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grey hair is coming to you soon.

Diva1:
@Olanajim
So what are you really implying? That i sounded desperate or what? I wasn't expecting him to marry me immediately not even a year from now.
I expect being straight with me,he doesn;t want me to have any other guy, we were in a RELATIONSHIP, I have every right to know if he's involved with someone else and if she is sacrificing the way im doing,  when he was sick, was she there?? or broke, was she there?? I would want someone to doall that for me too and appreciate it,

I'm not perfect, he's not perfect, where did communication go? what would be better in the other woman he would find?? even if, it would never work out, as long as God is there.

mmmm i dont know about that. i suggest you go look at topup's thread on relationships closure. we have all been betrayed one time or the other i would advice you get on with your life and focus yourself on how to succeed without him. that is the only reply you give cowards like this.

he has taken your 3yrs already  why will you give him more years?

forgive and move on. most importantly, dont give another guy the chance to mess you up again. no man is worth occupying your heart like you are allowing.

peeceelove:
Iwant to bring to ur attention that robbers are seriously on rampage presently in lagos. this morning my cousin sister was rob in front of my house at about 6 am, my friends house was also rob all the tenant was asked to bring out all the have and eventually they went with food stuff and other house hold items. two days ago my Brothers wife was unfortunate to be in the cross fire of the idimu invasion by robbers, they collected her hand set and money she had at the fueling station she went to get fuel, her car keys was collected but thrown into a drinage system, they succeeded in collecting a small amount of money from the fuel station at shasha area of lagos state. pls what is really happening.

NL Members what advice do u guys have for this rampage, should the govt impose a stiffer penalty for this guys or what. for me capital purnishment i stand for anytime.

it will get better.

MrCrackles:
Some are robbers are foolish!

Putting your life at risk because of foodstuff is definitely not tight!

they know it is almost risk free.

KunleOshob:
The average very rich Nigerian pastor is most certainly already a very corrupt person and his corruption is worse than those who don't use the name of the almighty to amass wealth. He wouldcertainly eagerly accept a 10 billion naira bribe. he would also ask you to pay a tithe of your incomes(wether legit or not) and remind you to come and do thanksgiving when the outcome of the bribe manifests.

kunle are you the only righteous man in that nigeria?

you guys are something else. everyday NL is filled with horror stories of nigerian men and women ill treating one another in relationships.

how does marrying white people disturb you? the same you calling white police racists said this nonsence about white women on another thread https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-242860.32.html

Ok so the thread is about you Huh

Just so you know, American women are western women!
If you lived in London as you claimed, you will know that white women fall over themselves to taste black men . . . oh maybe you just restricted to the Nigerian community in Peckham (as I already told you, you need to go out and mix a little more).

If you really understand English language, please show me where I have said it is okay for anyone to decieve another. Are you a woman by any chance? Just trying to be the winner in every discussion even by twisting things.

while you're at it, can I ask you why you think it is good for a girl to be stupid and to date married men?

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oyb:
theres a nomadic cattle rearing tribe in uganda where the old man must ' commission ' the son's bride, to ensure they are getting 'value virgin for money bride price'

is this for real?

wbb

another war in the heavenlies.

JustGood:
This coming even after the police have issued an apology and admitted that the cuffing and stuff was necessary

No wonder they say we will never truly be liberated. We must always find a way to escuse the inexcusable as long as it is a black man that is the victim.

you know the politically correct race money money making lobby will push any button and sadly in this day and age you have to apologize for calling a black man black. so apology is not admission of guilt.

i shall leave you to continue indulging yourself. have a good weekend

dae:
Hmmmm, that thing i think people are born with it, i dunno sha, so its gonna be kinda hard to take it away from her since Its not a Habit,even if u threaten her, or do watever, she might not listen. I guess u gas to pray for her, just like Y me has said, theres nothing impossible for God to do. how old is she?

are people born liars, drunks, thieves, fornicators? why is homosexuality the choice lifestyle different?

aisha2:
Nuhu Kwajafa,
Born 31st January, 1977 to the Family Of Mal. Fulani Kwajafa, former NDLEA Chairman. A silverspoon kid who has chosen to dedicate his live to feeding homeless, Street Children and Orphans and Vulnerable Childre. Nuhu has raised over N30 Million Naira for Medical Treatment for Children in need of medical assistance. Some of the Children are:
1. Moses Itodo: N10,000,000 (Ten Million Naira) for Kidney Transplant in India
2. Mis Rose Oriarehon: Cancer of the Face
3. Ebuka Anene: Cancer of the eye (N450,000)
4. Chucks Nwadiei: N250,000 (Odonogenia Keratcyst)
5. Eke Kingsley: Chronic Liver Disease: ( N64,000)
6: Peter jacob: N1, 380,000 (Hole in the heart) More cheues are still coming in.
Note: (A few of the cases)

Nuhu also runs a project food for 1 million every month for the past three years where people donate food materials which is distributed to Orphanages in three states and Military Pensioners who live under Wuse Bridge.
Nuhu sold his only car in 2008 when he could not raise money for the treatment of Ebuka Anene.

thank you. now we are talking not some of those listed

JustGood:
First off, the fact that you quote the well known racist John Howard tells me something

Could you answer the question Anichebe put to the officers please:

Does the fact that there are tribalist within the Nigeria Police make it right for the British Police to be racist na wa o

So if Anichebe was white, would he have got the same deal for window shopping?

you bet he would. you know very well people who rob those types of shops always do window shopping before doing the robbery. you dont know how to police the streets better than the police so stop complaining. we get more harased by the nigerian police than this. it is not the end of the world.

i worked in the west end for 18yrs. i saw white peole being stop and searched almost weekly. why must seperate laws be put in place for black people and nigerians for that matter?

dont send him no card. the relationship has gone past its sell by date.

JustGood:
You still dont get it? It's completely different - Nigeria Police are just incompetetent and a reflection of the Nigerian rot. The Police in the UK only treat you that way if you're black. . . you still dont get it?

mmmmmmmm is that really true? some white boys get worse deal from the police as you must know.

there are tribalist police in nigeria too. if you were a british police knowing how most black boys his age behave what would you do? why do some of you always call white people racist whereas you inflict worse prejudice on your own kind in the name tribal or ethnic differences.

most of us need to heed what john howard of australia said to the moslem brigade

"If you aren't happy here then LEAVE. We didn't force you to come here. You asked to be here. So accept the country YOU accepted."

there are laws of the land. if you choose to behave suspiciously any where in this land the law enforcement agents have rights to question you. if we dont like it the airports are open 24/7.

mmmmmmmmm are u sure u heard right?

lagos boy and co tell us which one you belong to that was the kwuersion abi?

KunleOshob:
What you fail to realize is that a lot of Nigerians still consider OBJ a national hero despite his few shortcomings and the unprecedented amount of bad press(propaganda) waged against him

kunle this from you trashing people like adeboya and oyakhilome is absurd.  you posted this somewhere for adeboye 

Well this your so called men of God are always mis-appropriating God's money and the bible already warned us to be discerning about preachers that make up stories to get our money. If they claim to be men of God and they are not living according to the standards set out in the bible they have already Judged themselves. we are just commenting.

why is your misappropriating money not extended to your admired obasanjo? is he not alleged to read the same bible you say the others are twisting?

this is my problem with people like you. you have selective truth and justice.  if you truly have the spirit of Christ in you this should not be.

you  have not told me where you fellowship by the way. or no one is good enough for you to fellowship with?

BAC:
I called Naija this morning ,  Black market rate for £££ is N253



God bless Nigeria and every where else

fyneguy:
 1$ = N188  today!

time to sell some money then

REAL TRUTH
People hide under religion to operate a fraudulent marriage.It doesn't matter how religious you are,ons a marriage gets to a point of this nature,it simply means in the first there was love rather it lust that inspired the marriage.The guy in question and based on this story is stupid guy,,the girl is not matured for marriage though she is matured enough for very good sex which she used in holding the stupid guy in question.
I am married and married to a very sweet but tough lady,,,on the hand am also tough so we both had a balance.she is smart and am smart.she is God fearing and I am same.she is beautiful and am also handsome.But all these didn't just come all at a bliss,,we had both had very tough experience with men and women alike as the case may be.At the time we were dating sex wasn't our focus, our focus was defined,it captures everything positive you can think of.My toughness didn't just come all of a sudden but as a function of the relationships i had been into,,thesame applies to her.
Bottomline, what am saying in essence is that, there is more into a relationship,dating or marriage than sex or going to bed.Marriage is simply RESPONSIBILITY,and responsibilty is a function what U ve got in ur HEAD and how to apply those stuff in ur HEAD to daily life challenges.[size=14pt]Most people don't ve business being married[/size].This guy should have simply use this girl as a girlfriend and not a wife.And as we speak here some people would make just thesame mistakes 2mrow.Not all relationships must end in marriage,,it doesn't matter if the girl is an angel or her name is character,,or good girl.Bottomline, No man or any Woman is particularly meant for any man or woman.
If the guy call it quit,both the guy and d girl would have learnt something which they would both take into their subsequent relationship.Its of no good when either party would end up killing the other in the future.

*osisi

@ the poster
If I were you ,I'll be very careful when hanging out with this friend.
Infact,as long as he insists on being with this diabolic woman,I'll advise you not to be seen anywhere around him or else the day her demons charge excessively, na your head and the husband head together.
The woman is a major psycho.
The voices in her head may just whisper your name as the source of their wahala and you won't escape it.
be warned.

be so warned

otukpo:
It is the commercial banks that killing nigerians and our economy.
lend money to pple to start biz or something, they wont. even when u have a collateral, getting a loan from a bank to start sth is more difficult than u can imagine.
On the foreign exchange issue, u go to the commercial banks to buy dollar, they will tell u its not available. But a black mkt mallam comes in and they sell the dollars to him. i think they hav a deal with this mallams, the black mkt biz they do 2gether. Or how else wld u xplain the fact dt they wont sell dollar to ordinary person/bizman but to the mallam that sells at the black mkt.

that is naija for you

could work if honesty is from the very beginning. it is very trying and expensive though

Missy B:
Unlucky in love?? Yea some women are.
It's Life. . . . Not everything works for Your favor.
So far . . . Love has been fair to me but I'D say
Most women are the architect of their problems.

sad truth.  most people act like they dont know there are consequences for every action/ decisions they make.

legend obj. mmmmm

tribalists and sexist at work.

what age / difference are we talking here?

whitelexi:
'What will not be' can never be!

some people spoil what will or could be with bad ugly rumour character too.

so many reasons

wbb