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nope of course not! the name is quite unique and you quite active and vocal, so i wanted to know if it's the same lady on LIB. would it be okay if i ask for a pic, so i could pin a face to the name?

sapphiere:
Yes sir. Hope no problem.

i personally feels he just wants to let them know how intense and serious he is; and not the usual (AC chilling) conference room where they all sit and think it's business as usual.

what if she doesn't want him to stay far from her? remember she was put in his care and he is liable to care and guide her.....Dude has option out there if he's Hot, the newly married wife doesn't! so when she's hot and Hot, I'm pretty sure you know she only has 2 option, either go out there or get close to her guardian.

Michelle55:
Get her busy and stay far away from her.. We don't want stories of DNA test to arise mbok.
If she learnt a skill, set her up and your friend should be thinking of taking her along asap.

I can see you have a crytal ball at home to have known she was on her own before the dude approached her....bunch of entitled leeches.

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

Bro true talk o! money wey Martins get Burn no fit see am forever.....Martin wey talk say him never touch New castle money, na Inter millan money him still dey spend....Not to talk of Spanish league money, turkey money and MLS money.....omo that dude is a multi billionaire...put some respeck to his name...

DonBenny77:
You made some sense but no talk say burna no fit make pass obafemi for him lifetime.
Difference dey btw old money and new money

Are you the same Sapphiere on Linda's blog?

sapphiere:
Thanks. But don't bother.

yet your bible said God was scared to death when some dumb folks were building a structure that will go up high into heaven.....How many scientist have been to the moon and back? how many scientists have been killed or their rocket blown up by God......Everyday we try to let y'all know your bible was designed by some folks to put fear and control you....

The only way to heal from an ugly event is by engaging in that same event(positively) with someone you love....Start having sex with her and let her see the sweet and romantic side of sex; that way she'll forget her past ugly(sex) experience....constant sex will auto stamp the new sex in her subconscious and gradually erase her past experience..it may sound silly to you, but trust me, it works! ...I personally still don't understand the correlation between having sex now or till after marriage....will after marriage sex make her heal and forget her past experience? Take charge bro and handle your woman with masculine maturity.

Spiritfun:
I have a wonderful relationship with an amazing woman. She's a complete spec of all I ever wanted in a woman. She's extremely beautiful, kind, supportive... She doesn't hesitate to buy me gifts even in her moment of lack.

I'm convinced beyond all doubts that we're SOULMATES. Our love story is very interesting and we're truly in love. Time will fail me to discuss US in this thread.

However, we both agreed mutually to have sex only after we're married but she has a very ugly memory that's hunting and hurting her emotions so much that we really need find a solution to it before it causes us a great damage.

MY FIANCÉE WAS SEXUALLY ABUSED AT A VERY TENDER AGE BY A RELATIVE WHO LIVED WITH THEM. She was molested uncountably by this monter of an Uncle who took advantage of her who found pleasure in defiling a primary school pupil.

I've tried so much to counsel her but somehow, I still believe she's not totally free from that trauma. I was a victim of sexual abuse, as well but I found the courage to heal on time but my Fiancée is still battling with this horrible experience.

I hate to see my woman in pains cos I truly and genuinely love her.

I Need help urgently on how best to help my woman heal from this ugly encounter. Please, anyone with practical experience should advise me on how to handle this situation and save my fiancée from this trauma.

Mods, kindly help me reach a wider audience.

Been looking for the inventor of the word SARCASM your name came up multiple times.

NwaAmaikpe:





This type of well-trained guys are rare.
The type that have been brainwashed to accept the faulty cliché that a real man must never put a lady in her place even when the situation calls for it.

This is the omega-male type that will rather watch a lady stab him than lay a finger on her in self defence.

He should please apologize to her for hiding the knives from her in the heat of her rage.
He should also ask her to forgive him for not giving her his other ear to 'panel-beat'.

He should then take a loan and buy another TV set and IPhone to present to her for destruction as a proof of his repentance.

Every man needs a woman who loves and worships him. One who will never want to share or let them go.
So if an ordinary girlfriend loved him this much to go ballistic just because she found out he was cheating then he needs her in his life as his wife.

She is his wife material and he is our posterboy of a SIMPle mistake of a male.

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Stop misquoting DJ switch...she said 7 to 8 not 78 or 80......Lagosians are fighting for their own course, let Orlu people fight too and hausas fight for the shites that were killed....so because Orlu and shites members are not protesting or fighting for justice for their people automatically invalidates the Lekki protest and protesters in Lagos have no moral right to protest abi? ?

Triangles1:
Again

In as much I don't support this barbaric government I still don't like the way Nigerian Cary this lekki issue.

Orlu killing there's evidence.

Shitte Muslims blocking the convoy, there's evidence.

Other massacre that happened in Nigeria there's evidence.

Numbers of people came out to denounce the killing in lekki, they said they're alive that what we see is just acting it has nothing to do with lekki shooting, and Nigerian mistook it for lekki shooting.

Where is DJ switch? She claimed she saw almost 80 dead body with blood flowing every where.
Let's see the pictures of does who die in lekki or let their family come out to protest.
The IPOBIANS in Delta didn't seek for justice talk less of lekki with no atom of truth.

The mystery behind this lekki is what I don't know, even BBC later came out to apologize.

can you see how messed up your mentality is? Reason there can never be progress in this country; you basically feel a wealthy person cannot or shouldn't fight for the poor (selflessly) except there is something in for the person? Sunday is smart and wise; he knows the only way everyone can be happy is when you protect and secure the hood.

thebosstrevor1:
HOW WILL A RICH MAN LEAVE HIS PALACE TO GO FIGHT IN THE BUSHES.

SUNDAY IGBOHO IS A BELLY FIGHTER

Well because we all leave everything for God....we hardly take the extra mile and effort to get things done, we always believe some dude in the sky will come to our rescue, reason this country has degenerated...so sad this young lady had to die this way, so so sad. to this state; actions have consequences be it good or bad. people should always be made to face the consequences or their actions.

Lucrativress:
The insecurity in the Country is just too much
It's too much mehnn
Fadeyi to Gbagada
They changed the route,cause they're meant to pass through Costain
It was a One Chance Bus
Just imagine our Country is sane,what happened to collecting fingerprints?
They took her Phone and belongings
Tied her legs,no hussles
Why can't they work on getting the culprit's
Why??
Why can't this be a national case
Why should this slide,why?

hmmmmmmm KIDS!!!! look here son, you dont ask a girl for sex, you make her beg for it! Kiss her, touch her in the most sensitive spots and leave her hanging......go get yourself a side piece and get laid on the steady. Whenever she comes over to your place, touch her and torture her sexually, then sit back and watch what happens......Never beg or chase a girl for sex, real players ATTRACT SEX! Thank me later son.

None of my business......I'm more interested in the thick girl in blue jean.........someone please help get her contact.

Yea right! Ironically, the Scientist that invented all the machines and medical equipment that's available today to cure diseases and perform all these scientific miracles ALL don't believe in God...and it's because of their lack of belief in God that has made them explore all corners and made remarkable breakthroughs in science that has been helping mankind till today...if they were religious, they would have been limited as they would constantly say "this is not of God" "this is like challenging God" hence their reason for not forging further.

Itzmeandu:
You are an athiest
God Almighty is ominiscience.
He is the giver of wisdom. Is not only prayers God manifest his powers. God created mother nature.
So if u don't believe in God, the natural or scientific things will still be working out for you.

Glory still Goes to God

Thank Science, your god and jesus had their eyes opened and created him like that or were they not the ones that created him? But Science is more compassionate and merciful, always correcting the errors of sky daddy and his son..Thank Science and the medical crew that saved the girl from the eternal shame and humiliation your God subjected her to.....

adewumiopeyemi:
Thank you lord you are the king of king


Life changer

Babe calm down jor, what's all these "i want to kill myself" over what? i ask again over what? this is what happens when you add too much importance to sex.....Sex is an act that occurs between two matured adults that finds themselves attractive and interesting.....you invited him over he brought wine, you know you have low tolerance for alcohol, yet took wine, you both got all cozy and romantic, you were probably both naked or in your skimpy sexy underwear, it was a beautiful night and boom! it happened...why would you say he raped you? how can you even ascertain if you gave consent or not? you both were high and lost control of yourselves....babe shit happens and this person in question is your BF, not some random dude.....it has happened, let it fly and move on.....you said you planned on still having sex with him, well let me tell you sumfin about SEX, it's an act that gets induced by whatever and anytime as long as two adults are romantically connected and into each other, you don't PLAN sex!......now you're here screaming RAPE! The only fault i see here is, you are upset he beat you to the stipulated time you set aside for it nuffin more....so why are you mad? Call him, talk it over with him and prolly move on if you don't want the relationship anymore or avoid being in a vulnerable state with him henceforth! But please stop all these "i want to kill myself" " I'm depressed" etc.....My last advice to you and other girls....DO NOT NOT GO INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN ADULT GUY IF YOU DONT WANT SEX! Kindly stay single.....Let's be logical and leave sentiments please...how do you expect a grown ass man that has tasted the sweetness of sex over and over again to consent to " a no sex relationship" if he does, two things are involved....it's either he's getting it out there or has health challenges and can get it up! I detest Rape and i frown completely at it, but please let's not cry RAPE at every sexual scenarios because it didn't FAVOUR us. Relax sweetie you'll be fine, you are just being prepared for the Relationship world...and please dont shut yourself out on men, cos by the time you come back, you become more vulnerable.....THE BEST FORM OF DEFENCE IS TO ATTACK!...all the best dearie....PS; apologies if my words came out a bit harsh..

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

We don't need youths, we need good and selfless leaders that puts the interest of the people first; American Voted Trump and followed by Joe bIden; pretty sure y'all know their ages. incase you guys dont know....PMB, OBJ, Gowon Danjuma all came in as YOUTHS back then; now lets come closer....Amechi, Fashola, Femi Gbaja, Dino, Dimeji Bankole, Adams O, El- Rufai, Rochas, etc are not all up to 60yrs and they have been in government for over 15yrs.......Now deduct 15yrs from their current ages and tell me were they not all youths when they came into power? So my people the answer is not having youths, we need selfless passionate leaders that will move the country forward....

smart dude...those are the kind of speech you make when you have plans to hit back harder; you act calm, don't blame anyone, and make people look elsewhere; then when they least expect, you hit them real HARD!

lol....so you believe that fairytale kiddies story about some skydaddy sending his flying son to appear in the sky and blow trumpet? Just incase you dont know, trumpet was invented by humans and only exist on earth....no trumpet in the sky.....sorry to break your heart.

Righteousness2:
Pigeon Fly or Pigeon no Fly,
What is Most Important is that we as individuals be qualified to Fly at the Blast of the Trumpet..

If you no Fly at the Blast of the Trumpet, Na der Wahala de..

its simple, if you don't want sex, then stay single till you're ready. sex is a natural phenomenon that humans engage in; its nothing evil; note not everyone is a Christian, and the whole "no sex before marriage" is a Christian rule or principle. So as for me a non Christian, sex is fun and can be practiced as long as both parties are old enough for it and consent to it.

see this woman threatening me with no sex? as in SEX! hian sex that i'm running away from, sex that my girls wants to use and kill me......no worry wait I'm coming i will coman wash the toilet..just wait o you hear.

This your logic is pure trash! eg; Driving isn't bad, but driving to cause an accident or to kill someone could get you in jail; so are you saying we shouldn't drive at all? or you'll rather we drive carefully and don't over speed to cause an accident? if you don't understand the word MODERATION then you might want to look it up and get a clear understanding of it.

jesusjnr2020:
If drinking wine/alcohol is not a sin but drunkenness (as a result of drinking wine/alcohol) is a sin as you say, why drink wine at all?

To tempt yourself to see if it would lead you to drunkenness which you call sin?

It might not be a sin but it's obvious that it makes people to be more vulnerable to sin, not just drunkenness but fornication and the likes.

So drinking wine/alcohol is not wise. If you could avoid it, please do, because you could become addicted to it, and when that happens it would be difficult to stop.

God bless.

It's ironic you speak about my logic sounding dumb yet you go on to compare drunkenness with gluttony.

Do you have any idea of how people many people got raped, murdered, sexually abused, molested etc., because of drunkenness?

Maybe you should tell me how many of such atrocities have been perpetrated because of gluttony?

That's why drinking alcohol is not wise even though not a sin, but that's not stopping you or anyone else from drinking if you still want to. It's just an advice. Advice no be curse.

God bless.

The fact that she constantly comes to SM to show her body and talk about her survival, and how much she has stayed strong really depicts a high level of "INFERIORITY COMPLEX" The crash happened over a decade ago, you survived it, others died...you were simply lucky! go live a quiet peaceful life, get a surgery to cover up some scar if you can; we all know no matter how much you pretend or act like you love your body et-all, you would forever miss your old self and looks and wish you could have them back.....so quit all the SM validation you seek every time and just live a quiet normal life.

PS; funny thing is, all these people saying you beautiful, you look good are just trying to pretend and act nice, ask them if they would like to switch their looks and skin for hers and watch them japa.

and said you didnt smoke?

MrRegret:
To all Nigerians and Nairaland, this is my prophesy for 2021.

I did not smoke, drink, I was perfectly ok before going to bed .

I dreamt, in my dream I saw a cloud
From the cloud cometh a great white light no man has seen before and from it a voice sayeth to me, I will not forsake them in 2021.
Listen these words are faithful, true and must come to be.
He said a tribe will do what no tribe has ever done before, and what they did Will shake the earth and give them there freedom, and rest people of Nigeria will be free from this hateful tribe, and all of there problem will be no more
Banditry
Insecurities
Killing s
Corruption
Looting of funds
Cultism
Trafficking

Nigeria will be a Utopia, flowing with milk but not with honey and this new land of this tribe will flow with milk and honey

I saw again another mountain of coins fell and sone rich laughed, but out of mole hile of coins come a great mountain, and many became rich from it and 20 people will be millionaire from just 100 naira

Again he showeth me a boy in the height of a man face of lion, yansh of a woman, skin of a snake and I cried Lord why so many mixture,
He said on the 12 of the 12th month , a new religion will come called CHRISLAM.

And I said Lord, the future is sweet, and ask is this the kingdom ur son said we should pray for,
No my son is just a taste of Love.

bro if you trade fx you'll know it very possible to achieve that with very huge capital...all you need is a trading rule and good risk management....i on the low do 5% ROI monthly for people, if i have mad funds, i can do 10% with ease...catching as little as 10pips daily, you can still achieve that with ease.

jabolo:
He is the guy who has universal secret of how to generate 200% per annum in the forex market (while the most sophisticated currency hedge funds are generating 5% per annum on average).

With this secret, he is not approaching these hedge funds to give him even 1% of their funds under management (still billions of dollars, mind) but he is that benevolent he'd rather invite thousands of *Nigerians (most of them poor) to come and 'invest' their funds with him.

And, ''no, no, no ... it's definitely not a Ponzi Scheme". Just ignore the Ferrari and opulent lifestyle - just trust him, eh?



* As a society, we need our heads examined daily IMO.

Skydaddy was on vacation when the accident happened; but peradventure they survived the crash, his followers will suddenly show up and shower him all the accolades to their (imaginary) skydaddy.....

HitlerGaddafi:
If you ask Christians why their God allowed this to happen to his loyal followers, they'd say .

"There's a reason for everything. It happened for a reason. "

hallelujah, may his name be praised forever....his is the beginning and the end, the God who sees all things before they occur, but sadly he was on vacation when the accident was about to happen, so he didn't know, but yet he takes the glory for some random LUCK that shines on the man and his son....smh

HotPoundedYam:
thank you God for destroying the man's car and giving the child a traumatic experience. thank you for also causing chaos and disrupting economic activities and endangering lives and property of the individuals involved in this accident.

may your name be praised forever. you have manifested your power.

In clear words without unnecessary sentiments and emotions. Tell me WHY DO YOU NEED ACCESS TO HIS PHONE? it's just a simple and direct question.

Cocao:
100%!

If you can share something as intimate as sex, unlocked phone is just a topping. I cannot be with someone that I have no access to his phone.

Yes the rapture has taken place way way back according to Jesus in your bible. Matthew 16:28
"Truly I tell you, some who are standing here will not taste death until they see the Son of Man coming in His kingdom." now that was Jesus addressing the disciples and a couple of other people; now ask yourself, is any of those people Jesus was talking to still ALIVE? even their unborn children's children are all dead and gone.....but some religious blindfolded folks still believes Jesus is still on his way, no wahala make dem dey wait e dey come.

eph12:
Since you know this, then why bother about the chips and mark? Or are you afraid that the rapture has taken place already?

MBA FX promises 15% ROI( though i didnt invest with them) and that's a very reasonable and achievable for any Forex firm with huge capital base. i am a professional FX trader/trainer and i can tell you this for free.

MyGeneration:
Na so e go clear mba forex investors for eye d day e go happen