₦airaland Forum

DannyG8:
My nairalanders people
Is it okay to maintain friendship after breaking up a relationship?
The lady I was dating broke up with me and still wants me to be close to her as always but it's eating me up and I don't know how to handle the situation.

The life of a SIMP

backbencher:
It is a Plateau state related name.

Just as some Tiv people call their daughters a name that rhymes with Doe (the word for a female deer). Means something different in their language. Of coruse, plateau lingo has a different word for what we call in English 'doom'.

Wow, now it makes sense. Thanks for the explanation

Her surname is DOOM?

You were there from 11am to 9pm, a whole 10 hours

Talks don't last that long Mr FFK. Tell us something else please.

adecz:
She better look for solution to
the body odour & smelly mouth.. ☹️☹️☹️

Nothing dey turn guys off like those
two things.❌❌❌

You forgot smelly pussy as well

nonny1212:
I hope it is not ACCESS BANK o

It's UBA

Futureisfemale

Can you guys see why she is always insulting men folk here? It's out of frustration. That's the way a lady behaves when no man wants them

Iyaebe:
And he's supposed to be a redpiller

There is no harm in admiring a wonderful thing God created

Draslo:
I don't know about the other gender but as a guy if when we stay celibate for a while even if na 1 month we be virgins again

Lol

Randy111:
And she is still that ugly.

Exactly. Extremely ugly.

OreoPaschal:
Also, update the misleading topic. The woman is not your Mother in law for now, until you marry the daughter. And if you cannot, take your irresponsibility far away from them. So the damages you have caused can be rectified.

Lol

bjprodint1:
I want to say "no"but i dont know how 2 say it

If you don't learn how to say NO you will have a very miserable life. All successful people learnt to say NO. You should not even open a thread about this. It's just common sense and I believe you have one. Haba.

Futureisfemale will appear in 1,2,3 now to bash the male folks as usual

All this long talk just to indirectly tell us you are broke and hungry and need alms.

Tell this story to kindergarten kids. Your last 1k you gave it to a little girl and you now went home broke and hungry. Story.

Peebaby93:
If your parent had sold you,I'm sure you wouldn't be here having this kind of thought.

Lol

With this kind of thoughts, I think it would buavr been better if the parents had sold him

Kriss216:
I use 12.5kg for three months.

Gas
10k for 3 months

Charcoal
18k for 3 months.

Exactly. Mine lasts almost 4 months because I hardly cook

Witlee1:
Thanks for your indulgence
I have done the introduction, that is bringing my family to show my intentions
This said, tell me how to go about it
Thanks

Bro please go and find out how much the bride price will cost. It's something you can always negotiate with the lady's family. A child is involved, they can't throw you away. Don't listen to other opinions saying the lady has someone else or the mum is pushing someone else on her, those are not true. You brought shame to the family. Go and right your wrong. Cheers bro.

Mariangeles:
What did you do that made the mother stop letting you see the child all of a sudden?
After all, you were allowed before...

Could it because you not only impregnated her daughter, you left the child with her to raise, and still had THE NERVE to still be living and having sex with her daughter with no plans to marry her? I mean, HOW DARE YOU?
Why didn't you take the child to live with you or to your own mother?
It's the audacity of your gross irresponsibility for me!

Exactly what I said. The truth needs to be said and no sugar coating, the dude fvcked up. No matter from which angle we try to look at it.

Like I advised earlier he should man up and do the right thing and stop talking about lack of finance. That's the excuse we guys use when we don't want to commit but still want to be diving into a lady. A child is involved, he should go do a proper introduction and remove the shame from the lady's family.

MufasaLion:
I hate seeing males with nobhaur especially young boys. It makes most of them look ugly especially if they are very dark in complexion.

Very true.

MufasaLion:
Congratulations to them! They should let their son start keeping hair.

The son is probably in a boarding school. During my time you need to see different shapes of skulls in the hostel

Witlee1:
I'll do my investigations but I don't think that's what they want to do
I'll gladly love it if you can tell me how I can go about this if it's true

I see you are still very much in love with the lady and it's not just the child bothering you.

Have you decided she is the one you want to settle down with? If finance is the issue can you do the bare minimum which is to go pay her bride price? I don't think bride price costs that much.

On the other hand, if she has moved on it's time for you to man up and move on too. Be there for your child by always providing upkeep. Cheers.

P/S - you paid for your girlfriends education but you did not see it right to use that money to do a proper introduction at the least to the girl's family ( if you cannot afford the bride price), knowing fully well you already had a kid and how the Nigerian society frowns at families of ladies that give birth outside wedlock? You need to do a sober reflection bro. Doing the right thing doesn't have to cost an arm and foot. Cheers.

pocohantas:
You don’t want to marry the girl due to the harsh economy.

You and the girl were living together.

You two dropped the child with her mother and continued living together.

You two were busy fcking while the mother was having sleepless nights to raise a child as a result of una orgasm. Not sure of hers sha, but yours is a given.

Yet you want the mother to be happy with you?

Now you gf has gone back to her mum and they have formed a party.

Oga, don’t stress yourself. Pregnancy must not lead to marriage, but it is at least advisable to impregnate someone you can marry, to avoid complicating your life.

Now that it has happened, you need to gather mind. They are trying to use the child to bait you into doing their bidding.

Initiate the NO CONTACT RULE. Don’t pick or call her for 3 months. Within that period, she would most likely contact you. Send child support and say nothing more to her/them.

Water wey hot must cold.

Too much sense will not kill you

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram real matters. WTF MAN

This guy. You smoke weed this early?

DFERENCE:
Other people houses are being destroyed oh but she only mention that of igbo as if there is a form of discrimination, igbos now feel they are selected even if everyone experience it the same, this is just soliciting for cheap sympathy, unfortunate for those who lost their homes, i pray God gives them means, for those who have legal tender, they should sue this government so that they can get compansated then sue for damages again so that atleast we go reduce small out of money they will steal or have stolen.

Don't mind them. Very tribalistic pathetic set of people. They will never do the right thing and when the law catches up with them they start playing the tribal card. Idiots.

nelszx:
Apparently extrajudicial killing.

The cuff on his hands meant he was captured do why kill him? If he had been captured what was the point killing him.

He was probably killed to prevent him spilling the names of some of their (bandits) benefactors and sponsors in government.

Praktikals:
Something happened in year 2015, and you are bringing it to first page in 2021, moderator is high on meth

I guess they are out of news that's why. The forum has gone to shit

Some women can be very ugly when pregnant and this makes them extremely insecure and start getting jealous and suspicious of their husbands every move

rastaLivity:
She was even signaling for the guy not to be allowed to speak, she’s probably scared of something

Yeah I noticed that too.

With maturity you stop giving a fvck about people's opinions. True words.

FutureIsFemale:
I'm not in any relationship currently.

We are not surprised. No sensible man will date you hence your bitterness and hatred towards men

You are too toxic.

FutureIsFemale:
He was drunk. Serves him right.

Meanwhile

I saw a thread where someone said much attention has not been given to the boy child.

I laugh..

Who gives attention to unfruitful tree?

Continue insulting men, we are used to you now

All your insults cannot take away the fact that you are a frustrated bitter soul because no man wants you

Hehehehehhehhehhehehe

maureensylvia:
My son o

So I was busy in the kitchen preparing lunch for the family, I was actually making fried rice with my FOREIGN STANDARD LOCAL RICE

You all know the process it takes to prepare fried rice, I was still cutting the vegetables my son came into the kitchen, you can't imagine what he said

"Mum it's taking you ***24 hours**to prepare this rice, do fast please

I was like whaaaaaat who thought you that weird exaggeration

I just weak
Well,
The rice came out tasty, non soggy, stone free

I like your son. I am like that as well. When I was younger whenever my mum was taking time to prepare very nice meals for us I would just run to the kitchen and tell her to hurry up, don't you know we are hungry mummy. Just give us anything to eat, we cannot wait for this your oyibo food