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toujurs:
It's not a negative energy, it's the truth. Either she takes it or not, her choice. , At 36 she should be smarter now. So you expect her to still wait for her spec at 36 abi, so she could get to 45yrs at her parents house abi

toujurs:
My dear you are right on that bad character side oh, Any lady i see still single at 32 and doesn't even have a boyfriend, i see them as disrespectful ladies with bad characters, as a reason for them being single at such old age.

On the part on about being faithfull, i agree with you, you can't put all your eggs in one basket, that other guy that is telling you he likes you, keep me at a side. I said keep oh, i didn't say you should be knacking him. While you stay with the main guy. Incase main guy mess up. Even in business you can't invest all your money in one business na, Most of you ladies are smart, it's good to be faithfull and loyal. But human will always be humans. Madam ehn at 36yrs. Any guy that comes and his serious, just accept the person. It's just four years remaining for your time to give up. Or you inject a sperm and take care of your child, if you are lucky you will give birth to a boy

sandra50:
Thanks dear..really appreciate

TheGift:
If S/He shares it here then it is no longer a family secret.

Shalommy:
The time you were jumping from one olosho to another did you inform us? Oops.. Better commit suicide than to spread the virus. Chaii..

Rosulala:
HIV can be cured its our family secret portion,...chat me on WhatsApp 09031902212

etrange:
Congrats.

Himtulie247:
I don collect my own

Please where are you? ayam standing at the junction that would bring me to the exact location of this food that ayam seeing laidis
Gimme direction mbok!

Sammy101111:
I was in this kind of shit hole before but i thank God am out
Me and my ex started dating fine if i dont text her a day or call her she will not sleep sometimes when she at home lonely she will beg me to come online we should chat we should send voice note. Most time am always at work busy she will call me i will call her back.Any time i collect salary i call my woman give her money to buy food stuff at home for me because she spends most of her weekends with me . The day i can never forget i met my ex through her friend. So one day she kneel down begged me started crying that if i leave her she will kill her self or do something crazy that now she left all past life and bad memories and create a new life with me i told her not to worry i pet her she smiled cooked that day. From that day i even improved more i started planning how to move from the house am staying as a bachelor to rent a new place we will just move in as couple after our marriage this year was the plan . on November i found out my babe was flirting with a guy i even challenged her i cried that night because she did not know the plans i have for her so i just lock up . she was the one at fault yet i still forgive her we still move on some weeks later she started giving me silly excuse she busy that is why cant call or text i was like babe you are busy okay oh sometime i will call her 5 times she will not pick or call she will call back the next day i started noticing she was seeing someone then i just exist my self from the relationship i stopped calling her or text her now we just use to view our status .but me i done move on

worldclass68:
That days wasn't ur day.....

Aswear.. Since that incident happen na so all my classmates just dey gimme space cos I dey stammer then and small thing dey vex me
The only person wey no dey fear me na my best friend that year cos she sef no dey gree for me, we dey fight give each other marks for body still settle within 10minutes .
Anytime wey fight start laidis between us, nobody dey gree separate us na we by oursef go give awasef break from fighting cum start to dey laugh after few minutes wey awa minds don cool down

Uche1993:
Ask around from where we both come from he can never be a father to the child except he performs the necessary rites, Davido did the same, if he did not do what was necessary there is no way that child will bear his name. Don’t give me any ring oh, just give my child a name and be his/her father period!

Ishilove:
I was catching vibes of early 20s naivety from his post.

Wo, make all of them getat. Love is blind but na inside marriage eye dey clear.

The girl sef that is a final year University student is writing like a JSS3 student. I could even write better when I was in JSS 3.

Ishilove:
Have you asked her if she is ready to grow with you?

Let me give you my candid opinion based on all you have written and the impression I am getting.

Your girlfriend is naive and I have a feeling she is in her early 20s. I may be wrong about her age though, but that's the impression I'm getting.

She seems to be more enamored with the idea of marriage and not marriage itself.

She is not on the same page with you on the issue of finances. This is going to create problems in your marriage because what she is expecting is not what you will give her, vis a vis a lifestyle funded by your family's wealth.

Her greatest ambition in life is to be a wife. I'm not sure she has thought much about life after becoming an MRS. I doubt if she has really thought deep and hard about where she will be in ten years time.

Is she ready to support the family with part of the proceeds from her business? Is she ready to make sacrifices that come with marriage?

You will secretly resent her for pressuring you into marriage. This resentment will sometimes be voiced out when those inevitable arguments about money and budgetary spending crop up.

At the end of the day, we, your Nairaland in-laws will not be there to suffer or enjoy with you the attendant ramifications of whatever decision you choose to take so I can only say this:

You are on your own.

You're advising him when the marriage has already packed up.
The said girl said she's 21and the only thing she keeps hammering on is marriage, she hasn't even made mention of how to build her life positively and how to achieve financial stability without the help of op, omo Ishi na siddon look I dey this year with all these relationships brouhaha wey dey happen everyday for nairaland.
If they know how dey take arrive at this junction with belle on top make dem continue laidat.

dingbang:
Michelle55

Thanks darling

dingbang:
tuale sir, i am highly loyal to your government

Told ya never rule anything out