₦airaland Forum

Duduknight:
"We don't attend the same church" is a lame excuse to break up with someone. If a guy treats a girl badly (by not doing all or most of the 24 things listed above), she is more likely to rely on those reasons than the lame church excuse. When someone (and this includes guys) gives a lame excuse for breaking up with their partner, there is an implicit assumption that they are being treated nicely. And as nice as those 24 things are, only a robot would remember to do all 24 things all the time. That is not possible in the real world.

Taken:
Word, you tame your man - lol.  What you had/have is conditional, step beyond your boundaries and see what a man is made up of.  Can you tame a lion?
Talk, Talk, Talk. Let a man be in control of himself and let us see if one of you will tame such or manipulate such.

From the beginning of time, it appears that some women find it pleasurable to bring down a man - lol <Tick Tock, his head is under her pillow>

Nevertheless, I give it to women that through them their men became something in life, through them their men never gave up, and through them great men and women were brought forth into being.

Anyway, any man anywhere is romantic and it all depends on the way you described it.  If not for Hollywood that uses classical conditioning to brainwashed mankind,
yall will not be talking about what is romantic or not.   

I wonder if the next question is, can Nigerian men have sex!

larez:
Based on the issues raised, I will work on my interpretation of Nigerian Architecture. Damn generator has messed up my work-station, despite the fact that it runs through a voltage regulator and UPS. I now need a replacement graphics engine. However, when I get it back up and running, I will seek your comments on the product that i come up with.

To all the others who passed comments on this thread, i thank you very much for your encouragement. My background includes designs for many notables in the U.S. As a matter of fact, the home that Lisa (Left-eye) Lopez burnt down was my design that Andre Rison bought. Funny thing was that they were hanging out with me on that fateful night before they got into an argument after I left them at Club 112. A few others that I have designed for include L.A. Reid (president Sony records), Donnell Jones, Babyface, One of the Criss-cross guys, and many other Football and Basket ball stars. (A whole lot of them).  I am currently very interested in doing Marine communities in Nigeria such as in the attached pictures. My dream home is the fourth attached one. Thanks for your contributions and keep them coming.

tiniyata:
What if i buy dis car today,n rapture takes place tomorrow,will God allow me to take d car to leaven? After spendin dis much money #68million

redsun:
This is what inevitably corruption breeds,chaos,break down of law and order due to the highest amount of injustices and moral decadence.

The blood sucking gangstars that shouldd be shot are the politicians.Moreover,it is just car theft,not even jacking.

sojioguns:
@poster, Firstly I want to say thumbs up for even thinking outside the box. I am not much of an architect but your designs are fantastic and got me sold out. Why are people so concerned about the climate when people that can afford such houses would probably have secondary sources of power (standby generator and co). What I would advise is just make the ventilation adequate and make sure that all the materials required are readily available locally.
Well done bro.

gidig:
@poster,

It all depends on your audience. In the Lagos area alone, there are various housing needs and diferent audience. The varuious response you havev received here are areflection of that. Just know your market. The guy who managed to buy a plot of land in Akowonjo may not go for your design but the guy who paid 850million for a plot of land on Banana Island may look forward to working withn you. You will not apeal to everybody! That is a fact. You have a huge market i NIgeria and in the corporate world.

Our company has produced print communication for estate company in the past and I have a fair idea what the marketing end is like. You are in the business of construction. Your risks are limited. You are not selling. package yourself and know your audience. It is all about positioning. When next yopu come to Naija, drive around IKoyi, where I think your audience will be. Maybe a few in Lekki but mainly Ikoyi and other location as decied by the client. I know one guy who brought in someone from Italay just to work his marbles. another example: there is a land in Banana island that the seller is asking 1.2billion for. A company has offered 850 million and he is not shifting ground. My point: You will get your own audience. plan your sntrance strategy right and you are in!

you could get in touch for more discussions. The beginning may be tough but you just need one breakthrough and you are in. Trust me on that!

hajifaty:
absolute rubbish. there is unemployment world wide how does getting national cake equals taking peoples money by force. these kids are 19 for goodness sake. are you a robber also?

@JJYOU,
I guess u are one of the political bad eggs in naijai. You might belong to the political associates that always walk away from the true feellings of the civilians. We all know taking other pple properties through force is generally wrong. But what the things that the govt have put in place for it citizen. Why is it that naija is well known for yahoo yahoo and other scam activities? Since our indepence,what have we achived as a national? Crime is everywhere but our govt have alot to offer it citizen.
Hardship is not a good thing and no one will ever pray for it. If you do not have the fear of God you will act illegally. that is why most of us go beyond our shore to look for a better life.
The govt needs to rehabilitate these guys becos they are too young. There are many pple which dreams have been killed becos of bad leaderships.

nice try. there is always a first. never been called an egg before let alone a bad one. you didnt need to go away. please come back and join the robbery squad or set up your own. your level of tolerance for this kind of wickedness like the average nigerian has makes our leaders the rogues they are. they are all picked from within nigeria. if you meet them on a one to one they will tell you they loot because they see poverty and want out. how cute is that?

o by the way there are loads of places in this world worse than nigeria. we dont all have to turn armed robbers. what does a 19yrs need all these hundred of thousands of naira for? buy more recharge cards and sleep with some misguided girls. is it worth it in your books.

earTHMama:
There is no limit to what igbos can do. when I saw the headline of this story, i knew she must be igbo. Only an igbo grandmother fit do that kin thing. May be her father is Fulani like Ifygurl.

hajifaty:
SSS 3 student leads robbery gang, alleges unfair distribution of wealth
By Sesan Olufowobi
Published: Saturday, 17 Jan 2009
An SSS 3 student of Falomo High School, Ikoyi, Lagos arrested for armed robbery has claimed he was fighting against unequal distribution of wealth. Nineteen year-old Victor Joseph said he decided to form a robbery gang because he discovered that the nation’s wealth was concentrated in few hands. Unlike the legendary Robin Hood, however, Joseph would rather use the wealth for himself.
More on http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art200901170461259
See what the bad govt has turn the citizen to. The guy is trying to get his share of the national cake.

Sapphic:
'Fraid so mate.

I am just shocked that in typical Naija fashion, men abrogate all duties to do with bringing up the brats.

Sisi Jinx:
That was Baby Jinx!! Heheheheheheh

It is the mother's fault. . . Oh come on! That is a cop out if I've ever heard one.

Tell me, how do you suppose the little boy in this scenario will grow up?

On one hand, He watches his dad happily exert his "Authority" over momma, on the other. . . he listens to his mom tell him women are equal, treat them with respect and blah, blah, blah.

Please, I ask you which one of the lessons do you think will take?

As much as we'd like to spin this and place the blame on the mothers, most guys want to be like their fathers. . . it is monkey do what monkey see. In conclusion the ball is back in your court

**osisi:
maybe na ashawo sef
this kain 419 grandma
how many Igbos are named Binta Mohammed

Sisi Jinx:
EXACTLY Ruby, the women try. Most women give up when they don't get anything back, that's why we have many taking a page out of a man's book and going "Oh I will do the this, this and that you want from me but I want to do it in a absolutely, ridiculously expensive environment"

Trade by barter n'yaju ni.

This is why poor men get no loving. He is poor and he still wants to exert "manly Authori-tay".

It's like. . . Ayiiiiin? how does he want it?!!

HeatFusion:
Atleast the women try.
calling you guys "oga" and all those bullshit, just to make y'all happy. shior

KarmaMod:
Lmao

You'd think with how strict Singapore is with other countries eg caning a stupid America for graffiti and what nt, you'd figure these people will stop trying to traffick in that place.

2nd Nigerian to die there in 2 years.

spoilt:
Aaahh! Those guys that only take you out at night and keep you out so late that you cannot go home.  . They only call you to come over at night after they have spent their whole day doing other stuff and hanging out with other people.

They cant help you out when you are in need

. You know them. You cant change anything about the relationship. Just call it quits today.

HeatFusion:
Long story short, romance is not in most naija men's dictionary

**osisi:
Not again!
See how unemployment is leading our young men to crime.
Shame on that soured moi moi called Nigeria.

tope2000:
There is no man that cant be handled if you REALLY know him well
I have always liked the idea of marrying some1 that we can both build our lives n careers together
Im not really into ready-made rich guys cuz u'll never know how to handle men like that

tope2000:
Why thank u
Mama didnt raise no fool

tope2000:
Dead!!!!!!!!!

Missy B:
How irritating!!!
I think you should also make him understand ''love isn't bedroom things''.
B.T.W. I Likie your profile picture and its caution under.

Tgirl4real:
Being single comes with a lot of challenges too. I know most women that will advocate for it may be cos of submission / commitment problem. Many of us love to be independent.


I will welcome marriage anytym any day, but considering the emotional stress, i'm tempted to chicken out. :-D

Busy_body:
The hard work that I have to practise would only be worth it for the reason highlighted above only