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Thank you Missy* B.

I really appreciate your "provocative" comment.
(Am sure you dont see anything wrong in what she's doing, right?)

You can see l've thrown the "olive branch" as suggested by the one and only Ameboo in da house.
I refused to respond to that last post she made about me.

Now, you come throw your own inside, abi?

Have a wonderful night.


BTW: So, Its not just men now, its now married men that must not come near the computer or on N/Land anymore! Even my Madam is beside me on another Laptop and she is "enjoying these' so much, since she never get to say such silly things at me and she's so amused that the internet can allow some midget to abuse me! Its all fun, we use it to unwind, dont take it too serious.

Thank you AmeboAjela, l would not have replied you 'cos am no sure if this your "Peace-making" is sincere or not?
if you're a genuine "Peace-Maker", Blessed are the Peace-Makers!

Now this is where it started:  https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-743848.32.html#msg9007533
Please read posts "49 and 50".

*First, l did not address my post to 'her'.
*She 'quoted me' and then starts to insult me!
*I promptly told her "I do not wish to engage her in a discussion". (What more can a decent person do?)
*Instead of taking her trade elsewhere, she just went on-and-on!

Remember yourself and myself had disagreed on "issues" and you called me "FBI, Colombo, e.t.c" but l responded and let it go!
That is how it should be on the "faceless internet".

Where were you when she was being "Un-Lady-like" by calling me names? (Pig, Frustrated, e.t.c)
She just crawls under most peeps skin!

Now, let me ask: assuming you're right, WHY DO "SOME" WOMEN ALWAYS THINK A MAN IS SUPPOSED TO "TAKE THE SHYTE" AND KEEP QUIET?
Does it mean men dont have feelings?
Does it mean men dont feel hurt by such insults?
Does it mean men are supposed to be stronger and more bearing?

Where then does this leave all the "Gender-Equality" mantra?
For me, l think men and women are THE SAME human-beings!

We cannot "pick and choose" when men should be "men", be stronger, be more accommodating but then claim equality when it suits our purpose as women!
Flip-flopping no good at all!

Having said that, l will defer to you and not respond to her AGAIN.
I respect people who try to make peace, l respect you for that.
I hope she would imbibe and appreciate this noble gesture of ours.

Keep and eye and see who will start it all  over again!
Sebi l be man, right?

Thanks.

Lastpage!

Thanks jennifer74, for the compliment,

I think maturity and upbringing is a major factor, when it comes to "advising on marital issues".
Not everyone should, Not everyone can!

Only very few people raised in "broken homes," know the value of "Daddy & Mummy sticking together", come rain or shine!

By their "utterances" you would surely identify them!

Cheers,
Lastpage.


BTW: Celebrate with me, my eldest son gained admission to the University this September (He had three options to choose from as his college results was outstanding!).
It could not have been possible if his Mum had 'bailed-out" when the going was tough for me!
But that period is 'history' now.
One day  l will give a son out in marriage, a worthy son for that matter.
My prayer is that God of heaven will provide for him, his own wife, one that will stick with him, through thick and thin, afterall, life is not a bed of roses!
Just like there is Day and Night, Hills and Valleys, smiles and tears, temptation would come but God will see us through!
Ti'yin naa ade'o!

if l may add: The "Op" never said the man "beats her up".

She specifically mentioned "two crimes" he has committed!

1.) Does not have a job (and therefore money!)
2.) Got angry that she is flirting (When a former "toaster" is given the opportunity to tell his married 'former toatee" "Hi Love", thats what l will call it), flirting online!
[b]
She even went further to "credit him" for being a dotting fathe[/b]r: That shows he cares about the home and does things for their child!

Lets work on what we have for now, at least the man is not here to "add more"!

Cheers.

@stillwater:

I think every christian married man needs to meditate on 1 Timothy 5:8 daily.
But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.

Thank you very much for providing that 'scripture'.
It is a FACT!

But can l ask you: Does "providing" for his home means providing ONLY "MONEY"?

If a man is unemployed (and therefore cant provide money) has he denied the faith?

Does "taking care of the kids" in your family count as "a provision"?

Does helping with house chores and "hard work" like carrying heavy things your wife cant carry, repairing broken down appliances/toilet fittings, e.t.c "yourself" (so as to save money for the family), count as "a provision"?

Does assisting your wife to achieve success in life (educationally, financially, emotionally, e.t.c) when you  the husband is having a  rough-time, job-wise, count as "a provision"?

Does providing "emotional and physical balance" in the kids life, while your wife is at work, count as "a provision"

Or is it all about MONEY ONLY, that was being referred to in that scripture?

Why am l asking these questions?: So that you, me and others can benefit in a wholesome manner, from them.

Cheers,

Lastpage.

BTW: I am not "diminishing from the importance" or requirement of a man to financially provide for his family but l also understand that at times, seeking and securing a job is more than just 'effort' on your part as a man, there are other "extraneous factors" (where you live, your academic pedigree, state of the economy, language, relocation to new environment, 'connections', e.t.c) that can affect how successful that job-quest is, and how quickly your dreams are realized. Individual qualities like out-spokeness, public confidence, intuitiveness, e.t.c can also have a bearing on how quickly you get a job.
Tx

@Finance Minister:

“We have close to about 20,000 abandoned projects across the country waiting to be tackled and yet people are still seeking for contracts to be awarded. Government’s thinking is that we are going to make trade-offs, which means that we are going to make priority and select a few projects in various regions that are of critical importance to the country’s development and try to finish them before the end of life of the administration,” she said.

With due respects to Madam's office, l think she is making the same mistake (deliberately or otherwise), that others before her have been making.

Remember that those 20,000 projects were awarded and paid for.
Someone collected our National wealth to execute those 20,000 projects!
Someone is enjoying unprecedented but undeserved wealth, from those 20,000 project, at the nations expense!
Somebody, feels they can "collect money and vanish" into thin air! AND NOTHING GO HAPPEN?
That same somebody is still lurking around to collect more contracts and as usual, VANISH AGAIN!

Madam, we dont need ANY TRADE-OFF's!
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We need to first DISSUADE THIEVES from collecting project funds and vanishing with it.
Your "trade-off funds" would also be collected and it will also vanish! Na today?[/size]

When we make a "strong statement" about looting project funds, Then we can start your trade-off!

We've tried "trade-off's" since 1979, we got the same result.

Now, lets try the "Chinese Model" of executing "economic saboteurs" (thats what they are!) and lets see the result!

BTW: Tunde Idiagbon and Buhari regime were on that path, in 1982 or thereabout and we could feel the impact within a short time.

If you keep doing the same thing all the time, you would definitely get the same results.
Madam F.M, even you know this, right?

@27Naira
That admonition is actually found in Proverbs 14:1.
EVERY "MARRIED" WOMAN needs to meditate on it daily.
Its ironic that even the BIBLE thinks only a "foolish woman" (no disrespects to women, as l am not the Bible!) would "scatter her own home", with her hands!

Roland17

@Lastpage

May God bless the womb that gave birth to you and the father that raised you with such knowledge, if your post does not get the Op thinking again i wonder what would.

The minute a woman begins to take temporal responsibilities of the home it becomes a serious issue,

"To be a man o, na wa o"

And God will bless the "woman" that conceived and raised you too, standing firm behind your Dad. It takes a well-brought-up individual to know another one!
Even though she's "resting in the Lord", kind words to my Mum mean more to me than if they were directed to my person!

You see, family is all about "women".
Go and see successful families, the man might be "the outer face" of that family but the woman is actually "the fabric" that binds everything together!

Remove that "Fabric" and the family scatters!

I hope the OP will understand that at times, God will "lift you up" for a purpose, maybe, just maybe to help your family! And that includes your husband and child(ren).

Humility of the heart is needed more, amongst our women. (okay, thats 'trash' among some women of the "jet age"!
Honor your husband (unemployed or not), dont just bring him to public ridicule like this!.

Am out.

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BTW: I've always wondered, what is it with "the ease" with which couples in the "WEST" (Europe, U.K and America) easily "trash and demolish" their marriages? Its so rampant in these places. WHY?

*Does it have to do with the environment?

*Does it have to do with this "lone Parent family money" paid to divorced/separated Mums in those places?

*Does it have to do with lack of "extended family support system" in those places?  (Just tell my Father you want to live your husband or wife and he would probably send you for a "mental" check-up first! )

*Does it have to do with the "economic empowerment" of the women?, unfortunately, (in most cases), by the same men who are now the victims!

*Does it have to do with the prevalence of so many "single mothers" in that environment who in turn, wants to lead currently married women astray, using dubious but subtle "advice"?

Does it have to do with men who feel frustrated (for whatever reasons, including joblessness, irresponsible attitude, lack of love, in-fighting inth home, threat of wife arresting them with Police, e.t.c) and just abandon the family and walk away!

We Nigerians need to look at these things because in 15-20yrs from now, those kids will be adults!
I hope we dont end up breeding criminals. There are more "blacks Youths" in Jail now than ever before!

Think! Think!! Think!!!

I am just wondering aloud! (Opens the fridge and takes a can beer, to stop this "wondering aloud )

One particular slowpoke keeps going from thread to thread, "spreading HATE and HER FRUSTRATIONS" about Mercy's wedding![b]

Dont useless, Ugly bitches like her have any good thing in their life?[/b]

Please, take advice:
1.) Drink CYANIDE
2.) Jump of 3rd Mainland Bridge
3.) Go HUG a WET TRANSFORMER

What you should stop doing is spreading the hate in your "loveless and ugly life", around.

Compare your own "pikshure" to Mercy's own!

BTW: Can you brag a wedding pikshure in your life-time?

Asinine rascal!

Keepingmum:
I will be honestly brutal with you. You can use foul language on me, some Posters too are allowed, on this occasion, its all welcome. I'll do it just this once and sit back thereafter.

I have summarized your words here for you to read, a second time! Hear yourself:

I dont want my child to suffer whilst he's with his dad as we've discussed shared custody. However i do not want to carry on funding an "expected acceptable" lifestyle.

What do you mean by “expected acceptable lifestyle”? Who are you referring to?

Today I've decided to get divorced from my husband of 7yrs.
Yes at this point am not interested in makin d marriage work. My mind is pretty much made up I just need very practical advise on how to jugggle work and childcare and all.

You are asking for ADVICE, advice to do what? Divorce? Nope, that you have made up your mind to do that, we can see from your statement.
Advice on how to survive or “escape” the result of your decision? Not possible, as we lay our bed, so we would lie on it

[Quote]I am the primary breadwinner as i've worked hard 2 keep the family (myself, hubby n child) together[/quote]I have always wondered: Why does marriage always collapse once a wife suddenly finds herself in the position of fending for the family? Aside thefact that you two “are now one”, in riches and in poverty, you come here whining about fending for “your own family”?
Like someone asked before, and l want you to respond honestly to the question: If roles where reversed tomorrow and your husband was the breadwinner of the family, Do you pray he should divorce you for being the breadwinner?
Can we do unto others as we expect that it should be done unto us?
Again, someone asked: What if you pack-up and go today or divorce him and the guy (obviously well educated) was tipped as a Minister or Commissioner or Special Adviser or even an Ambassador (l have seen a few transformations like that recently) tomorrow, would you “dust your Marriage Cert” and put it online and come and tell us “men are wicked”, l suffered with  him for 7yrs, see how he is repaying now that he has money! He now wants to marry “Mercy Johnson! (lol).

What exactly is love now-adays? What is marraige all about? Is it all about Money? (Money go, woman go, as they sing it

My hubby is very good with out child. very doting and loving father (physically) but not practically.

Thank God your husband is not even one of those alcoholic that gets drunk all the time and comes home reeking of beer! So he can spend quality time with his child and you will deny that child ‘just that’ for your own personal (selfish) interest?

i feel like i've given this marriage my best shot, i've given it my all and i dont have anything left to give.
I got married when I was 18. I'd b 26yrs in a few wks time and I feel like ve slaved all of my youth 4 a very frustrated angry unappreciative man.

Reading this, l could almost shed tears for your husband.
I thought “what would he do, if he read this comment “his Adams’ rib” made about him!
So he is now a frustrated and angry man, right! Was this man not working when you met him?

I know you’re a smart lady and wont go out with a jobless man.
Tell us, what were you doing when you met him? At “18yrs and Secondary school level (according to your own statement)  how much income were you earning? I bet it was zilch, he was the one working then!
*Can you tell us if he was the one that sponsored you to U.K as well?
*Can you tell us if he stood by you while you were “upgrading academically and working”?
*Can you tell us whether while you went to work, he looked after your child (am not surprised he is a dotting father, what else does he do than look after your child?).
So all those ones don’t count for anything but he is now a frustrated and angry man, just because “he is unemployed and wont take just any job”!

Look at the disgrace you have brought on your husband, in the public domain! Every Tom, Dike and Haruna now have the temerity to call your own husband, all sorts of derogatory names! Just because you drag him on the ground first! I bet a good woman would jealously protect her husband's interest, "as her own crown", says the Good Books!
You know, God is above and  watching all of us! We need to fear God’s judgement, not that of any man. We also need to listen to ourselves at times.

He choose not to work because he feels some jobs r below him. He hasn't got any health or Visa problems dt'll affect his ability to hold a job.
I have sent several job applications to my husband that i feel would fit his "profile" and a[b]dmittedly some that i feel would help ease the financial burden and stress on me[/b] however majority of them he has turned down giving one excuse or the other, whilst the ones he has successfully applied for, he hasnt been successful in the recruitment process.

So he actually was not watching Judge Judy throughout the day? He did apply for some, unsuccessfully!
As an immigrant, in this recession, you think not being successful in ten applications means you're a failure? You think the man has not vision, no plan for his life and that of his family (kid and wife)?
You think "what the dog saw and is barking, is up to what the Sheep saw and is just watching without making any sound"?

Are you aware that in an immigrant family like yours, the “women” are more easily absorbed into the working population, than the men? (mostly Sales, Till operation and Customer Service jobs).
Take a Poll around and you will confirm my hypothesis.
For so many reasons which l cannot begin to explain here, “immigrant” African/black men find it a little harder to secure a job, compared to their wives, from the set, go but somehow, those who keep trying end up getting one, eventually.

This has caused great hardship and trauma for some men and wives have suddenly got “fed-up”, forgetting “How they started out” and who was the breadwinner back then.
Why should a woman desert her husband in his ‘worst hour of need”, when he was most vulnerable?
How would that man view you in future, if he finally made it big? Don’t forget “that child”, God spare his/her life, is a link between two f you for life! He could become an Obama one day, l hope you will tell him “how you ditched his sorry-ass father when he could not find a job!

I will not give you any advice ‘cos l have non to offer you but my submissions are directed towards other women whose husband are going through difficult times and are struggling to keep the family together.
If you’re a Christian, the Book of Proverbs says” A wise woman keeps her family but the foolish one scatters it with her own hands”. Ponder on that for some time.

I will remarry, not soon as thats not a priority or even on my agenda but eventually i will marry, i can bet you on that.

So you have every angle covered, right?  I wish you luck in your chosen route. GO AHEAD AND DIVORCE HIM PLEASE! Maybe that’s God’s way of answering his prayer! But remember, there is something called KARMA! We reap what we sow, sooner than later.

BTW: Does it ever occur to “NairaLand “advisers” that there are always “two sides to a coin” and you should never pass judgement until you hear the other party?
Do you think if it were possible to “ask her husband his own version of the story”, we would get a completely different picture? Maybe someone should advise her to “invite her husband to give us his own side of the story”? Anyway, lets be careful so that “we would not be judged by what we said”.

We are truly in "the last days"!

Cheers &Good luck.

Lastpage.

@Iya Winch

@ lastpage

kneel down

i am not here for games. That is why you will notice i do not respond to insult, mockery, threat etc.

Okay, U sef bow down first.
since you dont have a good sense of humor, l am off to PLAY!

Go on and "FIGHT" then, especially all those 'feefle" that have been abusing you!

@Martinosi: Wetin concern me with your Oyedepo naaah?
Left me alone o!  No mention me again, abegii!
Na jeje Mama Winch they advertize im wares wey you go nak am for were e dey pain am, Now u come they fire prayer seriously!
How u dey feel sef? How the "sniffing" be?  

Calm down, Mama Winch never begin chop feefle for Nairaland.

Looks like "Mods" are sniffed already!

@Iya Winch!

I can see that a few people are already "shaking and trembling" just because you "sniffed" (or is it "sneezed" sef?)!

I can also see that two or three people are daring you and even insulting you!

Are you just going to keep quiet and be reading/writing "epistle" while they openly insult you?

Can you pleaze have their Laps for dinner ASAP!

Dont drain their blood yet, just let them report their "Laps missing" first, here on Nairaland.
after that, you can then use their blood to wash it down proper!

By the way, dont fall my hand o, if nobody reports "missing Lap" in the next 24hrs,
l will have no choice than to ask that you be completely unmasked and flogged with Koboko! (Thank God for Internet, otherwise, l will personally administer the Canning! Fashola or no Fashola's law!)

and no bull-shyte, O ya, bow down naaah?

That reminds me, wont you answer the guy that inquired about using "condom" with Iya-Winch?
How do you like Condom? Do your snakes also eat the condom?
Gosh! Silly snakes!

^^^^
LKWMD! PHCN don see fire from Spider, dis time!

The greatest thing that can happen to electricity in Nigeria, in general, is if those PHCN peeps are prevented form hiding the Pre-Paid Meters!
Or maybe Govt should make a law that allows every one to buy the Meter off-the-shelf and le PHCN staff configure it for the rate of service.

They just dont want people to have that Meter, it ruined "business" for them, big time!

Goldieluks

tpia do everyone a great favour,by asking whoever posted your pic there,
to take it off immediately.enough of us seeing that nightmarish pics of yours,
mercy johnson wannabe.

Latest Jist!

That "pikshure" that is giving everyone Nightmares belongs to one of those who are saying mercy is ugly o!
I hear say she is planning to snatch Odi from Mercy!
Only problem is that Odi already found love and is sticking to it, come rain or shine!
Less than 24hrs to Mercy's "Happily married forever"! Some peeps still dey burst all the pipe for their Neck!

Imagine:
*She refused to release the name of her husband on time : Go find your own husband, abi men no dey chat you-up?
*She was doing photo-ops showing her shopping for wedding gown: Go and do your own shopping or sell your ugly broke-Ass! Even if u no get husband, you are still free to "shuppin-for-gown"!
*She now start telling lies about what she was doing all along: Wetin concern Agbeero with overload? Just mind your bloody business for once!
*She did not keep her public image clean: Says who? Some broke-ass jealous, nightmare-causing babooon? at least she even get "public image", what have YOU got to show, apart from that scary face!
*Her mother joins in saying all sorts of crap: If that is how you "talk and refer" to your own mother, we are not suprised; Like Mother, like daughter!

Mtchew.
Pock-nosing into other peoples life is NOT A LIFESTYLE! Get a "real life" PLEAZE or die trying!

^^^not my kind of style, if you've been reading me.
But l practically "begged' to be left alone (just go to previous page and read my post) but that Typia would not hear!

She thinks she can insult peeps and get a high from it?

Someone needs to put her where she belongs!
THE ZOO.

@Gorrilla-face Typia:

^^your posts are too long for goodness sake!!!!!

stop wasting valuable bandwith just because you want to defend deadbeat drug pushers and their cocaine snorting mistresses!!!

so annoying!!!

frustrated thing!!

I did not know until now that "reading and comprehension" was part of your woes!
And who told you l was writing for re-tarded imbeciles like you?

Who swapped your brains for "Saw-dust"? Was it Mercy Johnson? 
Sorry for you!

Scamper-off with your terrible looks and dont deface Nairaland.

Daughter of a dog!
I've told you over and over again, if you're so annoyed, step outside and HUG A WET TRANSFORMER!
We can do without a cretin like you causing us nightmares with your ugly looks!


@Susanbussy.
Dont mind the low-life.
Such ugly bi-tch!

Almost everyone on N/land knows she's a Nut-Case and yet she would not keep that her wide-mouth, planted on a very ugly face "controlled"!

Imagine the illiterate telling me my post was too long?
Na me say make your parents no send you to good schools?
Abi its my fault that they did not train you to read since you were a kid and can thus write flawlessly and effortlessly!

Frustrated empty barrel!

^^^^hic-hic-hic

Bad-bellee na bad disease naah!
Sleeping alone no-eazy, when Mercy is snugly cuddled-up in Odi's embrace!
She dey roast like Plantain! How she go sleep?

Funnily, Its usually the very ugly ones that rant about someone not being beautiful!

Can you lend them a "small mirror" PLEASE!

Silly shyt head of a baboon!

I would have responded right away but there are too many "assumptions and conjectures" in your reply that l felt l wouldneed time to address them but 1:40am in the night wouldn't be the most ideal!

How can you say the price of a car is "assumed to the the total income of somebody" and therefore make that "quantum leap" to conclude that it must then be his taxable income?
I guess he would not even fuel the car talk-less of paying Rent or feeding!

You keep saying "because HE MUST HAVE", all the time!
Is Tax calculation based on such baseless assumptions?
I know Tax is calculated on hard figures of "Real Income", declared income or estimated income where such estimate is in-line with previously declared income or comparative income of others in similar position but in this case This person did not earn naada from Lagos.

*I said he was charged PAYE! Dont you know this is for "employees"?
Who then was his employer in Lagos? IRS?

Did you see where l said HE ALREADY PAID HIS TAX WHERE HE IS RESIDENT and works?
Or do you pay Income Tax (PAYE) TWICE within the same year?

I can smell you trying to tell me that the failure of the Govt to have "accurate data and database" is the fault of the people whose duty now is to tell them: Hey, l am not a thief, you made a mistake!

Let me hold on till 2morrow please

Cheers.

I was thinking of a block of 4flats with 3bedrooms each, for TENANTS.

Now, l'll changed my mind: Just build meself a nice looking four-bed duplex with a large and well flowered compound!!
NO MORE TENANTS!

Let Fashola be building "For-rent" houses, not me anymore!

I think thats what is going on in the head of prospective Landlords now!
Where does that leave "Demand and Supply of rentable houses?

I dey come.

Get a full size, Angry Chicken! Especially if im get babies!

Dogs can jump but cant fly! Chicken will fly in-case "sharp thief" wants to make the fence!

Am trying not to reply on this issue any more! Truth is "E no concern me at all"!

I am just doing this as an academic exercise in public domain.

@Chelseaguy

@Lastpage
I spend more time in NL reading than writing and I have come  to admire your analytical mind. However, I feel so bad that you refuse to think before dismissing those documents. She was asked of them as prove since Odi said they didn't marry in Italy. Lovely accused Odi of having it (marriage certificate) and she was advised to apply to the registrar for new copy hence the Canadian address( her new abode).

As for the Benin and Warri addresses on the document is simple- Permanent address is your home of Origin since both are still not Citizens. It's common practice here that most documents always ask foreigners for permanent address where necessary.

Please think more before refuting undeniable evidence as my money is on you. Cheers.

Thank you very much, at least you praise me first before yabbing me, shows that you appreciate little effort!

I NEVER dismissed those documents, l only "raised questions about them". Not the same thing.
Or did you see ANYWHERE that l said they were Fake?
I even said inter-alia that

These are just my concerns, it does not show or prove they were not married and its not even my business anyway!

Thats my Caveat in my previous post!

*The "Toronto Canada' was PART OF THE DOCUMENT! (see where the numbers "added" to the document almost obliterate it.)
It was not a "stamp' or "address" or "appendage" to it. Look at it again, it was part of the "printed document".
*Did you also notice that Lovilyn signed and dated the certificate "11/08/2011"?
Can you marry in 2006 and then sign and date it again in August 2011?

REGGIO NELL'EMILIA 11/08/2011 (Registered in Emilia 11/08/2011)
Has anyone done this before?

Am not playing spoiler here please, l am just asking "Questions". Nothing more, for academic exercise ONLY!

I am sure we all have had to request for documents from the govt before and asked that it be mailed to someone or some office.
It wont affect the document itself or change the content of the document in any material way.
It will just be added (in most cases on a separate sheet since YOU CANT ALTER A MARRIAGE CERT OR ANY CERT FOR THAT MATTER, it renders it VOID!) in the content and the envelope labeling.

If you live in Italy, your "home address" will be in Italy.
Your "Permanent Home address" would also be in Italy.
Your "Country of Origin' will be Nigeria.
Marriage Cert dont carry "Village or street of Origin" please! Believe me,l have my own marriage Cert in front of me as l write these!

All the same, l respect your position on the matter.
We agree to disagree.
Thanks.

@Ameboooooo!
Na waar for you, walahi!
I can understand how you feel about this matter, as a woman.
But at times, we have to look at issues dispassionately. (You know like an impartial judge, he might not like your face but he just concentrate on the facts presented before him.)
Tone down your venom for the guy and the lady small.
If you think he is wrong, let the courts or even God, pass judgement on him.
and l do accept that l dont even know anything about this matter (wetin concern fish with flooding?), all l know is all you and some "fans' have presented here-in!

But no vex say l did not swallow your story "hook, line and sinker".
I was brought up to question EVERYTHING, no mater how true it may appear. To form my own opinion based on facts, not sentiments or "group-think" behavior. Now, l understand that we are all unique people in our own ways and l respect you for your own position.

Lets leave the matter.
Love is a beautiful thing and when l see two birds in-love, l am of the opinion that "LOVE can conquer all challenges"!

Cheers all the same, Sis.

@ifyalways:
I completely agree with you, the matter is very complicated and a mess.
We are better-of staying away from the rofo-rofo fight.

When couples split, its one of the most "bitter fights" in the annals of humans!
Na fight till death but its not always like that for the white peeps we are copying!
Cheers.

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^^^Good, l love your reply.
These are the issues:

1.) Is it right and lawful to ask someone who does not work or earn any income within a domain, to be asked to pay INCOME TAX?
2.) Is it right to just slap Tax on people, without verifying that they actually owe the govt?
3.)Why should the government be using "Force" (area thugs, Mopol, e.t.c) to extort money from people who dont owe them, in the form of Tax? Should Govt not provide evidence to its citizens, to show that they owe them Tax?
4.)Why should Lagos state be taxing residents, on the same item of Tax that the Fed have taxed them on, and even the LGA is joining the fray?
5.) Why should they resort to threat and "pay first and complain later" syndrome, just to extort money form people who dont owe them a dime?
6.) After paying all Port duty (if car was imported) and all prescribed Registration fees on a car and used it for more than a year, is it right for the Govt to be "scheming Residents data" from the E-Reg database and using the "price of such vehicle" to impose tax (Now, INCOME TAX o!) on the people? Do you pay income Tax on the price of a car? Where is the income my brother?
7.)Which "information provided by the individual" at the Tax office is not totally true and can you furnish us with the "true information"?


Now, the ball is in your court. Do justice to it.

Cheers.

Did you miss the "pikshure" of that "Queen" l posted somewhere up there?  
How about that tingy bit-ch that looks like a zoo-Gorrilla for a wife?
I go dash u for free

heh-heh-heh, l just dey laugh walahi!

As far as l am concerned, l wish both Odi, Mercy and Lovelyn a happy future ahead of them.

So many handsome men and so many beautiful women to choose from, some "Ugly, sex-starved Gorrilla" wan die cos Mercy wan marry Odi! Chei!!

Thank you Susanbussy.
You need to see the extent l went just to avoid having a conversation with a lonely and definitely going crazy gaal o.

I know she's always attacking anyone that talks about love or relationships.

Thats even okay by me as long as she can keep her vituperation to her mad mind BUT naaah, she must quote my 'handle' ten times, so l can notice that the craze dog don enter house!

I even advised her to let us avoid a discussion but like a lost bit.ch in heat, she just want to bite more than she can chew!
On second thought, Typia also had prostituted in Italoo and was dumped by her "purchased man", l think  that's why she is so mad at Mercy?

hic-hic-hic   Not my fault, NEXT TIME, learn a TRADE! ,.,. and learn to close your legs!

I'll take to your advise and refuse to let insane and rabidly vengeful Rats (respects to Ghadafi! ) disturb my peace.
Let her be, when she has finished foaming in the mouth like Epileptic patient, she will go to her lonely bed and sleep-off

BTW: Can "Admin" give us a "IGNORE" button so we can just erase those we dont want to chat with?
Some cant even take the cue, no matter how you try.

Susanbussy, see the ugly Typia-Bit.ch that is insulting Mercy is o!

No wonder she no get husband, they all used and dump the ugly ma-te-te now she dey vex like mad!

Did Odi not see you with your wide mouth like that of a Gorrila before he went for a cutty babe like Mercy?


Go Hug Wet Transformer and END your miserable life!

Waste of Egg! You way dem for don ecarry do Menses, you come here they foam for mouth like rabbied Dog!

@Susanbussy: Nooo, Let her bust a pipe in her jugular because Mercy has found love while she is roasting here on Nairaland!

Association of husband-less-Ameeboooos!

Once they see another lady  getting hooked, they just develop blood-pressure!

I send una?

The id-iot doesn't even know her sexuality ANYMORE!
What a lost cause! "Male" indeed!

I now you're a complete i.diot!
Cant you notice l have refused to address you, not even indirectly!

Yet you keep mouthing "Lastpage" like your life depends on it!

I DONT find your posts "disturbing".
I know you're re.tard.ed and have emotional issues with men. Why would l bring myself to your level?
You the type that goes like "Once beaten, twice disgraced, always a vengeful Arrow"!

Get a life instead on focusing on Mercy!
Infact, show us your own husband, if you have one! Or are you just trying to "snatch" Odi from her?
Jealous, Fake cretin!

When she marries on Saturday, morons like you can go Hug a NEPA Transformer!

You know if you didn't quote me, l will not have warned you about trying to engage me!

I reserve my discussions with people who have a balanced and healthy lifestyle, while respecting yobs like you who dont.

Keep your Piggy-stuff to yourself P-L-E-A-S-E.

If you think l am scared, then so be it.

End of "attempted" discussion!
Abi na by force? Zip!

^^^^U know l will NEVER engage you in a conversation "about men/relationship" since l got to know your position on such issues!

I will suggest we keep it that way.
Just ignore my comments like you never saw them!

Happy days!

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^^^^That was cute!

Please spare something for Lovelyn too, naaah?

You can see the "Relationship Failures" crawling out of the WOODWORK!

Some of Mercy's haters are actually dying to have "her Prince Charming"!

BTW: Lets have the "pikshure" of your husband (while you're at it, IF YOU HAVE ONE ) so we can see your own taste!

Useless, jobless haterz!
When she finally marries on Saturday, just make sure you'all HUG A WET TRANSFORMER!

haha, wetin sef?
As usual, "Ameeebooooooo!" is doing well in her chosen career!

@AmeboAjela

Guy, not to be rude are you like Nairaland's Police, Cia or FBi? Investigating and giving criteria on how long a person should be on this site before posting and who writes and doesn't write alike? I didn't bother replying your last insinuation because thats not why i am here neither did you even address the topic at hand but rather spent time playing Colombo,  A quick note though, did you realize the person on the other pics is an Actress? Yeah I got the inside scope on this gist and am sounding alarm everywhere, not just on my blog so anybody person that post the same gist got it from me. Soon, this will be on a major naija magazine I am working on it. I write the way I write wether pidgin, yoruba or ibo and if anybody else writes like me so be it, its a free world. If I don comit crime with my post here please tell me so i stop otherwise concentrate on the topic at hand and stop all this your questions [b]and trying to make people feel unwelcome here. [/b]My reason for posting about this is simple,to alert the world that what Mercy Johnson and his so called Prince are doing is not good. And I have been vindicated by a comment posted on my Blog (by someone that has actually helped Odi and knows him one on one) Odi is heartless and Wicked and Mercy would receive a potion of his wickedness unless she widraw at the last second. See post below

First, l think you should stop all these "swearing" in public! Shows lack of self-control and public discipline!
Dont develop Migraine for another man/woman's headache!

Now, l am  not any Police or whatever, l am just someone that looks at issues with an "open mind" (no preconceptions) and l hate to be taken for a ride, just like most people! Dont just assume "intelligent peeps" are trying to act like Police, its common sense!

You, have made it your "full-time job" to go around swearing and castigating the Man in this case.
Well, may be for lack of something better to do and out of some deep-seated hatred for men (in general) that is borne out of your own previous experiences with men! I sympathize with people like you but you have to get rid of this kind of hatred, it is poisonous to your health!

Fall in Love again, and again if need be, till you find your soul mate but if you chose not, you and your likes should keep that vengeance-infested mind under control.
WORD!

I have seen the "provided" Certificates and Divorce petitions.
Like some have highlighted, "those documents need serious vetting" because there are loads of discrepancies on them.

Like:
*dates not matching, (What is 2011 doing right in the middle of a marriage certificate consummated in 2006?)
*How come "Toronto" Canada is written on a marriage Certificate issued in Italy? Hmmmm. Toronto again!!
*If you marry when residing in Italy, there is no way the court Registrar in Italy will use a "Benin/Warri Address" knowing you live in Italy!
*And if you reside in WARRI, then no court Registrar will issue you an Italian Marriage Cert (they dont do "marriage in absentia" in a Registry naah?)
*Again, which woman will be marrying a man and when they reach the Registry, would permit the man to start bearing another name "or" has she been calling him, his "Grandfathers name" when they were dating? 
*If that is the case, why is she addressing him as Odi now? Why not just keep addressing him as 'Garza'!
*How can we really be sure that this Cert belongs to the guy, with all those discrepancies, knowing Nigerians for their "Oluwole/Toronto stuffs"?

*To make maters worse, "the evidence" was in a language most peeps cant even read! LKWMD! Give us a translation naah?

These are just my concerns, it does not show or prove they were not married and its not even my business anyway!

And just to add, if the marriage was conducted in Italy, why is she "responding with a lawyer" in Benin City, Nigeria? What about "Jurisdiction"?

Lets just keep our mouth out of this mess and let them sort themselves out, with time! (You will nearly collapse if you peep into Lovelyn's apartment one day, (from hearing some funny noise), only to discover that Odi and her were into the usual husband and wife "monkey business"!
E go pain you-die!

BTW: On a different note, l think couples who were once lovers, should learn to "maintain some level of public decorum and stop washing their dirty linen in Public" when the love "dries up"  (it does happen a lot, only that in this case, the man seems to be a step ahead, if it were the other way round, we would not even entertain his whining for a second! ),. It does them no good and would probably create psychological issues for the kids, going forward! Move-on and find someone else, you are both doing fine as regards livelihood.

And the "sooth sayers" should get something doing for a change!

Cheers.
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