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Never!


I'll never settle for less when I can get a whole package

It's good that he had this experience now so that he would understand how selfish and cold women can be when dealing with men.

This is why men should stop pitying women in matters of love relationships nor settle for less when choosing a mate. No lady would be with you if you don't meet all her selfish expectations, yet some guys allow themselves to get guilt tripped into settling for lesser women.

OvertheTop:
He Feels Life has passed him by....
buts its not his wife's Fault....He Should have Taken time out to Flex before settling....

He don enter this One....there is nothin he can do...especially if the Wife is well-behaved.

on a lighter note: You have Lost your Bachelors Degree.....and Your Wife has gotten her Masters Degree over u.....

There's really nothing fantastic about living such lifestyle he is craving for. I mean, the life of partying, clubbing and flexing different women. Many of us who had a taste of such life are even grateful to God that we were able to retrace our steps on time. Some people were not so lucky as they got struck by the so many negatives of such lifestyle.

The best thing anyone can do for themselves to live long and good is to live chaste. There are better ways the op can have fun without doing what he is proposing.

My brother let me advise you like someone who has experienced the so called "fun" in partying and clubbing lifestyles.

There's no fun in such places you are looking at. You'll only end up complicating your life and putting yourself into financial, health and security risks. Don't start a bad life you were not cut out for ab initio! It ends in regrets!! I don't know how else to stress this so you can understand.

Meanwhile, since you were not even like in a relationship with your wife at the time she was living such lifestyle, why are you angry about it now? Not like she was cheating on you or something.

Some of you don't seem to understand that there are some men whose fetish is to have their wives cheat on them. They're called cuckolds and many of them abound in this modern tech era. I think the guy in question falls in that category.

Fetishism is a serious psychological problem that only the grace of God can save one from. Sha many of us in this part of the world underplay psychological issues and that is why we act and react in ignorance when such issues arise.

The guy is clearly having fun from his wife's sexcapades and only when he is willing to (if ever he will) that he can start seeing the cheating as a problem.

He is such a SIMPle man

I liked your profile photo.

Pls don't harm yourself because of what haters might have been telling you about your looks.

Be good with yourself, OK.

Iyaebe:
Amen,it came as a shock sha.

It's really shocking, honestly!

This life is just so meaningless

Iyaebe:
Yes she's dead

Chai! That's too bad!

May God rest her soul in perfect peace... Amen

TheWolfen:
So I heard o.
It happen last February

Oh my God! That's really heartbreaking

She was one of the ladies I respect in this forum. And no one mentioned it here before now!

May her soul rest in perfect peace... Amen

TheWolfen:
how time flies

RIP to her

Please, is Victorian dead Tell me it's not true!

Iyaebe:
Read his post again, he stated it there that she unfortunately passed on before their agreed time

What are you people even implying here That Victorian is no more I don't get it

Fejimummy:
Until it's time for your kids to start bringing homework then you would understand. PTA meeting your wife will be looking like a bowl of ogi because she can't express herself .... I've seen things like this happen to some mothers I feel pity for them

I can do homework and attend PTA meetings by myself!

I like the fact that she is still strong despite all the backlashes from Nigerian hypocritical public who would rather get her depressed and suicidal over a sin all of them commit.
And when she commits suicide due to depression, the same Nigerians would still condemn her and tell us how "suicide is not an option".

Kudos to her!

Fejimummy:
Like my brother who is addicted to this blog woke up one day and started saying that he can't marry a graduate... The worse part be say me his only sister is a master's degree holder and is also married. I just told him that he has let faceless people to mess his head up

Your brother is on point though.

Personally, I may never marry a lady graduate even if I end up studying up to PhD level. It adds nothing but troubles to a man's life. But to marry an illiterate, domesticated, sexually attractive and submissive lady than the so called graduates with their baggage and wahala from too many ex bfs

neyoohhh:
How do you know he's doing worse if you can't prove it?

But if you are daft enough to be doing stupid moronic stuff and posting it , then expect to be judged.

When you say don't judge, what it means it let people act as stoopid as possible without judgement .

You're giving bad behaviour a pass.

You're evil. It's that simple.

I would have engaged you in further arguments on this topic, but haven read your previous gibberish on the subject matter, I can only concluded that you're a bitter soul who's probably nursing some kind of bitter experience--all be it, in the wrong way.

So, go on and cry your cry.

Sebastine1994:
I thought this man had sense but now I know,


He should allow that his daughter shoot a porn video for the internet

This is Nigeria and not America or Brazil, we have culture here, we have social norms here, must we copy the white man in everything, where is our individually then?

Would you still respect the president if you are his nude. That why we call it private part.


Islam may be bad but it has its advantages, they have a lot of lose women in Islam but at least they have shame and consider their society

Tiwa seem kind of proud that she did something against society norm, if she had claimed she was hacked, it would have been a better story , rather than this proud tale you are feeding us with.

If we don't condemn evil, then we are normalizing evil.

Nobody holy pass, but at least society has set a moral standard, a useless role model like tiwa should not be the first to mess up.

Just imagine what Nigeria will be without law, society needs unwritten norms, we have each other to remind us not to break those taboo

Your condemnation will only be justified if you're pure, and those of us that understand the nature of humans and the spiritual realm, know that only the Divine purity is a pure being! That is why your holy book admonishes that you do not judge lest you get judged.

You cannot be doing the worse in your closet and then turn yourself a judge in another's error.

Maybe his first experience. It's normal the first time but abnormal if repeated.


You'll know that you're emotionally mature when you can ditch a girl you once loved like a boss!

I pity her sha, but I wonder the kind of demon that possess people to the point of recording their sex acts.

Hope others would learn from her mistake

TheGidRedpiller:
Anticipate 1st Of November!!
Something Big Is Launching From TheGidRedpiller!

I can't wait for that 1st of November, bro. It seems we'll finally destroy these bittches that day.

I stand gidigba for your back bros

Some guys are SIMPlified cuckolds so I won't be surprised if the Janemena husband doesn't send her away. He might enjoy watching his wife hammered by another man.


Tueh!

Because marriage is a grand scam against men

This one has been deceived into marriage and its miserable life! Pele o

Godada:
I have studied the laws of power, the art of seduction, the laws of human nature, the prince, the 33 strategies of war, the book of the courtier, 50th law, the art of war, the game people play, the rules of the game, the truth, the hard things about human, casanova.......


Lots of books basically on power, seduction and war.....


Yeah, I am a voracious reader with an insatiable appetite.


The thing is I still don't get this hate guys advertise here on public space for women.


Yeah, it's fine if you wanna turn the game on its head but stop this sick campaign of hate against women.


It's just myopic and devoid of tactics and strategies

A simp spotted!

We are gonna hate women and advertise hating women because women of this generation are so fuccking selfish and annoying!
What has the world not given to women in terms of employment opportunities, political emancipation et al, yet all those couldn't stop them from ripping off men!

It's either they accept to go back to the era where they stayed home in the kitchen and be good wives while the men get all the employment( like the Taliban is enforcing in Afghanistan) or they stop fleecing men of their scarce resources. If not, the hate for women would continue to grow. You can't have equal opportunities with men(sometimes even more) and continue to fleece us! Men would become extinct if that trend continues!

bepositive11:
You know what? Humans are emotional beings. However much you try to deny it, humans can never be happy without relationships. Romantic relationships are just one kind of the many relationships humans need to lead a fulfilling life. By not having romantic relationships, you're depriving yourself from experiencing one of the beauties of life

One way to avoid heartbreak from women is to close up oneself like you have done. Another way is to become so strong and secure in yourself that no one can deeply hurt you

The problem with a lot of red pillers is they don't own responsibility for the part they play.

I always say this. Toxic men attract toxic women. If you attract toxic women, do some self reflection and figure out what you're doing wrong to attract and be attracted to these women

Romantic relationship is a burden as a matter of fact. Many people just go into it because others are doing it and to be considered socially inline.

Good guys actually attract toxic women and vice versa. That's how it goes in most cases.

Ndidi2:
is bc mostly m with them.
Men can't baby-sit.
They love their dad too
Just dat he is not always around but makes it up for us.



Ok born one and adopt one.

When u marry
u will be more stable..
God go bring u a good wife.( My prayer and wish for u).
U go see am.

Yours might be different but I know that in most homes, children give all the love to their mother from childhood to adulthood. At old age, they take care of their mother more than their dad.
We've seen scenarios where the mother goes visiting her children and when going back home, she is bought all the goodies like clothes, shoes, and even cars while the man gets only snuff.

Your prayer is noted but I seriously doubt the possibility of changing my mind along the way. I doubt

DrFunmisticGlow:
women are not the major beneficiaries of marriage, it's men.

All these XY chromosomes can't even look after themselves. It is proven that marriage increases a man's life expectancy and reduces a woman's.

Proven by who? Marriage kills men faster because they're expected to stick their heads into all manner of danger in order to provide for the woman, their children, his own extended family and even that of his wife. Once a guy gets married he loses his freedom. His wife would now compound his woes with nagging, infidelity and sometimes even physical violence.

Ndidi2:
it benefits men..
When u see a woman who genuinely love u,u will know that love is a mystery..
Not all women are bad or materialistic.
Good one Dee
I pray u find one by miracle..
Amen.
Even na one born.
The happiness of having a child is priceless.

I have 2 boys
Last night while in my room the younger one brought water." Mum l know u might need water.
Later when NEPA took light l said l want to bath ah no hot water
The first son said mummy l boiled water for u.
To me those little things is what makes life sweet.

From your naration alone, one can see that women are mostly the beneficiaries of marriage. The children show them all the love while the man is left on his own.

Because I love children, I may consider adoption or I'll just be visiting orphanages to see and play with children. As for marriage, it absolutely adds no benefit to a man.

Fiscus105:
Ordinary female pant, u struggle to see the tip,

.......come here to brag, go and get ur ass balance first, before you venture woman.

Why having heart attack on pusssy u no value?

Mtcheeeeeeww

YelloweWest:
Your mom will leave u.
Your nieces and nephews will find a life of their own.
You be left alone.

I assure you that I'll be fine

Ndidi2:
ok naw
I bet u when time reach urge for marriage will come naturally.
Body go tell u..

You don't even know how old I am. I have seen so many things in this life that I have come to realize that marriage holds no benefit for men.

Hintona:
Your mind is so narrow.

Don't you know what a misanthrope is? Do I have to explain that to you too?

Because his haters posted that about him does not mean that was his personality.

A misanthrope whose laws are guiding principle of so many scientific methods we have today in physics, engineering and even economics/statistics? And who was also elected member of British parliament in his time?? OK o