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Young man, when I was in the university I fell into similar situation and fear the unknown and pride and foolishness and the thought that it's going to be a burden didn't allow me to sleep well....we couldn't go through with telling our parents! They will kill us! So we thought but really would they have
Unfortunately after 5th month she miscarried and though we were "relieved" we still think it was all the stress that made it happen.
Why am I saying this, chill out bro... gather your wits together and man up! That child is yours and please start now to plan to wed the mother. Dont ever think she's not wife material, Work together and don't let anger and frustrating situations ruin your future.
Whatever decision you make together now will make or mar your future.
Today after 26 years I'm married to that same girl and we have kids and peace of mind. Only regret is "we should not have allowed FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN to steal away our first child!
Good luck bro...
FEAR NOT....

emeijeh:
Disgusting

Topic should have been: Fake Christian and fake Muslim lesbian partners 'wed'

Thank you! I was going to say that too! I know the Bible condemns it so also the Koran....so they're both fake or just simply renegade believers!

All hail our RESPONSIBLE fathers and mothers!
To think that someone will go through all these and be calm and bold and crazy enough to SELL or THROW the baby away!!! Dear Lord, give every intending parent the knowledge to recognize this gift! Amennnnnnn

Sorry for your loss bro...the Lord will comfort you and your family.

EVILFOREST:
PEOPLE think it's by MIRACLE...
We relegate HARDWORK and COMMITMENT for MAGIC

Best comment on nairaland this week!
You're absolutely spot on!

EVILFOREST:
PEOPLE think it's by MIRACLE...
We relegate HARDWORK and COMMITMENT for MAGIC

Best comment this week on nairaland!

Toscarele:
This serial killer is really increasing his pace between kills, he is bound to make a mistake.

Meanwhile on Monday I said that while people are protesting killings in PH some ladies were preparing to visit a hotel room probably with a stranger,
question is
this ladies don't they read the news?
Can't they take a break from hotel rooms for now?
Is whatever transaction worth your life?


May her soul rest in peace

My brother! Usually many or most of these ladies use their phones to call or post images of themselves on IG or FB only, they hardly ever check for news or happenings around!
Very unfortunate situation....

Let Abba Kyari get on this case ASAP. He's our Tom Lepski here!

Good work OP, I've had cause to educate parents who by omission or commission live in poverty on the ills of child abuse/ care and many heed to the advice. One thing though, try to also inform them about giving birth to the number they can look after properly...it's the key to also giving the kids a better future!

Fountainofyouth:
Stupid guy, he disgraced not just her but his and her family and friends, why wait to do this on his wedding day

You're right. He also has set a precedence for himself: any girl he asks to marry him now will definitely be scared to do so!!! Except his sister maybe!

BuddhaPalm:
How is this different from the amnesty for Niger Delta militants?

Many have very short memory or total amnesia or are too young to know or just too hateful to think well...
They have forgotten so quickly that contract worth billions was awarded to millitants to "secure" pipelines that were devastated by these same militants! Millions was spent and is still being spent to see these militants get better in life!
Indeed hatred is a blinding force!

Thank you for your answers above. Though I never met the man but those who know him say he was very generous to people around him.

Please brethren in Igbo land especially from Oraifite help us understand this issue. A man married a Ghanaian woman and has 4 children: 2 boys and 2 girls. He's lived in Ghana all this while and started his business here also and owned a few properties until the business went down. He found his way to Lagos and tried to pick up the pieces...his wife stayed back in Ghana with 2 of the children.
This was their agreement.
Unfortunately the man fell ill and died in Lagos.
His burial is coming up in a few weeks time and the people are preparing to attend from Ghana. Now, we're informed that the wife is to pay a sum of #700,000 as part of the burial rites.
Please is this a common practice?
Please anyone with information on this practice can enlighten us further.
Cheers and have a great day.
Mods please push this to FP for wider counseling from the wise men.

MetaPhysical:
Really?

You guys live beyond realities of life. Wallahi!

Wars are fought for posessiveness on territorial space. Wars begin with targeted attacks.

A claimant to a space demands its continous dominance over a new class of arrivals disrupting its power and authority on the land.

Culture clash is often first signs of power disruption. Every culture has a right to self-preserve against threats of displacement by a foreing element on its soil.

It is well known in US that the govt is against polygamy. Intentional communities that practice polygamy are placed on surveillance and are soon raided and disbanded. Sometimes federal agents will forcefully arrest their leaders and lock them up then systemically rehabilitate the community members into mainstream. Leaders that resist arrest will have to settle for gun duel and firepower to settle score.

So US, land of liberty, will not think twice before it would eliminate value system that clashes with its culture.

This is common practice around the world.

Zakzakky and Shiaa are being disbanded because the mainstream muslims up there in North believe IMN cluture of Islam clashes with that stamped by their leaders as authentic.

So when certain people go to SA and clash with their culture why should we blame the people for self preservation?


What is xenophobia?
Words like xenophobia, racism are expressions to be used by the victim to seek redress against injustice. It does not give you guarantees of liberty to disrespect your host country and fail to respect what is dear and of value to them.

I have more sense in one lifetime than you can ever have even if you reicarnate and live 10 life times.

Good reasoning.
I also condemn the attack and the lessons for us is to never go to another land illegally, and if you do keep a low profile. Gangsterism and drug dealing is what has exposed the foreigners there and this has now made it impossible to relate well with the hosts country.
Genuine foreigners suffer because of the few who are bent on destroying the giant strides that was achieved in the past.
Also,. Our fight to enable the SA overcome apartheid doesn't give anyone a right to contravene the laws of SA.

The information makes it look like they appeared from Nigeria just like that! Someone took them from their villages by coercion or persuasion and of course some with the consent of parents! Go to cotonou, some have been there for over 10 years calmly doing the business with the "promise" that they will "leave" one day. Many reasons are offered by these women for choosing the oldest profession...Al Jazeera needs to do more than just tell us they're forced to enter into the trade.

Eccl 7:2 It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart.

Gazuzz:
kindly take the link down as you are doing more harm than good.

Why say "kindly" when you yourself don't take things kindly Your "advice" to customers on this thread stinks for obvious reasons and you can attest by the reactions of people to your comments. You, should kindly stop snooping here and take what's left of your inglorious image and go do YOUR business elsewhere.

Surprised yet not surprising. I think this thread is coming a bit late to be a thread that's "for education"! It's taking 3 months to come, why?

Jesus said to the rich young Ruler, go sell your property and give it to the poor and come follow me....
Guess what? The young man walked away very sad... only the wish understand this parable....

Auxtin85:
Bad government is the cause of crime in Nigeria

Pardon me, but crime exists in other parts of the world too! What can we attribute that to?

chudyprince:
bro you've literally gotten enough bug eggs in your system incubating lately

Mein Gott!! You gotta help me! Somebody help meeeeeeeeee.... somebody.... anybody.... just help!!!

EricBloodAxe:
Trust me to escape doing time with that machine

Cool! I'll love to watch the movie!!!

Ya mean the one I accidentally swallowed recently has all of this in it?

EricBloodAxe:
I'd rather waste an officers life than crash my machine

Machine you can replace, but doing time for murder won't give you time to replace the machine

madridsta007:
He is an American.

America should carry and claim their property.

His other siblings who are Nigerians, born in Nigeria did not have this story on their head.

Of course they're free!
I mean his siblings.... they're free to carry on with their lives.

slam7000:
...and for all that crime, he got only 70 months?

He was a very lucky man.

Yea...5 years and about 8 months on it...life begins at 40 so he can still make it!

There was BIRD, SAGEM, and the Almighty THURAYA

Vulcanheph:
"Add dollars" typical gold Digging Attitude of Naija girls

You know!
Warped sense of affection...

deepwater:
It makes no difference
If u recall, the OP has said the aim of his thread is to sell cars to customers and not to prove any other thing.

3 containers loaded already, people wey buy the cars don buy comot. Dem show u container for Canada, u say u wan see container for apapa

Op for show you the container for Atlantic ocean na.

Nobody will make u believe anything, if u get money go Berger go buy motor.

Truth is that risk is not for everyone, the difference between the rich and the poor.

I love this answer...you even put it mildly self.. I'm sure if I were to answer him a tiger would have envied my growl!

Techcrunchng:
I hope Angelina Jolie is among

As well as Indiana Jones!

daddytime:
He said, " Men are the cause of high divorce rate in African countries".

I'll wait for him to complete his research paper and tell us why there are no divorce (high/low cases) in non-African countries before I can comment properly.

We are waiting for you oga researcher...

Thank you sir...
Trust guys to sit behind a desk and write a "research"! Just like many guys/girls are online yet don't know beyond their noses!!
Please let's wait for him to get the research done from all angles!

hopefulLandlord:
Sad

What happened to Jeremiah Omolewa only happens to lower level pastors who trust the blood of a Jew to protect them

The higher ups know no blood of someone who supposedly died 2000 years ago can protect them so they take their protection seriously by hiring bodyguards while selling stickers with words like "No weapon fashioned against me shall prosper" at exorbitant prices to the sheeples so they can raise more money to afford more and/or better bodyguards

Look at the Oyedepo. the oga @ the top of this man that died he's photographed here reciting bible verses to protect himself. you can see all those angels sent from the lord surrounding him. he can't be kidnapped and killed while having these divine protection angels.


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look at the head of the Catholic church. showing how much he trusts the Jewish God to protect him

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Look at all the blood of Jesus surrounding Chris Okotie on the fukking pulpit of all places

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Look at the blood of the lambs surrounding Oyakhilome

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Look How confident Tom Samson is knowing no weapon fashioned against him shall prosper


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Suleiman is so confident of power of Yahweh that he's moving with swagger

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Ayo Oritsejafor and Anselm Madubuko walking through the valley of the shadow of death without fearing evil because Yahweh is with them

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This pastor died because he didn't have the blood of Jesus protecting him unlike the pastors above

Members should keep paying for stickers and reflective jackets to protect them just like the above pastors are using stickers and jackets

Yooooooo!
All your above statement shows exactly what these guys you mentioned above are all about according to the Bible. They're all blind leaders of the blind. They're making merchandise out of the minds of the simple. They're only for their own belly. They're usurpers. They're speakers of lies, they're voiders of the doctrine of the Bible. And lots more! Finally since they go ahead and abide not in the doctrine of Christ they have not God. 2john9.
Then, with due respect to you: what you don't believe or have faith in (the Bible) should not make you disrespect it or those who have freely chosen to be guided by it. Stop speaking against the Bible or whatever you heard or read about it just the way I won't go out telling everyone to hate his/her religion.
May sound ridiculous to you just like how I find it ridiculous that you don't believe in it. Therefore kindly respect others as we respect your thoughts too.
No insults intended please
Cheers.