₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Knowing how a lot of you male younglings can be, I can bet it is your environment.

There really can’t be so much difference in your looks as a man. You don’t wear makeup or change hairstyles regularly.

It is the environment bro... It mustn’t be rich, it should be tidy.

Gptech:
Will personally not recommend Lutian, try and get an original Firman or get a Tec.

Abdul05:
Baba Jonah have said all,the issue of insecurity must be collective rather than being put on the hands of the government alone.

,And stop exploiting this issue as the only way or chance to divide the nation.KANU and his henchmen

AchalugoNwa:
help a sister please
I can't take it anymore I'm in love with him I don't care if he's married
i have strong feelings for him

Lyrics269:
The north can never stand the south in anything..some northerners are very funny with how they brag that the south will die from starvation if they cease their foodstuff but they don't know That the south was actually supporting their existence by giving them their hard earned money..
The north is vulnerable to attacks while the south is very strong to withstand attack.
The north is actually a dead zone if the south withdraw it support from them starting from Cash to Infrastructures.

35824L:
Commendable. Iboes in Ondo schools must have to pledge allegiance to Oodua as they recite our anthem. We keep colonizing these people but they run to nairaland to beat their gully erosion battered chests.

donmixc:
They can't recite that trashy anthem while under Nigeria, maybe when they get their oduwa kingdom, they can do whatever they like, foolish governor

7victor:
Yes I love traveling in those days.

pocohantas:
Because your uncle wants to marry another wife.

That is all...

7victor:
I stay here in the north and I have observed that Igbo girls here would prefer Hausa/Fulani guys if given a chance to select among Igbo, Hausa or Yoruba.

I mean if it involves dating without marriage in view.

In fact Igbo ladies and ladies from the south south living here in the north have Hausa/Fulani guys which they secretly desire although those guys may not be aware.


Also I discovered that most Hausa/Fulani girls up here are secretly in love with Igbo guys.

Most Hausa/Fulani girls would prefer an Igbo guy over other tribes if it is possible.

This is my observation.

I know some people would get angry at me for saying this, but the truth is bitter.

I have also observed that Katsina state ladies are the nicest ladies in Nigeria.

They are very nice and humble.

But Katsina men are very outspoken and they are quick to react violently and angrily to a situation.They find it hard to bear with people and situations.

Sokoto state ladies are more outspoken. I have not seen any Sokoto lady that is humble.Some of them are very troublesome.

while Sokoto men are comparatively gentle, humble and could easily bear with people and situations.

Wittyglam:
My friend, was on her way to the market and saw this cute guy they connected and she claimed to have experienced butterfly in her tummy. I told her it was lust but she got mad at me and they started dating the next day, one month into the relationship mama is not feeling it again, as all they spoke about was sex and physical appearance. Long story short, mama ended up blocking papa and agreed it was lust.
The end
Share your own, don't read and run if I catch you eh.

LordKO:
That's the honorable thing to do under the circumstance, even if he were not her husband but were just escorting her. A total stranger who's thoughtful can do the same for her or someone in a condition similar to hers, so it should not be seen as a big deal when a partner or relative does it.

Ddokie:
Honestly i really can't understand what FFK is about.

Romanoff:
There's more to why your wife left.

Secrethelp:
Devil? I'm not chasing clout or something.. pastor's ,Alfas flocks here to get spiritual helps, only God's knows who are his true worshippers

pocohantas:
If na cheating, the man reaction go violent pass like this na. You sef know.

Kondo stop defending your uncle.

djon78:
Whatever that may have caused it
The woman can't be thrown out of the house like that


In Western nation's laws
That woman deserves half of whatever that man is worth, having lived together for over 4 decades


And cases like this in our clime, will embolden young women to look out for themselves while in marriage, of which many have started doing nowadays. Many young women are no longer being patient. In the end, the institution of marriage is being battered

Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

djon78:
But the lady you quoted she is not wrong in her comment

If it was abroad, that man can't do that.
A woman that has been with you for almost 4 decades is treated like this

That's why the oyibos will always be advanced miles ahead of us

You see billionaires paying through there nose for divorce. Jeff bezos payed through his nose to divorce his wife, infact billions of dollars

I am a man and God forbid bad thing, I and my madam will live together till end, but if for instance after staying with me for decades and things ain't working fine, it's evil for me not to pay and settle her well.


The lady you quoted is right
Because scenarios like this will teach young women to look out very well for themselves
Since men are being heartless these days and times and they have every right to use there head well

dominique:
Sadly a lot of women relax after marriage and become complacent. They believe they have financial security especially after having kids.

One of the biggest disservice a woman can do to herself is being 100% dependent on a man, especially one that has zero respect for her. In this woman's case now, she has been married for almost 4 decades to a man with six kids. I'm sure in all those 39 years, he must have constantly cheated on her but she kept consoling herself that as long as they're outside and she's the recognized wife, she's ok. Now she has been thrown out of the home she has kept for almost 4 decades, where does she start from?

This should be an eye opener for single ladies not to go into marriage to be a dependant but they no go hear word.

Zzor:
Men are never good leaders I think women should be given a chance, these men have failed us over and over times