She goes to Spa or Ebaino

perfectcrown:
I read this story on SDK Blog o!

Shes has been given lot of advice which i think they are reasonable enough.

The husband earns about 300,50k monthly and "they" spend about 208,900k monthly,she said she owns a biz(she neither spends nor save o) & they also want to start building their own house. Hmmm...

Oya 350k minus 208k=

If this is the case, she is really stupid.

My older sister offended me and as a much younger one, i could not retaliate. When she was having her bath in preparation to go out, i hid one leg of the shoes she brought out to wear.

When she was dressing up, she searched and searched crazily until she had to wear something else. When she left, i brought it out and felt fulfilled. I told her some months later.


Story 2

My older brother and sister had been quarreling...not on speaking terms. My sister would give me her shoes in the morning to go polish. I would pocket the money and use my brother's polish and do the job myself. My brother would see me and not say anything. What was my business. They should sha not use their quarrel to spoil my business.

Sounds more like a mumu nature than simple nature. He allows that rubbish in his house. For someone to come and destroy his home...chase him out of his bedroom. What nonsense!

If he had been more firm, all these wouldn't have happened.

What is the point in living like roommates? Let him call her and have a discussion. Tell her that things have been bad between them for long and it would take the grace of God to resolve it.

Tell her he has become fond of someone else and would want her consent to date the lady since things are not working between them.

Her reaction will let him know how to move forward.