₦airaland Forum

blazer234:
Its your choice, Mr Wife.

Toks2008:
The primary duty of the man in marriage is to provide the basic needs of his family talking about the wife and the children while the primary role of the wife is to nurture the husband and the children which is the perfect definition of help mate.

Now it is important to note that no two marriages are the same and what works for you may not work for the other person and the fact that a man provides all the needs of the family does not mean that he can't assist the wife to do some of her primary duties if needs be and a wife who has become the breadwinner may also not mind playing her primary duties without any support from the husband .

But nevertheless i sincerely believe that every man whose wife have become the main bread winner or a co-bread winner to realize that it is very expedient for him to be ready to also be a co-nurturer of the family and also perform the primary duties of the woman such as cleaning the house,cooking,taking care of the children and helping the wife to do things that will ease off the stress from her.

I have heard of several cases where a man who is fully financially dependent on the wife still expects her to do all the domestic activities and prepares all three course meals and some men even get so angry with the wife because she complains of tiredness.

It is very wicked and uncaring for a man whose wife is also a partaker of his primary duties to still expect the lady to fully take care of the home front and this does not make you less a man but will rather encourage the woman and not make her look like a slave in the house.

I know some men will say it is not in our tradition as Africans to do domestic chores and I sincerely agree but we must also understand that it is also not an Africa tradition for a woman to be a breadwinner.

I don't know if this makes sense.

apoti:
The banks are part of the problem of this Nigerian economy. The role of a commercial bank is to accept deposits and provide loans for businesses, farmers and manufacturers to ensure economic and social stability and sustainable growth of the economy.

But the commercial banks in Nigeria only collect deposits and will rather lend money to politicians and big men rather than the SMEs.

As a former bank employee the management will put your a55 under fire and interrogate you like a murder suspect in police custody for bringing proposals from SMEs, but will pat you on the back if it was a politician or a well known rich man.

Until the CBN sets targets or do something drastic for the commercial banks to lend responsibly people that can boost the economy locally, nothing will change.

kahal29: Cross River again.. .. This Government is really paying them well. Head of Service... .. Cross River, NDDC Chairman Cross River.. .. .. . Chief of Naval Staff.. ... Cross River and now CJN with others... Cross River I hail una

mmb:
Remember, Governor Ayade is Buhari's friend.

Firefire:
What happens to customer's complain route ?

APC and their media stupidity.

In fact, everyone in APC government are morally kworupt.

fratermathy:
I didn't claim to be. I'm only deconstructing the news to others and saying why I think it's fake. A news of this nature comes only from the National chairman of ASUU and the person who was interviewed is ONLY a branch chairman, not even a member of the National exco. As one who is savvy with ASUU, I know how strikes occur and one of the processes is for a nationwide Congress to occur with delegates from all universities.

Besides, only a misanthrope will be happy with this news. Nigerian education has suffered enough.

wealthpin:
God bless u...op!
Many here on Nairaland may not comment on this piece because what we celebrate in Nigeria is nudity and senselesness.
RIP to the foremost and famous thrift collector.

vivalavida: He should have gone to sharks fc of Ph.

Nothing better than being in an area where ur appreciated and adored and not where fanatics abound and will kill u for any stupid reason

Guyman02:
Kano Pillars have the most passionate fans in the Nigerian Premier League, everywhere you go in Kano you see them wearing the Kano Pillars jersey and shouting uf fillars, uf fillars, fillars, fillars

While fans in the South wear Chelsea, Man U and Arsenal Jerseys.

mayoor15:
Not supporting anyone here but imagine your name is demilade, your neighbour named his dog demilade, your friends came to visit you and you are all chilling outside then your neighbour came back home and calls demilade, only for you to answer him then he said he was referring to his dog, how will you feel, or he even did it in front of your girlfriend....Think there is freedom of speech, expression blah blah blah but there should still be common sense in what we do

cktheluckyman:
The incoming Second National Vice President of the Nigeria Bar Association, NBA, Mr. Monday Ubani, yesterday, said that no offence is committed by someone naming his dog after somebody else.

He said: “In the eye of the law, it is not criminal for somebody to name his or her dog after another person. It may be offensive by examining the circumstances under which the incident happened.

“I understand that a particular dog was named after a neighbour and both of them were not in good terms; in a Hausa community somewhere in the South-West.

“So expediency would have prevailed on him not to name his dog after somebody he was quarrelling with.

“The Bible says wisdom profited for direction. Anything you are doing must be with wisdom. If such a thing would provoke unnecessary argument, you should avoid it.”

Another Lagos-based lawyer, Mr. Tunji Muyedeen, said: “As far as I am concerned, there is no way such offence could be sustained in law. Anybody can name his pet after anybody’s name.

“He can even call the pet his name. However, spurious charge or charges may be preferred against such person.

“All of us will be living witnesses to the trial of the man. We will see what evidence the prosecution has to prosecute the accused person.”

For human rights activist, Mr. Okey Nwaguna, prosecution must show that accused had the intent to cause breach of public peace.

He said: “The motive of an accused is never and can never be established by the charge: it must be established by evidence.

“Prosecution must show that accused had the intent to cause a breach of public peace. What constitutes ‘public’ is key.”

admax:
My take on the matter: Buhari is too busy and important to be bothered about a common man naming a dog after him in far away Ogun state. You see, what we are witnessing is an action of overzealous policemen and court officials merely seeking recognition.

Most of this VIPs and Rich men are easy going people whose image has been battered by a retinue of eye service aides!

Btw, I Love dogs

pukena:
I am trying to process Post UTME screening for a candidate for Fed Poly, Oko. One of the requirements is a L.G ID. Please how do I get this. I am from Imo State but resident in Lagos State. Please I need responses asap. Thanks

Jacko1:
What are u saying huh
You know economics shey but we faring better than only venezuela
Dude shut da hell up..... You knw nothing
Your fellow afonjas r having deir eyes cleared
Tomoro wen buhari regime hit u..... U sef go change mouth
A whole imf..... Then u professor emeritus
Abeg go siddon
Countries dat follow imf model like france... Germany
Wher are dey today... Look at u professor emeritus
She is right...... She is better than stoop low to argue wif som1 like u
Am ready for u lubbish

UrennaNkoli:
[s]I shouldn't stoop so low to exchange words with you[/s]. Continue reading your elementary economics so you can have have an "A" in your o level and secure a bright future okay?

UrennaNkoli:
Lol just take a look at this idiot, who do you think is your mate or do you think being on a forum with children like you makes you think you can open that waste bin you call mouth and talk anyhow. Where were your parents self when I was born? I bet their parents had never even courted. Better make enquiries and get reliable information before you talk. The admin of this forum realy needs to install some age restriction procedures for children like you who not respecting their elders makes them just being deliberately stupíd. Your mother must have forgotten to teach you manners sha. She deserves to be flogged. Useless child.

[s]"Whatever advice the imf gives is for the best interest of this country"[/s]

UrennaNkoli:
This man is running this country like a ******* dictator.
[s]Whatever advice the imf gives is for the best interest of this country[/s]

ShitHead: No be person wey chop go climb the flyover bridge. Make we chop first...we need jobs. Useless projects

tatosh:
With this kind of comments I can already predict your current mental and financial status plus how successful you will be in future

ShitHead: No be person wey chop go climb the flyover bridge. Make we chop first...we need jobs. Useless projects

tatosh:
With this kind of comments I can already predict your current mental and financial status plus how successful you will be in future

eshietIntrepid:
I stand with PDP in this. Let change this change,

ABDamola:
it was agreed that the Okah brothers should be contacted to reach out to MEND to endorse Mr. Jonathan and to work with the group of persons to ensure victory for the PDP and President Jonathan.

“It therefore came as a shock when MEND did the opposite and endorsed Buhari. Mr. Jonathan was livid with anger and swore that the Okahs would rot in prison.

He said it was also agreed that a show of force be put up in Yenagoa, where ex-militants led by Government Ekpemupolo and Kingsley Kuku would threaten war should the electorate vote in Buhari's favour.

“It was around that period the idea of forming the Niger Delta Avengers was conceived. In fact the name "Avengers" came from the lips of Goodluck Jonathan.

“As election day approached, certain stakeholders were mobilized to form a force to standby and ensure total anarchy in the South-South and South-East within 24 hours if the election results were not favourable to Jonathan. It took everyone by surprise to learn that Mr. Jonathan had conceded defeat even before the final results were released. The standby force who were to attack specific targets were told to stand down. They were all compensated in US dollars cash.”

MrKong:
And you think I don't know that?...I made the comment, didn't I?

MrKong:
Mischief makers

usba:
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Engage your rapidly diminishing senile old head? Like I said gettoutta here... old hag trying hard to prove his extreme dumbness.

usba:
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[s]getoutta here

usba:
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[s]Always learn to read within context. .. it was clearly a rebuttal to an obvious lie .... Unfortunately in this world arguments must satisfy social economic criteria not just limiting it to one front[/s]

Tolexander:
same has to be done for the pilgrimages coming for Osun Osogbo festival.

DropShot:
Did you comprehend what you read?

In as much as I do not support the FG subsidizing dollars for any pilgrims (Christians and Muslims), this particular one was done on equal footing.

It s hypocritical for you to see nothing wrong in subsidizing for Christian pilgrims and suddenly realize it's not good now because of the time. When it was done for Christians, was Nigeria swimming in dollars? Was Nigeria any better than now?

I hope this is a good lesson for PMB and his team to learn that Government has no business with religion. Let every Christian/Muslim wishing to go on pilgrimage look for their own dollars/Pounds/Euros and whatever. It's their personal issue not state's

usba: shettap xtians got a better deal 160 naira to a dollar fani the crook is just baiting gullible xtians so they extricate him from jail

PaulIdu:
The discount Christian got was 22 naira while Muslim are getting a discount of 161 naira besides only 6000 Christian go for pilgrimage while 65000 muslim go for hajj