₦airaland Forum

Just know where you have advantages and leverage that.

I remember that guy that wanted to choose between poultry and japa! I hope he sees this thread and understand how I find the comparison comical.

An eye for an eye.

This is a joke!

Come back home. We don't even touch our salaries here.

APC gives us fresh breakfast every morning. 🤡

This guy is right.

An artist would lose their romance appeal if they disclose their relationship. It's why these Koreans actors never disclose their partners because majority of their fans are in a relationship with them in their minds.

As ridiculous as this is, the one layer of makeup thing is real.

I know ladies who didn't make up or do their best to look good in school then, now they are wearing make-up upandan.

Something is fishy here. In naija, you can't fight big orgs and win. Too bad!

pocohantas:
If rich men take multiple wives, how is that fewer options for women? It is poor men that would be left with little options.

That said, RICH is relative. To some babes, 1kva Senwei generator and Gotv is rich. Some others is 2.5kva with Dstv and Corolla. So, there is a "rich" man for different classes of Nigerian women.

Fewer options because on 2 percent of 70 million bank account owners have more than 500k in their account.

I really hope that reality is how you paint it online, at least, for una sake.

pocohantas:
There is nothing to say the men are extremely broke and the women are hardworking. However, I do agree that the men without means makeup the most reactive men on Nairaland.

This everyday 100k, 200k argument boils down to our economy. In a country where someone saves for a year to buy a used iPhone X with 71% battery life, it is only normal that people think 120k a month on feeding is LUXURY. It is indeed luxury for the majority and majority carries the vote.

As long as the girl doesn't saddle an innocent man with these food bills, she is good to go.

This is why I will always endorse hypergamy. It keeps everyone sane. Especially the man.

The bolded sent me back to primary school.

Hypergamy also means men takes up multiple wives and fewer options for women. We have very few rich men, as oppose to what Twitter may say.

Rich people should marry rich people.

mokwechineme:
Its no longer news that southwest is becoming the poverty capital of the nation. If u go beyond the capital and into the villages of Ogun, Ondo, Osun and most especially Kwara and Ekiti, you will shed tears for the inhabitants of these areas. There u see people eating poverty as food. The worst part is there are very low remittances from family members who have managed to travel outside these areas.
A typical yoruba youth once he managed to leave these areas finds it difficult connecting back to his root. You have lots and lots of these villagers scavenging for food and there is very little to scavenge because the leadership has very minimal presence outside the state capitals

A young yoruba fron Ogun, Ondo etc will arrive Lagos and automatically becomes a Lagos indigene abandoning his root and people back home.

There should be awareness among Yoruba youths to arresting this very ugly trend because parents after struggling to train their kids will be left abandoned by their children

Your head is not correct.

If I get money and someone calls me poor, I go just dey laugh.

Your wife doesn't work, that's why she would give you such a low blow.

zed7:
Most of the people who grew up in single and dysfunctional homes are growing up to question marriage. Can't blame them, they never had the privilege of a proper home and a mentor.

Benefits of marriage to a man:

He has kids to call him father

Gets a woman to give up her name for his

He gets to have a loving family he can actually call his own.

Only a lazy man complains about providing for a woman who sacrifices her life for him and the kids who are his legacy.

A man gets companionship and sex in a committed and happy union like marriage.

When you grew up in a decent home and you in turn find a decent woman, you'll enjoy marriage as a man. Providing is the least concern of an ambitious man. What matters most is finding a woman who isn't ill mannered and a hôe.

Your first paragraph is an unreasonable one.

The guy asked a legit question.

I like the title of this thread.

SOZINN:
Politics is the only reason why SISU has a 94% rating on RT and I can't even explain how it managed to earn that audience rating. Everything about it is average as fûck and the action is meh at best. 🤦🏾‍♂️

If you don't like the movie, rest.

xynerise:
Nimona is interesting but the gay agenda at the end is not necessary

It ruined the movie for me. From start to finish.

How man go dey tell fellow man 'I love you', he be idiot?

I'm very satisfied. Tinubu should run for 400 years.

RIP mama!

Sponsored by Pepsi and co.

tensazangetsu20:
I was asked for Spanish proficiency o. Infact my admission interview was in Spanish. The schools reply your emails in Spanish and everything. I asked about a language course but the school said they don't do that. I think it's better to learn the Spanish in your home country before you go cause even the american exchange students i spoke with all learnt Spanish in America before they went to Chile for their exchange year.


I have actually been planning to move to either Chile or Brazil since 2020 but I didn't have job yet. So when I got job I started saving and when it was enough I started reaching out to schools. Once I knew about the language barrier and that it will be needed I started to learn the language and wait for the next admission session

Congratulations bro!

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baralatie:
Because they are the easy pickings to kidnap.
Knowing that the police have their hands full with patrol

Incorrect. Children and elderly people are the easiest to kidnap.

These girls just go frolicking about.

They won't tell where she went because she was with a man.

Have you ever wondered why it's always ladies getting missing?

Hezzyluv:
Hilarious!

Every record is a record my brother. It was hard to do well under Buhari.

Baddestguyp:
They all look mid

I hope Aquaman 2 flops so hard. Every guy should not pay a dime to see that movie that has Amber Heard

I thought they didn't have her in it?

If the movie is good, it'll make money.

Because nobody will do anything.

hustla:
Was really, really sweet

People were outside more and not glued to the internet and their phones so people socialized more.

Times have really changed tbh. Wish I could bring back the good old days when we used to just party without worries in this world

RIP to my childhood friends, Seun, Michael and Benedict

Baba, no vex o. I always thought you were in your 20s.

So what is the essence of floating the dollar?

chukkystar:
agreed, people will always fight what they are afraid of so being Autocratic and using Force will never be as effective as Dialogue

Honestly bros. That's why I hate how law and order is presented to us.

They say if you sin, you get punishment but a little dive into our history as humans will show that you don't punish all sinners and you don't reward all righteous. Life isn't black and white.

This is where emotional intelligent becomes an asset but these feminist are blind to this.

Give them something else in place of what they want.

This is what I mean. If they want you to help them ask for a promotion they don't deserve for instance, don't just tell them they don't qualify. Point them to materials they need to level up and tell them you owe them a solid recommendation if they see it through.

But if you try to use the brute force approach, they will come for your ass. This is what feminism will not teach you.

Just forget about savings. Use whatever may be left off that salary to put yourself in a better position you can earn more.

Not all savings make sense.