₦airaland Forum

NwaAmaikpe:


Why all these unnecessary PR on his kids?

Last time we saw them turning the Governors office to an amusement park.
Today they are on a train.

So what?
How does this EPP the common man.


The children even look malnourished sef.

Hausa dey fat? Look at the parents stature. Where do u want the kids to get the fat from?

GeneralOjukwu:
Simply check the Passengers' Manifest instead of violating her family's privacy.

This gruesome morbid curiosity taking graphic pictures and deriving some perverse pleasure from being 1st to share must stop.

Even if she didn't write her name on the Manifest, within a week, her family would show up

RIP. ...She knows for sure now if an Afterlife exists. May God grant her family fortitude.

Her watch has ended....The night is dark and full of terrors.

It is a very irritating action. Instead of trying to get her to a hospital in case she is still alive and has a chance of survival, people prefer to take pictures. I hate d trend.

agya1:
All this trouble wouldn't have started if he didn't try to show off his baby.

Parents should protect their children. Too much exposure is not advisable.I have never been one who likes my life documented on social media not to talk of my kids. I have already started sounding the warning for my family members for the future about putting my baby's pics on fb,etc. I no just like am.

It was on auction at an unbelievable and incredible price. Minimal fuel consumption, affordable spare sparts and very reliable. It would have been crazy not to take it

Three Wise Men is a good movie. Made me laugh so much but the end was kind of sudden.

Ugosample:
Remember guys, it's yiur wedding and not your parent's wedding.....

So all these people talking "if not for their parents" I don't understand you people o

If you want 100 guests, stick to that 100 guests, and if anyone comes who is not on the invited list, let the bouncers do their work.


This is not the time to be spineless.

Some parents are difficult. They act like it's their wedding...like it's all about them when it is actually not. Some parents will blackmail you sef. If your parents are funding d wedding, u really don't hv a choice

alarinjo:
I think most women prefer female bosses because there is always some kind of competitiveness between women, why can't women just get along with women (is it because they are all generally, fill in the blanks! ) Even in day to day life, most women I know prefer to have male friends than their fellow females, hmmm, curious,

As for men, we all know why they prefer female bosses, lets just leave it at that.

I'm am male and I couldn't really give a hoot what the gender of my boss is. I have worked for both and can't say their is really all that much of a difference based on gender. There are cool headed females out there, just as there are male bitches!

Nooo female bosses tend to be difficult especially with female subs. I work better with male bosses. I have had issues with most female bosses i worked with. One almost got me fired. But after investigation came up with nothing against me, most people concluded it was plain beef.
I prefer male bosses. However i don't give any indication of green light cos it is hard to know what i am thinking. I can't handle harassment. I bluntly but respectfully tell u to maintain ur lane. Don't come and complicate my simple life

My white was a sunday in d evening just for 100. Took it far away to avoid mogbo mo ya. Many people were not aware of d white. I am still apologizing to people till today after 2yrs. But we did exactly what we wanted and didn't overshoot our budget.
No matter how big your wedding is, there will be bigger weddings. Just do what you want and damn the consequences and reactions. At the end if the day, big or small, you are married.

Toks2008:
Honestly I just think this white wedding and trad wedding are flimsy and totally unnecessary.

Have a small family get together or bride price presentation to satisfy customs and tradition....proceed to registry and have a moderate reception.

Best wedding i attended was a court wedding followed by a parlour party. It was mostly family and close friends. It was so lovely and fun. Everyone knew almost everyone. The best part was food was in abundance and you could go to the kitchen to request your food without shame .

Ishilove:
Very quiet and low key with a maximum of 50 people in attendance. 25 from my side, 25 from his.

What informs my choice is not economy but privacy. It is not how lavish a wedding ceremony is that will determine the success of a marriage.

For example, the 1980 wedding of Prince Charles and Princess Diana was the most beautiful and lavish wedding ceremony up to that point in history. It was broadcast to billions worldwide and leaders across the world attended.

Today where are they? Prince Charles is married to someone else while Lady Di is in the grave. And they were separated for years before her death.

Noise. It is not by feferity and noise.

Marriage is serious business and people nowadays get so carried away by the fanfare of wedding ceremonies that they forget this immutable fact.

Very true. Too much noise and paparazzi spent on the ceremony when the marriage might end up in fiasco. I never liked big weddings. I hardly attend weddings in general except it's family or very very close friend.

A small wedding is possible in Nigeria especially if none of the parties is yoruba. All u need is wisdom and proper planning.

I will first soak them in hot water and bleach...

Sunday evening wedding with 100 guests. Pastor conducts the church service of about 45mins at the venue and reception follows afterwards.Dinner dresses 4 ladies and suit with bow ties for the guys...no native/aso ebi. Just maid of honor and best man, no long train. Simple and stress free.

davroca16:
its called "Trypophobia" the only phobia i can relate to. its probably the worst phobia ever.

try googling "Trypophobia"

viewers discretion advised!

Very irritating. I just checked...i have goosebumps

PRISTINEMUSCLES:
or more like me. But at times aging do have some benefits that is if it is going at the right rate.

Lol i think i stopped aging like 15yrs ago. It runs in d family sha.

PRISTINEMUSCLES:
Hmm, very informative.
I want to be forever young.

Like me?

My phobia for height is the reverse. I can look down from a tall building but i cannot look up at a tall building. I freak out when i pass by a tall building or big structure. I would rather take a longer route.

Toke Makinwa what exactly is your job? Craving attention? Getting tired of seeing you everywhere

You hv been dating her since 2005?? 12years!!! And you are now having second thoughts? Wow

emerged01:
If you read my post carefully you will understand me. There is a stage when a kid thinks he can do all by himself/herself. As they grow they watch you as a father doing things on your own without assistance of anybody.
When you come back from work,in your kid's presence u will pull off your shoes,your cloth without assistance. So when he comes from school,he will say "don't pull it for me". He also feel he can do it on his own(no crime committed). You will realize when he can do it,he wil come back to you and say help me. That's kid for you,they need to be understood.
Yea,I agreed with you,you must set rules for them but they have their own rules you will have to follow to make them comfortable when they are around you. When he sees you as a father and unharmed friend,he will build a trust in you. With him trusting,you can always get him to do what you want him to do without force.

But he can't be allowed to do things like an adult when he is still a toddler. The fact that daddy can go out on his own doesn't mean he can. Children at this age do not set any rules. They need guidance from parents.

I learnt a lot from taking care of my nephews when they were toddlers. They want to watch tv while eating or bring their potty to the living room to poo. But i had to stop it. And they do not end up eating their food. So i started turning off the tv until they finished their food. And making them ask permission to watch tv.
I am very loving but very strict. Kids need the balance.

siakhris:
It ain't a big deal for now till he's a bit over 2years and completely capable of manipulating and emotionally blackmailin you (oh yes trust me our kids now are oddly smarter than we ever were) , then you can keep a cane nearby. For now he's innocent and acquitted. **modified** i skipped where u said he started teeth growing at 3months Lol. Well, i suggest if your spouse disagrees...you try good cop bad cop. So you don't start a fight. In her absence you can be d disciplinarian. Cheers

It's really a big deal. My neighbour allowed their to be saying he was still a child. Now he is over 2yrs old and he throws tantrums around...pees on himself even if he can talk and say he needs to pee. He cries endlessly. He could cry non stop for over an hour. They are finding it hard to correct him now.

Op i think you should start correcting him now. Do not think he is too young and he doesn't know what he is doing. Imagine my friend's 3month old that hides her thumb in a cloth to suck anytime her thumb is pulled out from her mouth when she is sucking. 3months old...i was weak.

lofty900:
Let's stop all this hypocrisy. Who told you the woman is defenseless? Always too quick to condemn a guy and defend the woman without knowing what transpired between them. No man will wake up one morning and start beating a woman who did nothing bad unless he's insane so next time you see a man beating a woman, instead of abusing the guy, find out what offense the woman committed because these women can be evil and wicked

Walking away is better. Infact it is more painful for the woman when u ignore her and walk away. There is no logical reason to beat a woman. Don't even talk about what she did or said. In my secondary school, when a guy hit a girl, the soldiers will not even ask the guy what she did. They didn't care. They just ask the girl to pick his punishment and he must serve the punishment. It was like the gravest offense...the only offense where the offended picks d punishment.
No man has a right to hit a lady...none whatsoever. If u now use that your muscle hands and kill her nko, the story will change. Your mouth will not be sharp again.
Real men do not hit women. My husband would rather take a long drive to Maiduguri and back instead of hitting me...no matter what i do

hisgrace090:
In Nigeria , men are the burden bearers.

Odiegwu...even if the woman is a house wife.

Just try taking care of kids, cleaning the house,cooking,school runs, homework, etc just for one week. You will know that that is an occupation.

It is not normal. You have to be firm with him. You are the parent not the other way round. So you should control him and not him controlling u.He can't be left to have his way all the time and throw tantrums. Start taking steps to make him stop

zicoraads:
Trust me, Calabar ladies are something else
There's this special one. She got dimples down below the ass... And a waist chain. She can whine for Africa.

Lol...those dimples are a norm nau. When they bath a new born, they usually put those dimples with their fingers. I thot it was all tribes o

I don't think woju..kurukere or ojuelegba should be in that list...even aye. We are talking about songs of ALL TIME.

Princewell2012:




Am just a shy person. Even the day of my wedding it looks the ground should open for me to fall inside. Anyway am going to change.

You should not be. There is nothing to be shy about with your wife. I think it is because both of you didn't really get to know each other well before wedding. I married someone that has been my friend for over a decade. Shyness is 0% for us. Infact we no dey shame. You need to develop it and probably attend marriage progranmes.

Joro and his bogus lists of to dos. He should marry first and do all those things for 3yrs and then come back and give us feedback and advice.

Princewell2012:
Actually this sounds funny. But that is the truth. I find it very difficult to tell her i love her. I love my wife very much but am ashame to tell her i love you, even on phone. I have every other ways of passing this massage acrossed to her but to use my mouth to say it is very very difficult to me. Please does it mean anything or should i continue to do what am doing?

Yes i did not do any courtship with my wife, we knew ourselves in the church, you knows this brother and sister of a thing. And finally marriage took place. Could this be responsible for my
action?

However i could remember there was a day i said it to her on the oza room


Please i sincerely needs your advice, what do i do?

Thank you.

Hahahaha you would have changed if u were my husband o cos u must say it constantly. Aside showing it, i must hear it

nana228:
Disciplined for what please, can you explain further? This child is just 11months old biko, did you read that part?

Like if he always tries to get attention at those times, allow him cry. Especially if his diaper is not wet...he is nit hungry, hot,etc. Crying never killed a baby. Let him/she exercise his or lungs.

nwarosa:
please what's the name of the blog

In house news on Stelladimokokorkus.com.

Most of the things already sold off in 30mins.

jaz:
Don't mind them. It's pervasive on nairn land and that's why I hardly buy here. When brand new water dispenser on Konga sells for 40k someone now comes with used for 50k.
I don't blame them, I blame the mumu buyers who don't research properly before spending their money.
That was how I saw someone with foreign used 1tb external hard drive for sale on nairaland for 25k when brand new 2tb on Konga and jumia sells for 24k.
I hail oo

Yeah i noticed that the used things here are tooo pricey. Would even be better to go for new ones. I just saw on a blog few things for sale...Thermocool window AC 20k, Bed frame 25k... meanwhile NL price would be double.

ChristineC:
so the hype on Mercedes Benz products mean you should park your car and mock the owner whenever you spot a broken one by the roadside?

SMH

Whatever! But it is nice to see that lekki is not the paradise it is been branded to be. Mercedes or Honda...who cares?