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Gaspardd:
Meet me in 5yrs and lets see who you wud prefer to date.

That is what he is saying. In 5years, yes. But now, no. So that you won't be buying buns and fish roll when your girl comes to visit.

cooluzi:
yeah I do but that doesn't mean I don't know how much I'm planing of spending

You just proved what most of us have been saying. You cannot leave your house with that amount after asking a girl on a date. You have to be prepared. In the end you may not spend half of what you carry.

Case closed

Gaspardd:
Nope, i have non of those things. I just have common sense. I guess by the time my Macbook arrives, i will have to manage my small Macbook.

Having a MacBook and taking a flight are not actually achievements.

If you like, you can go with 350 naira next time

cooluzi:
gosh naija mentality, taking a lady on a date shldnt mean you shld spend much on her...... I've actually invited a girl to a cinema and we watched movie and talked and we both enjoyed ourselves and I didn't spend more than #2500 isn't that a date? only ffo and golddiggers reason this way,

But did you take more than 2500 with you?

Gaspardd you have what my people call "etok" syndrome. "Etok" means small.

"Let me manage this my small car"..."stay in an ok apartment"..."let me just be moving small small".

There is nothing wrong in cutting back on cost. That means you shouldn't ask any lady out on a date to avoid deflating your ego.

biGDhAp:
... op and every other guys know op is referring to females of this generation

deal with it..

As long as mumsy is alive in this generation, she follow join

biGDhAp:
... please go back and my post all over again ..

i never had an issue with girls sucking dicks


i was only messing around with her and she started bringing my mum into this ..

"lemme quickly slide mine in
before you close your mouth na"

So that above is messing around. You better take responsibility and accept you also joined in the female bashing and stop hiding under "messing around".

Now you are getting worked up because of the thought and likelihood of your mum also performing felatio. Don't start what you cannot finish.

biGDhAp:
bvtch .. my mum is not this generation .. she sees stuffs like that as nasty




but girls of nowadays which you are

a dick is new lollipop for you lots...

your mum is a woman...this generation or not. Deal with it. Or did you think your mum was exempted from the Op's classification.

You live in a glass house...mind the way you throw stones.

biGDhAp:
... so what does my mum have to do with sliding my schlong in ur mouth ...







do you really have to show that you lack home training

bloody hypocrite acting like she has never once sucked a dick

If you believe all women/girls do it, why exempt your mother? She might have one in her mouth as we speak.

mrpaedo:
In the year 2011.NYSC camp kubwa Abj.Wetin my eyes take see Nigerian ladies do my mouth no for talk even the married ones

Were they doing it with ladies or guys?

Jayneek:
You still dont get the point. Am not talking about anything being wrong if the girl paid or not. The major problem here is how on earth will you think of taking a girl on a date especially to a place you know chewing can occur with just 2k for pocket. It doesn't make any single sense. As he knows he cannot effort to spend more than 2k why ask her on a date in the first place.
Now after embarrassing himself he came here to cry out lol. If he knew what he did was right or he doesn't feel ashamed of himself on a first date, haba, why did he come here to cry out.
Remember to ask a lady on a date no be by force ooo, especially on a 2k date hahahahahahaha

And this kind of guys will want to finish his energy on her when they meet each other in bed. He won't budget 2k energy or prioritize his touching

Evercurious:
@Imama and @kunleweb.. This is exactly what I mean when I said there are other means of paying those bills without rubbing it off the guy's face

He said "his Ethiopian babe" not a first date that he invited out. Off course I have slipped cash into my man's pocket when i knew he was low on cash.

And the op didn't say anything about being broke. He said he was prioritizing his spending. Then why did he ask a girl out on a date?

The two scenarios are not even the same

Jayneek:
A Gaspardd is defined as a 2k date.

Your meanness is on another level .

Nice definition. That guy just exposed himself.

biGDhAp:
lemme quickly slide mine in

before you close your mouth na

Rush...your mum's mouth should be waiting for you to come and slide it in. It's probably something you guys do. Or how else did you get this twisted way you see women?

Evercurious:
I m dead serious about my comments.. Too old to impress anyone

But with age comes wisdom.

2k for a date is totally unreasonable.

MelaninGold:
90% of males on Nairaland are pure dumb.

At least let's be fair to the sensible and mature ones and make it 78%. I believe that the ones with fish brains that keep writing trash especially against women are just the small boys between 17 and 24.

Any guy that is above that age and reasons like the op and says degrading things about women is a dunce.

lefulefu:
;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;oh so he made a post b4 about suspecting his houseboy wit his wife?
op needs a shrink then

Lefu where have you been?

Your brother is lazy and useless. Don't generalize it

funmisticqueen:
All these small boys sef. They are just like gaspardd

I won't like to generalize for the sake of the sensible ones. But a lot of Nairaland guys have issues. Too many late bloomers...guys that have refused to mature

kunleweb:
pito and dankwa. 150bucks tops tfare 1k.

Haba!! Pito and dankwa is too local. Egg roll and zobo is more like it

Gaspardd:
Would you go on a date with me if i asked?...I am gonna come along with only 2k

Seems like 2 is your lucky number. Even my 1yr old will need more than 2k.

gloria34:
Enter bus follow my boyfriend after we said goodbye. We were in school, he wanted to travel home, i couldn't bear it. After he left, i enter another bus follow am.

This is really crazy

*yawns*

Same old same old.

Op what is with you coming up countless posts about suspecting your wife sleeping with the houseboy, your father, etc. Same old post.

Don't even waste your time taking this op serious

Jidibia:
Help me ask him o. Even 2k can't get you better popcorn sef.

The op gaspardd is conveniently responding to only people who cheer him on and support his actions. He cannot handle the truth and criticism.

And i don't know if evercurious is actually serious with her comment or just trying to get likes from the guys.

Evercurious:
I disagree. Not miss independent but I ll say she is ARROGANT. If the guy says he isn't with extra cash, why go ahead with the chops? After all there ll always be another day. And there are ways to buy such bills without rubbing it off on the guys face.

THAT WAS JUST RUDE

Rude indeed. Somebody paying for what she wants is rude because she didn't massage his ego. It is rude for him to take her out with 2k. Was he expecting to buy garden egg and walnut?

Nimmadiji:
The date is not the problem. Although, you messed up royally, I mean even when I take my 14 year old niece out, it costs way more than 2k, not to speak of a grown woman who you hope to have a relationship with. Haba.

It's okay to have a budget. Being broke is not a sin.

The real issue is your mentality.

Instead of appreciating how she handled the situation (like a sensible woman who took her own money even though she was in her house minding her business, when a certain shirt-borrowing, 2k wielding someone asked her out), you came here to call her "a glutton" and accused her of being "full of herself"

Why? Because she paid for food she ordered for both of you? The nerve....

It's one thing to be broke, it's another thing to ask a lady (who can take care of herself) to severely limit herself just to make you feel like "the man...the boss"

And if you ate from the food she ordered, the only glutton here is you.

You handled yourself horribly. Class - zero. Tact - zero

You could not have said it any better.

He is trying to feed his ego by saying she is a glutton and full of herself.

He might not be poor but he has a poor man mentality

She looks compressed

No rules... just use your head

Jidibia:
Them no well.....

U dey mind them? They can even ask for cowleg inside

Jidibia:
Lol... I be man I no be woman.
Maybe my wife can bring out 3pots of soup from 1400 but not me. But take it or leave, 1400 can't give you balanced 3pots of soup. Abi na dry okro and ajino motor u want take full pots?

Some guys will expect a lady to perform magic na.

RTSC:
That I want something does not mean I can't be uncomfortable when it comes.

Have you ever wanted something so much only to feel awkward when it finally comes?
Yes, that is the feeling.

How do you overcome that feeling? By getting used to it.

There is no double standards here.

Then don't curse out a dependent lady. That is where the double standard lies