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Family › Re: How Long Can Your Mother-In-Law Stay With You? by JJYOU: 3:50pm On Mar 17, 2009

sistawoman:
I think it really would depend on the r/s that I have with my MIL.

My xMIL was a real bitch and I could not stand her more than 6 hours at a time. But my mom she came for each baby, her and my dad and would stay 3-4 weeks. It was great having my mom and dad there with me when I had each of my children.

My mom would let me rest the first couple of weeks home and would bring the baby to me for feedings. Dad would do necesarry repairs around the house (my exH could not figure out which end was the head on the hammer) and he would play with the older children to keep them occupied. My mom would also prepare meals before she left and freeze them for easy thawing and heating after she left.

mmmmm you couldnt teach him

Family › Re: How Long Can Your Mother-In-Law Stay With You? by JJYOU: 3:14pm On Mar 17, 2009

i think there should be a forum/ thread for the married so threads like this dont get lost

Family › Re: Please Help|my Wife Is Very Lazy by JJYOU: 3:12pm On Mar 17, 2009

kokorunna:
Didn't you know this before you got married, from the sound of things it seems things have got worse.

The only advice I can give you is tell her if she does not change you will leave her and see if she changes.

what if this doesnt work what next?

Christianity Etc › Re: I Am No Longer An Atheist by JJYOU: 2:38pm On Mar 17, 2009

u guys actually sit down to read huxley?

Romance › Re: Age-difference by JJYOU: 1:53pm On Mar 17, 2009

queenblack:
no need for the insultive remarks. I have apologized already. And yes, I am 37 and he is 52.

welcome to NL

Romance › Re: Is A Woman Incomplete Without A Man? by JJYOU: 12:25pm On Mar 17, 2009

kemisuga:
@ Just good - When women cant get a man to marry them and they cant make up a reason then they say it is a choice.

Go to page 2 you will see your response to my post.

really?

Romance › Re: Men Are Not Worth Sacrificing For: Ladies Do You Agree? by JJYOU: 11:24am On Mar 17, 2009

kemisuga:
@ topic - 101% agree.

knowing life you will only attract self centred people like your lovely self.

van der jo:
I guess everybody that agrees with mukina has tasted that bitter pill,so it ain't a surprise,to love is to make sacrifice itself,to go into a relationship expecting not to make sacrifices is planning to fail in that relationship and trust me,it ain't never going to work out.

you are so spot on. some people wonder why they are miserable loosers in relationships.

Business › Re: Woolworths Lagos Closed Down: Any Idea Why? by JJYOU: 11:08am On Mar 17, 2009

TWayne:
Hello All,

I'm not sure if posting a comment about a discussion that started almost 2 years ago is still valid but I thought I should comment all the same.

First, the Woolworths that was set up in Nigeria was not an extension of the Woolworths in the UK. I also thought it was initially. It was actually an extension of the Woolworths South Africa, one of the most successful retail chains in the country, modeled after Marks and Spencer of the United Kingdom.

I personally was not impressed with the type of clothing they sold in Lagos, particularly when compared with the clothing they sold in their outlets in South Africa so I wasn't particularly surprised when they closed down. Furthermore, the ban on importation did not really help matters.

Anywayz, I have read all the comments on the topic and was quite surprised on how an innocent topic became a controversial topic. Needless to say that all the major players in the argument made valid points. We obviously need help with growing the major industries in Nigeria so don't shoot me when I say I am in favour of foreign players coming into the economy.

I am in the fashion industry and intend to come back home when I'm done with my studies to set up. All your comments have been very helpful in putting things into perspective.

Thx a billion and have a wonderful week ahead!

Business › Re: Intercontinental Bank Has Become Useless by JJYOU: 11:00am On Mar 17, 2009

@ sweet T, here is one you ordered earlier. you see dreams do come true even spreading rumours

De-marketing:CBN dismisses rumours about Intercontinental Bank, others
By Ayo Olesin
Published: Tuesday, 17 Mar 2009
The Central Bank of Nigeria has dismissed rumours about the precarious state of some banks being spread by persons suspected to be staff of competitors, stressing that Nigerian banks were strong enough to withstand the shocks and challenges brought about by the global meltdown.

CBN Governor, Charles Soludo

The rumours, which are spread by text messages, emails and word of mouth, and known in banking parlance as de-marketing, are some of the underhand tactics that some banks use to undermine rivals.

Stockbrokers were also said to be involved in the campaign of calumny to punish banks for leaving them in the lurch in the aftermath of the stock market collapse.

In a statement issued on Monday by the CBN Governor, Prof. Charles Soludo, the regulator particularly urged the banking public to disregard “baseless rumours” being circulated about Intercontinental Bank, which had elicited inquires from several quarters about the health of the bank.

The CBN stressed, “Intercontinental Bank Plc remains healthy and has been meeting her obligations to her customers.”

It also noted that the bank had been participating actively at the foreign exchange Retail Dutch Auction, where it bids regularly on behalf of her customers, who required foreign exchange for their transactions.

“The Central Bank of Nigeria has not received any adverse report from her correspondent and/or other foreign banks of any default or unprofessional conducts,” the statement added.

The apex bank explained that it had been providing short-term liquidity support to all Nigerian banks in line with its role as lender of last resort and that “such facilities are available for all the banks including Intercontinental Bank Plc should any bank require them.”

It stressed, “The general public is hereby advised to ignore any negative rumour or false information on Intercontinental Bank Plc or any other Nigerian bank as the information is false. They should continue to transact their legitimate business, including deposit placement with Intercontinental Bank Plc and other Nigerian banks.

“The Central Bank of Nigeria reiterates its assurance that Nigerian banks are strong enough to manage the shocks and challenges occasioned by the global economic crises. The CBN also stands ready to provide liquidity support to any bank that may require it during this period and beyond.”

http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art200903162303479

Romance › Re: Men Are Not Worth Sacrificing For: Ladies Do You Agree? by JJYOU: 10:45am On Mar 17, 2009

amaikama:
@poster! i guess you must have tasted a bitter pill in life. how very unfortunate!! but please, don't brain wash others for your own mistakes. Not all men have those pills. You just fall into the wrong hands.

mmmm this was almost 3 yrs ago. wonder what mukina would say today.

Politics › Re: Police Arrest Black Footballer Victor Anichebe For "window Shopping Jewellery" by JJYOU: 10:39am On Mar 17, 2009

JustGood:
Are you okay? How exactly are these related?

you couldnt work out the link. see if this helps

[size=18pt]Sex scandal rocks Army[/size]
• Female soldier drags commander to Defence Chief over sexual
harrasment, wrongful dismissal and detention
From AKEEB ALARAPE, IBADAN.
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
• Private Adeniyi Abiodun
Photo: Sun News Publishing

* More Stories on This Section

A female soldier, Private Adeniyi Abiodun, has accused her commanding officer, a colonel, (name witheld by us) of causing her dismissal and subsequent detention for two months because she allegedly refused him sex

Just as the military authorities were battling to redeem its image over the seized allowances of some soldiers on peace-keeping mission to Sudan, another bubble burst at the weekend as a female soldier, Private Adeniyi Abiodun, cried out to the Chief of Defence Staff, Air Marshal Paul Dike, over her wrongful dismissal from the Nigerian Army for refusing sexual advances of her commanding officer.

In a petition, signed by Abiodun’s lawyer, Barrister Peters Adonu of Zion Chambers, Ibadan, copy of which was made available to Daily Sun, Abiodun not only decried her dismissal from the Army in far away Sudan but her subsequent two months detention after she had been dismissed.

Abiodun, who was part of the 3rd Batch (Chalk) of the 195 Mechanized Battalion of the United Nations African Mission in Darfur (UNAAMID), Policy and Plans Department, told Daily Sun how she was traumatized and victimized in Sudan by the commanding officer for refusing his advances in 2005, while serving at the Guards Brigade, Abuja.

“What happened was that since 2005, he has been disturbing me. Not even only me but all girls he set his eyes on. If eight girls were in the garrison, he would want to have sex with all of them. So, when he talked to me, I told him I was not interested,” Abiodun stated.

She said at a point, when the pressure was too much on her, another colonel came to her rescue and posted her to the Directorate of Army Policy and Planning, Army Headquarters, Abuja on request. But on learning about her posting, Abiodun said that her boss ordered that she be ejected from her quarters at 1a.m, saying ‘they said they gave me only 30 minutes to pack out that night’.
According to her, the timely intervention of other senior officers saved the day for her as they prevailed on the colonel to stop her illegal ejection.

She disclosed that a brief respite, however, came her way later in the year when the rampaging boss was promoted and transferred to Maiduguri. But in 2008, she was nominated for peace-keeping mission to Sudan. The nomination, which ordinarily should be a thing of joy to her, later turned sour when she got to know that her tormentor was the commanding officer of the troop.
Hardly had they landed in Sudan than her trouble started as she was posted to the trench on the order of the C.O contrary to her training as a clerical officer.

“He asked them to put me in the trench where soldiers used to watch the enemy. He posted one other lady, Nkechi and I to the trench. From the trench they put us on patrol and later the military police headquarters. Nkechi and I were the first ladies to be put on patrol which was day and night shift before the sector commander, a Senegalese, ordered that no lady should be put on night patrol again”, Abiodun added.

Her posting experiences were to be followed by other ordeals as she had to contend with the hostile environment her C.O. weaved around her. But after successfully participating in the peace-keeping mission and about a month to returning home, Abiodun’s love deal with a Nigerian police officer, DSP Oluyinka Hassan, who was also on peace-keeping mission in Sudan, led her into the trap set by the C.O.

According to her, the second-in-command to the officer in charge of her unit (O.C), invited her to his tent for a talk. But unknown to her, her newly found love police officer was also lurking around. Hardly had she entered the room of his 2-i-c than the DSP entered!

“We have come to the end of our mission. We have 11 days to go home. We had completed our mission on December 7 and incident happened on December 27. I was in full military uniform and not that they met me doing anything in the room. I know it was a set up. If they met me naked, they would have taken my photograph as evidence. But they met me fully dressed. My O.C too can testify to this”, Abiodun said.

She said the C.O had immediately convoked a board of inquiry where she was pronounced guilty and given summary dismissal. She was asked to pack her belongings from the barracks. Abiodun disclosed that she was later taken right to the military guardroom at the Mogadishu Barracks, Abuja, where she was detained for two months.

“All the way from the airport, they took me to the guardroom at Abacha Barracks. But when they dismiss somebody, they take you straight to your house to go and pack your load. In my case, they took me to the guardroom. They kept me there from December 26 to February 23. This is why I am petitioning the Chief of Defence Staff to look into my case. I worked in the Army headquarters; I know what they do to petitions like this. They will not even allow it to get to the Chief of Army Staff”, she added, which is why she had gone to the Press.

In the petition signed by her lawyers, the Defence Chief was urged to discreetly look into the matter and ensure justice is done to Private Abiodun to serve as a deterrent to other officers.
“It was the prompt intervention of the new Provost Marshal that delivered our client from her continuous imprisonment for a period of two months after she had purportedly seized to be bound by military law! We respectfully condemn this selfish and barbarous act.

“We humbly crave your indulgence to wade into this matter with the aim of conducting an unbiased investigation by calling the concerned parties to unravel the truth and reinstate our client who was maliciously dismissed from the Nigerian Army. Our client is ready to produce overwhelming evidence of persistent sexual harassment, intimidation, dehumanization and abuse.” We quite believe in you as a righteous officer and a just General”, parts of the petition read.

http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/features/newsonthehour/2009/mar/17/newsbreak-17-03-2009-001.htm

Family › Re: Please Help|my Wife Is Very Lazy by JJYOU: 10:26am On Mar 17, 2009

sexyLeamon:
sometimes depression can leads to lazeness. so my dear watch out.
Often people stop doing things they used to because they feel depressed,
but then they just end up slipping furthur into depression because they are under-stimulated. try talking things over with her and stop
the so much complaining especially to her parents it will only worsen the condition.

thank you for common sence. it is so obvious there is a depressed young lady here. some nigerian men are comfortably married to evil, wicked, cooking and cleaning women .

lovereigns:
Hmm Hmm so sorry for your predicament, i believe you 100% cos it has happen to somebody very close to me while i was very young,i mean b4 my 20th birthday there was this far cousin of mine who got married(a society wedding)but unfortunately 6 months AFTER, lo and behold my cousin was returned by the husband with this same complain, he left a messagewith the guard for my dad( her uncle )which goes thus:sorry for the embarrassment i couldnt just cope with her,i love her dearly but i think she needs a little more time with you, looking forward to receive her back better than now.
WHAT A SHAME!!!
THAT NIGHT MY FATHER CALLED ME INSIDE HIS BEDROOM ,HE TOLD ME THAT I MUST BE READY TO BE A GOOD WIFE TO ANY MAN THAT WILL MARRY ME AND THUS THE JOURNEY BEGAN WITH THIIS MY COUSIN,ALL THE HOUSEMAIDS WERE DISCHARGED(I NEVER WASHED CLOTHS TILL I WAS 18,DOESNT ENTER THE KITCHEN AND THE LIKES B4 THEN)MY FATHER TRAINED US WITH THE HUSBAND AS CO-TEACHER .TODAY THEY ARE VERY HAPPY COS WHILE MY FATHER TAUGHT ME,HE TAUGHT HIS WIFE,AFTER 3MTHS THE BRO TOOK HIS WIFE BACK HAPPILY B4 WE CAME BACK FROM SCHOOLD BRO PLS TEACH HER IN LOVE

bros teach her in love. it is a duty to work this out in love. check there must be something wrong somewhere. this has nothing to do with laziness.

Nairaland General › Re: Award Night For (strictly) Nairalanders by JJYOU: 10:14am On Mar 17, 2009

wbb

Romance › Re: Would You Marry A Person Who Doesn't Have College Education? by JJYOU: 1:00pm On Mar 16, 2009

wbb

Family › Re: Please Help|my Wife Is Very Lazy by JJYOU: 12:45pm On Mar 16, 2009

sparta:
Yeah, right get someone to do it but [size=16pt]please protect your children from her[/size], you dont want another set of lazy folks in your custody. It is enough that you have to deal with their mother. You need to see a movie called "aiye olomo kan". Mo le po tea, mol se custard, mo le gbe omi eba kanna but mo ti mo te."

Please protect your children o, Abeg, Laziness is a stigma on its own.

what is he protecting the child from? not cooking is not a virus.

Politics › Re: Nigerian Scammers - A Contrary View by JJYOU: 12:32pm On Mar 16, 2009

IFELEKE:
Quote A good idea but instead of using it to carry out business as usual why can't it be used to curb the business as usual?

that was joke oga. all scammers are hell bound in my book

Romance › Re: You Can Manage That Love Rejection by JJYOU(op): 12:20pm On Mar 16, 2009

why do fools fall in love?

Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by JJYOU: 12:16pm On Mar 16, 2009

sparta:
I wonder what JJYOU means.

pure and simple. you are telling the truth unfortunately you are a minority here. it sad no one is telling this young lady most people who do what she is about to do end up being hurt and what i call bride of state - single women suported mostly by the state.

Food › Re: Did We Have Fishs Like This In Nigerian? by JJYOU: 12:09pm On Mar 16, 2009

these ones are horrible. did you visit yanga market when u went home?

Romance › Re: Men That Beat Their Women.is It The Best Way To Deal Wit A Woman by JJYOU: 12:05pm On Mar 16, 2009

loveme:
Men that beat Women,is it a sign of love?is it advisable to still remain with such man even if u know he loves u so much n wants to marry u.pls i need ur sincere replies.

are u trying to wind us up or what? any man that raise his voice is out of order.

Family › Re: Please Help|my Wife Is Very Lazy by JJYOU: 11:59am On Mar 16, 2009

o boy sorry. i take it you guys are in naija. how much is house help in naija? the wahala you cause yourself with this is not worth the money you are trying to save. she is your wife first and foremost so endure and cooperate with her. it is your duty to get her motivated and bring out her best. some us need to seriously put in the effort to understand our partners like you would read a manual to know how they work.

truth is some women are not cut out to cook. that is the truth. she must have strenght somewhere that you can work on rather than concentrate on her weakness. there must be something that she likes doing try get involved in the process she starts getting relaxed instead of being on the edge waiting for you to point out her weakness. you will get her changed if she sees you as a friend rather than someone looking for any opportunity to criticize her.

we have a thread here on women who cant cook.

it may be difficult for you to believe depresion is not something most doctors can decern easily especially with the [i]talk right and positive peopl[/i]e that most nigerians are.

Omolola1:
Your wife is very LAZY!

You dey try o

that is not true. you dont need much strenght to cook. she may not know how to cook that is not a crime is it now? my bros need to do his work to improve on where her mum and dad stopped. it is so easy to blame the mum and dad now but she is bearing this guys name as mrs , . if she goes back tomorrow what would she have learnt?

dont forget loosing a job can knock your confidence which would not improve with having the closest person to you breathing on you or resenting you for not greasing his tommy. it is not good to allow anger into the tommy you are trying to prevent hunger from.

sparta:
Whao whao whao !. do such women still exist? Is she an only child? How did you meet her and man didnt you notice these things before getting hooked? Oh i forgot love is blind ah? For how long did you date her because i cant imagine my self even dating someone who cant keep the house neat or keep a job let alone marry such.

Since you have talked and talked, start praying or take drastic measures of reducing her allowance. She will sit up.

this will just aggreviate the situation. it is not worth it. everyone must be made to feel secured in their house not feel threatened. how much will he make? just pay someone to do it and keep a home happy and sweet.

Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by JJYOU: 11:19am On Mar 16, 2009

**osisi:
I predicted right when I made this statement

The average Nigerian born male marries in his mid thirties and those of them in America married in their late 30's to early 40's so when you said you married him at 17,I knew he had to be at least 38.
There are many Nigerian wives in that situation.
Is this man abusive, overly controlling and suspecting your every move?
That is the situation usually when a young man marries a much older man.

stop this your forensic work i beg. where you dey when i need some one to help arrange my own 17yrs old?. i wish this man's age was this girls only wahala. a bigger nightmares has just started. i hope she can pray? cos i cant see this guy and his people letting her go enjoy life as if nothing happened.

the more i know our people, the more i see why we turned out like this. we dont learn anything from the past yet wait for a better tomorrow. everyone will talk about this guys age as if 40yrs+ = common sence + wisdom. what if he was taken advantage of by the schemers we have back home?

may God help us.

sparta:
@ Poster,

I really feel for you, whao, your parents gave you out in marriage at the tender age of seventeen You were just a child still trying to find the woman in you and all they could think of was marriage.

I think we african children push this issue of parental consent and respect for them. At seventeen my father could not even choose a course for me to study let alone choose a man for me. What the heck?

Anyway sweety, the deed is done, i feel you have been cheated but i stiill do not believe in divorce because the other guy may even be worse if not why do we have people who have been married for 3, 4 or five times. Please for your child, reconsider, Pray for God's guidance and help, he cares about every litle detail of our lives. Talk to your ma about it too, am sure as a woman she will understand.

Its good to respect our parents but we have a right also to be happy.

there are brides of state my dear. you know your sensible advice is not always best in times like this. every eyes is moist now so we cant see clearly now.

where is that woli we have on NL? pls we need you to look into the future.

Romance › Re: Cheating Wife And Cheating Husband - by JJYOU: 10:50am On Mar 16, 2009

made in something for nothing society called naija.

Nairaland General › Re: Yahoo Boys Have Added Rituals To Their Activities by JJYOU: 7:54pm On Mar 15, 2009

wbb

Romance › You Can Manage That Love Rejection by JJYOU(op): 7:48pm On Mar 15, 2009

[size=18pt] You can manage that love rejection[/size]
By Kemi ashefon
Published: Sunday, 15 Mar 2009

SHE just sent in a text message, ”I am frustrated. I‘m a single mother with a three-year-old son. I can‘t get a man to marry me. Is this bad luck?” By the time she called, Beatrice was all tears as she narrates, ”I had my baby three years ago and thought I would get married to the father. But Tunji, the Yoruba guy who impregnated me was not ready to go against his mother‘s wish – she wanted a Yoruba girl and he must do as she said! I became angry and asked why he went this far with me – went to see my parents, was known to all my siblings and even colleagues at work.

Chukky

Love and the power of expectation

”I thought it was a joke but when I did not hear from him five months after I told him about my pregnancy, I knew I was in trouble. My family blamed me for disgracing them, I could not face my pastors in the church and I became an object of ridicule at work. Initially, everyone thought I would bring the invite for our wedding but when there was none forthcoming and Tunji had disappeared, everyone knew something was amiss.

”I proved stubborn and refused to call him. Though the tears came daily, I made up my mind to have my baby and move on with life. By the time I had my baby, my mother was supportive and my siblings. It was awful coping with a child alone, who kept asking after ‘daddy‘! I have already told him ‘daddy is in America‘ but for how long? Heard Tunji is married and did I cry? I have tried getting into other affairs but the men would always run when I demand a commitment. I have never been a financial burden on any man and I wonder why they didn‘t want to be serious with me. I feel like a reject and sometimes think of suicide.”

Festus almost went berserk when Laura called off their engagement. ”I could not sleep, could not eat and by the third week, I was admitted to a hospital. Laura was all I wanted in a woman – homely, gentle, caring and very intelligent. I co-sponsored her education and we looked forward to our wedding,” he recalls. Though the affair produced a baby girl, the story took a new turn when Laura‘s mother appeared on the scene.

He says, ”She had left them when they were very young and married another man. She appeared again and re-introduced herself to those kids. Two months after Laura started visiting her mother in Enugu, trouble started. She would complain about my small car, my small flat and meagre salary as a teacher. I kept assuring her of a bright tomorrow because I am very hard-working. Luckily, she got pregnant and could not go for an abortion because she was scared. I was overjoyed and we planned to wed after the baby arrived. But her mother would not hear of it. She swore to die rather than have her daughter marry a struggling teacher. After Laura had the baby, I was not allowed to see her and my baby. It was war between her mother and my family before I could even see them. Two years after the incident, it is so difficult not to remember Laura or my baby. She emailed the baby‘s picture to me last week and I still can‘t access where they live! I heard she is married to a rich man‘s son while her mother takes care of the baby! To even approach a woman is scary, what if I experience another bad luck?”

To Eunice, love could really usher in bad luck through a partner like Henry. ”He broke my heart after he had taken all that I had,” she says. At 30, she was meant to be married with kids, at least as Henry‘s wife. ”I did all I could to please him and made sure he was comfortable financially. I work in the civil service but I earn more than he did. We had so many dreams and I looked forward to life with him. My joy was short-lived because Henry was a skirt-chaser. He became very notorious with women that I became afraid whenever I left him alone with my sisters. I didn‘t mind and thought he would change if I could just get him down the aisle. How wrong I was. He impregnated a girl on his street and the parents insisted that he married her. Initially I thought that he would refuse but he told me that he was ready to marry her since I had never been pregnant. That was a year ago and after Henry, I have never had any man walk up to me and asked for my hand in marriage. In fact none has ask to take me out for a drink. Though I have a 12-year-old daughter staying with my mother in the village, I could not tell Henry. What if he got scared and ran away? If only I had told him, maybe he would not have classified me as barren and gone for that younger girl. I have never been lucky with love and I feel so frustrated.”

Comments:

* i want to believe that all the women God created all have there own man.all i will say is that be patience.i heard of a woman who got married at the age of 44.so,wait on the lord,

Posted by: allinson bolu , on Sunday, March 15, 2009

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* My dear ones, there is hope for you all even in love relationships as long as you live.It does not matter how many times it turned sour it can be sweet as long as you live.Have faith in God today and put your past behind you to enable you get along.I am a Nigerian in Europe and if your pictures were dispayed, I would have even known if any of the women is my sought missing bone (spouse).

Posted by: Sam Ify , on Sunday, March 15, 2009

http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art2009031511444654

Politics › Re: Nigeria's Greatest Living Legends by JJYOU: 7:32pm On Mar 15, 2009

Mowire:
JJYOU. I think you should leave Kunle alone. I fear the guy is just a name dropper and not a Xtian. He probably feels that because he can read the bible and reason out his own interpretation that makes him a xtian.

He is a PDP man, from the tone of his posts

thank you my brother. he said he doesnt hate them. i wonder what he would have said if he truly hated these men. from the tithe thread to this one it is obvious to the blind he hates these men deeply. what a shame he manage to read the bible. i blame reinhard bonke and those evangelist that gives free bible for kunle tyoes. may god help us from brethren like this.

KunleOshob:
@JJYOU
Evidently you have a lot of love in you heart hence your penchant to insult does who are trying to correct your delusions in love. I never exppressed hatred for any of these men as i don't know any of them personally but as a christian if i see fellow brethen being taken advatage of thru scriptural manipulation and i just keep queit and watch without telling them the truth i won't have done my christian duty and i won't have shown them love. i decide to stand on the side of truth/ word of God and not on the side of men twisitng God's word for the sake of filthy lucre. I also pray that God would reveal himself to these pastors and they would repent from their evil ways.

you are in league of of your own. show me where i insulted you or your does. you are a very slow poison. go spend time repenting and ask God to give you grace to be taught the word. you do not know nothing other than your proud arrogant self.

christianity has a virtue called humility. try see how you will be benefit from it rather than this lovely i, me and myself religion you have created for yourself. go to every psycriatic hospitals you will observe they are quoting one religious book or the other.

may God help you and flood your heart with the light of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Christianity Etc › Re: Can Any Nigerian Pastor Reject A 10 Billion Naira Bribe ? by JJYOU: 7:20pm On Mar 15, 2009

rasputinn:
Very stupid question
What cheap points is the OP trying to score.Any pastor worth his name WILL NEVER take a bribe,no matter the amount.They are supposed to be after spiritual and not carnal things.
An Imam? well I dunno about 'em

u wantto get a ban? dont mention that on NL unless you want trouble.

Politics › Re: Nigerian Scammers - A Contrary View by JJYOU: 7:15pm On Mar 15, 2009

WHY DONT WE DO A NATIONAL SCAMMERS SCHEME LIKE THE NYSC SO WE ALL ENJOY DOING IT WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY

Christianity Etc › Re: Can Any Nigerian Pastor Reject A 10 Billion Naira Bribe ? by JJYOU: 4:59pm On Mar 13, 2009

ud4u:
KunleOshob, I have always known you as a great critics of men of God, don't you know you can be one? They are human being like you so you can begin today and learn how to pastor a church so that you show by example. Your criticisms is too much, na waa for you. Remember you are not in the right position to judge or may be you have taken over from God.

My dear small small and always remember that God is watching.

some people succeess bring out the others failure.

Politics › Re: Nigeria's Greatest Living Legends by JJYOU: 3:58pm On Mar 13, 2009

KunleOshob:
You cannot use the same parameters to assess OBJ and preachers and even if you decided to on issues of corruption we can only assess what we see with verifiable evidence. in the case of OBJ he as done very well for this country he is a great patriot and he as done several things to make the average Nigerian better off. Some of the reforms he didour children's children would benefit from. In the case of Adeboye and oyakhilome who claim to be do the will of God as stipulated in the bible i would use the bible standard to assess them and if you want to be honest to your self both men leave a lot to be desired. One simple question much do these men spend on bettering the lives of poor people around them as christ directed the church to do? as this is one of the most important function of the church.

1 Peter 5:2-3:
2 Care for the flock that God has entrusted to you. Watch over it willingly, not grudgingly—not for what you will get out of it, but because you are eager to serve God. 3 Don’t lord it over the people assigned to your care, but lead them by your own good example.

Do these men meet up to the standard above

James 1:27:
27 Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.

certainly a pastor who spends the church's money on a private jet instead of caring for the orphans and widows in their distress as allowed the world to corrupt him.

you are just a very sad miserable looser. why you cannot see that your uncle is a thief and an evil womaniser is beyond me. how much has he been paid all his life to afford the house he lives in let alone the business he runs.

i odnt know who oyakhilome/ adeboye is but something tells me you are one of those evil twisted religious minds using the bible to justify your hatred of people. between oyakihilome and adeboye must have touched much lives than your poor soul and family will ever touch in 10 generations.

you claim to love the Lord yet you hate the brethren where is the love of God in you? as you are in your bible quoting mood can i refer you to this or you have torn it off your bible?

I John 4 : 20 If someone says, “I love God,” but hates a Christian brother or sister,[c] that person is a liar; for if we don’t love people we can see, how can we love God, whom we cannot see? 21 And he has given us this command: Those who love God must also love their Christian brothers and sisters.[

the amplified says

20If anyone says, I love God, and hates (detests, abominates) his brother [in Christ], he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, Whom he has not seen.

21And this command (charge, order, injunction) we have from Him: that he who loves God shall love his brother [[j]believer] also.

20-21If anyone boasts, "I love God," and goes right on hating his brother or sister, thinking nothing of it, he is a liar. If he won't love the person he can see, how can he love the God he can't see? The command we have from Christ is blunt: Loving God includes loving people. You've got to love both.

hope this helps you and your likes.

i am wondering why you have not bothered to tell me where you fellowship. i hope you read hebrews 10 :25 saying

[i][i]not avoiding worshiping together as some do but spurring each other on, especially as we see the big Day approaching[/i].

25 And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near.

25Not forsaking or neglecting to assemble together [as believers], as is the habit of some people, but admonishing (warning, urging, and encouraging) one another, and all the more faithfully as you see the day approaching.

today is not judgement day. we all have 2nd changes. you have chance to change your holier than thou sanctimonious ways.

you will never acheive 000.1% of what these people have acheived.

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