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Anybody who carries assumptions like this definitely has issues, and as a result, they make up generalizations just to make themselves feel good.
So what do you want us to say now? Yeah, light skin is the best abi! 
Mschew! ! So needy. . . . . . 

Visit new places. Travel out of town together (you guys can stay @a hotel), change your environment. Try different things in bed (very essential this one)! . . . .  
If you try all and it still isn't working for her. Just let it go. Its not just meant to be .  

What is OP's point?

SMH!
I can't imagine how people would think that a whole bunch of girls from one ethnic group will be the most beautiful? Thus implying that others are ugly or what! 

Sinners in the house of God!!!

Don't do any s.!hit with him cause of money. start job hunting already and try to talk to your gf about it

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=788140.msg9412081#msg9412081 date=1319503639]I'm sure if his boss was a lady, we wouldnt have heard anything. o.[/quote]True !

Hw Far Can U Go 2 Prove your Luv To A Girl

buy her a blackberry

all4naija:
So, you better show some respect!

Sorry but I don't accord respect to aggressive, bile and bitter people. 
I only show respect to those whom respect is due! https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-happy059.gif

Olodostein:
@lindabon
Which status?   Are you "Her Majesty's" daughter?

Nah, but I WISH. 
I just wanted to make a point to someone on this thread 

all4naija:
Who says it is a big deal!? bleep off if you couldn't see what I am trying to explain here. Don't get on my nerves a.s.s.h.o.l.e! Do I even give a damn about where you are from? You are the one who made the issue seems a big deal. Zap off - you are a repugnant B.I.T.C.H! As if I care!!!

buhahahaha. . . . Why are you sounding so bitter! !  https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-happy107.gif
Can't you make your point without sounding aggressive and bile??   
SMH!! 

all4naija:
You don't know me, I can only tell you I am a dude inbetween the two races and currently in interracial relationship. So, I am already almost taken.

I'm currently in an interracial relationship too. NO BIGGIE THERE.
And because of my r/ship status, I wont even bother "to know you" anyways

Reasons of Many Black Women Dating White Men Nowadays
Posted by Lanie
Nowadays, the idea of black women dating white men isn’t a new thing. Many interracial dating websites make this all possible. It’s not that there is a shortage of black men. I think that people nowadays are getting more and more open-minded. Gone are the days of racists and “black people = slaves” mentality. However, we can’t deny that this mentality is still present within our society.

In these past years, interracial dating is viewed as normal in our society. Let’s just say that people are beginning to think outside of the box. Black women now expanded their options and not limiting themselves only to men that are of the same race. Statistics even show that the number of black women dating another race today is steadily increasing. There are several reasons for this increase.

One reason can be because of educational attainment. In a study it was stated that since the ‘70s, there has been a 55% increase in the number of black women earning degrees. However, there is only a 20% increase. Chances are that black women or women in general want someone who have an educational level that is the same with them or even higher. It just so happens that the number of white men that are able to attain this is higher than that of black men.

Other reasons on why the number of black women dating other races is increasing includes: opportunity, environment and availability. For instance, you live in an area where there is only a small population of black men. This will make you consider dating other white men that happen to live in the area. One shouldn’t limit their options just because of racial barriers. Just because a guy is white doesn’t mean that a black woman can’t appreciate and love him. After all, Mr. Right doesn’t have to be the same color as you are.

Falling in love with someone that comes from a different race than yours doesn’t necessarily mean that you are against an entire race. People will have different assumptions on black women dating white men. Some will say that the reason why a black woman is dating a white man is because she wants to be rich. Now come on, not all white people are rich. Some people also think that white women who date black men are ignorant, dumb or poor.

Obviously, these assumptions aren’t true in all cases. One shouldn’t even be thinking this way. They may have their reasons why they are thinking this way and they are entitled to their own opinions but that doesn’t mean that people from different races should be judged as a whole. There is nothing wrong with interracial dating if you just thinking about it. The only thing stopping some of us from dating people from another race is that barriers that racism built. Racism is like a poison in our society and if we don’t deal with it, it will surely get the best of us.
Interracial dating between blacks is out there now and women will follow suit. Something they always wanted to do anyway

Just thought I should add!!  
Bottom-line, just date whoever you wanna date and don't make ego defensive remarks (like most attractive race, manly, big kini), device hatred on black women or make excuses for loving another race. . . Just Relax, do your thang and stay BLESSED!!!

all4naija:
Naturally, Black men are more attractive because they seem to be manly than the White men.

Stop feeling so hot ! all races are manly and attractive in their own way!  Every race will have their own share of woworish creatures. Being black will never turn a wowo black man to a cute dude!  
Most black dudes are fond of making generalizations just to satisfy their woworish ego! SMH!

There are no White man that would like to engage what a Black man will endure when it comes to relationship with the opposite race

They don't endure, but they are rather too soft and weak to quit. Instead of quit, they will resort to cheating and domestic violence. Is that how to endure ?

You are endemic to your knack [/b]thing and your mind is there and that is the reason why you couldn't see beyond that!

I got all your points right and i cleared them, you just chose to see what you wish to see?
The point i was trying to make there was that most black dudes are not all that in bed which counters your own point that they are "manly in bed"! Why did you only seem to notice the knack part?  So lemme pose same question back at ya, "Do you even read to understand?"

And yup, I'm only jealous of cute, down to earth black dudes, but I'm not sure I can be jealous of you . . . .

[size=14pt]There are still good black guys! Just that the useless one's are giving the whole lot bad names with their ever so [b]pompous ego![/size]

Kutey:
By the way no, angelina jolie dated loads of guys including girls but never black.
Paris hilton said she wouldnt be caught dead with a black man.

Nope they don't hear things like that.
Most Black guys want to hear what they wish to hear.

all4naija:
The truth is that White men look effeminate when compare to Back men. That is, Black men can stand rigorous situation and maybe manly in bed. Naturally, Black men seem to be more attractive than White men(who are too artificial and frail looking).

Rigorous situation you say? hmm, nope! We haven't struggled out of slavery yet. Modernized slavery is what we are into presently.
They aint manly anything in bed abeg! Maybe some but most of them have turned to something else, something monstrous. They have carried black man pride into bedroom activities these days, and this is F'ing things up. They just knack, knack, knack but can't take you there. All thanks to alomo bitters. 

all4naija:
I see beyond race and I go for whoever I love, being it White, Red, yellow, Black or whatever color!

You see beyond race yet "Naturally, Black men seem to be more attractive than White men".
I wont even bother to argue that "being attractive part", cause i might start hating and bringing down black men. So let me just let that pass! 

nolongTing:
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zyS8K6kS4OY?version=3&hl=en_US[/flash]

The women don't even understand English! buhahaha they cant even make a point without forcing and begging women to love them! What a shame!!SMH!

Crown Prince:
She flew to abuja from her guys [/b]base to possibly meet [b]a man [/b]recommended for her by the family. Lied to [b]his guy dat she was attending a function in school. She came back announcing she is no longer interested in the relationship that her parents dont support her anymore. Her guy asked her to pack her things and leave. One week later she,in company of her parents arrested and detained her guy [/b]with d help of [b]the new guy. Now,the lady is threatening and blackmailing my guy after seven months of seperation.

her guy, his guy, a man, the new guy, my guy!!
OP, which one nah 

Crown Prince:
Whats your view

OP, i hate puzzles! https://www.pic4ever.com/images/tooth.gif

What a story.
OP, next time, try and make your story more credible you hear!!

The cheating bastard, "your husband", is the one you need to deal with! Condemn your husband and stop condoning his adulterous act!Don't know why you  will want to kill yourself or another person because of "a man". I don't deal with married men, and i never will, but as married women, your husband should be your companion and not an asset/property.Any time he messes up, either you swallow it and work on your marriage or you let the marriage go! MARRIAGE IS NOT A DO OR DIE AFFAIR HABA!!!

How about other girls that he will go after when he is through with this one? Or do you think this is going to be the last? Why will you turn from a happy, fulfilled woman and mother to a terrorist and destroyer, when their are millions of deserving men out there who will treat you like a queen and will never break your heart.Even your kids deserve a better man and father figure than a lying, cheating father!

You are just compiling wickedness and hatred in you! .  . Never will i resort to fighting my fellow woman because of any inconsistent, low life bastard of a man!!! OP, NO MAN IS WORTH THIS STRESS YOU ARE PUTTING YOURSELF THROUGH PERIOD!!!

WILL U ACCEPT A MAN YOUNGER THAN YOU?

YEAH SURE!

Dear "the worst thing that has ever happened to me",

The lord giveth and the lord taketh. . . .
So as i continue to mourn you (cause you are dead to me),
I pray that all the wayo you played during this relationship, will come back to you a million fold!
Have a miserable life ahead.

Thanks, oh and yeah, hope you've worked on your bedmatic skill cause you were the worse s.e EVER!!!   


                                                                                                                     Your worse Nightmare,
                                                                                                                      ME!!!!

MsDarkSkin:
[size=28pt]^^ "this is what it sounds like when DOVES cry!"[/size] 

ladies this thing claimed we bleach our skin. wear weaves, etc to look white right?
did i or did i not post pictures to show that white women go under the KNIFE and sun bathe to look like us
yet THAT is what they choose over the original?

funny how he says we will remain alone and have self esteem. typical black man using the size of his
"buddy" to compete with the pockets and ego of a white man.

LET'S SAY IT ON THE COUNT OF THREE LADIES. . .

1, 2, 3,

[size=28pt]SIT'YO'AZZ'DOWN!![/size]  

It just amazes me really. Little things and they go, "YOU WILL NEVER GET MARRIED WITH THIS ATTITUDE".  I love it when they use lines like this. At that point you are assured that they have been badly hit, but they will never take it lying low; If its a confrontation with their wives, they will now resort to abuse, and violence! SMH @ childish empty threats! https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-happy118.gif
Na today?!

To all my respectful black guys, that don't call their mothers black, undesirable and ugly, you guys ROCK! And remain the best choice of husband for black women!
To other self hating black niggars, DROP DEAD!!  

[quote author=obo_man link=topic=786945.msg9403666#msg9403666 date=1319399900]Empires rise and fall, 2day's slaves might be 2morow's empire.[/quote]You are right here! And that is why I wish we can uphold this positive attitude towards everything. This "ultimate black men" and all that is not going to lead us anywhere, especially when these facts can't hold water. Pride will always be the root to the downfall of any man. We know our flaws as black people, but we always prefer to look the other way. We need to find something original, something to say- "this is our own contribution to the world"

Over here in Europe, some black guy's parents toil day and night back home in Africa just to bring them over here for them to get the privilege to quality western education. Instead of the guys here to focus, they come here and start pursuing white women up and down. In clubs and outside, i see them parading from pillar to poll, begging for the attention of white women  (amid the series of numerous and constant rejection) and when they get lucky, next thing, they start vomiting crap like "white women have the hots for us" and "black women are single because of us". This is why I laugh at most of them when they yarn poo like this to me cause i know where they are coming from.

It's a pity that even honest men from other races will tell you that our black men see and threat women as objects. SMH!  


This "white women love us" BS is a diversion brought by our slave masters, "the white men" to further divert black people from what is important. White men continue to be the most conniving SOB's and we sheepishly fall victims to their manipulation over and over again. This is why they will never dispute all these Delusional theories we keep bringing up because they know how it continues to keep us as their slave

We seriously need to let go of our unmerited pride honestly. A world were a black man is the dominant race is not looking good at the moment cause with such mentalities as this, the world might be prone to a lot of catastrophe. Imagine now that we have nothing, we dey claim say we have everything; What will happen if na us dey control the rest of the world. Hehe, nobody go hear for us again oooo! Then sef, black men will command men of other races not to marry any woman, rather let women from the different races be left for them and them alone because they are the hottest. Next  they will order that every black woman be executed because we are the least attractive!!

[quote author=obo_man link=topic=786945.msg9403637#msg9403637 date=1319399553]@Linda, I'm not aggressive or egoistic, just pissed you talking rubbish. You just keep repeating yourself and it's getting boring.
You keep going on about science, maths and technology and I don't get it.[/quote]Buhahaha, You seem to be the only one bored and pissed at my post so yeah WHATEVER!! https://www.pic4ever.com/images/nudie.gif

both of them must be very high on weed https://www.pic4ever.com/images/bad_boys_20.gif

mine was always "looking for sympathy" and demanding for one favour or the other; either he was begging for a new phone, or ipad, or a calling card, or to order pizza or chinese for him, or money to cut his hair etc etc .Woah! and i thought women were the beggars! 
Coupled with he was terrible in 
Yeah, and the relationship ended after 2 and a half months. 
Gave testimony in church and thanked God for taking that baggage away from my life! [s]Spoke in parables so the church people didn't really get the gist[/s]
Literally , Love almost blinded me completely I SWEAR! I thank God for his divine grace!  

@OP
You definitely know that she is just unto you for your pocket right?

look at dem angry men on here!!   

Ever so ego defensive. Men like these are the kinda one's that will always hate themselves for being who they are. Can't you feel the hate, self pity, denial, blind defence, and as usually blank,pointless and blind facts.  Ever wondered why there are too many domestic violence cases in mostly black communities? Because people cant seem to stand it when someone is not agreeing with their own point. Little things and they start throwing punches. Defend your point without being violent, abusive and aggressive No way!!; Some cant stand it!  
No wonder the African continent is always going backwards.  

They must have read the part were i said;
Yeah, and this is not a generalization, there are still many sensible black men, who date outside their race for genuine reasons, and will never turn around to call their own mother ugly because she is "black"!!


After reading this, some still looked at the other bad part and seeing that "there" is were they belong, decided to go for attack and defence at once. Typical behaviour of most frustrated black men!
Seriously, why will anyone bother arguing or exchanging words with such people?  

And saying that "the white race is dominant" doesn't call for "low self esteem". It's just about knowing the truth and trying to empower the black race so that we can do better knowing who we. Knowing our limitations will help us balance our stregths with our weaknesses. No need to live in denial and childish lies when the truth is right there in front of everyone. And the advice goes to both the black men and women (not just the men ooo) who indulge in "self hate". Such negative energy, is just not taking our black people anywhere . . .

SAY THE TRUTH AS IT IS AND STOP LIVING IN DENIAL AND UNDESERVED PRIDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Watch out for more "Angry Self Hating Black Men Part 2" after this comment. . . .  

Buhahaha, Na today!!!
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OP, pele

It's not easy to be pweety! !

i couldn't comprehend!

@OP, actually you are so wrong. A recent survey has shown that women are more promiscuous than men. Statistics have also backed this up;Check this site>
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1093011/Women-far-promiscuous-men-says-shock-new-study.html

You must be living in Nigeria where a higher percentage of women are circumcised. Hence the low s.ex drive (libido) among the females. In the developed world, women no longer give a damn about "what society thinks of them". They are ever ready to spread their legs to anybody.

Women also feel the same thing you feel whenever you get those urges so don't get it twisted. Only the strong at heart and the sensible of both the male and female keep their body to themselves.

Bottom line; stop justifying your actions. If you wanna be promiscuous, feel free. After all, if all men were faithful, it would not be a fair world.
Plz, don't drag the good one's with you by spreading these kind of gossips! You just make yourself look needy and pathetic coupled with low self esteem when you resort to nonsensical reasoning like this