₦airaland Forum

The Mummy's boy nko? The family pleasers? The friends pleasers? The your money is my money but my money is my money horsebands?

ur hubby isnt complaining so why are you? You want to resign your job when he could be posted anywhere within 9ja or even foreign mission? what would you then do?
This is an era where officers are been court marshalled for the littlest of offences so what happens if he unfortunately buys job - and you have resigned?

If you resign your job, are unable to get pregnant - hubby leaves you for someone else guess what you have to fall back on? NOTHING!!!

As it stands, you earn more than him yet your advise/input is disregarded when it comes to financial expenses and savings what makes you think that as a housewife your advise would become valuable?

My dear reason am well oooo to avoid stories that touch the anus abeg

Olukologia:
I am a student of Adekunle Ajasin University Akungba, My academics journey is becoming shaking. My parents refused to pay for my last session at the university. I don't blame them because having being in school since 2009,no parent will be happy. Please I need help Nairalanders!

why have you spent 8 years in a private Uni?
What course are you studying?
Whats your GPA?
Why did your parents stop paying your tuition?
When did they stop? this session or last?
How much is you tuition for this session?

Yes she is allowed to remarry whomever she chooses to marry. Ideally, the kids should remain with her in her new home subject to agreement between her and her new spouse.

Alex reports is all about those chewing gum cucumber girls beauty pageants. Pls don't add it to the list of seasoned blogs abeg

Are there any hospitals/specialist centres within abuja where a patient can be assessed and possibly treated for Diabetes induced Alzheimers please?
I strongly suspect a family member of having the early symptoms of this condition but i want the diagnosis confirmed and for treatment to commence ASAP please.

Any help/suggestions with hospitals please.....i cant afford all those big private hospitals that charge Buhari prices Ohh,

Please i welcome hospitals within Abuja or Jos please.

But they are naaa.....Benin especially. ...most of them came through that route before retiring

I am sure it isnt the first time the man has been violent to her but the
pray and fast brigade
I must remain married brigade
What will people say brigade
I want to show my submissiveness, love, patience and loyalty to my horseband brigade et al would have encouraged her to remain there till thy kingdom come.
I think with her deformed self, she has proven beyond reasonable doubt, what a true, loyal african wife she is indeed

please stick with your husband inugo? for better for worse brigade....next time he bangs your head to the wall you will explain to angel gabriel why you arrived earlier than your appointed time

and stay away from your family friend. You are clearly still hung up on your abusive ex. only enter a relationship when you have grieved and healed

where in abuja is it located please?

post the pictures and your contact or email them

You are 21. Find something meaningful to do and support your mum. Stop critiquing ur mum for accepting help knowing her options are limited.
Your mum isn't responsible for your older brothers actions.
At 21, what have you done to assist your brothers? Why bring such sensitive family issues to SM?

If you don't know who you are people will make you believe whom You are not: this often applies when u r bn wrongly accused or feel pressured to react a certain way because of people's perception of u.

Pick your battles wisely- I use this a lot in personal, marital and workplace conflicts.

Just because everyone does it, doesn't mk it right.

Very easy....my dad

Awon childish immature boychild! !!! Yet he was sha.gging her and not communicating because the child who reported to the press is 18yrs old.

What type of example does the man feel he is setting for his son?
Anyway, each marriage with its own. Your spouse will only treat u the way u allow him/her to

Incline:
Ok, are you the same person as op?

Nope I am not. The dx is indicated in the attached letter by the op

I believe congenital heart disease can be treated in 9ja. She should be referred to luth, juth, abuth or ubth

She has a hole in the heart....a mild one at that according to the dx.
VSD - congenital heart defect.
Read up on treatment options here
http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/ventricular-septal-defect/basics/treatment/con-20024118

2015 range was released in 2014.
Wife cannot break a fixed deposit unless it was in both names which means it was also her money.

Divorces in 9ja take a minimum of 1yr.
If he divorced in 2014 and by 2016 already has additional X2 kids (by X2 different women) and equally engaged 2 u (lady no 4 in 3yrs) at which point did he start dating u?

So at what point did u start dating this prince charming of urs? Was it b4 or after divorce? Was it when he was sowing his oats with other ladies?

Mr X is a cheat - keeps X2 or more relationships.....that u know off oh
Mr X is a controller - tells his spouse whom to be friends with
Mr X has no qualms having unsafe sex with random women
Mr X is irresponsible - after his wife took 'alimony', he knew his financial status has changed yet he kept popping babies out.


Madam lover girl kontunue ooo, by the time u marry and he continues sharing been a community pen.is as well as sowing his wild oats wt everybody u will remember all the advice u were given.

No wife is given more alimony than she is entitled to within 9ja law.

APCCCCCCC

Are you a MMM investor? You are Cordially invited to 7 days powerful fire vigil at iyanapaja along Somolu junction. Theme: DA OWO MI PADA KIO SI GBA OWO MI FUNMI. @ 9pm prompt. Be there... MMM:MOLE, MOBA, MOTUNGBAPADA

Yet they will sponsor their people to behead others for listening to similar musics

madam lady in love, i pity you ooh...bookmark this thread becos should you relocate to 9ja, you ll need to reference it 3 years later.

A 37 yr old man who is never married, nor has a job nor a home isnt going to settle with you. Rather, he will use you to settle himself. The plot of land will be bought in his name whilst your money will be used to build the house. He will eventually sell the house and then take off to marry his real "beloved".

Forget all the stories of his family are aware of you and are amazing bla bla bla....they usually are!! They are in on the scam and would always want to reassure you if you ever have any doubts....simply becos ........

There has been enough advise for you on this thread already.....ignore at your own peril.....Beauty is nothing to an african man. You have 4 children already!!! that is a big deal for a man and his family.....especially one who is never married nor has children...it doesnt matter if you are a size zero with a washboard stomach

the 9ja men you dated in the states would have never married you....believe that

and when the scam happens (its only a matter of time) dont join the rest of the world claiming nigerians are bad and scammers because Nigerians have taken their time to warn you ahead of time but you choose to ignore.

bigneorapz:
Good morning friends, please my landlord is threatening to kick me out of my house before next week monday just because am owing him N60,000 house rent. Please a good heart here should borrow me just N50,000 let me save myself from the embarassment. I will pay back before January 15th. If you stay in akwa ibom state, i will like us to meet face to face and probably show you where i live. I don't have nowhere to pack to at the moment. Please help a brother. Thanks

The bolded - you are one of those that did MMM with house rent abi?

madam you have being given several advise on this forum through series of previous posts and topics yet you dont heed .
We get it, your MIL doesnt like you and frustrates you, ur hubby doesnt love you as much as you do nor share the same marital beliefs and principles as you do, yet you say na there u wan die put?

This is christmas season and i am looking for a £2000 help: abeg, what do you want? You keep getting knocked up despite seeing ur financial situation - i always say, a pack of condom/a contraceptive injection/the coil is cheaper than a pack of pampers.

Go and face ur horseband abeg and when you are ready: take control of your life.

Stop getting knocked up!! have children only YOU can look after!! if your horseband dies today can you look after the number of children you have without relying on handouts? Or is it your inlaws who dont like you, you ll expect to look after your kids? Or your horseband with no property/asset to his name?

I will dump him too with that type of english.
He should go and give the family 50K so that his entire expenditure will be 1 millionaire.....Rubbish upon ingriedient.

Men just assume that as long as they have "married you" they can misbehave and you should put up with their misbehaviors. God helps if you have a supportive family who protect their daughter from physical and mental harm/torture, the men will try to tarnish your family's name as well.

He should go and learn what it means to be a husband; what it means to have a wife at home.

And the wives are not human enough to have any expectations from a man who swore to love, honor, protect and provide for them through her good and bad times till death abi?
Evidently the author was bored/jobless when he compiled that write up

Anyway, it's too early to start abeg

She was a side chic? Yet u were nacking her raw in all angles? You were also cheating on her as well. But u want to divorce her because u "feel" she's doing what you were doing to her?? No proof oo... I am guessing u have gotten another babe abi?

Continue playing wt the feelings of women you hear? The thunnnndererrrr that will fire you, is coming from Buhari's 2017 budget

He needs to go to edible catering rehab service

Tell us more about them in 10yrs time....

You people ehn!! i have being asking for ordinary £2000 from well meaning, kind hearted, spirit filled Nairalanders but una no answer me.

Plix and plix, i am very serious ooh, i am desperate and helpless i need this money oo.

I am calling on well meaning nairalanders to sow this seed to my life so that God/whatever it is you believe will bless you

Dear Fashionistas, i greatly need your help. So my cousin is getting married 1st quarter next year and there will be a heavily pregnant cousin on the bridal train.

I am looking for inspiration on Maternity styles for a Naija wedding (Trad). The material is a george/judge type of material. So any ideas/pics that fits the above criteria will be welcome please