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no condition is permanent. most people will change if you learn to appeal to their sense of reason. it may take time but it is worth the work

what is wrong with being single? is it a crime?

please God save us from ourselves

Kobojunkie:
@@JJYOU, How did that go for her? Is she in Nigeria now?

yes thankfully kept her us passport. the guy probably forgot his tablets that day. i couldnt believe someone could be that daft.

chikito1:
How do you explain a man walking out on his wife and 8months old twins, leaving them to fend for themselves?

no one commits to divorce just like that
this is so sad. there are people and there people. something must have led to this i dont think we have all the story here.

HeatFusion:
Some men out there are begging for a child, and one stood twins up. How very very stupid.

The smartest phrase I heard today was "People should be licensed to have a child".

I blame women sometimes. If you know he ain't a serious man, unemployed, useless etc, don't have sex with him wihout condom. Condoms are not 100% effective, but abstinence is.

Twins, how precious

dont have sex at all i say. sadly another woman will count this jerk a man. some people really need licence to create children. God help us.

@bjpumping, pls i am looking for sleeping open eye o can u help? thanks

davidylan:
give it a shot.

bro. david i wont say give it a shot because nothing messes a guy head more. i say check how the current relationship is going.  if it is a committed one please walk away. 

Sapphic:
If it was the old me, I'd have said, screw the other girl and bite the bullet, but the new me would say, do what you believe would make you happy. However, be sure that you really want this guy for keeps before you go breaking his relationship. Do you see him as the guys you would like to spend the rest of your life with? Is he "the one"? If you just want him for a short while or just because your "boyfriend" is not around, I'd advise you to leave him alone as you must be a lowlife if you intend to hurt him a second time. If you feel he is your soulmate and you would like to marry him and have his kids, then by all means, let him know (at least you'd know you tried).

think this through seriously

talking about this nonsense reminds me of a friends wife who was asked to consider renouncing her nationality (American) for Nigerian passport by the immigration service. this was 5yrs ago though.

Jazz Freak:
If agro catch the hen well well, hei go pursue the cock wey no wan gree do. 


Ladies above 35years will surely consider this a valid option.
At least I know someone that claims her boyfriend is too timid for final comittment; yet he loves her very much.
If the guy no gree ask, the woman fit  ask
else some affairs will be stuck in limbo. Guy no ask question, woman no fit reply 

i strongly disagree.  why 35? should be learnt earlier. it is not about being timid but asking for what you want and i think women are better @ asking or making suggestions

Iyke4Real:
Please let us stop deceiving ourselves.There is nowhere in this planet where a woman or a lady proposes to a man.The fact remains that anyman it is not possible.

i take that as a joke

ninmsy:
I cried when i heard this song on Nigezie today for the first time! God bless TY Bello. To think i am from Kori state and never heard of Mama and her Orphanage, i feel so ashamed but i have decided to get in touch with Ty and see how i can help in my own lil way.

please when you get the details of this lady could you kindly update this link. i am interested https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=178760.msg3343996#msg3343996

thanks

about time too. some naija higher institutions are mostly brothels and nothing more

TINAOGE:
I will not sleep with any boss to secure my job. I had the experience before I got married but I have to lose my job because I cannot see myself sleeping with my boss all in the name of keeping my job. I have to protect my dignity.

thank God for you. sadly for everyone of you saying no to this kind of evil there are many more saying yes including married women. it is a buyers market out there and we all know naija man has no shame when it comes to pursuing skirts

ask4double:
even though they say times are changing evil is evil nd good is good.

absolutely

God help us from the judge not brigade

agu. wanyo wanyo o biko

Ben20001:
@topic

by her husbands desire

so if her husband is a pervert or a lunatic she should dress by that standard.

Eteri:
Please dont the guy will feel too important.
tried it on a guy and at the end it was as if i was forcing myself on him,
cos i found out that i was the one doing the calling or trying to create an avenue for us to see,
at the end when i finally decided to let everything go,
guess what happen
but it was already 2late my mind had already been made up.

because it didnt work with one misguided person it wont work with others.  this is serious thinking.
what is wrong with someone feeling important?

Omolola1:
i dont see anything wrong in a lady making the first move, there is a way one can do it that the guy would not get the picture quickly. It needs wisdom.

thanks. some people talk like some things are written in stones

beecrofty:
A WIFE should dress like a WIFE and a HOE would always dress like a HOE, no matter how hard you try to change her,

SeanT21:
eeeeeew!!!

She is a fool for wearing that!!

seconded

something is not right here

did this guy die there?

ariblaze:
talk about doing the balancing act

balancing act indeed. i had a very dear friend my mrs said she was not very comfortable having around me. part of the responsibility we owe our partners is making them comfortable in their own environment so i let him go. painful yes but how much is your relationship worth to you?

Hotstepper:
I am back from Nigeria where I spent my xmas hols. I accomplished a lot of things while there and one being able to deliver my NGO project to the Primary School in Surulere. Thisday Newspaper covered the event and it appeared on their newspaper on da 6th of December. The publication can be found at http://odili.net/news/source/2008/dec/6/210.html

I will post some pixs soon. visit our website at www.beaminc.org for more info. about the organization or if you want ot make a donation.

Thank you

welcome back and thanks for all you did that was very nice of you

olanajim:
Jealousy na!

na wao

wbb

there is a similiar thread i saw yesterday. why do some women find pleasure in tormenting other young women? most people forget they will need the man's family on their side when when he starts misbehaving. i just pity the future some people build for themselves and children

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just leave better as you have other people to stay with

would u like to quit from her personally?n do you consider your hubby to be a good judge of character? if you answer yes to both then let her go. i would think your marraige is worth protecting

Sisi Jinx:
He said Teenagers. . . 19 yrs old the mother of TEENAGERS!!

thank you my dear. i trust you to always bail me out.

i cant remember the title of one they showed 2 different expensive family homes. one had a scene of someone sleeping on the same bed with same blanket after they have shown 10yrs later. the other had same furniture same flowers and wall calendar after 10yrs.
to crown it up yesternight they couldnt bother covering pillows showing the name of a hotel on okpanam road, asaba. imagine being asked why nigerian hotels write names on pillows because of nollywood.

it is good they make you laugh but my fear is they are giving our country a very bad name.

ibkaye:
Some guys will definately take advantage of girls if they were to propose to them, 'some' I said

you will always find some people take advantage in every area of life

still no sleeping open eye o, open eye?