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My igbo people keep recycling names. They hardly come up with new names. Still d same...Emeka..Chidinma...Amaka...Obinna...Ifeoma

ChristineC:
what's there to make fun of? if you don't stay around Lekki move along already.

Nigerians sef

The hype about lekki by the residents is the main issue here.
People pls have fun

He needs to be disciplined and gradually he will know his place. If you keep saying he is just a child, he will grow up with that attitude.

A lot of Nigerian parents raise their kids to be timid: to scared to go into the world and mingle. They are too protective when the child is growing up...wanting them to sit at home.
I worked in 2 different places before i went to university. During holidays, i worked also. Before going for service, i worked. I just wanted to have small change and not always asking my parents or older ones for cash. And it also helped build a network of people.
My parents allowed us to mix up with people not protecting us from the world. Parents should learn.

Poster there are many things you can do. Mingle with the right people, package yourself well. God will see you through.

obikirinoni:
Hahahahahahahaha


But contrary to your Opinion, guys should be the one scared of marrying an OLODO WIFE, because it has been scientifically proven that children take after their mother's intelligence Quotient (IQ)

Ahhh!! And i want my kids to take my husband's brain o. Too hot!!

Very informative article. To think that i talked about this last night. About developing the child from small and not looking at them as too young..."omode".

It takes a lot more to be in a long distance relationship. There has to be more calls, keeping in touch,etc. If you don't have that, you have to reconsider because it is bad enough that u cant see him, not to add the silence and uncertainty.

IdeyFindWife:
step outside the picture your current situation paints right now and you will see ur current issues are surmountable, even minuscule compared with the great life you got ahead of you if only you'd embrace possibilities instead of negativity-thinking and quit the brooding self-desturcitive soliloquiys.

Once heard the story of a fella, who in this type of your situation sat down and dis his own SWOT analysis. It looked so bleak he decided first and foremost to guarantee steady meals and a little t/fare at least to keep life ticking. Hence, he went to look for work as a server-boy in a buka, you're getting the flow of the gist , right?

He would eat there, get paid there, made friends there amongst the customers, cut a distincitvely stylish/bubbly/dependable brand for himself there to the point that, when opportunity arose for the Edo-madam was to travel out to Italy to go meet her oyinbo oil-comp expat lover, he was able to raise venture capital on partnership basis from one of the most affluent clients, who he'd been catering for on the side be4, to buy over the place.

That was the secret of his rise. But, that rise start right from the moment he decided not to get jettisoned offship when bottoms-fell-out; guy, look up, look around and you'll see more you're yet to do, take and make!

And pls, don't scam anybody o; slows ur roll and invites bad karma for you to stay struggling longer. Engage true creativity/sincerity, expect God to fight ur battles or kuku go join evans and wait for your future day of shame, no middle lines!

Chai!! The guy asked for help not grammar na

67k.

Both resources should be combined to run the house

We should be able to differentiate between fantasy and reality.

Maestro21:
If you have the correct information but choose to dislike what he believes in, he may choose to ignore you. But if your information is wrong and may be the reason for your dislike of what he believes in, he is not in the wrong to show you what is right (whether or not your dislike for what he believes in changes).

Are you taking over from him?

What about seducing him with your intellectual capacity? Or are ladies supposed to be empty up there?

I know a lot of people enjoy the series but personally i dont find the character believable. The bad English sounds forced and unoriginal.I don't even find it funny so i don't bother watching.
Well...that's my own business. There are lots of people that love it.

Maestro21:
Personally, I think this reasoning is flawed. If someone dislikes you due to a misinformation they have, you might want to disabuse that misinformation without being defensive. I think he is doing exactly that.

Someone said his Pastor encourages sin or what not and you want him to keep mum because you (who clearly has reservations about his pastor) said nothing?

I think the Bible encourages one to contend for the faith that they profess.

You think? Ok. Let him continue to respond to everyone

ahnie:
How I grabbed roasted corn from one dirty woman inside a bus...I ate it and satisfied my cravings.

May God bless her!

That one is long throat o. Not normal

Maestro21:
You are sounding like you want to believe what was written by the OP without hearing an alternative view point from a CE member. I think this already makes your position tainted.

From what I can see here, he feels that some misconceptions need to be redressed and you on the other hand would wish he stayed mute.

When you have to answer everyone and play defender, it already shows something fishy.
I have had my share of CE. It doesn't really matter what i think. My close friend for a long time was a member and even if i had my reservations, i kept it to myself just like i have done here.

slayking:
True that.

Funny thing is, a girl would never pay you a visit again if you don't at least make an attempt or initiate sex with them the first time.

I've experienced this several times and i wonder if i was being a slacker.

Truth is, i don't easily get attracted to girls so i need a lot of getting into their mind before the body and this is very impossible the very first time of her meeting you or visiting you.

Aderola15 what do you have to say about this.

So who do you get attracted to?

You should focus on improving your English. That might help.

I am all for such laws. So that parents wont have a litter of kids and leave them for the first child to train.
No matter the monthly income, because the issue of job loss,sickness,etc.

birdman:
There is only one way, and its not GO this, or daddy that, or apostle whomever. I think many genuine Christians get lured into seeking the easy way out, and fall prey to control by powerful personalities. Remember that the same Jesus that commanded legions of angels washed his disciples feet, not as a ritual for everybody to see in church, but as an instruction of how leaders and shepherds are supposed to be among the flock. If there is any takeaway from these stories, it is to develop and be sure of your personal faith even while fellowshipping with other believers. So that when you see error, you can either correct in love if need be, or leave silently in love if you want to avoid strife.

Above all else, dont let anyone guilt you into giving beyond your faith level. Whatever you do outside of your faith is a waste of your time and resources.If all you can give is 1buck every offering (I have been there), stay there and grow your faith by staying in the Word until you can give 10 bucks, then give 10 bucks. Whatever principle gets you from1 to 10 bucks, will get you to 100bucks. But its going to be your faith primarily...regardless of how many shepherds try to guilt you into giving sacrificial seed

ok let me stop b4 i get pissed

A comment full of God's wisdom,understanding, intelligence and insight.
Our pastors are there not to be worshipped. I don't understand the level of mental and spiritual laziness that some people have that leads them to follow pastors sheepishly. When these pastors are human.

CE fanatics...pls allow Pastor Chris answer to God himself and stop acting like people that have to fight for their "god".

MiddleDimension:
first of all, i am not a hypocrite. I only brought that up to make it known to you that there are some of us here that are just too big for you and the whole of CE.

No, i don't do hypnotism and from what i know, hypnotism is not bad, atleast not more than Jesus walking on the face of water.

I can talk about pst chris however i feel like and there is nothing you can do about it apart from telling me that i am playing with fire. And yes, i play with fire all the time, a thing you fear alot and think people should not play around. The fact i play with fire all the time, means that i am greater than fire myself and by consequence, your pastor chris.

Look here, whats happening with you guys with your almost fanatical behaviour whenever you hear a perviebed bad things about CE, is not new. The vatican 1 catholics were like that until the church had to reform things and today's post vatican 2 catholics are not as fanatical anymore.

We have seen it before and we know how your style fanaticism ends. We know what will become of it, and that's why we keep engaging you. Your most automatic fanaticism will be diluted one day.

Jesus had a desciple called SIMON THE ZEALOT. So it is nothing new. All philosophical and theological organizations will always have your likes.

In summary, it is called brainwashing.

Just look at the way he responds to everyone defending the church and pastor. It is really pitiful. He has to justify every point, explain everything. Some of us have lost our sense of reasoning and intelligence.
Pastor Chris is a mere mortal that makes mistakes too. Let us look up to God and not man.

zionmade:
Am catching fun rubbishing hypocrites. they have all run away. Do u want to take over? Hypocrites everywhere.

Not run away. But just left you to your ignorance. Answering everyone one that says something wrong about your church is sad enough.

zionmade:
Mrs judgement my church is my home and family, pls apply to God to help him judge people on the last day. I bet ur destiny is to be a judge over people

Where did you see judgement uncle? I only tried to understand your ideology of masturbation in the line of adultery.

You can teach your kids to masturbate but please do not come here and misinform people. Christ Embassy members can swallow that doctrine but doesn't mean we have to also.

zionmade:
so i should close my mouth and watch someone say rubbish about my church. Take a chill, u dnt want to argue den u mentioned me in the first place. Also go and study the scriptures for urself at least it will teach u to shut up wen u think u dnt like the way a church runs its affairs or better still try to seek clarifications

Defender of the universe...oya keep defending your church. I bet you have jerry curls too.

zionmade:
hahaha
u are just displaying gross ignorance.
Why is adultery a sin?
den relate it with masturbation.
anyway i need q more mature argument which type of question is dat

You should search and study the scriptures for yourself and understand things instead of gulping down everything you are told.

I don't engage in "Christian" arguments. That is not what Christ died for our sins for.

If you feel a need to argue and prove your point, something might be wrong somewhere.

Destined2win:
Which one do you think is the most difficult to tolerate

Dishonesty in its totality.

My people call it "etok syndrome". Etok means small.

"Let me manage my small money...small car".."let me marry my small wife...and live and manage our small house"
When people just like to think small as if they dont intend to move up. No ambition.

zionmade:
Masturbation is a sin only wen u are thinking about someone who is not ur wife. Otherwise it is not a sin.

Wow!! Hogwash of the millennium.

"Adultery is not bad if you are thinking about your husband/wife while doing it with the other person"... this should be true also then.

Please stop this nonsense!

Acidosis:
Madam, nobody will employ you in order for you to spite your husband. Business is not a family affair.


Someone said your husband is a useless man... as bad as that sounds, I think a lot of persons here will agree with him whether they come boldly to say it or not.


You were gainfully employed for 8 years, yet he doesn't see any good in you? This isn't about contract or not. Even some full staff don't stay 8 years on a job. Statistics even show that 95% of new businesses shut down before the 5th year of operation, so something is seriously wrong with your husband..

It has nothing to do with being employed or not. He just doesn't love you anylonger, so do everything to make yourself feel good! Your husband should simply go and solve his problems... he should not infect you with his personal issues.. you have to tell him to pour his frustration elsewhere, refuse to be a waste bin that contains his trash... speak these words loudly, he'd have a rethink.

Exactly!! Focus on making yourself happy. Your husband has his issues that he has to deal with

Children are impressionable. They pick up things. If you call each other by name, the child might do same. But as the child grows, it changes.

jhudit:
Sad one...
Now we understand your grievance.

Op, you can help us champion the case.
Someone has to bell the cat.
The women that beat their helps are wicked...
The men that watch their wives batter their helps,
What do we call such men?

It is based on the character of the woman involved. You can't use one to judge all.
I grew up in a home where we had helps and cousins staying with us. I do not remember my mum beating or maltreating them. Even after they moved on, they came visiting my mum for one thing or the other. Even with all the helps, we the children were still doing housework.

And my mum didn't pitch herself against us when it came to our dad. We understood that they were a team and we couldn't come between them. I don't really understand a mum being jealous of her kids. It's absurd.

And when it came to beating,my dad was the champion with his koboko. My mum used a sewing tape rule but she preferred to talk or punish.

So families really differ.

The worst fault is the one you cannot handle or tolerate. Everyone has flaws. You stay with the person whose flaws you can tolerate.

He should get closer to God. It will become hard to masturbate with the consciousness in his heart.