₦airaland Forum

helinues:
Wailers should rest IJN

Is Osun election federal election?

Why are there so many half baked lots in the opposition's camp?

All Nigeria Elections are conducted by INEC a federal body and the rules governs INEC in conducting these Elections.

They didn’t just show up today before him and the congregation to be married, why didn’t he bring his immigration status before now?

He is very arrogant and can’t summarize their marriage like that. This is even in the western world where people rarely marry for love again. It appear he has singled them out for this public humiliation from the start and didn’t have the decency to bring this with them during their close door marriage counseling sections.

Most marriages today are for convenience and comfort…..he has what she needs or looking for and she has what he needs or looking for. No one goes into marriage not wanting some type of benefit or outcome for themselves.

If marriages are truly for love, why is Dangote or Bill gate daughter falling in love with the Truck pusher on the street?

Tunde835:
Bro you know I'm right. How many married men are happy with their marriage ten years down the line

There are utopia world or scenarios out there!

Absoluteness is as incorrect as stereotypes; there are both unhappy single and married men out there.

Agreed, marriage is not for everyone but just as two good heads are better than one, there are many single men who would do better by combining forces with a good woman as a wife.

Tunde835:
Getting married for men is introduction to a world of responsibilities, sex starvation, your wife potentially cheating on you, your kids eventually abandoning you at old age, nagging and if you live in the western world divorce. There are men in the western world who are sitting in jail cause they missed out on child support payments. As a man you can have children, take care of them but don't get married. There's a reason men die earlier while women who have almost no responsibilities outlive them. There is nothing you can achieve in a marriage that you can't achieve single as a man. Imagine raising someone else's child for 20 years and the wife fully knows its not your child.

All your reasons against marriage and for advocating for men to be single also affect single men, every one of them:

1. Single men also have lots of responsibilities, some even more their married counterparts.
2. Single men still go through sex starvation.
3. Single men still get cheated on.
4. Single men still get abandoned by their kids, more so than married men.
5. There are single men sitting in jails today because they could not pay child support.
6. Men on average, single or married die earlier than women.
7. Single men still raise other men kids.
8. Single men still get nagged at.

So, what is your point actually?

Bros N150k is like $200, that is cheap to cover all the church administrative requirements.

You don’t do this twice, even at the cheapest, your traditional bride price requirements wouldn’t be cheaper than that.

I don’t know what you mean by ‘just paying the dowry’ and having a little get to get with the family.

You don’t pay dowry directly to the bride parents, you pay it to the community who then give you a receipt and give the parents their portion and the community marriage community have their marriage lists and requirements that you must follow.

Anything worth doing is worth doing well. Everyone in that community who does church or traditional marriage goes through this same process and I doubt if you are the poorest among them.

Go back to the Pastor and negotiate the barest minimum that would be required to take care of the church stuff while explaining your situation with the Pastor.

Negotiate the marriage list with your inlaws, there are lots of things that can be waived.

In all, don’t cut corners do your marriage proper, yes cut out the reception if you can’t afford it, but do the basic church and traditional stuff.

After you guys are long gone, the parents and relatives of the bride will be left behind in the community to face the stigma and ridicule of how their kids were not properly married.

If polygamy…” contradicts her own faith and family values” does divorce affirm those same faith and family values?

She is the legally married wife and rightful woman in that home according to those faith and family values she is quoting and should not be the one to remove herself from that position and give up her place to another.

These celebrities divorces and remarriages follows a predictable script and pattern, in that after her divorce, I wouldn’t be surprise to see her getting married or having an affair with another divorcee or separated man, which is definitely against her faith and family values.

Faber:
Omo I am yet to hear of the church and Pastor that wedded Adam and Eve our so called first parents..., Adam use im hand wed Eve🤔🤔

Also I dey wonder everyday I see a bible, either Good News bible, KJV etc; how Adam and Even gave birth to only 3 sons, two died out of family squabble (Cain and Abel) the last one born is Seth. Now what baffles me is where Seth went and married the woman with whom he populated the world. Whose daughter Oga Seth married? 🤔🤔


Religion na scam, use your head...it is just a public association of people believing in some power and creator somewhere. No one can deny me my joy or carry me go where I no know or place a heavy burden on my head because of African version of Christianity...e no fit happen

Gen. 5:4
“…And the days of Adam after he had begotten Seth were eight hundred years: and he begat sons and daughters…”

The Bible can’t list all the children of Adam & Eve, those three were mentioned because they marked an important event and message to be passed down.

Adam was 130 years when he had Seth, and after Adam gave birth to Seth, he lived another 800 years, and the Bible said, he gave birth to sons & daughters during this time.

This is a needless Advertisement and even endorsement from the Drug Authorities.

Those taking these pills know why they are taking and it may not be unrelated to getting some extra miles in the other room.

By mentioning the drug and confirming that, it contain an active ingredient in one of the federally approved sex enhancing drug, they have given this cheap and more readily available alternative a boost.

People that have been taking it with doubt in the past, have now been reassured and those on the sideline because they do not know the contain of the drug have gotten their confirmation from FDA.

They would have just stopped by saying that, it contain dangerous substances for your health period!

complexstuffs:
She isn't innocent. She girl most likely paid someone to do it for her

She most likely went to "result upgrade" centers that are scattered all over south east.

So, if she has to do it as you suggested, she would inflate to the point of getting the highest score nationally?

If there is such a thing as ‘result upgrade’ which I don’t doubt may exist, because this is Nigeria….people that do them only try to clear cut off marks, I doubt if any such center would agree to even inflate anyone’s score so as to obtain the highest score nationwide.

In any case, her case would be easily proven, JAMB have her computer test papers, which can be easily produced.

TemplarLandry:
If the low-key wedding they had wasn't a sham, she's already elegible to apply for American citizenship and start carrying the Blue Passport. Davido's American citizenship is probably why she's always playing “mumu”. And unfortunately, her bag-Ifeanyi is no more.

She can’t apply for American citizenship…,that is not how it works.

Davido have to apply for and sponsor her for Green Card, she cannot apply on her own.

Given this your myopic logic and conclusions…

I guess handjob either from you to your wife or her to you is also demonic, since hands are not ‘sex organs’.

You are also prohibited from kissing your wife, the mouth is not a ‘sex organ’ based on your logic, it is meant to eat food and praise the Lord.

You must not also ever engage in the sinful act of sucking your wife’s boobi, as that would also be against the natural way of things.

Do you cuddle your wife, I don’t see where God said we should cuddle our wives either in the Bible, so repent.

Hope you only do the missionary style, get her to lay down do your thing and move on.

Bakrabas:
But at least sanity begins with one state, It might spread like wildfire as time goes on

It is obvious you don’t know the US, it is much more likely for States having abortion ban to reverse them with time.

Majority of the US supports women choice, most of these votes to ban abortion are part line votes and many are in battleground states.

Bakrabas:
Sanity is coming back to the states

How so?

This is just one state’s affairs, abortion is still a right in more than half the states in the US and people can move across the border to get them.

Damian911:
If DARPA and other research organization can get to work on this anti nuclear thing, there wouldn't be this fear of annihilation trust me I strongly believe in it [b][/b]

You must be very dart or highly uninformed if you think this has not been thought or if trillions of dollars have not been expended on this already.

The west do not often put in display their deterrent mechanism. The west have come up with anti gun, anti war tank, anti missiles, anti radar detection, anti sound detection….name any deterrent or defensive tool, it has been researched and there is a form of it in testing.

Nuclear weapon provides a different kind of challenge because it is almost instant death and any ‘anti defensive’ mechanism can produce additional radiation into the atmosphere rather, the tool have to absorb nuclear radiation, energy and fire.

emmabest2000:
China with strong economy and powerful leader has been dreaming of bringing down the exchange rate of USD for two decades by all means but .....
RMB to USD
2003 to 2005 100usd - 820rmb
2006 to 2009 100usd - 810rmb
2010 to 2012 100usd - 780rmb
From 2013 till 2022 the lowest was
100usd - 640rmb
Currently the price now is around
100usd - 710rmb
Believe me if it is that easy China would have force down the exchange rate to 100usd = 100rmb

But for Naira
2003 100usd 130naira
2023 100usd 700naira

Not true, China is artificially undervaluing the yuan against the dollar for years.

Washington is against this policy and have been urging China to allow the yuan to compete freely on the open market and China has refused.

China is a major export hub to the USA, a weak yuan would favor Chinese exporters and make yuan very cheap to USA importers trying to get goods & services from China.

Current weak Naira will attract investors and foreigners willing to export goods & services out of Nigeria, as Naira strengths, the attraction will start dying down as it would become more difficult to get hold of Naira on the open market.

TemplarLandry:
Last time I checked, Nigeria was still a sovereign state. Someone should tell this European bloc to stop pokenosing into our internal affairs. Anything African is never good enough in their eyes.

It was Nigeria & INEC that went begging them, then invited them in, gave them access to INEC and asked for the report.

Sovereign State indeed! In order to seek relevance and international recognition, it is the so-called Sovereign Nigeria state that go out of their way to invite all these foreign entities, pay for their flights, give them polish reception, accommodation, protection, etc all in a bid to showcase themselves to the outside world that they are doing something great!

Judolisco:
how dem humble am...

Russians sabi respect their country pass anything...alleged Coup and no single person was killed...

Some people go cry go sleep dis night... Same wagner group that were terrorist 2 days ago suddenly became heroes overnight... Omo I fear western media oh

Yea right….So why was Putin ranting on TV few hours ago that, these guys would be severely dealt with, after ranting he ran out of Moscow while the Wanger group approaches.

Let’s than 24hrs, from his secret bunker he pronounced them free and even rewarded them by giving them one of his cities to control.

No response, no apologies, nothing from the Wanger group or it’s leader. This shows weakness on Putin’s side, he would have kept to his words or shut his mouth. As a king, your words should be your bond.

Now he have a rebel, someone who have openly and internationally defile him living as a freeman controlling a huge army with many Russia army defecting and that person is living and controlling one of Russia’s biggest cities ceded to him by a now weaken Putin.

NotATroll:
I am single and a Quantity Surveying graduate.
My budget is 4m.
What are my options pls?
Any country apart from African and Asian
Thank you

The 4m is that in dollars or in Naira? If in Naira, is that your flight ticket? FYI De moni no go even reach flight ticket 4 som countries.

Solidkay:
You can't fight the government and win,
The Wagner group should know this and back down...

The truth is, fighting the Wagner group, the very highly trained mercenaries that having been helping Russia in the war front is Putin’s nightmare.

Unlike the fight with Ukraine, Russia is highly handicap here; because this fight will be taking place on Russia own territory, so Russia wouldn’t be using missiles, wouldn’t be using bombs, no nuclear weapon….this will be a tactical Street on street hand battle between both sides from house to house and in many cases using knives, guns, snipers, etc and these mercenaries are more well trained compare to Russia soldiers.

If Putin use the weapons, bombs, missiles he have been using on Ukraine in his own territory on his own people, he would have helped recruit more Russians against him.

This is very bad for Russia, Putin would prefer a diplomatic way & dialogue to resolve this.

guywitzerogal:
Amotekun threatens Nigeria Army….. wahala

Apples and oranges comparison….

These are the same mercenaries that Russia employed and are heavily relying on to fight the war in Ukraine.

These has been the soldiers in the war front for Russia against Ukraine….they are better trained and have more fighting experience than Russia soldiers.

Their limitation is equipment, armourer and if this rift with Russia is true, I see America, NATO and the West exploiting it and start to supply them with weapon….but it would be a good idea for the West to stay back and let it develop.

WilsonBright935:
Hello everyone,

What steps do I need to take to know the size of my fiancée's finger size without letting her get involved (I'm planning a surprise proposal on her birthday).


N/B: she lives in outside my county
All contributions are welcome.

Start with the size of your finger and adjust slightly downward or upward to compensate for hers.

Order the ring with one of these reputable jewelry store and ask for their ring re-sizing service, some have this baked into the price for a month or mine…You can even negotiate it for one year.

Order the adjusted price, do your surprise and send the ring back for the proper size adjustment.

Jashub:
Get your lawyer and tell him to meet you in court on the grounds of libel and defamation of character. Its that simple .

The problem with that is….they accused ‘someone in the yard’.

Even if suspicions could be casted on him, as long as they did not mention his name to a third party that he is the one, there is nothing he can do.

NOC1:
300 what, how is it possible?
First few times are rape the rest are with consent

It is not possible to be a day or week occurrence

Minor cannot legally consent to sex, therefore any and all sex with them is considered rape.

Racoon:
The Bible does not accommodate divorce for any reason. Even when the pharisees asked Jesus Christ a trickish question to justify divorce in order to trap Him, He didn't bulged but boldly affirmed that the good Lord does not accept divorce.

The Bible passages about divorce speak to believers. If you believe that marriage is a divine covenant, then it so addressed to people living under that divine covenant.

Unbelievers and sinners are not under this covenant and can marry whoever they which, and the commandments against being unequally yoked in marriage does not apply to them same as other marital commandments.

Sin is sin be it divorce, theft, lies, false witness, white lies, lust, etc….Jesus died for all our sins and God will forgive. Just like believers can backslide and get into sin, but if they repent and come back like the progida son, God will forgive and accept them back is the situation if one divorce.

Dis one weak me…. PMB will address world leaders on ‘Educative ways to fix the Economy’.

You can’t make dis up.

Who go go arrest Police IG now? Abi the Judge go go do the arrest by himself?

In fact, it is far easier to arrest the Judge and lock am for cell, IG boys go run that errand in a jiffy.

Abolodje:
It takes approximately two years to have sex with your girlfriend after asking her out.

WOW! Na him bi say dem don reduce am bi that na. It use to be five years before oh!

Lexzeey:
I gave an honest assessment of my situation without sugarcoating and your only reasoning is how I am playing victim? Seriously what is wrong with you?

But, there is something missing in your ‘honest assessment’.

Do you have money? Where do you live? How do you live? What kind of job do you do?

A typical 9ja girl is looking for someone to shoulder her financially for the rest of her life and they can sense that from your social media page, the way you carry yourself, etc.

Look for financial stability and Nigeria girls would naturally be attracted to you.

Who wears the trouser in that house, you or your wife?

I agree, there are some objections from your wife which are reasonable and you have to accept eg she is sick, very very tired, but the reason you posted is not one of them.

If her objections are not one of the above, you can judge based on your circumstances if they are reasonable and if they are, be the man and rectify them and if they are not, be the man and make your wife give you what due you and rightly belongs to you….unless, if she is the one that wears the trouser in that house.

Don’t be a whimper men, women don’t respect sissy men, they respect someone who know road, some who is in charge, someone who can direct them, they are looking for someone they can follow and can give direction, someone who have solutions, go back to your house and be that man!

WesternPanzer:
What a stupid iddiot. Serves him right.

You already know these people don't like you. You leave your country to go to their country. Instead of minding your business and face what is facing you... You decide to go mess with fake kids.

Yes... I say fake kids because I know there maybe no real kids actually. These people set up fake profiles to stalk sexual predators and once you fall into their trap... You are gone.

And why was the mugu saying sorry or kneeling down? Does he really think it moves these people?

If you are new to the West, learn how their system works. Its very important.

Yes, this look like a sting operation, they revealed that much…they say, they are ‘Warriors for kids’ or something along those lines and they have the full chat logs, so he has been chatting with them all along, and if you look at the questions the ‘kids’ were asking, they were to get his intent documented on the chats and to rope him in more.

The lady and the guy faked being relatives to the ‘kids’ and faked some emotional ‘pains’ to lure him more so to get his confession, sorry, admission and right after the Police arrived they burst out laughing, which confirmed they were job there to get him.

On his part, he talks too much. These are not Police, you are not even under any obligation to talk to the Police. He would have simply shut the door in their face until the Police arrives, though since he is renting his landlord could give them access over his objections but no one can compel him to talk.

The guy fall person hand, you go UK and unripe stuff you dey pursue up and down, it will not end well na. Though if there is any bright side to this, it is that, he was caught before the ‘deed’ was done, bright for the real victim if there was any and bright for him because, the sentence would have been harsher.

Hambivert:
The number 1 thing to know is that the world have started to redefine sin and other vices, with the aim of making it acceptable and palatable to many people and cultures.
They are spreading the WOKE virus.
If people talk about their NACKing prowess, many would last up to 12 hours, but the truth is, to be a NAKADEMUS is not by mouth.
Six hours of in and out, and you want your Johnny to tell you thank you? Ride on!
After at least, the first edition, I know there would be more audience with soap in their pockets than participants. Many would have come to the realisation that they like to watch sex than sparogatively engage in it.

When you mentioned WOKE, I know you are talking above your pay grade and trying very hard to rope in politics.

Because if you are asked to define woke or eokeness and explain how ‘woke virus’ relates to the topic at hand, you will draw blanks.