₦airaland Forum

toprealman:
Could be his old man's favourite song. Allow him to decide what's best for HIS father

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Calm down

Stop taking life too serious

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Twenty8:
Whenever I see a girl that catches my attention, and I want to talk to her, I suddenly freeze, I don't know what to say to her, I simply have no idea. I need help from people with experience please, any idea or tricks will do.

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Approach her...smile...and then

Tell her you will like to press "bweez"
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Hatred is the only force that makes people (especially here on NL) rejoice that IPOB is a terrorist group while Boko Haram, ISWAP and Miyetti Allah are just miscreants. They even baptized them as bandits and you nodded in agreement. A mention of their names does not elicit the level of hatred Nnamdi Kanu gets here. While you blame Buhari, look in the mirror and see a hypocrite.

Let Boko, ISWAP and Miyeti keep "miscreanting" under the weight of your hypocrisy. The miscreants you embrace will definitely "bless" you one day. Ask the good people of Katsina.

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Your papa dey sick and you come dey sing about 3 women with heavy waists at his bedside.

Flavour needs deliverance.

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CamusMidas:
Having a second opinion in Nigeria hospital is very important.

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Up to 5th opinion is necessary. There are many doctors who graduated at the bottom of their classes who are in private and public practices. Be guided.

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Nigeria reminds one of a bus fully loaded with passengers being driven by a drunk driver and everyone keeps quiet until the inevitable happens.

Why are people not talking nor demonstrating against the government that offers them bullet and stones instead of bread? It seems that everyone is calmly waiting for one tragedy or the other to take them away from misery forever.

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Is texcoat for exterior wall painting going away or what? It used to be en vogue back in the day.

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spyder880:
Then I submitted the original building plans to Phildecasa designs, he worked on the looks of the house, modified a lot of things and came out with this look, the front balcony in the centre is hanging out in this plan, only the left front pillar will be retained.

@ invertedhammer
Jabolo

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Now this is more like it!

N15m well spent.

What is worth doing is worth doing well. Tell Phildecasa to keep my recommenation fees.

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willingheart:
I'm truly in love with this guy. We are happy together, We understand each other perfectly. With him I'm � myself, No pretence. Same with him. He's everything I want in a man, but the problem is that: he doesn't have money. He keeps trying, but things are not working. no job and he's from a family where everyone are on their own facing their challenges, no support.


He's 35yrs this yr and I'm 30 already. He wants to get married, but he can't afford it.

Lately, I buy almost everything for him, to support him.

Age is not on my side, yet the only man I love and that loves me can't afford to marry me. If we're married, it will be easy for me to share everything with him without my family members putting eyes.

My Aunt called me stu.pid that i should accept a financially stable man instead of being with a man who can not afford to take care of me.
I have little money I saved to support my wedding as well, but he have nothing.

Married people in the house please help.
I want to have direction plan for my life coming year.

Marrying the one you love or the one that's financially stable. What's your advice and opinion?

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Wait until money enters his hands, they you will know if he truly loves you. Then you will resort to "after I suffered with him". You have no control over how someone feels about you. You can only go with what s/he tells you. You may be his only hope and he has to remain loyal for now. Let's see how love can pay rent and school fees.

You are wasting your life with a 35 years financially unstable man. If he were to be 25...then may be.

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The winner is Dr. Maduka!

Currently he is the one Alex is leeching off of. Why go round and round when you can just knack him the award and cut to the chase?

Awards go tire this man soon. He has no idea he is dealing with Alex. He should have done due diligence.

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dfrost:
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Will most people ever learn? No.
Will most people always be greedy? Yes.
Will most people be swindled? Yes.
Will most most people work hard? No
Will most people exercise patience? No

So long as most people will always exhibit the traits above, ChyMall, MMM, MBA Forex (just to name a few) will always cash out. We will always be here to read the stories and laugh at their folly.

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These are the people you can never convince to stop paying tithe
There is something about giving out their money on fake promises that they find alluring.

Pastors will always cash out too.
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The North must produce the President.

They have finally realized that ethnicism is never a solution. Kudos to Buhari for proving naysayers right.

When it rains, it pours! The service chiefs must stay. Buhari not being overthrown is more important than the lives of Northerners

Time to play that "Telli person" song.

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No need.

Smart ones are making a killing while the other ones remain jobless or underemployed with their paper certificates. Artisans are taking better cumulative per in a month than the majority of graduates.

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EvilSec:
Anyone has advice on avoiding Burnout? I generally work 11-15 hours a day, then try to spend my limited free time towards Research & Development but since the beginning of the year I have started to Burnout pretty bad. It’s not that I lost my drive, motivation or passion. I just can’t do it. At this point, I burnout daily and I am having a hard time staying constant with studying for certifications or R & D in general. Any advice?

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Ever heard of "get money or die trying"?

Quit whining.

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Someone travelling to or around his fatherland is being advised as someone being deployed to Afghanistan war front. And they call Nigeria a country.

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Basalt:
Goodmorning Ladies and Gentlemen.
I am Basalt by name and I came to Germany last year(2019) October for my MSc studies with a little amount of Money and a partially borrowed block account from my inlaw (his money and my money).
On arrival in Germany, I took only a few courses and got a job outside my city and also got a mini-job. I did all my monthly expenses from my Mini job and used my main job to completely pay back my debt within a few months of arrival.

Now, that's not the discussion at hand.
I need advice especially from people who have lived abroad or have many years of experience in life.
My visa still counts till 2022 and I can even extend it if I don't finish my studies by then.
According to German policy, once you graduate from the University, you will be given 18 months to get a professional job or return back to your country.
Returning back to Nigeria is totally out of my plan at least for now because I came from a very poor family without any job connection and I am really enjoying Europe.
I plan to buy land or start building a house (I saved millions of naira and will even save more as time goes) but my friend who is also a student here discouraged me against that saying that my root is not yet fixed abroad that I should wait and continue investing in myself and undergoing professional training until I get permanent residency before investing. That I should always keep saving because it is not certain that I will get a professional job after graduation since my course is not in Information Technology which is currently booming in Germany. That even if I don't get a job, I can use the money to migrate to Canada or any other country of my choice.
He asked What if you invest the money now and don't get a job after graduation, what will you do after the 18 months of post graduation visa since you don't have any backup from home who will help you out financially.

What do you guys think. I need opinions

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This is a very tough question and a big dilemma.

The answer is not as easy as some people may think.

The only thing I can think of now is 50:50. Push some fund into a dom account in Nigeria and keep upgrading yourself with the rest. Nothing to invest(?) in Nigeria for now since you are not there.

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Skypeaceconsult:
What do we consider as Expensive bride price? Different cultures and customs. I see men here complaining about huge bride price and inability to let go of adulterous wife. Does it mean he could not afford to another if divorce results according to the scriptures.
Pls honest opinions!

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There is no such thing as expensive bride price.

It is that dreaded list that's the problem.

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Uyi213:
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.

My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section

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You are just a loser.

That's all.

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Nonsense!

If all of you had approached the 2015 with this level of outrage, we won't be where we are today.

So all of you should shut up and stop the whining. You deserve Buhari. After the reggae, now comes the blues.

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E no go pass land matter.

They too step on toes of indigenes and settlers.

Pissed off the wrong person.

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Who laughs last, laughs best.
Katsina folks are learning the hard way. Reality is a monster.

This is a warning to the morons who think that Tinubu as President will turn SW to a land of milk and honey OR Orji Uzo Kalu in Aso Rock will turn SE to el Dorado.

It is a class war--rich vs poor...not regional strife.

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Wike getting ready to port.

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spyder880:
No, I am working out a new look for the exterior of this building, and since the changes wont affect the floor layout, we are continuing with the DPC, then forming some of the walls. I have described my suggested changes to my client, and my architect is working right now on the 3d rendition of the new plan. I will share the picture here when it's ready.

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Awesome!

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Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world.

Charity begins at home. Let them reason Nigerian matter first before dragging the other 53 nations into the chaos.

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spyder880:
We are using a high quality of local stones we found in this community for this DPC cast......

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Still going with the original exterior design?

Just curious.

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NwadykExcel:
Yo bro,i'll never neglect my education.
I will still get up to a Masters in Mech.E.
And a B.sc in Economics and maybe in Applied Mathematics as well.Though i'm still in 100lvl doing Mech.E.
My main plan and back-up plan all involves me getting an education so if you like be there and be doing "vocational skill" .we'll see how far that really gets you.
Anyone can learn a vocational skill and still be very educated.
People looking towards skill auquisition as a substitute for True Education are shortsighted.

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Thinking exactly like a 100L student.

" Mummy Thank ma" still dey worry you.

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Sebi they were touted as one of the 3 Kardashians during collation of election results in 2015. Let them enjoy their sai baba in peace. When reality hits ethnic bigots, the result is lamentations.

Their son is on top of the situation.

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Nwodosis:
May the same fate befall Bubu's supporters here in Nairaland!

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Nigeria is very predictable. From Saraki, Dino, this guy and a host of others...one thing is certain—the devil folks support in Nigeria always find ways to turn around to consume them. They can never run away from their shadows.

When they support mediocrity, just sit back and watch. It is only a matter of time. Omenkalives was jubilating over the murder of Biafrans until herdsmen turned his native Benue into a killing field. Since then he lost his voice.

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Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.

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Marriage kills sex.

It will make it worse.

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gbadexy:
If the owner is up to it, why not. I've been told countless times by diasporas who paint their houses abroad.

It would not be practical in a multi storey building. Especially the external.

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Why not?

The local man who sets broken bones needs customers too.

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