dasparrow: Congratulations to him but isn't it weird to see a Black man with a blonde wig on his head? When are Nigerians and other African countries going to get rid of this ugly wigs they make lawyers wear? It is obvious to me that our people are still enslaved in their minds.
/ The man resembles a monkey in the costumes.
Our lawyers should be wearing "senator" to court. No wig. No suit. Local content.
/ The people who don't know what to do with their money gave it to someone who knows what to do with it. The same as paying tithes to gods of men. Both thrive on hope and false promises. Let the recipients enjoy their "blessings" from Nigerians.
50pseamer: I would like to share my current situation on this platform , and I will very much appreciate your mature advice on the issue.
I have been having issues with my wife after our first born, we married about 3 years ago, our first born is now about 2 years old, we have been having series of issues In the marriage, my wife argues with me a lot on flimsy issues at times, we do not have constant sex, although I started helping more in the house,I cook and and I do the laundry , and asked her to give me my share of the work, when she complained about work load,I am the only one really working now, and paying 98 percent of the bills.
I told my wife that I will like us to be eating together on the same plate to improve closeness, she refused, she sees arguement as normal discussion, sometimes we have sex once or twice in a month, I have told her I will like us all to attend the same church and pray together, but she still attends her Nigerian church online , where they are always seeing vision , and I do not like her attending that church.she also attends online services of my church with me, but I would like us to be attending one church even if it is not my church. I asked her recently that we need to be praying together for our marriage even if it is 10 minutes every day, after weeks of no response from her,I approached her yesterday and scolded her about it, she cried and I comforted her, I later asked her at night to come for the prayer,and she said she is not coming. We live abroad and my mum wants to pay us a visit, She told me the kitchen is her's and my mum should not enter the kitchen, and I told her that it will be difficult, we can pre cook all our food, But she might need to make tea and I will like her to be able to do that by her self , but my wife refused. In her church she is attending they already branded. My mother a witch. Even if my mother is a witch, we only need to pray against it, should we humiliate her when she visits us? I cannot make my wife my mother, she does not show me much love and does not show that she cares, neither does she respect me. My mum shows me love that I can feel.
Now we are living like neighbours in the same house. Do you think she is interested in the marriage or has another plan?
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Your marriage is not in trouble.
Your marriage is over.
She is just hanging around for the comfort you provide. Most importantly, the more she hangs on, the longer her period of alimony will be. So it is like you are her pension plan. Only the ignorant ones who live in Nigeria will ask you to pray in this issue. Prayers do not write monthly cheques.
lalasticlala: Some parents are now sharing how their children were bullied in school, some dragged Faith Academy, Abuja into the bully scandal too. Read some of the stories below:
"Good evening ma I got this from a whatsapp group MY OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH MRS LAYIWOLA THE PRINCIPAL OF DOWEN COLLEGE LEKKI.
My name is Tracynither Nicolas Ohiri (Twealthy Billions) and I had 2 boys in GIC Lekki phase one where Mrs Layiwola was a former school principal. A student in a senior class bullied my first son in that school so bad to the point of damaging the screen of my son's Tablet. Mrs Layiwola felt she can plead and offer an apology on his behalf without giving me the opportunity to meet with the said boy and ask from him directly the reason He always bullies my son. She pleaded they were only kids and would settle it amongst themselves later."
"Hello ma. Thanks for all you do. This Dowen bullying case happened to my daughter too when she was in Faith Academy, Abuja. She was bullied and sexually assaulted by the seniors but was threatened not to say anything. She still has those beating marks on her body till date.. Her being a pastor's daughter in winner's she kept it to herself and it has affected her till today. Because of this, she is withdrawn and doesn't relate with people well.. She actually voiced out to us last month and said she was afraid to tell anyone because they said they will kill her. She only kept saying I don't like the school but never gave us reasons. I pray justice is served in this Dowen school case. These children do not deserve to be treated like this."
"Hello Ma, I just read a post you put up with a woman narrating her daughter's ordeal in Faith Academy Goshen. She is absolutely right!!! I worship in Living Faith also but the bullying in Faith Academy Goshen is so intense. My first daughter attended the school but I had to withdraw her 3rd term JSS 1 because of bullying. In my own case I was sensitive enough to notice the change in my daughter. She will lock herself in the room and not want to be around family. When its time to go back to school, she will cry and pretend to be sick. It got to the point when..."
"My daughter needs this. She has been down since last week when this news broke out in school. Sly was her friend and in the same year wih her. Has been able to sleep, loss of appetite and complaints of headache with a fever. I need help, thank you. I stumbled on your page for the first time today."
I wonder why most winners of BBN think the next thing after winning is to hop on music. I mean, you need the talent and all that at least. Someone like White Money should probably have thought about acting or something. It doesn't even have to be about only entertainment. He could open a wholesale foodstuff shop and sell in large scale, or even lucrative kind of agriculture... But no, everybody wants to be in front of a camera in Nigeria...
By the way, check my signature
/ It is like winning a lottery. Everyone knows he got paid. Recording studios want to collect their share. It is hard to make money; it is harder to keep money.
Where do you see WhiteMoney in about 3 years from now?
Smoothbabykong: Hi guys, I need your honest opinions about my relationship.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite a while but I don't know what is happening at the moment.
The problem is this, we both live in the UK. We have made plans to get married and we have plans to start up a business in Nigeria. The truth is that she kept some money with me and I used it to sort some debts out but was planning to give the money back to her when she is ready to leave for Nieria.
What really happened was that there was a certain money given to me by another to help him send down to Nigeria. Out of trust, I told another friend of mine to handle the transaction but unfortunately it all went sideways. So I had to use the money with me to sort the debt out while I recover the other from my other friend.
My girlfriend has been asking me for the money and I lied to her that it's in my account but there has been sort of a problem with it which she believed. The day she was suppose to go to Nigeria, she still asked about it and she told me if I was busy my friend (she knows the guy) can pick up the money for her because she needs to sort some things out enroute to Nigeria. I called my friend and told him to lie to her that the money is with him and I will know what to tell her till I can recover the money from him.
Later that day, she called me and was crying that I betrayed her. She told me everything that happened to her money which means my friend must have told her. She hung up. I tried calling my friend, he has blocked me. Lots of things were through my mind. Dont know what to do. She sent me a few messages and blocked me on both WhatsApp and via calls. When she got to Nigeria that same day, she unblocked me. She told me I have to pay and I said yes I will. I admitted I lied and I tried to explain to her why I lied. Its been a week. I have tried apologizing twice. She read it and ignored me. I told her send me the account she wants the payment. She didn't reply. Fortunately I have her brother's account number and sent her 70 percent of her money and I sent her the receipt too. I only managed to get that amount after selling my car off with a few gadgets and electronics in my house.
I don't know whether to just forget about her or to wait till when she is ready to talk.
She has done outrageous things in past which I have overlooked also. I have even resulted maybe she has another person with in Nigeria and I should just move on.
Thanks for your opinions
/ As difficult as life in UK is? You let her travel without the money?
I think she is the biggest F00L that ever exists if she talks to you again. Toxic wastes like you must be avoided at all cost. /
They should have known better. AirPeace is a totally useless airline. I gave them the benefits of doubt thrice and they failed woefully. Other people that I know that tried using them have terrible stories to tell as well top being long delays and cancellations.
Anyone that's silly enough to book AirPeace deserves to be delayed 14hours. /
The Experience wasn't a political rally, it was a Worship for Christians.
Pastor Paul can't be expected to support the booing. Its wrong.
They can do rally and go to the governor to express their grievances
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It wasn't a political rally. So why was a politician given the podium to address the masses? He turned his church to a political rally and they gave a political response to the government's speaker. The church mixed religion with politics and got mixed reactions. It sounds fair to me.
1Sharon: Notice that when these pastors that were supposedly called by god die, it is always someone related to them that takes over?
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They are just running a family business.
God didn't call anyone.
The wife just inherited the husband's business by default. Transactions are involved in every business whereby cash is exchanged for goods and or services. TB Joshua and his family are exchanging services (miracles, hope, albeit false) for cash. No further explanations necessary.
One thing I liked about TB Joshua was his ability to predict and foresee problems everywhere except the ones under his nose. Go figure! /
1Sharon: Notice that when these pastors that were supposedly called by god die, it is always someone related to them that takes over?
/ They are just running a family business.
God didn't call anyone.
The wife just inherited the husband's business by default. Transactions are involved in every business whereby cash is exchanged for goods and or services. TB Joshua and his family are exchanging services (miracles, hope, albeit false) for cash. No further explanations necessary.
DuBLINGreenb: Billionaire in subway surfers game abi what?
This is billion 1,000,000,000 To be a billionaire is not about having 1billion in your account but assets Also it is measured in U.S dollars or British Pounds and not kwacha or Cedi or naira or Rand and any of the other numerous worth less currencies that don't enjoy global acceptance.
So I ask does mr. Kennedy own assets worth over 410,000,000,000 naira (going by today's official cbn exchange rate?) That will warrants the title billionaire.
You people will make this title as useless as the title "Chief" and "sir" It's like that's the plan
/ Billionaire is not measured in US dollars only.
Granted the word has been roundly abused in Nigeria by bloggers and wannabe journalists.
I guess Ned Okonkwo will cease to exist if people don't know much money he has....very nauseating, I must admit.
They ship their kids off to boarding school at the formative(11-16) part of their years. If the boy is in a day school, the problem would have been noticed before it got worse. At home, parents have some level of control over their children including access control to the house. If a parent cannot train a child, they shouldn't expect more from a few teachers to train their mistakes.
In a normal society, kids stay with the parents until adulthood when they go off to universities. But in Nigeria, a kid is shipped off to boarding schools at tender age, then on graduation, they move back home with their parents and become liabilities.
LifestyleTonite: Spiritually - read the Bible Financially - work and save Physically - hit the gym Emotionally - don't let a lady's rejection or anything get on your nerves.
Peace guys
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Any man who set out to impress ladies is a born loser.
/ Nobody can complain that the pastors are embezzling church funds anymore. This man has shown what he is doing with the tithes. The publicity will pay off.
He gave N8m to the actor and N40m to the widows. Publicity and Marketing of these gestures: N500k. That's N48.5m in a month. I believe and project that his long-term return on these investments will exceed N200m as more donors line up. He is a smart businessman with specialty in human psychology.
/ What difference does it make? Most of the cultists in the 80s and 90s are now parents. They are the ones that gave birth to these vagabonds.
All the losers on NL shouting dodorima are products of toxic families. Don't think that because the parents may be rich, it'd erase the atrocities they committed during their days. Blood is thicker than water.
The father of the boy should gather a team and go after the parents of those boys mafian style. /
I am writing to formally inform you to ensure you painstakingly and meticulously examine the type of guys your girlfriend has dated in the past. Please and please don't fall for the scam of " my past stays in the past". Dig the past, scrutinize all you have unearthed before you finally propose.
I saw a former colleague recently and he was almost a shadow of himself. He narrated how he is just recuperating from all his loses. He said his Church revealed to him that his wife is a pipe that keeps sucking his wealth and remitting his resources to the yahoo guy that performed the ritual on her. He explained how his logistics company crumbled and I almost cried. He said the court officially dissolved their marriage on a Friday, on Wednesday (the following week), a small reputable company gave him an offer to head their supply chain unit.
Please and please do not touch any lady that a Yahoo boy/man has touched. Fortunately they no longer hide their rituals. Please as an ambitious young man, dig into your potential wife's past. Know her dating history and the type of people she has dated.
Approximately 5 years ago there was this guy that invited us to a treat after his wedding while we were chilling someone asked him how did you meet your spouse he said "we met on a plane". To cut to the chase, the guy met a lady that a sugar Daddy was sponsoring to Dubai and "wifed" her. How can you meet a lady in business class who has no real job and the parents can not afford a 1999 Toyota and you say na she you wan marry? Although him body tell am and he advised himself.
As an ambitious young man the final trap ahead is your partner. Guide your steps towards marriage jealousy. The signs are always there. Your downfall begins when you marry an unfortunate person. I have seen someone who earns 650k monthly dismissed because of cheque issued on an unfunded account (No be juju be that?) He said the pressure from his wife was becoming unbearable. This was same wife that was catered for by a Sugar Daddy before the mumuni "wifed" her.
Finally, I will advise you to take this piece of advice: start digging. Never date a yahoo or sugar Daddy by-product. Your college girlfriend is using a premium iPhone and you know quite well that the parents are poor and she often calls you for bailout funds and you think one magical uncle gave her the phone?
/ So finance is your only concern? What about the ones that had multiple abortions in their previous relationships resulting in scarred womb? The couple will end up in Shiloh and many ubiquitous prayer houses without the husband knowing that he procured a damaged product.