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Xfemt:
Tell us you de find ways to be wayward

My mom left me when I was 6 month
No cared apart from my aged grandma who is late now

So because I didn’t get motherly love from my parent I should be wayward

Oga karma is real and when e start
Na god go punish you if you blame your mama


You ve sense so use it

divinitybillz:
You just its easier said than done and yet give advice if its that difficult then don't try.The fear of Poverty can drive you into riches and it can also keep you poor. It still decisions and attitude.

HRHQueenPhil:
With that 3m, go to Maldives and do hospitality jobs
Or enter Senegal and set up shop
Better still, relocate to Qatar, best country ever

Belleful:
This story get K-LEG. the op hasn't told us the real ready his uncle and his wife and children are Fighting. With all the wealth ur uncle have, he couldn't build a house in is village? Now that he is retired, with all the money he his collecting from his many houses, he still couldn't build a new house. And now just to sell only one of his many houses to blind a new house has gotten him injected from his own house to become a tenant. Hmmmm.

LordReed:
LoL if he had married a 2nd wife his predicament would have been worse.

MPESA:
The thing tire me self btw make the man go do DNA test on the children self such a woman can be trusted.

Utycar:
He is talking about unemployment, and I can confirm to what he is saying, most of the European countries don't even have jobs for their citizens not to talk about foreigners. There are many graduates in many of these European countries driving taxi, doing menial jobs to survive, and mind you language is a very big barrier too

Dreytonisback:
With 3 million if you're a guy who runs street then opt for Dubai , Qatar, Oman, Cyprus

Visa and flight to Dubai = 700k
Accoms_ 300 dirhams
Give you connection to bomb and load
Few weeks _ month you don buy car collect Emirate I'd join , turn free bird

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Barbiturate:
USA or Canada

euphratess:
Guys it’s been two days now, and it’s getting worst each time am urinating. Also , the colors of my urine has turned yellow and last drops are most painful to release and somewhat reddish, . Even when am not urinating, am always feeling this burning sensation inside my organ, now some white discharge don't follow ohh... . Abegg people wetin be this

Lalasticlala
Seun

Warning:Pictures are not my true condition

euphratess:
Guys it’s been two days now, and it’s getting worst each time am urinating. Also , the colors of my urine has turned yellow and last drops are most painful to release and somewhat reddish, . Even when am not urinating, am always feeling this burning sensation inside my organ, now some white discharge don't follow ohh... . Abegg people wetin be this

Lalasticlala
Seun

Warning:Pictures are not my true condition

MPESA:
The best bet is to sell the duplex, how can you keep duplex and sell their rental properties such as shopping complex, hostel etc .... It doesn't make any sense at all ....

dapsoneh:
On a general note, marrying one woman is way better than being a polygamist. Your uncle's case is just pathetic because he married a bad woman

Sonnobax15:
Yesterday being Sunday, so I went to a match viewing center to watch the football game between tottenham hotspur and Everton... After the first half came to an end, an argument arose between an old man and a young man..The argument was all about the merits and ills of polygamy.. The old man's opined that a man who's married to many wives will have lesser marital Problems than a man who's married to one wife..

While the young man was of a counter opinion, insisting on the fact that a man who has only one wife will always have his peace of mind intact

Well, I was just sitting aloof, sipping my black fearless small small . ...But then I thought about a similar scenario happening to my uncle who has only one wife... Their marriage has been blessed with five sons,and of course my uncle is a very well-to-do man...And out of their five sons,three of them studied abroad...

So after my uncle's retirement from the oil company he was working,he sat his wife down and had a discourse with her that he'd love to sell his port harcourt duplex so that he can use the money to build a house in his village here in Delta state...But his wife refused, insisting that everything that my uncle has worked hard to achieve belongs to her son's,that my uncle Shouldn't even dare think of selling anything....That has resulted to a serious pandemonium in their home..And of which my uncle has threatened to divorce her..But his wife has kept on threatening my uncle that she'd wreck my uncle if he should dare divorce her .

The wahala has even deteriorated from bad to worse to the extent that their sons has taken sides with their mom..... One time self,they all ganged up and beat their father .

My uncle has filed papers to a customary court,to divorce the marriage, because all the previous efforts he had made to take his bride price from his in-laws have proved abortive as they have been dribbling my uncle . He has vowed to sell everything,his shopping mall,his hostels,his other two storey buildings.....I even heard him complaining to my popsman that his wife has started to sell his cars and other things he left in his house..... Imagine someone who has different storey buildings now has to be a tenant in a two-bedroom apartment..

At this moment,my uncle has been plunged into a state of so much regrets,that if he had heeded to the advice of his kinsmen back then when they were advising him to marry a second wife,this wouldn't be happening to him .

divinitybillz:
The exscuse is on you of you let your parents issue affect you. You can decide to say I would make sure my marriage isn't the recap of my parents or allow the whole thing destroy your liife. It all boils down to decisions and attitudes.

blueflamez:
I feel his issue is psychological. I have learnt over the years that the things we go through as kids forms part of we grew to be in life. I know a pretty Aunty of mine who unknowingly to people had a light finger. Her kids that grew up with her who witnessed the moms bad act grew up to become thieves themselves. As we speak one was shot dead this year, the other one is on the run. I know both of them to be thieves.
When I was young my mom was having unending issues with my dad for the formative part of my life, to make it worse all of my siblings are male, so I had a other close female experience besides my mom. Dude, I grew up naturally without affection for the female gender. I dated, had fun but was hardly emotionally attached to a girl. It was so bad that as a kid I frequently tell my mom jokingly that I wasn't going to get married but she never understood. (NB: I never had or will never have gay tendencies)

As we speak, though I regret my choices but Bro It was beyond my control. Na now I dey force myself to unlearn and relearn.

Bottom line is: The dude is pouring out his psychological concerns and we should guide him in the right path and not criticize him.

My small quota, after all what do I even know

AfroKnight:
That foolish gentleman behaviour dey ginger woman to misbehave. When a woman knows you’re one of those chivalrous don’t hit a woman no matter what types, you will suffer disgrace. Look at the product of a gentleman. He has unwittingly raised a man who hátès women. Problem upon problem.

BegAt40:
My dad is a highly respected well-to-do man but his problem was his wife; I wonder how they married!

She used to beat him in our presence and she'd lay curses on us if we ever plead that she stops. At times, she'd shout from night till dawn, making sure that no one sleeps and she'd try her best to call the neighbors' attention to tarnish his reputation. Not like he's weak, he just tried not to make things escalate and be a bigger issue. Now I'm grown up, I hate women die and she's begging me to get married.

Meanwhile, I just want to stay out here treating Nigerian girls in the language they understand.

Candidlady:
stingy man lol!!

tunnex190:
There's nothing awkward about it. If you like her, tell her. If you love her, tell her. I married my coursemate too. We started from there and 7 years later, the rest is history.

Special32:
Am a 24 years medical student in my fourth year of the university I meet her when we where in our second year I never knew she was even in our class until our second year at first we where only saying hello to each other than some school stuff brought us together in our third year ever since we became close as friends and now I am realizing that I really like her and I want more than just being normal friends with her.

I feel it wouldn't be right because we are in the same department same level in school I keep on trying to let the feeling go but everyday I keep on seeing her and my feelings for her keep on increasing.

I really need advice on what to do I don't know what to do about the emotions I feel towards her.

tunderoc:
Hope someone will not shift pata after the party sha

irunoko:
..omolomo
.see how the rest of the ladies are standing there uncomfortable, pretending as if they didn't see the sex tape

Amotolongbo:
The school has to take it up with the student for exam malpractice

The CBN has to charge the student for defacing our Naira.

The attorney general has to sue her for misdemeanour, destroying the national identity

YourWriter:
I met this girl in the beginning of 2021 and our bond of friendship has grown strong since then. I never had the intention of dating her to start with, but as times goes on I found myself catching feelings.

I really do want to let my feelings known but I'm scared of rejection. Besides, this girl is like an anti-relationship activist. Most of the times her posts on WhatsApp is mostly against love and how she's not ready to get into relationship.

Also, as a beautiful person she has lots of options which includes rich guys with lexus and Benz. Although I'm also not broke but I'm far below the level of her suitors. What I could say is my only advantage is that I'm handsome.

Should I just go ahead against all odds and let my feelings known or I should just let the feelings die?

c0de007:
Hi,

Thank you for making out time to view my thread. I'm hoping I can get an advice from you.

I'm a 26 Years. I work in a company that pays me 85K NGN monthly.

The salary isn't paying my bills in any way, the comjustpany isn't productive, I feel stuck and limited each time I go to work. Also, the environment is toxic with gossips, cold wars, etc.

I've been applying for jobs elsewhere but I keep getting rejected. I've adjusted my CV several times but still the same.

I'm considering resigning even though I don't have another job offer yet but I fear my debts. I have some side hustles I use to support my monthly earnings but I fear it may not be enough to pay my debts monthly and fend for myself, siblings, and family generally.

The whole thing is making me lack motivation but I still try to be up for my family.

I want to travel out of the country and search for better opportunities but my resources are limited at the moment.

I have some skillsets, I'm considering venturing into entrepreneurship but I don't have the required capital to get started

I don't know what to do.

Kindly advise me on what to do. I'd appreciate it.

akinade28:
Nigerian men can never agree to this. How do they take care of their children? Is that on a weekly basis too?
But I believe nature has made some roles more suitable to each gender. I mean men and women are better in certain roles.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

I doubt if you can find any in Nigeria

Hmmmm....okay...maybe you can find some in delta state especially the huzzling type


Forwhere.....the only ones I can manage to bet my balls on are some delta girls...
Because I don bang some delta girls and I will confess those girls are trying. Banged one isoko, three urhuobos, one ijaw, three kwale...they can huzzle with you with no too much of that disgusting entitlement mentality

JavaScript90:
This girl has done nothing wrong. Let hypocritical nigerians free her abeg

Baawaa:
If this girl kill herself her blood will be on those mocking her.Tiwa Savage is there nobody behead her,you people should please and free this girl,she had learned her lesson