Romance › Re: Men Are The Weaker Vessels Not Women by JJYOU: 3:03am On Jan 11, 2009 |
amebo no.1: i hear u
how r we so sure u aint among them men carrying file and walking round d streets of wherever u live wt "micheal jackson trousers" "i beg to salute shoe" and "baba suwe's shirt"  you dont need to be sure of anything. my inlaws and family sleep very well knowing i take care of the business i am supposed to take care of that is the most important thing. |
Romance › Re: Men Are The Weaker Vessels Not Women by JJYOU: 2:58am On Jan 11, 2009 |
amebo no.1: a whole lot we were brought up knowing if you cant provide you must not eat. there is a word called DIGNITY. i dont think it is common these days. i am of a different generation from most of you here. so you should understand where i am coming from. it is a sad world the modern man is building for himself |
Romance › Re: Men Are The Weaker Vessels Not Women by JJYOU: 2:51am On Jan 11, 2009 |
KarmaMod: many. many, now that is vague young lady. those are the western world naija men. the can accomodate people. thank God for small mercies |
Romance › Re: Men Are The Weaker Vessels Not Women by JJYOU: 2:45am On Jan 11, 2009 |
amebo no.1: yea,but u men sit ur as down while a woman feeds u this days  how many naija men do you personally know doing this? |
Romance › Re: Men Are The Weaker Vessels Not Women by JJYOU: 2:37am On Jan 11, 2009 |
KarmaMod: you are always very vague when you discuss things like this, j  what is vague my dear? HeatFusion: Your question does not correlate with the topic yea i know. so who is this pllllleeease? |
Family › Re: Men (married) And Mistress(es) by JJYOU: 2:29am On Jan 11, 2009 |
tope2000: Oh some guys are really good at covering their tracks, i tell u. They are like leonardo da vinci in that game  interesting. the women should up their game then. but like i always say some women are ugly rumour too. |
Romance › Re: Men Are The Weaker Vessels Not Women by JJYOU: 2:26am On Jan 11, 2009 |
HeatFusion: I said. o i see. that is good. what is your old ID? |
Romance › Re: Men Are The Weaker Vessels Not Women by JJYOU: 2:25am On Jan 11, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx: Tee hee hee!
Yeah, that's why they blame everything on the women. . .
It is a woman's fault when her husband cheats on her, It is the girlfriend's fault for him cheating with her. It is the woman's fault if the guy is unsuccesful. It is the woman's fault if he eats outside
Yeep, men are just this brainless, weak human beings who don't know if they are going or coming.
Eeeeyaaaaaaaah 
By the way, Looooooooooooove the new name!  where are your submission lectures? amebo no.1: its wisdom
that why men r called grownup babies,treat them like over grown babies wt wisdom and watch him,fill ur bank account wt pounds,buy u d best of all cars and then buy u a house in lasvegas  most modern day woman dont have the word wisdom in their vocab. most men i dont mean boys are not as difficult as they appear. problem is most have come across too many players along the way just like you women c HeatFusion: lmaoooo. . . .The most boring thing in life is always getting what you want why is this? who said? |
Culture › Re: Men Don't Think African Culture Is The Best. They Like It Because It Favors Them by JJYOU: 2:04am On Jan 11, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx: Lol. . . it will stop going as soon as someone is MAN enough to admit the title is 100% True. I. . . I don't think that's too much to ask https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/5.gif you know i love you but this is beyond my pay grade. it is more complicated than you and michelle think |
Romance › Re: Dating A Demanding Girl by JJYOU: 2:02am On Jan 11, 2009 |
spoilt: I hate when girls go out with a guy and start eating like there is no tomorrow. Where do you guys find these girls?  agbaya avenue |
Family › Re: Men (married) And Mistress(es) by JJYOU: 1:59am On Jan 11, 2009 |
this is the problem with duplicating threads. 2 different sets of responce. tope2000: What if the woman didnt know the guy is nasty piece of work? it shouldnt take long for any sensible woman to find out. some women are as bad as the men |
Romance › Re: 2009 Nairaland's Marriage Register by JJYOU: 1:50am On Jan 11, 2009 |
They have to voluntarily add their name. Remove Pataki abeg, the prayer may not work on him. Don't spoil peoples prayer here with that devils advocate. this is funny funmi. you are something else like i always say |
Culture › Re: Men Don't Think African Culture Is The Best. They Like It Because It Favors Them by JJYOU: 1:47am On Jan 11, 2009 |
this thread still dey go |
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Romance › Re: Men (married) And Mistress(es) by JJYOU: 1:43am On Jan 11, 2009 |
sad people. i am wondering why women sleep with these guys |
Family › Re: He Is Married, But I’m Pregnant For Him by JJYOU(op): 1:38am On Jan 11, 2009 |
benincitys: why not use condom ? people still play with their life, GOD help women who open their legs for married man . i pity her men sef one is not enough for them one wife one problem two women double problem. little is never enough |
Travel › Re: Pictures Of Nigeria - Show Us Nigeria Through Your Pictures by JJYOU: 1:06am On Jan 11, 2009 |
where is the place has only 6 elevators working? |
Romance › Re: Ever Gotten Back Together With Your Ex? Did It Work? by JJYOU: 1:01am On Jan 11, 2009 |
dont camp around your past. |
Romance › Re: Why Are Ppl So Careless Abt The Way They Use Words Like "love",and "heartbreak"? by JJYOU: 12:59am On Jan 11, 2009 |
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Romance › Re: Cud It Be Dat He Stil Luvs Me,guyz Tel Me Abeg by JJYOU: 12:52am On Jan 11, 2009 |
olanajim: @poster, Then with what you said, there is only ONE way you can find out the answer you seek. WAIT TILL HE RETURN TO NIGERIA AND THE TWO OF YOU MEET FACE 2 FACE.
That is the best I can tell you. Fortunately for you, he will be home soon.
That said. You said his father know you but you are not sure he know about your dating. And by what I read, you are not sure of so many thing. Your relation was less than 6 months before it the bad news. And to top it all, you have seen it coming in your dream. . .
I am not knowledgable but I can say that for the dream to come to pass, that dream need to be revised. There is an information for you that you must have ignored or you are ignoring.
When you had that dream, did the two of you eventually re-unite or not? What lead to the brk in your dream? Please try and replay it. A dream that come to pass always have some hidden messages.
Whatever the case maybe, prepare for two possible outcome. Win or Lose.
There are however way to handle this even when he is abroad.
I am not Ibo, so I don't know about their customs. But Imo and Anambra are almost like brothers.
You man still have feeling for you, but do not rule out the possibilities. By the way, I hope it is not too much for me to ask how old he is. If yes, please tell us. u be rafindadi? |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Looking For A Girl.my pics attached. by JJYOU: 12:46am On Jan 11, 2009 |
tyric: People i didnt say u have to have sex on d first date bt if ur feeling urselfs and ur having so much fun that leads to that dnt hold back that is all am saying. i knew that was coming to hunt you. |
Travel › Re: Nigerians Abroad: What Advise Will You Give Anyone Relocating Abroad? by JJYOU: 12:42am On Jan 11, 2009 |
*Hauwa*: someone said the Rich people do not complain only the poor people are complaining. oh well, the rich are always working so others do the complaining for them. you get most things free and easier so no need to complain that is unless you are a natural winno |
Romance › Re: Women Opposites Of Men by JJYOU: 12:16am On Jan 11, 2009 |
ALL men? this is one of those dangerous generalisation |
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Events › Re: There Must Be A Wedding By A Nairalander This 2009 by JJYOU: 12:09am On Jan 11, 2009 |
this is getting serious. it looks like str. nwando and funmi must sponsor threads on NL for it to succeed |
Romance › Re: Is This Human Nature? by JJYOU: 12:06am On Jan 11, 2009 |
olanajim: I don't think it can be generalised that it is human nature to love someone who does not love you. If that is so, why do we hate our enemies instead of loving them, even though scriptures told us to love our enemies?
Monica, what I think is that it is emotional blindness. Often, if you bother to look at it deeply, you will find that the person who loves someone that didn't reciprocate him/her would, have a reason (whether it is good or bad) for loving the stone-hearted fellow.
If the object of obsession is taken away, love will evaporate quickly. The object of obsession, can be: wealth, beauty, power, fame, etc. It could also be a result of fear. Fear of criticism, fear of not finding another partner, fear of being on the losing side. It can also be a result of cultural or religious prejudice.
Whatever it is, I don't think it is human nature to love those who don't love them. Humans are selfish by nature. They only venture into relationship when they know there is something in it for them.
If a lady stay in a relationship where her man is using her as a cushion or punch bag, it is not because she love him so deep, but because she know there is something in the relationship for her. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Play Games With Girls Hearts by JJYOU: 11:59pm On Jan 10, 2009 |
NO. but that is the nigerian story. people who think they can get away with murder. men and women do this all the time. tell her it is not the end of the world. |
Crime › Re: Wikipedia’s Unfair Comment On Nigeria by JJYOU(op): 11:46pm On Jan 10, 2009 |
only copied/ pasted. i didnt add or remove any word from it check the source link |
Family › Re: He Is Married, But I’m Pregnant For Him by JJYOU(op): 11:42pm On Jan 10, 2009 |
Exercise patience and discuss more with him; he could change his mind. does she look like she has patience? decisions and consequences as they say. how many think they can enjoy the pleasures of sin and get away with it. another no string attached relationship |
Romance › Re: Cud It Be Dat He Stil Luvs Me,guyz Tel Me Abeg by JJYOU: 11:36pm On Jan 10, 2009 |
Emperoh: Mezdim
Before i contribute, please try and post without abbreviating It aids easier and faster reading and comprehension. I had to go through this severally to understand your message Posting like this will kind of get people bored off the topic before it starts
If you want ya ex back, get to discuss the issue with him Else play ya own game they way you want it I won't subscribe to someone dating a man that still has his parents determining something as serious as a life partner for him what is wrong in a doting son oga? if you are close to your parents you do everything to make them happy. since when tdid parent become enemies? they are not telling the bobo to go to war just to marry from amongst his people what is wrong with that? he may not do as he is been told he must not disrespect them in the process. he is still a son of the house. what you do with parental blessings stands a better chance of success. opening the gates of wickedness upon a young mans life is not a good way to start life. |
Autos › Re: Baby Boy At A Give Away! by JJYOU: 11:18pm On Jan 10, 2009 |
Emperoh: grab this offer before someone else does
It doesn't always come around. . . . true talk |