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ENGINEERG:
Ecclesiastics 9:11 , please read,study & meditate on the holy Scriptures.....

Was apostle Paul spared from a thorn in the flesh ?

Matt 24:3-14, Luke 21:11, please tell us the ones that 'Christians' will not experience in their localities?

Consider this :
The cost of garri has gone up in recent days, will it be sold to you below the current cost price at the market simply because you're a Christian?

In a nutshell,this is what JWs bear in mind:
Matt 24:13-14,21-22. Romans 8:31-39.. Rev3:12.
No virus can separate us from our personal relationship with our God , Jehovah& His son Jesus Christ. (John 17:3).
Shalom.

Covid19 no be news from mba ala chaina,Italy na Amerika.......
The chicken has now come home to roost.
The global pandemic knows no race, Creed or social status.
It's our individual and collective responsibility to stay safe and pay heed to guidelines from the appropriate authorities.

Maximus69:
My brother, it's like that door HAS BEEN CLOSED now!

The order is for us to meet in smaller groups and most importantly we've been ordered to stop going to knock on the doors of strangers. We can only visit our Bible studies now!

Sooner the Kingdom Halls will be closed as we've been foretold several years back, so i don't think the time left now could ever be sufficient again to help all those who have been ignoring Jehovah's Witnesses!

Our brothers are already complying with preventive measures in our kingdom Halls..
Yes. Today's field service was for RV...
Critical times hard to deal with takes on a new dimension never experienced before.....

shadeyinka:
Faith is spiritual same with Demonic enslavement.
Any doctrine that doesn't respect the scriptures is not faith but spiritual enslavement!

Jehovah condemn divination& spirit mediums, His prophet Samuel,rejected king Saul & broke ALL contact with Saul.
But you dey claim that the late prophet Samuel was summoned by witchcraft to speak to Saul.
The Devil deceived Shadeyinka yakata as e deceive Eve..

shadeyinka:
So, who are the witnesses?

Why all this hullabaloo?
It's a simple stuff...
Hebrews 11:3-40 were men/women of faith, true servants of Jehovah. Indeed,Jehovah's witnesses (Isaiah 42:10-12).
The faith of these God fearing men and women (in Hebrews 11:3-40) was a witness ( testimony) of their faithful service of the God of Abraham, Isaac & Jacob. Like Jesus (Acts3:13).
Because we have a great cloud of witnesses (the men/women spoken of in Hebrews 11:3-40) giving us unflinching evidence of faith, put off every encumbrances ( sin /lack of faith) & copy the Chief Agent & Perfecter of our faith,Jesus Christ (Hebrews 12:1-3).

paul100:
Pls,pardon me for the long message.Before now,Christians go about preaching to sinners that Jesus is the one,the truth and life.That He came to save us from sin,diseases etc.But now,this same christians are now hiding and people all over the world are insulting our God without knowing that God has given us the cure.
This cure is the blood of Jesus.This cure came from God to my pastor(David Ibiyeomie)reading john 6:54(whoseth eateth my flesh and drinketh my blood hath eternal life.Last Sunday,two doctors that had direct contact with the Italian man that came to Port harcourt were quarantined for 14days,call my pastor within that 14days and he told them to read john 6:54 and take wine with faith believing it is the blood of jesus and after conducting three different test on them,they were negative.
This Sunday,another testimony from a lady in UK.She had different contact with someone that had covid-19.This signs and symptoms were showing in her and she took the blood and all symptoms disappear.Christians don't be afraid,we have the blood of Jesus.Tell a friend to tell a friend.Thank you JESUS
Please take this to the front page,let everyone see it

Where did the UK woman get the blood of Jesus from?
JUNK + BULL CRAP..

Driiimzzz:
First things first: I am a Christian in the basic understanding that I try to emulate Jesus and act like he would in today's day and age; and I also follow the two commandments of love that he gave us.

That being said there is something that just annoys me with churches like Dunamis. From the so-called testimonies that people give of seeing demons in dreams to be visited by the Head Pastor in their sleep to the over-dramatic oh-I-just-fell-because-of-the-anointing. Or maybe the ridiculous "miracles" - today's special was a girl who apparently wears super-strength glasses for her myopia. There is a way people look when they wear such glasses and this girl looked like she hadn't ever worn even a cheap pair of sunglasses. Or even the preaching that is so short and boring and repetitive every bloody week.

Can someone please recommend a better church before I just decide to not abandon Sunday services in all? Also, posters that may try to make posts of how my soul should be saved, please don't. My soul is my concern alone not yours

OP,
Have you ever attended a bible study meeting of Jehovah's witnesses ? Please visit The kingdom hall near you & come back here to tell others what you found out.....
Admission is free, no special seats for "big men" or the high and mighty,no special offering (as practiced in churches).

Enn214:
I read that it was written by the new world order - Freemasons & Illuminatists, that don't believe that Jesus (alone) is the saviour of the world.
...Including the New World Translation endorsed by the Jehovah Witness...


See the verse below, & share your thoughts

Lalasticlala

Enn214 Y U deceive yourself?
JWs believe the words of Jesus Christ in John3:16-17. John20:17.
KJV Matt18:11 was lifted from Luke 19:10 . NIV,NWT were translated from older manuscripts discovered after KJV was published...
NIV,NWT are more accurate than KJV as fas as Matt18:11 is concerned

shadeyinka:
1Sam 28:9-10:
"And the woman said to him, Behold, you know what Saul has done, how he has cut off mediums, and the spirit-knowers, out of the land. Why then do you lay a snare for my life, to cause me to die? And Saul swore to her by the LORD, saying, [As] the LORD lives, there shall no punishment happen to you for this thing."

Saul had expelled and banished all mediums from Israel. Up to this point the woman did not know that this important man standing before her was Saul himself. This man swore an oath of protection for the woman.

1Sam 28:11-12:
"And the woman said, Whom shall I bring up to you? And he said, Bring me up Samuel. And the woman saw Samuel, and cried with a loud voice. And the woman spoke to Saul, saying, Why have you deceived me? For you [are] Saul!"

The woman was supposed to bring up Samuel. Ordinarily, a demon would have impassionated Samuel and this would have been normal as the woman knew the identity of the said Samuel. Unfortunately, it seems God allowed the real Samuel to surface. The shock made her cry out with a loud voice. After her shout, she then spoke to Saul: why have you decived me!?

The woman knew this was NOT ordinary and thus connected it with the unthinkable "the King Saul".


For the rest, you have to rely on exactly what the bible says.
1. And Saul saw that it was Samuel (not a demon in disguisi)

1Sam 28:14: "And he said to her, What [is] his form? And she said, An old man comes up, and he is covered with a cloak. And Saul saw that it was Samuel, and [he] bowed [his] face to the ground, and prostrated himself."

2. And Samuel said to Saul:
1Sam 28:15: "And Samuel said to Saul , Why have you disturbed me, to bring me up? And Saul answered, I am grievously distressed, for the Philistines are warring against me. And God has left me and does not answer me any more, neither by prophets nor by dreams. And I have called you so that you may make known to me what I should do."

3. And Samuel said ... why then do you ask me

1Sam 28:16-17: "And Samuel said, [b]Why then do you ask me, [/b]since the LORD has left you and has become your enemy? And the LORD has done for Himself as He spoke by me. For the LORD has torn the kingdom out of your hand and [is] giving it to your neighbor, to David."


Except you want to rewrite the Bible, what is written is very clear.
It is what the bible says or your conjecture....you can choose. Even if you assume that Saul saw an aperation, the bible said "And SAMUEL spoke to Saul". This makes it double clear

Bros,I'm not making any conjecture whatsoever.
Vs11 : the woman said: "Whom should I bring up for you?"
Saul replied:" bring up Samuel for me"
The question is: "who is the "Samuel", the witch saw?
Vs13" Saul asked her ,"what do you see?"
"The woman said: "I see spirits coming up out of the ground"

### My Questions to you:

Bros, how come the "spirit" you claim goes to meet God (Eccl12:7, has been dwelling in the grave waiting for a satanic woman to summon him ?
How come 'Samuel' is multiple "spirits" coming up out of the ground?

Vs 15: God & Prophet Samuel rejected Saul ,why would Samuel speak to Saul through the medium Yahweh forbade?
Or
To claim that the real Samuel spoke to Saul amounts to tacit approval of spirit mediums, diviners & sorcerers in the guise of divine intervention.....(Isaiah 44:25)

Can't you now see that the "Samuel" she saw was actually a demon?

rottennaija:
Keep deceiving yourself. Last last, all the books you published today called truth and its contents will be confined to dustbin, new ones will come out claiming to know and blaming God for the false.

At the end, all you people will die with false hope which leads to disappointment.

Deluded atheist "rottennaija", why you no lie say na JW write Mark1:14,15?

Why Jesus Christ dey deceive "rottennaija" for Mark 1:14,15..? ....

Mark1:14,15.
"The time has fully come," He said, "and the Kingdom of God is close at hand: repent, and believe this Good News"

For over 2000 years "the kingdom of God is close at hand....." Jesus Christ is giving you "false hope which leads to disappointment.."
You no get sense.. confirmento.

shadeyinka:
It seems the woman was used to bringing up demons to impassionate the dead but this time around instead of her usual, she saw Samuel himself. She was scared enough to cry out with a loud voice.
If it was a demon as usual, why should she exclaim "why have you deceived me?"

1Sam 28:12:
"And the woman saw Samuel, and cried with a loud voice. And the woman spoke to Saul, saying, Why have you deceived me? For you [are] Saul!"

I didn't discuss that in italics with anyone.

Bros,pls study your Bible well well....
1 Sam28:3-8, king Saul knew Yahweh strictly prohibited the practice of divination (Deut18:10-12. Lev 19:31).
So,he banished them from his domain.Vs 3.
Prophet Samuel cut off all contacts with Saul.
Desperation and curiosity to know the outcome of the war with the Philistines led him to seek out the witch woman.
Saul disguise his identity,hence the witch asked Saul: 'why have you deceived me?"
She knew it was illegal for Saul to seek her services.... Yahweh forbade it.
Thank you.

Azazeal007:
The God of the old testaments seems to be warlike, aggressive towards enemy, tough and ready to fight for you if you obey is laws. He is very powerful and proud , he accepts animal sacrifices as atonement for sins and purification.
He never deserts is people during battle, He loves them but they deviate from his teachings, so he punish them severely until they repent. This God is quick to act if called upon he speaks through the likes of Moses Abraham, Elijah, Enoch, Joshua, Samuel e.t.c

On the other hand the God of the new testament his kind and cool, patient, peaceful and forgiving God. Accepts worship and praises, prayers and fasting as atonement for sins but not animal sacrifices. He is very slow to anger and act preaches by speech and not with sword. He speaks through the likes of John the baptist, Jesus of nazareth, Paul the apostle, st Peter , st John e.t.c

The big question remains are they the same God or have the God of the old testament become more civil in his dealings?

Why is God so angry in the Old Testament and so loving in the New?

Yahweh God of Abraham, Isaac & Jacob is the same God in both old testament& the new testament Exodus 1:14,15. Acts3:12,13.
John 20:17

rottennaija:
So Jesus is to blame for your false illusion?

Mark1:14,15.
"The time has fully come," He said, "and the Kingdom of God is close at hand: repent, and believe this Good News"

For over 2000 years "the kingdom of God is close at hand....."
"rottennaija monitoring spirit" wey know pass Jesus Christ.. Hhmmm !
The deluded atheist wey the false illusion will "always be close at hand".
Rottennaija is indeed an enemy of Jesus Christ and of the gospel of the good news...

rottennaija:
You this stupid idiot, your ugly wife and yourself and your ugly children are enraged people. Whe you look at yourself at the mirror, what do you see? Didn't you ask your maker why he make you so ugly?

If I date who I want, how is that your business? Is it you? Or must I date who you desire? Take a good look at yourself fool, do you think I care what you think or want or desire? I give no damn shit about it.

So, if you like, take a rope and hug yourself, i don't give a damn about it. Those of your fellow JWs that has been running from one cong to another to search for someone to date, is there no women in those places they come from? Or is it that after using them, they are no more useful to them they have to look for others too?

You are the biggest fool Maximus69. I date who I want anr if you like, go hang yourself. I makes no difference to me. Kill yourself for all I care or become a bigger monitoring spirit, stupify fool.

This rottennaija hypocrite no dey shame to call another person "monitoring spirit" whereas rottennaija na confirmed monitoring spirit... Wetin be rottennaija topics for this forum? Wetin dey your profile?
;

The Monitoring spirit doesn't desire a healthy dosage of his own melecine......

shadeyinka:
What did the bible say?

1Sam 28:12-16:
"And the woman saw Samuel, and cried with a loud voice. And the woman spoke to Saul, saying, Why have you deceived me? For you [are] Saul! And the king said to her, Do not be afraid. For what did you see? And the woman said to Saul, I saw gods coming up out of the earth. And he said to her, What [is] his form? And she said, An old man comes up, and he is covered with a cloak. And Saul saw that it was Samuel, and [he] bowed [his] face to the ground, and prostrated himself. And Samuel said to Saul, Why have you disturbed me, to bring me up? And Saul answered, I am grievously distressed, for the Philistines are warring against me. And God has left me and does not answer me any more, neither by prophets nor by dreams. And I have called you so that you may make known to me what I should do. And Samuel said, Why then do you ask me, since the LORD has left you and has become your enemy?"

The Bible was explicit. This was Samuel. Go with exactly what the Bible says.

The "gods" (demons) the witch of Endor "saw" & conjured one to speak to Saul. Na demon naim wey Shadeyinka dey call Samuel "spirit"?
Kai !!!!!!!
Deut 18:10-12,Yahweh forbids divination and sorcery, (it amounts to cavorting with demons),Saul was not having conversation with the late prophet Samuel, Saul spoke to a demon conjured by the witch woman.

Where did your bible tell you that Adam is in the spirit realm prior to his creation?

blueAgent:
I can stop laughing at you?

So his Soul was an old man?

So His Soul came out from the ground instead of the Altar or Heaven were other saved Souls are?

Hahahahahahaha

RussellRutherfo:
You are talking to yourself.

Everyone is a church person to you so you can play your approved "Theocratic warfare" GB approved tactics against the "Christendom" peeps, right?

Rutherford Rat.

Rutherfo rants THRASH.
Judas Iscariot,well done.
Your true colors done show.

Barristter07:
If you don't understand something ask.


Ressurection to heaven as a spirit being. Not ressurection of their bodies, it is sown a physical body and raised a spiritual body. Even Jesus the first to experience this kind of ressurection wasn't raised with his former body, that he had to materialize with different faces to be visible. Mary even called him a gardener .

Perfect knock out for their Jesus was raised in physical body SCAM.
Thank you my brother.

frosbel2:
If you do not accept Jesus you will roast over a slow burning fire for all eternity without end. Some of your loved ones who are saved will rejoice in your torment in their white gowns , golden crowns and harps. Jesus will rejoice at the shrieks of your lamentations and the angels will praise him in a frenzy for plunging you wicked person into the pit of everlasting despondency. Demons will make minced meat of your wretched souls and the cries of the damned will fill your ears with perpetual dread. No escape , after three trillion years, the loving saviour is still torturing you , hating you and rejecting you. Jesus is love for in him is love.

You see Jesus loves you so much he died to help you escape this horror that awaits all his beloved creatures who refuse to be born again.

If you reject Jesus you can never be saved , he is the only way. 90% of all creation will suffer for rejecting his beautiful , loving and peaceful gospel.

Jesus now , tomorrow and forever .

Repent or burn . This is a message of love.

Muslims without Jesus ? Forget it , no salvation for all 1.3 billion of them
Hindus without Jesus ? Damned
Atheists ? No hope

Jesus loves you, come to him now.

Peace .

2 Thessalonians 1:6-9


6
Seeing it is a righteous thing with God to recompense tribulation to them that trouble you; 
7
And to you who are troubled rest with us, when the Lord Jesus shall be revealed from heaven with his mighty angels, 
8
In flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God, and that obey not the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ: 
9
Who shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord, and from the glory of his power;

Compare Romans 6:23. Jude 1:5,7.
Hellfire is a SCAM to instill morbid fear.
Frosbel, i challenge you to prove it from your bible that Adam ,the first sinner ,is being tortured in hellfire..

**

ochibuogwu5:
BE STILL AND KNOW THAT I AM JESUS CHRIST CRUCIFIED
(GOD)...Psalm 46:10

"God" crucified crying out to himself, "My God,my God,why have you forsaken me" Matt 27:46.
God crucified..... Hhmmm !!!!
Or you mean that Matt 27:43,John 3:16-17. John6:46 is a lie?

RussellRutherfo:
You finished work here!!

Who told you you're not in a cult ?
Yet you pay membership fees to pastorpreneurs

RussellRutherfo:
(1)
The problem I have with you backpack witnesses is that the Bible is only the Bible when it is only your Governing Body's interpretations. Even when theirs is wrong. You all will never accept the truth. Discussing the Bible with Jehovah Witnesses is like talking to a wall and they are so sneaky about anyone bringing up their history.

(2).
You look at their Kingdom Interlinear of the Greek Scriptures and over 237 times. You will never see the name "Jehovah" but you see them clearly force it in their translations in the NWT.

(1).
I challenge you Rutherfo to bring evidence that you mounted the pulpit of your pastorpreneurs business centre (AKA Church) and pointed out the errors in his sermons.
Failure to provide the evidence is proof of your hypocrisy.

2).
The words "Hallelujah" abounds in the Christian Greek Scriptures in the book of Revelation.
"Jah" is an abbreviation of the divine name..
The name "Jehovah" abounds in many places in the Greek interlinear....
Gerrouta here, Rutherfo bigoted LIAR.....

Lucid1:
Re-read the entire post very well with an open mind, then quote me again

Let me tell you something.....
It's blatant FALSEHOOD to LIE on this forum that JWs are not aware that our Governing Body had erred at one time or the other.....
It's on record and it's public knowledge that we have said we are not "infallible"

So, which post are you referring me to?
On the issue of excommunication,did you not read the screenshots which simply shows that the way& manner king Frederick II was dealt with (on the guise of excommunication) by the Catholic Church had no SCRIPTURAL support?
JWs have NEVER done anything like that !
Wear your spec and read that Rutherfo screenshot over& over again....

RussellRutherfo:
I see your posts everywhere. You have always been irresponsible. I am not validating your stupidity. You just stay tuned and read the rest of the topic.

Oturugbeke !!
Nairalanders,make una come see who is talking about manners. ..
Every unbiased individual can see through your fictitious claims , it can't withstand the tough scrutiny of solid facts.
In your first response to my post , you hide behind your "weed supplier" rants,(Na who ask you how many raps you smoke?) rather than address the points raised there in.
Weed infested Rutherfo bigoted HOGWASH..
Keep piling up your LIES...

RussellRutherfo:
Is Bethel your weed supplier!!!

Are you really expecting me to respond to this?

The reasons for your fictitious posts are now very obvious...
The weeds you supplied to your system is working wonders on your reasoning faculty and by extension,your sanity.

You dare not respond to what your weed infested brain can't comprehend...

Lucid1:
(1)

Beating about the bush. Why preach and write about something, criticize other beliefs and practices; only to make a u-turn and adopt those same practices you abhored.

(2).
Worst part is: you then erase records/evidences of the times you preached against those doctrines you strongly preached against that you now practice. People shouldn't be ashamed of their past and must be willing to accept their errors and seek to make amends. We're only mortals after all

You're so good at making baseless claims.
From where did you brew your concoction of fallacies in your post ?

Your LIES are very lucid.

Missionaire:
It is actually concerning your books titled "questions young people ask and answers that work" volume one and two. Growing up those books helped me in making the right choices. Now I am in charge of the teenagers in our military church and I want to see how I can get the books for them.

I got an awake edition about 10 questions every young person asks.... That was January thus year and it was powerful. I could only get one copy and I have shared them with some of my teenagers to read and the feedback has been awesome.

The info you need to get copies of the books are on our website ..... I hope you've been successful.
Or call this number during 8am to 5pm Monday to Friday...
07080662020
Shalom

Shame on you russelrutherfold bigot and hypocrite.
Wetin concern you if some JW publications are out of print?
Na you own the copyright?
Wetin concern you with "Discreet Slave"?
JWs have been using the broadcasting media even before your grandparents were born.
Even if Mr Morris buys "12 bottles of expensive whiskey", na your money he take buy them?
how the matter take concern you?
We know say You be Judas Iscariot crying over expensive oil wey that woman use wash Jesus feet.
Who told you that is Mr Morris's meeting day or he was obligated to be at the kingdom hall?

"Truth is Truth" why you no go study for your GCE Science subjects with 1930 Textbook?

Over 2000 years ago,Jesus disciples said "God's kingdom will arrive immediately", Mr bigoted ,hypocritical Russelrutherfold, come & do the maths. Assignment:
minus year Year 2000 from year 2020 and give us the answer....
Your mission is to hoodwink the gullible with sophistry & misinformation..
You are a disgrace to this forum.
TUEH !!!!

Missionaire:
I haven't seen one in AYA Asokoro.
I'll check the website.
Thanks.

There is a kingdom hall not too far from your vicinity, you will find it, sooner than later.
Jahbless you.

oteneaaron:
No bro.

I won't fall for this temptation of arguing about JWs

If you strongly believe you will survive the end of the world while billions of people will die for not been a part of your religion,

Then please stick to what you know.

There is really no need for any of this

Time is too expensive, especially in this shit hole we find oursleves.

Stay safe bro.

Jesus Christ is a servant of Jehovah,his Father on earth (John20:17) and in heaven (Rev 3:12-14,21).
His Father is the God of Abraham,Isaac & Jacob.
Jesus is a Jehovah's witness... Isaiah43:10-12. Acts3:13.
Jesus says he will disown & deny humans who are not servants of Jehovah,his Father. John 7:16.Matt 10:32,33. Rev3:5.
That is the bitter truth in your own copy of the Bible.
Mr oteneaaron, Believe whatever pleases you.., na your choice.

Shalom.

Ineedtoheal:
Hi Famlanders, Please I need your advice. I beg you all to save a sister. I have to bring this here coz I know it's where I will get wonderful contributions. Again, I am using this new account coz I have friends and customers here. I don't want to blow my cover. Please this is real and not fiction. This will be quite lengthy, please bear with me.

I met this guy in 2013 when I was in year one. It was not a steady relationship coz we barely call nor see so I didn't take him serious. And whenever we see, it was always at one friends house or another. I accused him of being married but he vehemently denied it. Later on I figured out he had accommodation issue after he lost his job. He later rented a house when he got another job with one of our prestigious federal universities here in Nigeria and that was when things became serious (kinda).

We became very serious around 2016 that is why I count it as 5 years instead of 7. But then during one of my visits, I was sleeping in the room when I overheard him talking to someone but the only thing that caught my attention was when he said "I don't even have a girlfriend". Though I didn't confront him, but I thought about it deeply.

Two nights ago, I had a dream where he was getting married to another lady. I was crying while he was still saying he loves me but can't marry me. I confronted him yesterday, he said I am pressurizing him to marry me that was after he first asked what will happen if we don't end up together. He hasn't told me where the relationship is leading to after 5 years. We have been living for the moment. Just for the moment!

Few info about the relationship
1) He will be 40 this November while I am 27.
2. He has always had numerous girlfriends that when he's with them, he doesn't pick my calls though he always apologizes and he's trying his best this year.

3. He always send pictures of other women to his friends to let them know they are the people he wish to marry but never has he sent mine. Though he claims he's not doing it again.

4. From the look of things he's still searching while he wants to have me all to himself. Maybe a second option since the others are not accepting him and I love him foolishly.

5. The relationship is 50 -50 .We spend on each other. He believes it's the woman's duty to do all the house chores but not the man's duty to take care of the woman.

6. On his Fathers burial last year, 3 of his girlfriends came (me inclusive) and we all wore the burial uniform. Together, we served his guests even when we realized we are dating same man. His neighbors were giggling and gossiping but we all decided to be matured and work together.

7. When my sister that raised me died, he didn't come for the burial. his reason was he had supervision that day in school,same person that calls his colleague to cover for him during exam supervision so he could do other things. He also didn't send me any money but he questioned me for not giving him any money for his Father's burial. Even when I paid him excess for the burial uniform. I know why I did that. Mind you, he has asked me before if he can give one of his ex 10k during her Father's burial which I agreed and he sent her the money.

8. I have rejected some suitors who were willing to marry me coz of him. Though he has never encouraged me to accept any of them. In fact he gets angry hearing that another man is coming close to me.

9. He doesn't call often, I do more of the calling though he always return my calls. He can stay for days without calling unless I call. I know I have been the one holding the relationship coz I thought he will change.

10. Sine 2017 till last year, all I did was forgive him coz I love him. He keeps bringing new / different ladies into the picture. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress. He keeps asking me to stay that he loves me but he's confused.

His good side: He's understanding, motivates me to do my best, he doesn't hit me, he is gentle.

Me on the other hand is sometimes stubborn though very faithful coz I love him to a fault. I easily get angry but forgives easily. When I'm angry I talk so much but I don't abuse him. He is simply the cause of all my anger. He always say I am very understanding, a good girl, drama free but yet he doesn't want to marry me and won't let me go too. I have never involved a third party in our relationship except my late sister who said she wish I will walk away from the relationship because I love the guy more, that it won't end well. All my friends thinks I have a perfect relationship because I don't discuss him with them.

Back to last night, I told him I won't call him again coz he said I am pressurizing him to marry me. The truth is I have seen the hand writing on the wall, not today but two years ago but I keep going back. Please I need advice on how not to go back again. The love he proclaims for me is not enough for him to marry. I have wasted enough time already. Maybe hearing the raw truth here will help.

There are consequences when people break God's righteous laws and toy with sexual immorality. Galatians6:7.

If you desire to break free from that 'bondage' you call relationship, humble yourself before your Creator And ask God's forgiveness for living in sin .Psalm51:1-4.
Pray & Fast for the God given strength/grace to cut off all ties with that playboy indefinitely.
Write down on paper all the habits you hate & dislike in that man, always focus your mind on why he is bad news for your peace of mind and sanity. You will never ever go back to him at all !!!
Use your hard earned experience to stay clear of married men and toxic relationships leading no where.
Ask God to mold you into a God fearing woman like Rebekah,Hannah,& Mary.
(Prayerfully study God's word & copy the attributes of these women. You can ask JWs for a free home bible study. You choose the place & time convenient for you).
Ask God to show you favor and do for you what HE did for Isaac and Rebekah.
Genesis24:1-67. Exodus33:19.