₦airaland Forum

pulsa:
Office friends are worse though, competing for favors from your boss and stuff will make them betray you.

pick an enemy and a friend,and u are save,it's stupidity for everyone to be your friend in a working environment

petitoni:
Why conclude so fast? You don't even know me.

my apologies, sincerely for concluding quickly

Lollittaa:
tomorrow, guys on this forum will be asking why guys don't help guys. Or they'll say women hate themselves.

the truth is friendship will take u no where ,ur family is enough for you

your office friends are enough for you , House friends zero , church friends zero I don't even go to church first of all , meeting friends count me out of any meeting friends,

the money most Nigeria politician have taken out of this country is enough to shake Nigeria and put nigeria as the head of Africa world map ,,here we are ,someone taken ,,,abeg I don tire

joyandfaith:
Not enough but it is getting better.

equality right?

joyandfaith:
Empower women and see our nation progress.
Some employers would not employ men for certain jobs due to poor pay or dark side of the business, retention issue.

so women are not empowered ?

here we go again
woman has no value ,u want equal rights,it was given
now girl child has no value ,I don't understand ,the truth is men are becoming even scared of marriage these days,leave a child be it a male or female for a single woman to handle ,it's either the girl most times goes wayward or not marriageable or the boy becomes a rascal .....

go to America the baby bummer generation advocated for this equal rights mostly the black African leaving there ,and go and see the generation of females they are producing ,the ones who stay married for 100days next is divorce or most having kids out of wedlock

petitoni:
A man that loves God.
A man that is humane.
A selfless and heaven oriented man who is not greedy or materialist.
It doesn't matter the size of our pockets, it doesn't matter if you are a dwarf, once you are all that, i will love and respect you like you are the only man on earth.

u never reach 30years yet,by the time u reach review this your list

pls don't ask for what you don't have or can't give to the man either

bepositive11:
Very true. It's too late by the time they realise what's going on

It's good that you're straightforward and honest. Sadly though, many women don't know the value of it

tru,many attitude from both men and women, changes the real person some time after a relationship breakup ,but its okay to still be straightforward, someone attitude towards you shouldn't be wat u use in harming your future who aren't aware ,,,

Jameson001:
Nah the thought of being an officially unemployed graduate makes me think of UAE as an alternative to secure job since I couldn't get any except teaching job of 25k monthly in Nigeria

I understand bro,I hope you got plans under your sleeve bro ,life here is let me not say what will down caste the hopes of others ,,just have plans ,don't just wake up everyday and live as the day's roll by ,have plans to relocate to another country

bepositive11:
True. I feel sorry for those girls. They have no idea of what they're getting into. And sometimes, those men use money to woo the woman while dating, but after marriage, they become very frugal

that has been the scope from ages men use,till God comes, it's better you know your guy is stingy but gives when he has willingly than after marriage e hand go con tight,but it's too late to cry , any lady I meet I always tell them my tru self ,if I have I give and don't play games to take money from me ,,some are cool with it, atleast am been straight and truthful

chiommy123:
Their lives is all about money and more money no much time for themselves and family

don't forget these are they type of men most girls want to get married to , thank god u have seen the other side of been wealthy already

HellVictorinho:
So black Americans na oyibo,abi?

Who even tell you say oyibo no get culture?

a lady that has her grand-parent to the last 4 generation living over sea,, without a recognition of where they come from ,all they know is they are Black ,u say they still remember their culture,,

ghettochild:
Leave ur son alone.. he's old enough unless u want to ban him from bringing her into the house and am sure it wont go down well.
U shd even be happy he's not bringing home different girls.
Parent shd Learn to stop enforcing their ideals on kids.
Note that u cant choose a wife for him..
And from this post.. it means even if u your kids want to be serious with any lady.. you need to do some vetting.
Your kids has lived abroad n has realized so many things we frown upon in Nigeria is nothing over there..
Plz leave him be.
And learn to tolerate his gf.
If he loves her. There's nothing u can do...and this is not jazz.
Your son is a liberal man.
Just let him get a job n watch how he would leave the house so quickly.
Am sure ur actions will make him do that as soon as he gets a job

bring a lady home and bring a lady who doesn't dress properly is a 2 different thing bro ,no body wants his or her son to marry a hooligan

Govocrete:
You are right, people look for opportunities to go abroad to hustle just for a year in other to change their entire family destiny. He when abroad to waste resources in the name of the school.

I wished he work as a labourer at a construction site before going abroad, his brain would have reset properly.

,he couldn't even go there to enter a different level of career that's a hot cake there ,he finsih university carry e bag come back,na WA sha ,well the mother knows what's best for him , people from Italy they enter Germany or Holland ,from there to UK from UK to Canada,,,,it's just a pity sha

Jameson001:
I'm guilty of this age palava too
I've paid 640k to a company who want to help me secure job in UAE but this age of a thing put everything on hold.....I'm sad and confused

you guys don't listen ,who pays someone to get a job ,u came on this platform seeing story of scammers you still don't listen,bro or miss I will be realistic with you UAE job isn't something someone keeps for you till you come , statistically we have come to notice that most jobs agent kepp for people mostly our people ,they don't even finish probation people (6 months) ,and they run away ,... what do I know na your Money ,,,,

Opexzy:
My boss doesn't appreciate anything we do, he nags like there is no tomorrow... That man screeams like nothing I have ever seen before.. He threatened me with sack letter, countless number of time, not just me but other employees
I was losing my sanity and I had to just move on...

I left and weeks later he offered me 150% increase in salary, that he wants me back... Omo I refused. He had replace me with 4 new staffs.

In Nigeria always be one step ahead of your boss... Most of them got no joy..

the moment I sign a new job with a new boss,that same night I day draft a new cv down immediately,the moment the boss give me headache I don day drop the cv around , I no just like wahala

EngineerOloye:
This never spoil nah...
Wait for one of the days he will sneaker her in, but make sure it is on a Friday night, so you are sure the next morning the girl no dey go work.
Buy yam, palm oil, small aso ebi & small small engagement things... Around 2 am Saturday morning, Knock down into the room and bring those things in. Tell him you are okay with the choice he has for his future, be serious and talk about future with the girl and all. Finish all your shenanigans before 4am to leave their room, but make sure to tell tham that you are following him, taking those things to the girls house by 7am in the morning. Afterwards, excuse them and let the fighting begin. He will get sense by force to decide if that is how his destiny wants to run his tomorrow for him!!!

I swear,how person go school for abroad still return ,can't he think of switching country immediately,any way na the parents make the house comfortable for the guy ,

Govocrete:
Schooled abroad, return to serve his NYSC and now hunting for a job.

Which country did he school? China, Cyprus or Malaysia?

I need to ask because he should not continue to be a liability. He should be man enough to rent his house.

It's total disrespect that he bring his girlfriend into the parent's house to sleep. If this is practice wherever he schooled, he should also know that once you are 18yrs over there you can also leave your parents house.

the guy is just been lazy ,that is why I tell parents never make their home too comfortable for their children to stay ,who will school oversea and return back ,na mad ness

Bishop:
It always ends up in a bad way, my brother did exactly the same thing. He is left with 2 untrained children out of wedlock and no wife

hmmmm,the best thing to do is for op to send the son to another state ,let's see how he will cope ,he needs to settle down with a job ,the lady is just around him with the mindset of my boyfriend school abroad

Bewiseedet:
Mind your business. Your son is matured enough to chose who to love. Isn't it better you try to know the lady better than just portray her as a prostitute?

my guy don't talk like that ,if calamity befall this young man ,am sure u will still be the one saying he was not rasied properly

HellVictorinho:
If nah Nicki Minaj

You go talk the same thing abi

u can't compare African musical culture to that of the west ,oyibo get culture?

you don't have to go nude before you get a recognition ,,black eye peas ,the only female singer among the band ,was asked to do the same going nude on stage and that was the end ,she refused ,this is not part of Africa society ,the west world have their own society and norms ,it's something we can't handle ...

recently we watched how tiwa savage crying over her nude porn surfacing online ..what's the difference bw what's this lady is doing and what tiwa is crying over , everything na stage by stage ,next is her porn ,and na blackmail we go hear again

Tomek09:
Hushpuppy na idiot, insensitive and shameless scammer thief flexing on people's sweat and hustle. Comparing or likening Obi Cubana to the idiot is very very stupid of you. Cubana has a known and genuine source of income unlike that useless thief, Hush cooling off in jail now.

u can say all that insult husppypuppy , because his Yash has been exposed ,if I decide to dig via all your old post am sure ,u have a post where u praised and hailed husppypuppy ....go sit down abeg ,let e money and obi cubana get caught ur tongue will change immediately

Iyaebe:
From the response I got so far,I weep for Nigerian youths as source of money isn't important to them anymore. It is well

I gave up long time ago,I have come to notice we the Nigeria youth get involved in things that are not relevant or important ,see husppypuppy case,u can remember how the ignorant youth were defending him on social media that is a global village ,but what's the end result today ,or is it ibori (formal governor of delta state) when he was caught with money laundering,but Guess what after his release after 7 years in jail in London ,his people back home did a 7day celebration for him ,some one is stealing your tax money,your future,and still u celebrate him for a welcome party ,I believe,there is something wrong with we the Nigeria youth ,we see white and call it gray and black as white

Bola146:
Ha! God have mercy! A prostitute should think twice before marrying a pastor, a pastor should also think about his wife welfare and intimacy. Pastors should always create time for their wives too.

when a woman has no purpose in life she will always want a man to sit beside her

Tomek09:
Hushpuppy na idiot, insensitive and shameless scammer thief flexing on people's sweat and hustle. Comparing or likening Obi Cubana to the idiot is very very stupid of you. Cubana has a known and genuine source of income unlike that useless thief, Hush cooling off in jail now.

my guy shut up ,this was how u also defended hushpuppy from day to night ready to even take bullet for him ,if u don't know obi cubana down to his sitting room u better keep quite ,

Iyaebe:
Where did he get the money to start owning hotels and clubs from?

these are the question moat nigeria don't feel comfortable when been asked ,I will advise you to chill ,when the time is ripe u will know if he is into illegal or not ,or if he does women trafficking or not or drugs peddle ...... remember the case of hushpuppy,cab u still remember ,where is he today and those people who got angry and even defends him saying he was already a millionaire not know he was a fraudster who goes around intimidating others legal hustles ,so bro just chill when the time is ripe u will know them ............when your money has no background traces ,then the feds will come for you if u like do give away to buy sympathy from the public .

I have read the story and comments on this thread ,and I can basically say this coming from a person who is not base in Nigeria and has seen working contracts and how it works ,most stories here are been filtered ,I don't know why but it's best we say all ,been that we Nigeria are known to be very aggressive when things don't go their way ........

1st ,for someone going to Poland ,what are the chances of changing jobs
2nd what is the salary structure of most available jobs
3rdly,what is the working conditions of the work place and common benefits/entitlement

why do I ask this it's not just for my benefits but for others also ,,these are things people don't tell others in Nigeria when traveling and after few month of working they stop and end up doing street thug Life activities ,like in the case of Italy and UAE...


it's funny most people who arrive Poland ,I noticed don't give feedback ,then it gives me the perspective of something been wrong ,,if you are already base in Poland pls reply this post ..

where can I get funbact A tube cream in dubia ,I need your help house