₦airaland Forum

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There are no top-tier companies where they can do the practicals to get the experience.

They only know the theories of concepts they barely understand. I wish they teach Engineering in our local languages.

Japan, China, Russia and other global powers in Engineering teach these sciences in their local languages and yet excel.

Besides, Nigerian graduates only take glory on the paper certificates for the titles. Don't address them as Engineers and they
will wrestle you to the ground. It is ego before the knowledge.

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Taliban Afghanistan!

Talban Daura? /*Don’t let the spelling fool ya*/

Sounds like someone being prepped to lead ISWAP.

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Sebi they were singing and dancing with Hope Uzodinma to the detriment of their communities.
Being indifferent has repercussions.

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Luvvy01:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-10ueJ7HUUw

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This is what women do to come close to looking good?

This is sad and depressing to watch.

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Favfables1:
Honestly to me o...
Body count counts o...
I can't imagine being with an individual that has had so many sexual partners in times past, nahhhhhhh...

I know they're other people out there who don't mind and I respect their decision, buh for me, it's something I take into serious consideration before choosing a spouse...

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How can you verify body counts?

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proxillin:
So much fun at the wedding. I noticed something. And this is not the first time.

The Bride was just an average looking lady. I don't want to sound rude by saying she is ugly. Despite the heavy makeup, she is still what she is.

But the story is, all her entourage, best lady, bridal train were beautiful straight girls. Her friends are so gorgeous. I kuku mingled with 3 of them exchanged whatsapp numbers. And they are telling me they are single.

I keep asking, why are guys always marrying these average looking girls? Who marries these beauty queens? They are always friends of brides.

Or is it me not getting the gist?

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Those ladies are packaged beauties.

Just 3 months living with many of them, you may be disgusted. Some of them are just dirty.
You judged them by first impression. By tenth impression, you will be shocked. Every lady knows at least an acquaintance/friend that wears one underwear for days. Is she among the beauties you saw? Who knows?
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cutecommend:
Some things look odd, but can take someone to hell...

(1) Tribal or racial hatred: Things like "I hate Fulani people, I hate igbo people, I hate Yoruba people, I hate so so people" will surely take you to hell...You can dislike certain acts or behaviors of a tribe, but it is ungodly to hate people of a tribe.

(2) Enjoying other people's evil act: Do you know you can enjoy someone's lie, someone's fornication, someone's deception, someone's wicked act etc.. Though you didn't commit it, but the fact you enjoyed or found pleasure in what the person did will take you to hell ..

(3) Insincerity: Things like you telling someone to fill your name in a list of those present for a meeting, when you are absent will take you to hell....Things like putting early time in office register when actually you came late will take you to hell....

(4) Worldly music: Worldly can be enticing and sweet to the ear, but know this that if you are enjoying worldly music when Jesus comes, you are going no where with Jesus

(5) Not Confessing: If you steal from someone, and you tell God to forgive you, He will forgive you. But if God ministers to you to go and return what you stole back to the owner and you refuse, you won't make heaven...Same: If you slept with your EX few days before wedding day, or you committed adultery, and God ministers to you to confess it to your partner. If you disobey, you will not make heaven..

(6) Being ashamed to walk with your Bible on the road can lead you to hell....

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Some of you have undiagnosed madness.

There is no other explanation for this.

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The first major problem is that on your assessment of a supposed god of man, the only outstanding thing you noticed is his material acquisitions. That tells a lot. The end doesn't always justify the means.

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All these influencers are people of low self-esteem who need people's validation to stay afloat. Take away the "likes" and they kill themselves. What the hell?!

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There is nothing special about the woman. Any other woman can get you too by using the two weapons: Food and Attention. She feeds you. She gives you attention. You are mistaking the combo for love. Two things are possible: The wrath of the husband and or the loss of a job. People in your office know already.

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This is the best time to get married.

Smart couples will use Covid as an excuse to save their money for important challenges in life. The most lavish wedding is forgotten within a month. And in a place like Nigeria with her one week, one trouble; it will be forgotten after a week. Who still remembers Baba Ijesha, Ikoyi building collapse or EndSAR's report? This week is for Bullies. Buhari and his team will probably stir the pot next week.

Conversely, the couple could be one of the smart ones. They are already making excuses before the event against those coming for jollof rice. Blame it on Omicron!

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Happiness is internal. External things only provide temporary relief. Check out those fellas buying fleet of cars, their self-esteem is shockingly low. Some people cannot wrap their heads around a rich man being so depressed to the point of contemplating suicide.

Go to a jungle like Ajegunle, you see people who live minimally but infectiously happy.

It is idiotic to depend on someone else for happiness. A bottle of dry gin may be a better option—it is non-judgmental and can never disappoint.

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Does that include husbands who are alcoholics, degenerate gamblers and or chronic womanizers?

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CuriousMynd:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3WGidL42d9E

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His wife or his mother?

The man looks way younger than her.

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Kingship went to the highest bidder and the
the kings have rendered themselves useless by pandering to the Governors. It has been see no evil, hear no evil.
Who is to blame now?
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somehow:
Meaning because land sold for ₦250 then doesn't mean it was affordable to all.

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There was a time a brand new Peugeot car went for N2500.

N250 then is probably equivalent to N25 million today.

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This is a big lesson to those who think that common sense goes with education.

Okezie Ikpeazu (Ph.D) makes mockery of advance degree.

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Toks2008:
Ignorant people everywhere writing what they know nothing about. The UK system is so organized that except you go beyond your means, you will always have enough to save after expenses.

An average salary in UK is £1500 and with about £1k you will live a life many Nigerians dream of.

£400 for accommodation which includes Electricity bill 24/7 supply...high speed 5G uninterrupted access to the internet with full video streaming 24/7....Gas bill...water and council tax even if you have to share some amenities

£300 for feeding and i mean feeding like a prince.

£180 for transportation if you go out often.

£120 for miscellaneous.

You will still be left with £500 savings which is about 400k in naira.


If you now have a spouse and you want to live in a bigger apartment you can do that and because they usually share bills in UK you will still be left with good savings each month except you do pass yourself and of course many people earn more than £1500 after tax.

You lot should stop writing nonsense.

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It is amazing that monthly rent in UK is just 400 Pounds Sterling for everyone and everywhere.
Then the rest is for feeding, transportation and miscellaneous only.

What rabbit hole do you live in? What planet do you live in?

You already calculated her living expenses even when more information about her was not provided in the article.

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Curious345:
Medical consultants earn 300k-400k monthly in 9ja.

Professors earn 400k-500k monthly in 9ja.

Bus driver earn £3,000 (2.8m) monthly in London..

If you don't chose driving a bus above this mess we call a country then you must be high on Mkpurummiri

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By the time a bus driver finishes paying her bills in London, she will be praying to God to be able to relocate to Nigeria on half of a professor's salary in Nigeria.

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WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.

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I believe her.

I think the guy came with his girlfriend who coincidentally happens to be her. God works in a mysterious ways. He just gave you an open revelation to avoid future heartbreak. Yet in your infinite simpism, you are considering forgiveness. Some of you are irredeemable. So go ahead and marry her. She is your cross to bear.

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Gaggii:
I must confess, the only challenge in my marriage is sex, I was not a masturbator as a bachelor because I have girls around me, if one no come another go show, but as a married man have turned a chronic masturbator because my wife is always complaining that she is tired.

I would gotten a side chick, but I had a second thought because the consequence will affect my home financially.

Am just so fed up.

If you are married and in same shoe, how have you being coping

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Sex starvation is normal in a marriage. Sex is only a marketing tool to lure unsuspecting men to sign the dotted line. She may give in initially to have child(ren) to secure her position and wade off womb-watchers. But for pleasure? Dream on!

Those who marry with the belief that they will engage in more frequent sex are setting themselves up for rude awakening.

If you marry a lady for her looks only, the marriage is already dead from the beginning. The fantasy will wear off sooner than imagined.

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Good.

Now he can concentrate on finishing the Medical Research Center commissioned since December 2016 before homeless squatters move in.

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EgunMogaji2:
Monthly.

Not Hollywood or Beverly Hills o

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Upland is even an obscure city.

$2900 == N1.6 million. Then add utilities and bills.

$2900/month = $34,800/year == N19.1million / year in rent.

Orange County or Bay Area will be a no-go area for renters.

1 month rent in Southern California is more than 1 year rent (for equivalent number of rooms) in upscale part of PH.

Go figure!

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EgunMogaji2:
With proper tools, of which I’ve avail to my Tiler, I’ll prefer to have the handrails first. And it’s exactly what I did.

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Thanks @ Baba Egun, n3xt, Spyder880 and Michlins.

I guess it comes down to available tools.

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Exposescammers:
Please how is north Cyprus is it as bad as that. My brother came back after 5 years with nothing to show for his struggle. He couldn’t buy a car at all. Naso e bad reach for there? Anyone with similar experience or something to say about that island

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How old is he? Actually he came back at the right time. I assume he still looks fresh.

Shiloh is happening soon. He can capitalize on his freshness and go to Shiloh. There will be many rich and comfortable evening newspapers there desperately looking for husbands. Perhaps marrying one of them will reset his destiny.

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Pataricatering:
what anarchy are gay ppl causing?

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They are rubbing their sexuality in our faces. It should be a very private matter.
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Which installation comes first on a staircase for better aesthetic: Tiles or handrails?

cc: Spyder880, Egunmogaji2, n3xt

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55truth:
Should I quit this job and return home?

So I have been unemployed for a while until late last month that a friend gave me link to his place of work and I got the job. The pay is not good but I had to take it cos I was wasting away without any income.

Now I joined him in the city but he didn't tell me in his one room apartment, he has 3 other guys living in. I now make the 5th guy in one room. All of them have a girlfriend that still come to sleep in the same room. I'm sure you can imagine what it means living in such a condition. I'm just 2 weeks into the work but I have already felt so tired and fade that I'm thinking of quitting the job and go back to the village which is neither a better option. Some days, I sleep in the open in the compound because no space for me inside, absorbing all in the cold into my system which is very unhealthy, plus uncertain security situation. Also, according to the company's policy, I won't get paid through out the probationary period which is 3 months. How do I handle this?

I need advice please.

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Everyone has a story.

If only some people know what it takes to be successful in life. Comfort should be the least of your concerns now. Just 2 weeks and you are bitching already.

You are even contemplating going back to continue "wasting" in the village instead of searching for better options in the city. I think you are lazy!

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I dare say that one cannot run a successful business in Nigeria without micro-management. Employees know what to do but choose not to do it or worse case scenario, put a Nigerian signature on it. There is a gross mismatch in input, output and expectations.
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Why are you people blaming Alex?

I'd rather blame the one whose sense of discernment is not intact. Nobody should distress Alexreporter's bank please.

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Just like cats, Nigerians give conditional love to whoever feeds them.

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oshonky:
Leave judgement for God in heaven abeg

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True.

We shall close all the courts. Let anarchy reign.

And wait till the last day for God to deliver judgment.

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