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The worst is that scammers are now disguising as loan app agents to defraud people in the name of being contacts to someone owing them.


Na to track all these Nigerians those Chinese companies are using as agents to send those nasty messages and deal seriously with them.

Grandmasteer:
it would be that the man and the women may have some misunderstanding before and this charger of a thing escalated everything... but it's really wrong to beat a woman , woman don't have the power to physically challenge a man even if she hits the gym daily.. it's better the man goes out or cool off at the corner of the room than to attack a woman

Desist from making too much assumptions and generalization! There are women who are physically stronger than some men. If you have not seen it, I have. Your assumption is the reason those men who are victims of DV fail to report their ordeal.

Nothing is cast in iron in this life!

Just 7years for destroying other people's lives and sending some to their early graves Little wonder drug related crimes are on the rise in Nigeria!

The only difference between Chidinma Ojukwu and drug barons is just that while the former killed instantly, the later kill gradually.

Our judges need to take crash courses on health and social effects of drug abuse.

The reason why lala moves snake topics to FP is because like myself, he has phobia for snakes.

AntiWailer:
There is.. This is the surest scientific way.

It would be done via IVF and can be done in a Nigeria Fertility Clinic but after the first stage which is fertilisation, they will fly the embryo out of the country to separate the male and the female embryos. (No hospital in Nigeria have this equipment as at today.)

Any Nigerian hospital wey claim they can identify it na Fraud. They will not identify anything and transfer water inside u ( You are aware that IVF na 50/50 right ?) You will never know if they identified anything successfully !

After identification, They will transfer only the male embryo to your womb. Una go paaaayyy oooooo

I hope pepper rest and una get money for the Male Child to come and inherit ? He will be spending part of it right now. Also, it is rude to be poor and still be selecting for God.


..... forget all the other rubbish people are typing. if you try am, you go born 20 girls & nothing go happen.

Also educate your illiterate husbands that HE is the one that carries X / Y chromosomes and having a boy is majorly dependent on him and not you


Food For Thought !!,
People prefer male but na the girl go take care of una when u are down with stroke during Old Age,

When the boy's wife find u people irritating, the girls will take care of u.

When you leave her plenty siblings and die prematurely, she will prostitute (Look for a man to support him) to take care of her siblings.

When her husband comes home, una go bill him more than her brother.

You want boy, you want boy. when the guy break through, his wife and the wife's family go enjoy plenty before dem remember u. (Confirm from people who don marry not all these boys wey no get bearing of their lives yet.)

It is good to desire whatever u want but this girl and boy offspring thing is not properly thought through.

As a guy, God knows my preference is to have just girls and enjoy my old age with them. When they marry, their husbands will become my Sons.

Although the man carries XY chromosomes, the female's body mostly determines which of the chromosomes succeeds in fertilizing her eggs.
Except in rare cases where some males are genetically engineered to produce mostly the X chromosome (just like some are engineered to produce mostly Y chromosome), the female's body largely determines sex of fetus.

Please, what right does Benin republic have to arrest and prosecute Sunday Igboho? When the alleged offence was committed in Nigeria?

I'll like someone who is informed on international laws to enlighten me on this.

What a heartbreaking experience! Take heart bro and may his soul continue to rest in peace...Amen

Okuda:
i am not a religious zealot. Far away from that. What is sexual incompatibility abeg?

Sexual incompatibility is a situation where couples do not find sexual fulfillment from their partners. It could be the man or the woman. Example is a lady with a huge sexual appetite (aka nymphomaniac) getting married to a man with little sexual appetite. In such situations, the woman tends to find satisfaction by engaging in extramarital affairs.

Okuda:
This is pure bullshit. I dont know your religion but I am sure whichever you belong to, sex before marriage is prohibited. That is why both of you have forever to learn eachother and sync. somteimes the syncing does not come at the beginning but as times goes by, it must surely come. This is pure deception by devil to make people think that two people must sexually sync before they get married. God wey create prick and toto no be mumu.

Would you religious zealots allow someone to divorce on account of sexual incompatibility? Of course we know you won't. You'll rather start telling us how sex is not food and other bullshit while the couple are left to find fulfillment outside. Nonsense and ingredients!

It's not easy being a lecturer o! Academic work is not a joke tbh. I came to know this during my undergraduate research project. Unlike during my first degree, I was given a more robust research topic to work on. So many tests lasting for months. So many write ups, mehn! I was now asking myself, if Pharm.D research is like this, how would a PhD be Thank God it ended successfully.

I beg all the people involved to please pay our lecturers well o! It's not easy o

Me I believe that after every electioneering contests, all parties should sheet their swords when one party has been elected, especially after the supreme court has ruled in favour of the winner.

However, if the land was fraudulently acquired, then the revocation was in order.

profilemessages:
you have not witnessed

seeing big bumbums everyday on the road, nude girls with big breasts, and your diick almost tearing off from your trousers



why do you think many masturbate several times before going out?


and you go and meet her say toast her, SHE WILL CRY NO like gutter dey your body


you dont know how it feels being made jest of by all,the ladies in your compound


men are facing hell oh


we arent celebrated like women are


and so on and so on

Honestly this is true! Nigerian girls will be assaulting you with their sexy asses and chests, but the moment you walk up to them to demand for that which they've been throwing to your face, they'll start making shakara. Sometimes I feel that they do it deliberately. They go out everyday with the intention of getting as many d1ckks as possible aroused and having men battling with embarrassing hard sticks. Daughters of Jezebel

Me I believe that before I marry any girl, we must be sexually in sync. I must be so free with her to the point that she would have known all my sexual psychology while I know hers.

Marrying someone you're not sexually compatible with is a recipe for disaster.

LikeAking:
Op abeg take down this post.

What about the sucessful African Americans and the hard working ones?

We must learn to only see positivity in this life.

Its easy to be negetive.

Focus on the positive side.

AA are great people.

The privileges enjoyed by Nigerian in the USA was created by them.

They fought for the freedom of the black man in the USA.


But most Nigerians are just too narrow minded, so they cantt see.

You're very correct. Don't mind the op and his likes. The African Americans are great people and I love them for the sacrifices they made for liberation of the black man.

The day I gave up on women was the day a lady said that SHE CAN NEVER GET MARRIED TO A GUY WHO DOESN'T SMOKE WEED. Just imagine that!

The same lady will go ahead and marry a tout and when she starts getting the thug treatment she'll want me to pity her. Nonsense!!!

All of you insulting the guy should cut him some slacks biko. The lady simply got what she deserved!

FutureIsFemale:
Dear women, invest in yourselves. Forget these chameleons who keep changing every second. They don't worth it.

Please permit me to say this. Men are very wicked. They are ready to waste your life. Imagine marrying a lady just for clout. You care not about her emotions and her biological clock. Very selfish lots.
A man would date a lady for years.. Pinning her down with fake marriage promises. Deep down he knows he won't marry her yet he will chose to tie her down.
My God will continue to punish every male child that has ever promised a lady marriage and dump her for another woman.

Time is the only resource that can't be recovered. Men know this. And they are fully aware of a woman's clock. Yet they chose to waste women's time. My God will judge them.
If not for Biblical purpose, I see no reason I should get married. These men don't deserve it.

It's different if you are planning on marrying a girl and something serious like health challenge happens and you later cancel your plans.
Why keep a woman in your custody for years when you know you won't marry her? What's the sense in it?
God will punish you all marriage-promise-breakers. It will not be well with you all.

I am not even reacting to the thread base on the subject matter. I am reacting to the thread base on how men waste women's time all in the name of marriage. God will punish them.
And point of correction. I am not on NL for likes. If I wanted likes I would say sweet words about men. To hell with NL likes. I am here as a voice for women.

When would you ladies start taking responsibility for your actions Always blaming men but never themselves! Are you all babies Two grown adults agreed to be in relationship for many years, only for one to start blaming the other when the relationship crashes.

If a man promises you marriage, give him a deadline to come marry you and if he fails, walk away!

Obakashdee:
50k is too small then.

That 50k is some people's salary in this same country and they make do with it for food and other expenses, yet the lady in this post can't manage 50k just for food ingredients.

She is a greedy asz lady who probably want to start sending his hard earned money to her parents.

Mobikay101:
Go and kill him stupid.

F00l. He's getting killed or at least a life imprisonment. He's not in Nigeria where illiterates like you see drugs as other articles of trade despite your abysmally low life expectancy.
He's in a country where majority of the people understand the dangers of drugs and the harms drugs can cause to a society. So, I'm sure he'll be severely punished!

Kill the idiot abeg!

If na me ehn(God forbid sha say I live that kind life), I go damn the consequences and get those guys arrested. Nonsense! Who never knack before


I know say the story na lie sha

crazymommy:
You cannot enjoy what you hate....if they enjoy his dick then it means they like the dick.....

Only the money and d1ck attract and keep them to the men. That is why when the man becomes old and his d1ck loses its strength, their wives start jumping from one d1ck to another. Also, if the man loses his wealth to life circumstances, they start treating him like trash and may even abandon him. Is that your definition of love?

pocohantas:
I am not looking for, I have one.

You are not a rich man, how exactly did you convince yourself you know what they want?

Egbe! You have one as sugar daddy shey?

Because I mingle with many rich men

crazymommy:
Pro-female...she wants the best for her gender...does not mean she hates the other gender...who will not like a sweet dick??lol

That's also what those that identify with feminism claim. They claim that they don't hate men, but deep in their hearts they hate men. They extort his hard earned money and still enjoy his d1ck at the same time.

crazymommy:
I have been on nairaland for more than six years.....trust me she never claimed to be a feminist....but many people from past till now misinterpret her opinion.....I am not trying to side her but I am just stating my observation about her..

She just referred to her own feminism as being "pro females".

pocohantas:
I can’t even remember telling any single one of you that I am a feminist, but yes, I love rich men. I have never denied that.

Whatever I am is more than feminist. I am simply pro-female and very indifferent to 99% of men and that shouldn’t be a problem.

Mama de mama!
Continue looking for rich men o. I just hope you possess those attributes that rich men desire. No real Nigerian rich man will accept a lady who is "pro females'' like you chose to call your own brand of feminism. Rich men also marry younger and fresher girls who are still intact down there with standing breasts on her chest. Hope you possess all the above? If you do, then good luck in your search for rich men!

Juliusmomoh:
One thing is that, being a feminist you can't cheat nature... Feminist movement is not a legal movement as far as human being is concern. ...
So you are even proud of being a "Nairaland standard feminist" . Common dear safe yourself the stress... Lol. So men don teach una strong thing? Haha

Pocohantas is a pseudo feminist like many other nairaland ladies. They only claim feminists here to make themselves feel good.
But once they see a man with wealth, they readily accept to even become his slave. Money conquers nairaland pseudo feminists

No wonder the living faith pastors in my area have intensified sharing of fliers inviting new members.

They can only deceive gullible Nigerians, not me! Any day I see myself in any penteRascals church, then I'll know that it is finished!

phazotron:
Jumping into conclusion na your talent

Apparently, you can't read correctly.

What you wrote was clearly understood, don't try to shift the goal post.

phazotron:
You think I'm talking about sex

Why jump into retarded conclusion?

I'm a virgin and I'm not interested in sex before marriage.

If I want premarital sex I don't need to be in a relationship to get it

I'm just stating a fact of life.

A lot of time the ones we love aka "close to us" don't value us. Sometimes it takes an outsider to show us our true value

It is very important for men to find a girl who loves them more. Except maybe with the exception of fundamental red flags in her character okay you can
run.

If ur woman loves you your relationship marriage and life go easy.

Love can be built over time.

You don't know what you have until it's gone.

It's ops life. He can do what he wants anyway. I'm just stating my opinion.

What if the guy doesn't love her as well Should he force himself to be with her just because she's infatuated with him Some of you don't know what love is, that is why you readily concluded that a lady who's merely infatuated with him is in love.

Btw, what the bible said is "Men love your wives as Christ loves the church" while women should respect and submit to their husbands.

phazotron:
Some have food but cannot eat

Some can eat but have no food

It is well

When they show love una go say dem dey disturb

Na when una jam the wicked ones una go appreciate

Everybody is not as sex starved as you lots asking for her number here.

Op, you're a real guy, not all these boys that must stoop to any class of girls just to fucck.

Just block the girl and if she tries to call you with another number, once you hear her voice, cut the call. By the time you do it three times, she'll get the message.

GloryAhead:
Not absolute... there are many things ur spouse can do for u, and those mentioned wouldn't fit in....

Absolutely nothing!

Aside sexx which is mutually enjoyed, there's nothing else a woman can offer a man which he can't get from other people.

luvmijeje:
I strongly disagreed. Marriage doesn't benefit women more. Women are slaves inside marriage. They cook, clean, massage your ego and you get to Bleep them anyhow and anytime. On top how much? I praise women who are accepting rubbish all in the name of marriage

Get to fucck them anyhow anytime So, she too doesn't enjoy the sex Yet married ladies complain when their men cannot satisfy them sexually Can you marry an impotent man I know the answer a no because you too like other ladies want to enjoy sexcs, yet you make it look like the sex is only enjoyed by the man.