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Mhistasaints:
I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger.

We've been having issues from the first year, mostly on different styles of life.
I am a guy who loves managing resources and very focused on achievements because I was born with a silver spoon but lost it due to the death of my father, I never wanted to experience the same thing as I did when he died.
She on the other hand is comfortable and okay with what she has, not too bothered about achievements.

I've been calling for management of resources for a while but she's the type that grew up in a very comfortable home and knows not how to manage resources.

Another issue on my part is that, she does not really care about how she looks and that's one of the things I care about.

I lost, or should I say resigned from my first job due to pressure and things became hard. I had to sell some of my landed properties so we could survive.

I got another Job and in six months, I made millions. We lived well until I wanted to chase my passion in banking again.

Got back into banking and to cut the story short, I met one lady where I was sent to. I loved her. I wish I had met her first honestly. In a year, she showed me a lot in the kind of woman I wanted. Then I lost my job again, this time because I wanted to go for youth service.

I got back home and I told my wife the game plan. I bought foodstuffs for at least two months and went for camp. In less than a week, my mother called me and was angry why I left my wife and two kids hungry. I exeated camp immediately and came back home. After investigating, I found out she sent the food to her mother who is an associate professor, without telling me and while she knows out conditions.

I got so angry. I wanted her out.
I considered things because my second child which she had by force is just 5months. She had the baby because she stopped taking contraceptives because of advice from people that if she has a male child for me, I'll stay.
After much, she can't leave, because who will take care of the boy?

Yesterday, she read my messages and discovered I was having an affair and wants to leave. I told the lady off this morning but, I still loved her.

I can't allow that. Even if she does, she has to wait for the boy to be at least a year old. Remember she was the one that wanted this baby, not me. Now she wants to leave the liability for me?
And I can't allow my kids to grow with her because I don't want them to learn such lifestyle.

What should I do?

Ikaeniyan0:
Why are Nigerian politicians always sick when they are charge to court?

PressMyButton:
Trust me, this weak allegation is nothing but a cover up to keep him in detention as long as they can make him a scape goat. If the DSS wanted to really charge him for several atrocities he commited, a handful of powerful individuals would go down with him. He eventually had to be the fall guy for those who used and dumped him.

CandyOps:
She will kill you one day bro.. and most times it's because of another dick who is confusing here.

Leave the bitch. You don't even need a divorce. Wake up one morning. Tell her you want to buy Peak Milk and vamoose. Them no go see you again

SegunBABA007:
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wolesmile:
What most of them do after being delisted is to change name and reapply again for operating license. Then they will transfer all their debtors' credit information to the new app.

Karen2024:
I have been housing my boyfriend for months now... meaning he's squatting with me. This useless good for nothing guy brought in another useless lady to sleep with her on our matrimonial bed, he had the guts to cheat while I tame my desires to have taste of other men. Should I send him packing? I'm still contemplating...

accordadoga26:
Hehehehe...

Mazi Ekpa is not done with them yet.

By the time Mazi Ekpa is done with them, they will completely go into extinction.

By 2040 there won't be any tribe to be called Igbo

Ikpeyi:
We shall all get sense in this country las las.

Merch:
This bitch no just sexy at all

Iliveforever:
Loan apps again 😩😩

bestpunterever:
why

Ever8090:
This girls will never learn...he made payment by transfer ...that will make the job easy to hunt him

adecz:
https://leadership.ng/ryan-taylor-sparks-break-up-rumours-as-he-unfollows-dj-cuppy-on-instagram/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

It always looked like Cuppy was trying
too hard & the guy was probably just
using her as he didn't look like he was
really into her.

Wetin be her problem really❓ Guys seem
to always use and dump her, which
makes me speculate say she no "sweet"
down there⬇️ 😉😉😉😉

She should just try and look for a cool
9ja dude and settle down.


FP pls🙏

thesicilian:
Recover from who?

Zonefree:

The reason he didn't disclose his genotype while in Germany is cos he doesn't want his investments all these while to be in vain.

As Odogwu land, E come chop belleful, clean mouth, come use genotype to discharge our distinguished 'future is femail'.


Move on my dear, it is what it is.


Odogwu 1
The future 0

IconicR:
Return all the sex you have with her before coming here to rant. You can't provide for her and you still the one forming vex, she has agreed to break up, you have no right to chase her away since she was giving you sex of which you can't return then you have no right to give her ultimatum