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Blessed family. You have a somewhat resemblance to this rapper that stays in Satelite town, Baba Dee's younger brother. Can't remember his name now

It's a good idea but my fear is the pressure it will bring on the schools, there has to be an overhaul of the tertiary educational system in Nigeria. Also, new and brilliant fresh entrants might somewhat be disadvantaged...

MsPat:
So I found out today that my April might actually be march....and....and.....and its twins!

Explains why my belle big like chiwendym own *runs out before she finds me

In other news....this my leg wey swell like #100 Moimoi I taya o

Awwwww, congrats mum. Pls endure anything for the sake of these two angels.

Do you know the sexes yet?

Hmnnnnn, Na God o

nice one. I nearly believed it

Chillisauce:
ThankGod.

My dear, coming back this evening I could count the no of cars on the road.
It's adviced to stay put at home for now. But man must wack
It's well.
Edwife had a very bad news though. Not good. :-[

someone she knows was involved??
It's such a crazy globe right now, no one feels safe anywhere

Edwife, dunno what it is but pls stay strong...plsssss

Zee10:
#BS.2
Got dere by 9pm was admitted was still gisting wit hubby and having sharp mouth. Lol. By 6am was checked and still 2cm dilated and d nurse inserted a tablet into me o boy in like d next 30mins I saw stars d pain ehn. So by 8am I felt like pushing.
D nurses were surprised deh say madam calm down
I say nurses I want to push o.then one of the nurses stood up to check and she was shouting d baby's head is out o.deh were now scrambling to set up dere equipments after 3pushes my princesss jumped out weighing 3.5kg and giving me a little tear.

Praise the Lord.

Hallelujah!!!

Congrats dear. Kisses to our angel

Chillisauce:
Thanks dear.

Have you heard from your friend on vacation ?
Hope s/he ok?

She is good also. Thanks dear.

I can imagine the mood in that beautiful city it is well

lightedpath:
Now I appreciate those that went past their due date. 41weeks gone and no baby yet after eyeing october . Its not been interesting at all with no sign of labour whatsoever. It will surely end in praise ooo

Just ask missmalachi and proudmum

funlord:
Cc: edwife, ewuro4 and kimoni!!!!

Come and defend your shameless asses! Lmfao!!!

Until this braindead 18 year old has grown enough balls to come at me with his real moniker, he remains a nonentity and will be treated like the inconsequential effeminate that he really is. Till then, whoever sends him or believes him, is a bigger fool than he is.

For emphasis sake, I repeat, "I am not a feminist" - if this statement is still giving anyone a well-deserved migraine, they can end it all by plunging into the ocean. Who cares anyway

Chillisauce:
We are fine over here. Just indoors .

Rip to the dead .
Thanks for asking

Great! Stay safe

Kimoni:
Chillis - trust you and all yours are good?

Chillisauce!!!!!!!

Plsss come and reply that you are good Is it over?

I have been trying to reach a friend too on vacation and she has not responded Why are you guys behaving like this naa

Chillis - trust you and all yours are good?

Hehehehehe

OP, pls tell them

tchiwinnie:
lol. U no see as kimoni tk murder my moniker no. Issorai.
@mitchyy, how are u today? Are u still bleeding? Wot did d scan say abt d foetal sac and ur OS? Any cramps? Pls get as much rest as u can. God ll perfect all dat concerns u.Amen!

Loool

Sorry ma, but that name dey make me bite my tongue naa

MelsMum:
so my yesterday was going on very fine. By 7.30pm I decided to charge my phone and wait for #thread cuties #

So I decided to make dinner for dh and by 7.59, ghen ghen, I picked up my phone , entered the room, closed the door behind me, layed on the bed grinning from ear to ear, time for thread cuties.

And of all things that could go wrong that moment was my exhausted wifi , I jumped out of the bed, got out and asked dh to use his card and pay for our wifi immediately, he said not to worry, he will do it tomorrow,I said you don't understand,I cant miss #thread cuties and its already on. The man try e best, and it just didn't go through ....so that was how I missed my #thread cuties.

Life happened to me yesterday,I couldn't believe it. Next week , nothing will stop me.


Sloppy kisses to all the cuties....MelsMum love you bunnies

Hahahahahahaha

JustTara:
Felt haggling was unnecessary and unfair to the sellers, I was always about “how will they make profit?". That was until I started living on my own. Now I'm a pro haggler just like my mum.

e get some things wey dem no dey teach persin naa who come teach you naa

Nice one!

@angieberry - I laughed sotaaay


[size=4pt]Why are we called "market women" again?? [/size]

mitchyy:
Hello everyone, i hope i'm not derailing. I got a major scare today o. Was lying down peacefully when i felt this rush of blood and before i got to the bathroom, i already stained myself. Bright red blood was flowing down my legs. It was so so scary. Dh was at work, no one at home. Had to walk slowly to the hospital since its closeby and i was given progesterone starter shot immediately. Doc told me to do a scan and he said there was a ruptured cyst or sth. I nor remember the many grammer again.
I've been placed on bed rest for one week. But i'm just wondering if there is anything i could have done to cause the bleeding. I have been resting o. Not stressing myself. Anyone had similar experience? Make una torchlight my matter small abeg. I really don't want to spoil the mood but I'm worried

@twicinnie, @kaffybill

You are not spoiling the mood dear, it is well with you and your LO.

Did I spell Dr's name right? That her moniker is too hard abeg

beedam:
I don plan to call you till you have low battery sef.
So you still do am. You and oga dey vex oooo.

Oya,bring out my wife now! now!! now!!!

Beedam will not kee me o

See queshion, make she no do ni?

beedam:
Kimoni, I sight you. Hope your phone is fully charged?

Looool, sorry I was busy typing one yeye epistle like that.

My eyes don clear now sha, lovely babies everywhere. Thumbs up to you Beedam for this wonderful idea

zaynie:
GHoJes pls lets die the matter.

And who is that wikkid someborri that liked the post......when fight start now na you go first wear helmet.

For this matured answer, your probation is hereby lifted. On this thread, we might have different opinions on issues, but we remain united. And what pregnancy thread has joined together, let no man put asunder
Once upon a time, Modath and I used to tear our clothes in agbero style on this thread o but now, if I don't call her name in one day, I am unable to sleep see gobe

@all - if I understand Arabianprince well, I guess his emphasis was on support. It's not enough to advise a woman to leave her abusive husband, but there is always the need to go the extra mile to ensure if they have the support system to make it on their own. Else, one will just be jumping from frying pan to fire. There is this story of a single hardworking father living somewhere in Agege who would leave his two young daughters, (both below age 4) with his co-workers and sometimes security men. Apparently, they are all working for the same pure water company and living in the company's accommodation. Long and short of the story is that everyone who was helping this young man take care of his daughters was sexually molesting them and he didn't know. Not until the youngest daughter came to complain to him of pain in her privates and the older daughter spilled the story of what had been happening. His world came crashing down. After reading the story, I pondered over it for a long time and asked myself some pertinent questions - where is the mother in all of this. Probably separated or divorced. And what's her situation and her testimony right now - that she now has her freedom and living life happily maybe? Again I thought to myself, would she be stupid to have stayed for her children's sake? And be the bigger person in the marriage? Is this what some women mean when they say they are staying for the children?

I definitely don't have the answers to all these questions I asked myself, it's almost like choosing between the devil and the deep blue sea hence a woman or a man has to do all in his/her power to make the marriage work and where he/she is not able, she can then strategically make her exit. It's not a decision you take in the spur of the moment or induced to take take especially where you don't have the support system or earning adequate income. The reason why I kept emphasizing on Blessed giving us a shout if she needed any help. I didn't even realize then that it was someone whose story I was familiar with. But after going back to read her earlier posts, I may conclude she has thought about it hard enough and has come to the best decision for herself and her baby.

But pls, we shouldn't be too quick to castigate those who advise others to strive to make their marriages work as much as lieth in them. And when anyone has made a decision to leave, after careful consideration, their decisions should also be respected.

@lovinam - In Blessed's case, while I also don't also agree she should beg her husband based on her previous posts, I wouldn't castigate anyone who advises her to consider that option. What if that is what will make her home peaceful? It's the end that matters, right? There is no one formula in marriage, and what works for A might not necessarily work for B. To each his own.

@ahnie - you have made your decision to stay and I believe you have put some things in place to ensure relative peace in your home, pls do not be bullied into doing anything contrary to what you believe. It's your marriage, your life, your husband and your child. Take the best decision for yourself putting your everything else into consideration. And ask for grace and wisdom from God, and take each day as it comes. In all, pls be happy, make yourself happy. Find something doing that keeps you fulfilled.

In conclusion, I go with that saying from zaynie' aunty - if your life is threatened in any way and you are unable to control it, please look for a safe haven. He who lives to fight and run away, lives to fight another day.

**look like Obama, reason like Obanikoro**

Superstory is it now the case that when you resign your job, a family or friend automatically replaces you? Na so dem dey get job by replacement??

favoured234:
The airline/travel agent are so incompetent,
They knew about this almost 48 hours ago (..... Yes I am sure cos I was spying the ticket online, I thought they had other plans)
Now they waited for the last minute to tell the passenger that she is flying tonight.....
Mummy Light pack your load make "we" dey go small small...

When you board, let emirates pay for the inconveniences...
Remember to ask for everything you will need... The worst they can say is "Madam sorry we cant get that done for you"... With smile on their face..
If your baby refuse to eat their food, ask for their kitchen to warm baby food..
Ask for hot water and all
Ask for extra meal for yourself if you need it..
Go ahead to ask if they can change your seat to somewhere you can stretch your leg more cos your baby needs more comfort.. You never can tell, they fit upgrade you to business class
When you get to Dubai, ask if you can get somewhere for your baby to rest before the next flight ...(they might give you stopover hotel)

Ask and ask for any good thing you can imagine to make your trip enjoyable.. The worst answer is No Plus Smile... But at least you asked

Hahahaha I love this mama

But pls someone should re-emphasize this to Ayolight once again. From the time she steps in the airplane till they are back in Naija in good health, she shouldn't hesitate to ask for ANYTHING at all that will make her or Light's life better. She should not close mouth or be shy about it.

blessedtwins:
ginababy I can only communicate online.phone was destroyed.how do I tell my pastor?by d way I once reported him to the church and they said I should just hide when he starts.
I just thot of selling off a brand new car.he bot it in our names.if I could get a buyer asap I would be good to go
A penny for your thots

It is well blessedtwins. If this is not his first time, then you might need to report him to the police or an NGO that handles such cases. About selling the car, what will be his reaction? You don't want anyone stalking you for revenge because you not only left him and also sold his brand new car. Some men are very vindictive o. How do you think he will react if he knows you sold the car? Pls tread cautiously and manage your finances till it's all settled. Again, give us a shout out if and when need be.

@ cherrymum - May God keep you and your LO. He will give you double joy for your sorrows past.

Pls can I just ask some silly questions, and feel free to answer or decline, I won't mind one bit.

Did you have any inkling before now that your hubby had this attitude? i.e. Rapist? Did you see anything in him to make you suspect he had fathered several kids from outside? Or are you just naturally not a suspicious person, i.e. Someone who believes the best of everybody and in all situations?

I suspect your hubby is a phsychopath. They are able to lead different lives with different people without any iota of suspicion and unfortunately, there is little anyone can do to change them except God himself intervenes.

Anyways, I am happy that you are happy with whatever decision that you have taken. That's the most important thing. Finding happiness and strength within yourself notwithstanding the storm that is raging in one's life. It is well with you and your LO. God bless.

@ blessedtwins - is this his first time of hitting you or this has been happening repeatedly? Was he aware your dad was the one advising you to go to the hospital? Does he have good relationship with your dad or your family in general? Is he broke or something?

I am asking you these stupid questions cuz it looks like the violence meted out to you emanated from ego, hatred and fear, not really for you but unfortunately, the violence was directed at you. I cant understand why he would go ahead and smash the phone to utter pieces for instance? To cut off communication with your dad? Or tell you not to take your daughter to the hospital even when it's glaring she needs urgent medical attention just because it's your dad that advised you to? I suspect there are deeper issues.

Anyways, what is important NOW is the safety and good health of you and your baby. You know best if your dad's place is secure or not and since you say it's not secure, I respect that. Pls find a friend, another close family or church member that can take you in till you are able to sort things out. Do you have a job or business to keep you going? Do you have sufficient funds for the surgery and other living expenses for your baby or do you have someone who can take care of these expenses? These are immediate concerns that need to be addressed asap.

Once these issues are well taken care of, please have your dad call him if he still respect your dad, if not, let your dad call his parents and other family members and let him explain why he beat you or has been beating you if it's not the first time. Take your next steps from the outcome of any meeting or discussion both families may have.

But the priority again, is the safety and good health of you and your baby. Pls do not compromise this and don't hesitate to tell mamas here if you need any help whatsoever. We never know....

Hugz

shndy:
Hmm, thanks so much for all the contributions. Cancerlib, bless u for sharing ur experience, a live one will sure help her.
Kimoni, onegai, my peeps from Newborn Thread bless u

Bless you babes

5minsmadness:
Shndy follow the two advices above except for the striken out part ([b]sorry kimon[/b]i). He DOES NOT want to hear anything concerning the baby or your pregnancy now. Mentioning it to make him feel guilty or whatever will backfire very very badly.
Take this from a man's perspective pls. Thanks.

Lol...it's fine 5mins. You are right actually. During the conversation, she should avoid mentioning the pregnancy to avoid setting him off again.