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Equity7:
thanks all of you for your responses. I had my mind made up already but I just wanted to make sure I wasn't wrong

HR.hotness:
the thing is parents can't completely isolate the child from the environment esp in a country like the UK where the government is slowly taking away the rights of parents, how then do u instill discipline?

most of us raised in Nigeria can still rmbr some of d crzy shit our parents did to put d fear of God into us, most of those methods can put a person in jail in the UK. . . in my opionion that is why d uk has d highest cases of teen prgnancy and under aged drinking!

Godalone:
Lol
Your brother is indeed a loving husband who went to the extent of borrowing money for marriage just to impress people.He will balance the debt by december,this guy is funny.This is a waste of resources.I wanted a very big wedding but my wife did not want it so we have to make it minimal.My brother it is not a good thing to be paying debt after wedding.

bababuff:
What mentality? So bankers don't borrow money?
Do you for once, think that the world economies are been run by cash and carry methods we use in Idumota or Yaba?  

Do you for once, think that the world economies are been run by cash and carry methods we use in Idumota or Yaba?

tkb417:
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I'm fine o Mr Josh (LOL)

u got banned too?
nyways, its all good!!

affee:
Ib dear, I witnessed it myself, Osama is a hero to them because he killed a lot of kafuri (unbelivers) in his jihad.

[b]I lived in the north so I know what I'm talking about

tpia:
maybe, maybe not.

The most important message here is this is one of the reasons why its wrong to idolize people[/b][b][b][/b][color=#990000][/color]. You don't know what they're struggling with, and when/if they fall, then a lot of others fall with them.

RichyBlacK:
Wow! Why do people allow other people to dictate their life for them?

There is no where in the Qur'an where it is sanctioned that women who commit adultery should be stoned to death. These so-called scholars draw their inspiration from a long line of misogynists who hijacked Islam in its formative years and use extreme measures (including death) to oppress women. Even the Hadith (a book filled with so much barbarism that many academic scholars - academic scholars are far more level-headed than "religious scholars" - have called for 98% of the book to be totally ignored), recommends this punishment to adulterers, men or women. However, you never hear men being stoned to death for adultery! Why?

Shame on all Muslims who allow this kind of barbaric nonsense to continue!

Big shame on all Muslims who allow misogynists to interpret laws that do not exist in the Qu'ran!!

A million shouts of shame to all Muslims that keep quiet and allow barbarians stone their women to death!!!

topup:
[color=#cc0066]I personally don't have a problem with saying it to the person I love, but I know first I will have to be certain that they are reciprocating, it's harder to say you love someone if you get the vibes that they don't feel the same way.

From experience, the only experience I have had, the guy showed that he truly loved me, but then came a time when he seemed to stop showing it, before he started to distance himself, he became very intense, I felt so comfortable and ready to tell him what I truly felt for him, but like I said soon after he distanced himself.

I'm not sure if I know what true love looks like in the face because I thought I was looking at it.

One thing I knew about him was that he only managed to say the words 'I love you' when he was drunk and very 'in the mood' if you know what I mean, I didn't count that, but all I'm saying is that it's easier to magnify and multiply your emotions when you're under the influence of alcohol, after all you can always blame it on the alcohol Or pretend that you don't remember (which is exactly what he did).

Life is too short and relationships are even shorter, we can't live in fear all the time, sometimes you just have to give it your all, but rest asure knowing that you tired your best, if you hold back you don't know what you could have achieved if you didn't do so.

I can't wait to find someone who I can say those words to over and over again.

LOL, not long after the breakup I was on aone hour journey sat behind a cute couple, which the guy kept whispering I love you, over and over again to his 'girlfriend' I was so bitter back then, but it just shows some people find it easier to say it than others, once its's off your tongue it keeps rollling off .[/color]

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  Re: Guide To Becoming A Good (naija) Wife
« #24 on: October 21, 2008, 04:11 PM » 

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Oh give me a break! You were all over it until you read Karma's post. I thought I was doing such a shitty job of it, no one would take it seriously but to my surprise, they did. So I had to make it even shittier. . . something YOU still fell for.

Pap:
jjyou r u serious?

iceblue:
how do you know she's nigerian? meanwhile, she needs a lot more than 100 votes o! the top contestants have some 4000 votes. ask uncle seun to put your thread on front page, make oyibo see the power of nairaland voters

ibkaye:
Still does not matter, whether 'one' or 'many', there's a huge difference when we are talking about 'every'

The vote is not being held in Nigeria, but the USA, I doubt the majority of Americans voting are aware of the tribal stereotypes hovering around in naija  

ibkaye:
Only if they are ignorant enough to think that one bad egg in the basket means that the rest are also bad.   Speaking of Nigerians, what has tribes got to do it? 

what has tribes got to do it?

PepERSprAY:
Which questions? Do you think Obama would've made it to this point if his father was Nigerian considering our bad name?

spikedcylinder:
That middle one is fine o. Who has his number?

Angelheart:
Islam!! WHy am I not suprised??

@Seun: You MUST be Muslim!

agwoko:
my dear go on and do what eva pleases u, afterall  the much idol celine dion got married 2 an aged man so urs is nt the first.but u should no by nw that u stand 2 b an early widow.

u stand 2 b an early widow

Seun:
Since we can't do anything about it, I'll advice that you should stop reminding us about these things.

tkb417:
JJYOU
That was a food for thought man

couldnt agree less to what u posted.

Angolobabe:
abeg go ahead with ur heart desire ,don't listen to what people says or think its ur life not theres,i personally prefer older guys and age is just a number to me ,my mother and father in-laws have 23 years age gap and they have been married for 45 years same with my parents,

i have seen alot of people marrying with there age groups or a little older and yet they are more god digger than people think with someone that marries an older man and there marriage even fails than the ones that married an older man.