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I am so unimpressed with this girl attitude. She is 28 and behaves like she is 16. Prezzo is not a better artiste than her. I feel so ashame watching her. She just ridicule all of us.

Agreed she is in love, but for pete's sake, this is national TV and you were there for a game. How long has she been looking for boyfriend in Naija? Is it that Naija has abandon all there girls? Her family must be very ashamed of her. To think she even stated that she was Prezzo's last resort and still fall head over heel for him is so puking. How interesting and prideful it would have been if she had dumped Prezzo after Zainab exited!

That is when she could have even secured the relationship. She is just not it. A Nigerian village housewife won't take that bullshit. Maybe it is just me because I have left naija for long.

Please tell, are Nigerians ladies like Goldie now?

freecocoa: OP before i proceed I'd like to say,never conclude you know anyone too well,don't ever say"he\she can never do that" big mistake i tell ya. I'm talking from experience,sometimes i hear people say"cocoa cannot do that,i know her well" in my mind i just laugh and say"ogbeni don't be so sure cos i can do worse"

@Topic,if your friend is sure he did nothing then he has nada to worry about,if he is a nice man who hasn't given his family(wife especially) reasons to doubt and suspect him,i trust they'll stand by him till it can be proven that the child isn't his.

On the other hand,he can go meet the girl's family and have them bring the girl to narrate whatever she claims happened,she could be scared and just called out his name as the one responsible maybe because he's a well respected man,thinking it would buy her time to arrange herself(some girls do that),if the girl is not a hardened criminal,i think she'd break in his presence and probably tell the truth that's only if......

Then again she may not even know who's responsible sef and just wants her people to quit asking her who the father is.

Finally let that your friend search himself and heart o,hmm cos some men gan sef are pathological liars,either ways if he is or not responsible,it will be known in a matter of 9 months or for however long she carries the pregnancy.

You make sense Cocoa. This is how to contribute to discourse. Why ain't you taking to your sis 'Idowuogbon'. NL seems to be getting to her. Her rascality is growing worse and becoming annoying. Please tell her to calm down and exercise caution. She should be a lady that she is. I hope she doesn't behave same way out in the real world there? Maybe she is just trying to be funny. I hate to talk peeps down but I just have to do it because I used to really like her here!

rokiatu: Maybe intercourse may not have taken place but they did rub ge..nital to ge.. nital?

Is possible you know, pre c...u.m may have gotten her pregnant.

I wish I could flog some of you kids that are having sex without knowing everything involved. Stoopid generation, I regret been born in it.

I gerrit! Like u were doing in ur hay days while trying to maintain ur virginity. Now u can talk! Thank God u married now. Keep ur husband from straying o...madam

Excuse me! What is real man? That word was brought up to restrain men fray emotions. Women wanna use their natural weapon( demeaning thru nag and insults) to the last and don't want men to use any of their weapon(strength).

African men are so good. They still behave in the face of abuse from women. Americas hardly show restrain even with the stringent of laws in their country against women battering. You can now imagine what american men wud have done o american women if there wasn't punitive measures as it is now!

Its Law that stop men. Not the real man matra!

Mavor: Well av been fortunate and blessed by God neva to enter police wahala. And yes, I have a project am saving towards for nxt yr. By his Grace, I will get there and be triumphant.

Don't go and spend all ur money while resigning ur job to come do master in the UK! Plzzz! Look for scholarship or go to Lagos Business School for MBA.

Dextra: My weight. Moving from 67kg to 60kg. That is my only challenge for now. 7kg!

Seriously? U wanna be a model? IMO, 67kg is cool. But try morning and everning exercise and don't eat late night food

[quote author=tpia@]Boredom[/quote]You don't mean it. Bored to say anything in matter of discuss!

I have noticed with awe the recent practice of reeling out profile names on thread forum. Can anyone explain what this crase is about?

I'm so sad!

I would have been so impressed if you had a pix of ur home up! That would have liven up this fantastic thread. So that any body that mentioned the best part that thrill ladies would in likewise show us the item of admiration

femojie: Dream on, u will soon wake up to reality

Contrary to what you argue against, NYSC docs are really well paid! My sis-in-law just finished from one of Lagos State Local Govt Clinics for her NYSC. She was being paid 175k by the Local Govt.

[size=18pt]Please all, don't blame her. Tisabone is a black American[/size]

You know American dies hard for Benz. She has really done the unimaginable in her world! Again, westerners are very concerned about age difference in relationships! A girl of 22 once told me I was too old for her at 27 years ago in UK. She said she needs 21-23.

PhysicsQED: "Let us not compound the aberrations of the past with provocations in an era that should propel us towards a belated new Age of Enlightenment."

I like this sentence.

That sentence cannot be fully analysed in a month or 10. It is a PhD topic on its own. That guy has got stuff! God!

I am just crazy about my girl coochie's smell. It is so weird because that ain't my thing. It just smell like the perfume called 'vulva'

Miss EZ: As a lady living a broad, i will have to echo your friends sentiment and agree that it is more difficult to find a Nigerian man to marry here. You have to be confident in yourself and trust that when the time comes things will fall in place to be able to stay here especially in regards to relationships. If she is open to marrying from another ethnic group/foreigners, that shouldnt be too much of a problem as against marrying your own. I think that if marriage is a priority for her, there is no reason for her to feel bad about putting that first, and atleast she is being honest about wanting to settle down rather than denying it.

For me i think that it is essential that women empower themselves career wise and all, but at the end of the day, having a family is also important and not every woman who desires one is unwise. It is part of our culture and even religion. In negotiating our way through life, it is important to find balance and so it makes me sad when people make it look like wanting to get married is a crime. Another problem i have is when people make it look like wanting to marry a Nigerian is a bad preference. I live abroad and i find that regardless of the kind of people i meet, there is no place like home, and when Naija men never finish, wetin i de find? But it is my preference. We should learn to respect people's preference because there is a reason behind it.

I wish your friend luck in making a decision.

The biggest problem from marrying from another ethnic origin is the cultural difference. You have to be very tolerant and patient less the relationship will crash as it comes.

The easiest way for your friend to get married is to arrange to get whoever she is dating now abroad. A gold-digger boyfriend my get stuck on that! lol
Come to think of it, if she couldnt grab a husband at 28, what make her think she would grab anyone soon while in naija?

I usually disagree when guys and gals try to make marriages unimportant and unnecessary. I have lived in many countries abroad, white ladies are also particular about marrying especially when they find love. Just that some just run away from realities. One white chic is currently on my friend's neck for marriage. Who doesn't like companionship. I even found myself needing a companion now. once u get to that age, the urge comes naturally.

White peeps are always having companion from teenager. They kiss openly, caress in train and live together with their partners. When black does that, they are labelled spoilt. Please leave black girls to get married joor.

Lastly, the chance of finding husband at her age abroad is slim. how many ready guys are there? They wud rather go for small girls. They won't even come close to her for relationship. Let her find her man in naija.

I really do not find it odd for Osazee to marry a white girl. Don't forget the mum is white and he is kind of use to the whiteman's attitude, gestures, sense of humour, simplicity and realness. So, he could be very easy for him to click with Sarah.

When you are used to white girls, it is kinda difficult to click it with black. They see things and behave differently!

Miss EZ: They look like a good couple, wishing them the best. A successful marriage is not determined by race but by the individuals, just a thought

I think the words racism and apartheid are being used carelessly these days. Just because some people question his choice of marrying a foreigner does not make them racist, it merely suggests a preference. When people begin to insult the lady based on her race and demean her, that is racism. I am all about Naija men o, but if someone wants to marry from another country, its their life and their marriage. Wish them well and move on

For the first time, someone spoke my mind! You have got a good head miss!

mart2k: you are talking from experience.guy,i like ur courage

Funny enough, it is the hard truth he mentioned very vulgarly. There are however few exception. But that might be one of the the reasons he married her. Someone that may not be too sex-demanding!

warrior101: In 2010 I bought a chevvy in malasia and there was nothing like that. When i came to 9ja last year i observed what the OP is talking, when i asked why they will say na american spec. I think its show off...

Why would you buy a chevvy in Maley? Foreign cars are damn expensive there!

so how is the case going?

Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg has been sued by the social media network's shareholders over its disastrous IPO.
The lawsuit accuses Mr Zuckerberg, Facebook and several banks led by Morgan (KOSDAQ: 019990.KQ - news) Stanley (Berlin: SYC.BE - news) of hiding the company's weakened growth forecasts ahead of its $16bn initial public offering.
The defendants are claimed to have concealed from investors during the IPO marketing process "a severe and pronounced reduction" in Facebook revenue growth forecasts.
The news comes as Morgan Stanley (EUREX: DWDF.EX - news) , the bank in charge of the IPO, is being investigated over possible securites fraud.
The US bank has been accused of failing to warn smaller investors of a more negative assessment of Facebook's future profits.
It is claimed that several major investors had been pre-warned that a Morgan Stanley analyst had cut the amount of money he expected Facebook to make.
The advance notice allowed the investors to either avoid the stock completely or sell immediately after they floated at $38.
Facebook shares opened up 1.35pc at $31.42 on Wednesday. Within five minutes they were up 3.6pc. Prior to Wednesday they had fallen every day since the flotation last Friday, closing at $31 on Tuesday.
"The allegations, if true, are a matter of regulatory concern," said Rick Ketchum, the head of the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority.
Mary Schapiro, head of the Securities and Exchange Commission, said: “There is a lot of reason to have confidence in our markets and the integrity of how they operate, but there are issues we need to look at specifically with regard to Facebook.”
It was reported that Morgan Stanley analyst Scott Devitt cut his estimate for Facebook’s revenue this year to $4.85bn (£3.1bn) from a previous figure of more than $5bn, adding that the business faced multiple problems.
He claimed that growth in revenues could be hit by the increase in the use of mobile devices to look at Facebook, a medium the company’s advertising system has so far failed to crack.
William Gavin, the securities regulator for Massachusetts, issued the bank with subpoenas.
It comes amid accusations Morgan Stanley valued Facebook too aggressively.
"If the goal of the underwriters was not to leave a penny on the table, then it was a success," said Brian Wieser, an analyst at Pivotal Reserch Group. "But if it was to ensure that the shares had a favourable market to trade in, then it wasn't."
"What they [the underwriters] succeeded in doing was milking market sentiment," said Andrew Caldwell, a valuations partner at BDO. "You've got a problem that if you price it high, you've got nowhere else to go."
As the shares started to fall after the float last Friday, Morgan Stanley was forced buy up stock to support the company's value above the $38 listing price. The shares hit the float price a number of times during the day's trade, but didn't fall through it.

Source : http://uk.finance.yahoo.com/news/facebook-founder-mark-zuckerberg-sued-134310813.html

Very sorry about this. For sure, you must feel this pain! I work in a university. I always go against this kind of grade for students during departmental board meetings for results consideration. I cannot tell you how many students fall into this borderline and how many I have helped! You were just 0.01 point away from 2.1

Any reasonable lecturer will draw attention to your case and talk in your favour. But that is passed now. You can still be all you want if you are bold and intelligent. There are still many jobs(maybe not well paying) that still demands 2.2. Once you have experience on your side, the sky becomes ur matching ground!
If you dropped your email, I will send you list of recruitment agent websites with jobs of 2.2.

I just believe this! American admission application is quite lax.

@ Payless. Seriously I am not please with you. This is just a crime and no contry Had ever proven to be above vime

Why are all the posts hidden. I don't think I like this moderator! You need to stay away from the thread or lock it if you are tired of watching.

Moderator, for your info. I hate you and ur overzealousness. Gawd! I can't stand you. fucccckkk!
Check my posts. I am the last person that wud insult but u piss me gal.

@DYT, you have such a beautiful heart. Don't apologize for any of ur statement. You know what? The OP twisted the story all to her credit and she is indirectly responsible for her husband woes. This man doesn't see her all day and she keeps a lady at home to take care of him? What did she expect? poor thouht-process!

What is this job they are looking for? Why would anyone look for job for that long. She ought to have suported her husband to open a shop. A liitle patent pharmacy shop pay more salary than bank jobs. No, she keeps stressing her husband out to write test and interview. bullshit!

Can't the OP sincerely confirm this her former hard-working banker of a husband never did little jobs in those 8yrs to support the household? Stop comparing ur husbands with the ones u now see at ur workplace.

musKeeto: So how much would this new 'gate' cost?

You can't help thinking of fraud!

I can't agree more with your post. I am a lecturer in one of Nigeria's universities. Even when I knew these in my undergraduate days, I didn't do them because of laziness and I came out with 2.1 sadly!

I want to take permission to use your article on 'guaranteed first class' to do presentation to my students and frame an enlarged one in my office.
I must say say this is a sure-fire method to first-class even for an average intelligent mind!

Each of the nuggets is apt. Each fighting for superiority.

Thank you so much Kandata!

In my opinion, Mode 9 is not a nice person. He has fragile emotion and I am sorry for his wife! The event that culminated into this loggerheads wasn't neccessary at all. Muna initially was just playing by saying: "I do not agree with you". That is a very simple statement to call her head for? Mode 9 just turned it into fiasco. That was ungentlemanly especially to take back the Microphone and wanna say more. For a swaggin man, that is an opportunity to even lay the babe! she might just be looking for an opportunity to engage Mode 9. Mode 9 dey crase.... Anyway, I respect him in the rap game.

But what was so annoying was Muna retorts of 'pass the mic' That was very uncivil. She could have laugh over the brawl instead of heating up remarks. These guys are not cultured mehnn....

How could they not manage their personality in public. Moreso, were they not paid for these jobs? Nokia could sue their ass by these acts and make them living examples. They are degrading a successful marketing brand by their ego. mtsheeeeewwwwwwww!

I hate Arik with passion!