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I don’t know how girls like these feel in their private moments when no one is around.

Most guys sees them as object and can only take them to the hotel and not to their mama for introduction.

BTW: Those breast are only ‘good looking’ behind those dresses, when they come out, they are void. without form, shapeless and disgusting like amoeba, nothing romantic about them at all.

Straybullet:
One lady has been hyperventilating on Facebook.

Her grouse is that men above 35 shouldn't date girls 19 or below.

Should we tell her?

Maybe we should.

I wl never advise any man seeking a marriage that would bear children to marry any lady older than 25. And quite honestly the younger the better, barring child abuse age.

My opinion.

Reason: I'm an MBBS and in my line of work I see numerous ladies... and... I've done an informal survey: If I scan 10 ladies 26 and above at least 5 to 6 of them would have fibroids.

This is the hard truth that needs to be told. Raw sex plus emergency contraceptives like postinor is creating a whole new subset of early uterine fibroid sufferers .

I swear it.

So what are you doing with that demographic only to start disturbing people for prayers

If children are not on your mind then, this may not apply to you. Otherwise, it's the new reality upon us, many more of our younger ladies are suffering from this ailment than our parents generation had.


So the Facebook lady shouldn't blame men. Many of us only marry for reproduction purposes and the dynamic now has absolutely changed.


Thank you.

I think your figure of 6 out 10 ladies over 26 having fibroid in Africa is very conservative, especially if they have not given birth at that age.

Statistics put that number at 8 out of 10 African ladies, the good news is there are now effective treatments and even nonsurgical means of getting rid of fibroid even in Nigeria, the disadvantage is, they are expensive and therefore beyond the reach of many families.

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baby124:
UK is not safe. Good luck to you. You think getting to the UK and staying is the end of the world after destroying this family. You knew exactly what you were going to do there. You just had other plans. You think you are smart, you will learn the hard way that some things are not worth it.

UK should deport him. He lied on applications and scammed that couple. The people he scammed are currently in prison. Let him come back home.

Comments like yours and other along these same lines......are what his lawyers will harvest from the internet and print out to show an immigration adjudicator that, the guy's fears of returning back to Nigeria are founded and because of these, he will be granted a stay in the UK....given the unprecedented nature of the case, he might even be given an award.

You guys in justifying your hate and assumptions despite not being in the court to observe and hear the facts of the case are making it that much easier for him to stay permanently in the UK.

Also, persons like these are admitted into witness protection and given brand new identities, his family in Nigeria can also be allowed to join him in the UK due to the same fear of harm and they can be relocated to some where no one will know and be trained on how to severe all ties with their prior identities and connections.

KingsCity:
This is grossly unfair

At least nobody’s organ was actually harvested

And he wrote to British Embassy and duly informed them of the purpose of his visit and they never advised him. Not like he sneaked into the UK to carry out the procedure


Nigeria should cut diplomatic ties with UK until this rubbish is reversed

Based on your myopic logic, everyone serving a jail sentence today in Nigeria or any place in world on Attempted Murder, should be set free, ‘after all no body was killed’.

You failed to realize that, had it been the organ harvest took place, he would have faced more serious charges and more severe sentence…also more people would have been charged lost their including Doctors and medical personnel’s in the UK hospital who stopped this.

shortgun:
This is not justice but witch hunting.

How can you sentence a man that wrote to your embassy about his intention to take someone to UK for the purpose of organ donation.
The donor is not a minor.
What nonsense law do they practice in the uk

Their Country, their laws….if you do not like it stay in your country, case close.

cc

beekind:
Let me explain, he says he is not forcing her but if she does not take the fertility test he will not attend the wedding, and he is very likely to prohibit my mom from also attending the wedding and maybe other family members too.

That puts me in a very difficult spot, very difficult spot.

I truly don’t see anything wrong with this request and don’t understand why you are making a big deal out of it.

I am even surprise that, both of you did not consider doing this kind of test before moving to marriage and I am surprise that, your dad being a medical doctor is only asking for a fertility test?

What about blood group test? Genotype test? Rhesus factor test? STD test? HIV test?

You and this lady are living apart. Please don’t close your eyes to reality. I am positive she will want to know the results of each of the above tests from your side as well, that would say a lot about her, that she truly want to build a life with you.

Please, talk to her about the test and you guys should go ahead and do them and exchange results.

Bedotfarms:
Truth be told, in camp no but in time past I've beaten her.

I'm married now. I am only bothered that she had not truly let go of her past for her to tell People the odds we had together.

Trying to meet her is a bad move!

She is the problem and not you, she has not moved on, apparently still bitter that you guys did not married in comparison to her current marriage.

There is nothing you will tell her that will appease and nothing you will do that will suffice, unless you want to divorce your wife and marry her.

Forget about her and move, but watch your behind….crazy ex like that are capable of doing you, your wife or your kids harm because they are driven with hate and jealousy.

I doubt if her husband will be married to her for too long from now, no right thinking guy will continue to stay with a lady who is still opposed with their ex.

Since you are so entitled….If I were you, I would have just sold one of his many Porsches, buy the phone then keep the change.

Yankiss:
The warning is instructive and timely. There should be some controls on what level an IA robot can go. Frankenstein Monsters are possible in due course, AI Robots so advanced the creator knows next to nothing about their operations.

If there is control on intelligence or what ‘something’ or someone should learn, it is no longer intelligence but manipulation, beliefs and dogma, dictatorship, authoritarian, etc.

The big question is, who defines and swings that big stick of control? Who define the ‘right’ things AI should learn and the ‘wrong’ things they must not learn?

The Americans would not want the Russians or Chinese to do that, likewise the Russians nor the Chinese would allow America or the other to do it.

So AI like the Nuclear weapon is here to stay and no acquirer of that technology would allow itself to be bonded or restricted by some international standards or code of ethics.

Aunty Reservation don clock 55, 60, 65, 70….years, still on reserve waiting for he that deserves her…🤔

trutharena:
Lol this man is a hardcore liar.

Same man that said he will “Not intentionally break the law” with regards to UK detention is now giving lamba about why he was detained.

You think you’re lying to the headless mob?

And you think if he broke the law of the UK intentionally or otherwise, the UK border immigration officers would have still processed him and grant him admission into their country?

IyaebeTheGreat:
This boy loves Chioma but he keeps cheating , I wonder why a man will claim to love you and still cheat on you, weird.

Is it possible to love shawarma and still eat Akara once in a blue moon?

Does the fact that, you ate Akara invalidate your love for shawarma?

If a man put you at home, provides for you and the kids and come back home to meet you at the end of the day, it means he loves you.

Yes, if he is cheating outside, isolate and deal with that cheating but it is wrong to assume that, since he is cheating he automatically do not love you. Also, do not make the mistake of assuming that, if your husband is not cheating, therefore he must love you….you know this is not true either.

Isolate the issue and deal with it.

Janosky:
Matthew 19:4-6, please go & verify.

Men keep looking for excuses to pursue their lust driven desires.

This has been addressed, I have mentioned on this, respond to it accordingly, if you desired.

NemoDatQuod:
I don't know if you are a serious fellow or not. But you should actually not be toying with your own life.
Here are the verses you say you've been looking for.

The traducers of Jesus Christ had asked him if it is lawful for them to divorce their wives, as they were looking for a way to catch him out.
In verse three of Mark chapter 10, Jesus asked them what Moses had commanded them. In verse four they stated that Moses had allowed them to issue their wives a certificate of dismissal and divorce. Read Jesus' response from verse five to verse 9 thus:

"5 But Jesus said to them: “Out of regard for your hard-heartedness, he wrote this commandment for you. 6 However, from the beginning of creation, ‘He made them male and female. 7 For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother, 8 and the two will be one flesh, so that they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man put apart.”

You will notice that Jesus stated the two will be one flesh. He did not say the three or the four in the case of a man marrying two or three wives. He also stated that "He(God) made them male and female". He did not say that God made them male and FEMALES as in a one to many relationship.

It is up to each of us how we exercise our free will. But our manufacturer made us a promise that "he will by no means leave the guilty unpunished" (Exodus chapt 34 verse 7). Those are His own direct words He spoke directly by himself.

I look forward to a life where no one on earth will say "I am sick", because all the people living on earth will be people who have been pardoned for their errors. Isaiah chapter 33: 24

God made them male & female, is merely stating the obvious of creation that, only two genders were created by God.

If you think that, the passage would have stated "male & females" to denote polygamy...hold that thought.

The passage that stated that, the 'two shall become one flesh' is talking about physical, note the word "flesh"....now if you think that, this is teaching the concept that only one man plus one woman can become one flesh.....hold that thought.

...now where else in the bible have we meant these phrases.

1 Cor. 6:16 "What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for the two, saith he, shall be one flesh.

Paul in that letter to the Corinthians was obviously referring Mark 10 you quoted above and Math 19.

...But, wait a minute, we know that harlots or prostitutes have multiple partners and not just one....yet Paul in interpreting what Jesus said, he declared that e.g. if the Prostitute, let’s assume for simplicity that her name is Hanna and three guys e.g. Alex, James & John have sexual intercourse with her….then what Paul is saying here that Jesus was telling the Pharisees in Mark 10 & Mathew 19 is that; though Alex and Hanna are two, but because they have had intercourse, they two are now one flesh; likewise James is now one flesh with Hanna and same applies to John, he is one flesh with Hanna.

The above clearly show a one to many mapping but still maintaining the two become one, or one flesh, this obviously meant that those terms were not talking about monogamy but rather the physical intimacy. @novia22, @Coronavirus1 @janosky

The same way a prostitute is join with each of her clients individually and they each (two in each instance) become one flesh is the same way Mark & Mathew were rendering their two becoming one flesh in marriage, the common denomination is the sexual intercourse between them ie in the marriage & prostitution examples.

Since Polygamy was practiced prevalently in the Old Testament and many of God’s Prophets and mouthpiece practiced it in the Old Testament as a Just God and Judge, if this practice was unrighteousness and will lead to perdition…Jesus would have equivocally stated it in the New Testament, and outlawed it. Even our deprived Judges on earth would not punish and send anyone to Prison, if what they have done is not clearly written as criminal in the law…How much more our Just, Holy and Righteous God, He is more Just than our Judges on earth, He is more righteous and He will not condemn anyone to perdition if what they did is not expressly stated as crime.

Jesus even told us that, He did not come to abolish the Old Testament but to complete or fulfill them and the only new commandment he gave us is to repent of our sins, believe in his Son Jesus Christ, love God and love our neighbors as ourselves…period!

How you will behave abroad should be the least of your problems, just travel and the rest will be history.

More than 90% of our problems, behave, attitude and even prayers are influenced by our environment.

Even a whole Governor for Lagos State wey dey move with convoy, disobey traffic, drive reckless..,,come USA or London, that same Governor go melo down become meek….we have seen serving Nigeria Governors riding train and even standing the whole trip….unless you knew them very well before, you will not recognize them.

In Nigeria you are tempted to pee in the guiter because you see others doing, the place is smelling like pee, it look like a dump, there is no rest room or toilet nearby, etc…..if those conditions do not exist abroad, no one will pee outside…..why would I remove my pants and start peeing in public, when they is an air-conditioned restroom nearby, where I can get some privacy and even relax, then wash, clean and dry my hands after peeing and even have the opportunity to even poo to relief myself further.

My advise is for you not to be advertising yourself as bad online because these embassies essentially the USA have started asking visa applicants to also submit their social media handles, you do not want the officer interviewing you on Monday morning to have in front of them printouts of you telling the world that you are a bad person and that you would likely repeat these bad tendencies abroad.

Ultimately and at some point, delete this handles and others containing negative statements and create new unaffiliated ones.

koladata:
Men were never designed to sleep with one woman for the rest of their lives. That's why there's a virginity seal on women at birth while there's no seal on men. Even in basic biology, men's sexual anatomy is completely different , the hormones and desires are referent. most of us have only come to accept this one man one woman thing because someone wrote it in the bible which i'm sure God didn't write that thing, he's not an author of confusion because that would have contradict his designs.

I beg, you fit show us where dem write am for Bible say, one man, one wife?

I don find am tire oh!

ebi like say this topic go sweet, I don see say one guy man don dey ask for the address to the marine kingdom oh!

wetin u need an for self?

jayAjoku:
The myth that women who Fûck a lot have loose pussy 😂🤣🤣 Na only Amateur dey believe that myth Shey if you do press up everyday your hand go chubby abi e go strong

This is confirmed truth….even rubber self dey loose elasticity if stretched repeatedly.

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

The fault is from you.

You are failing woefully in your duties as the head of the home. She knows that, you have a daughter before stepping in and should be ready to be a stepmother.

And you said….she has not given you any kid? Jealous maybe?

Regardless you have to resume your role as the head of the home.

Rokiat:
Black men have bigger di…ck.

How many black men versus other races have you sampled to conclude that, this is a myth?

Give us your sample size and the proportion of black men versus white men within that sample size.😜

Tntsi:
What the hell is happening to our nation?
What the hell do our leaders take us for?
How long will we as a nation be a laughing stock?
Who did we offend?

Nigeria is at an edge. The new Nigeria is non-negotiable. It is time for the OBIDIENT new Nigeria.
Judiciary, arise and do what is right.
It is time, it is time.

Fools off course!

What else do you think? After all, we keep electing them back into office despite their abysmal performance and we foolishly hope for a change in status quote.

Our mumu nofa do.

shegzhkn:
Whether he debates those folks or not and ultimately gets the GOP nomination, he will be made completely irrelevant in Nov. 2024.

That is even if he will still be a free man by Nov. 2024.

Now that Fox News have learned their lesson worth $787 millions in dollars and fired Tucker, Trump suddenly lost a major platform to spread his message, the debate would have been an opportunity for his to address lots of things before the America public, I am positive that if he wins the GOP nomination, he will pull this same stunt for National debate and is where he will lose many Independents and Republicans alike.

Fulton County District Attorney announced yesterday that, this summer they will be announcing if charges will be brought against Trump and his allies in relations to the 2000 elections in Georgia and have therefore asked the security agencies to beef up security....many bad news for him.

sonature1:
Nigeria has no business being one country.

The differences coupled with mutual suspicion, rancour, hate, and mistrust are too overwhelming to significantly manage.

The word country just defines a geographical entity, so yes we can be one country but since we are diverse, we should have been many Nations under the country Nigeria.

The USA have many independent states under a single country with differing constitutions and identities.

We got it working before with the 1967 constitutions when we had regions, if Nigeria can return to the 1967 constitution and region, we will be a far better country.

I don’t know why I am calling this a super story…

Your Boss that close every window whenever this lady is around, somehow forgot to lock the door?

Then while he was in this ‘compromising’ position with this lady and unzipping her dress, he asked you ‘nonchalantly’ to come in when you knocked?

But, they both still acted surprised when you came in?

Or are you trying to insinuate that, they both thought you were a third party (male or female) they were waiting to come and join in on the deed?

kyber:
I met this young girl on WhatsApp from my school group, I fell in love with this girl and started investing in her to make her happy always .
I always buy her airtime everyday and buy her sharwama and suya at night. this girl told me It’s only me and her for life only for her to start moving with other guys telling me they are just her friends.

She controls me a lot but it’s all for love, she spent a night in a guys place and I got upset and she shouted at me asking if I don’t trust then I don’t love her.

After all I spent for this girl , she told me I didn’t do anything for her.

I still love this girl and I don want to leave her but she has refused to talk to me.

Please what do I do ?

Since she say you ‘didn’t do anything for her’ it means you did not buy enough airtime and shawarma for her…. or those things are too small that she cannot see them.

Upgrade a little bit, go borrow lots of money from friends and family, buy her iPhone 14 Pro max, buy her Gucci bag, buy her expensive expensive things, things she can see and not forget.

If your friends and family can borrow you money, try office loans, try these payday loan lenders, don’t worry how you will pay back, her love will be enough.

Come back and thank me later…at least, what are friends for.

Preciousgirl:
On Monday, my friend at work offended our boss. Our boss was so angry and left. My friend who is in a serious relationship with a guy had no option to go to our boss' house to render an apology.

Now my friend's guy is angry and threatening to break the relationship just because she went to her boss' house to apologise.

I think the guy is being too unreasonable

You no tell us how she take know the Boss House address, Abi she don go ‘apologize’ before?

Triangles1:
I don't know why people rush into conclusion just because relationship doesn't go smoothly for them they'll start motivating other gullible members like them to eat men's money.


You go soon vomit blood but don't blame anybody. Awuf dey turn belle.... Na my old Man talk am.

From that video, you can see that she is speaking out of frustration, most likely her fiancé did not show up at the altar.

Plus, those her same friends cheering her up are the ones recording this and would pass it on to any man who many be interested in her just to sway his affections towards them instead.

Legitiscool:
the thing is they are now compelled rather than attracted

You can't have a huge following and want people to believe you are broke to subscribe

You can't delete your account now or be non active because of $8

You can't afford someone else to pay for bluetick and create account in your name as officially you while you become fake you

What made you think that, for the caliber of people who initially had the blue tick, not paying $8 monthly would make others think they are broke?

These people were already established and successful in their own rights before Twitter first seek them out among the crowd and verify them and you think someone would think they can’t afford less than the price of a movie ticket a month?

Yes, $8 is less than the price of a movie ticket and that I don’t see the compulsion from a class of these individuals to join a non classless and meaningless group of individuals paying $8 just to get a blue tick.

Just like Elon Musk is saying he is ‘paying’ for some celebrities, I see him shamefully exempting many of them despite them not asking. Lebron James and many others have blasted him on th topic and he turned around and saying he Elon is ‘paying’ for their blue tick.

suckmedownthere:
Most celebs have now seen themselves as ordinary people for once not Gods but will still go a step further to get that badge...

The badge has no meaning or class now, literally anyone can get it now, so what is the attraction for the “celebrities” in it?

Femi8586:
Elon never wanted to buy Twitter, they deceived him to signing agreement to purchase it. When he discovered the value of the platform was inflated more than its actual worth(10billion$ instead of 44billion$), he decided to back out.

Twitter owners took him to court for breach of agreement and forced him to either buy at 44b or give them billions of dollars in court as settlement. Elon took loans from the bank and was forced to buy Twitter

He needs money to run the platform affairs and also needs to pay back his loan. So Elon monetizing his investment is justified.

Those complaining of blue tick removal now mocked him when he was being forced to buy overpriced goods

No body deceived him, he signed the agreement with his two eyes open and refused to do his due diligence.

If anything, it was his egos that deceived him and his loud mouth, he shouldn’t have signed the agreement, but his egos and prior utterances of buying Twitter got in the way, so he signed to save his ego despite warnings telling him otherwise.

He will eventually have to divest himself from Twitter, cut his loses and run. Twitter is not profitable and it is drag on his profitable Tesla brand.