pocohantas:


Lol. You and innocence in the same sentence? Continue disguising and whining yourself.

Poco, we both know that I'm innocent.
Almost everyone who knows me can testify to that, I don't know why you're trying to dent my innocence

pocohantas:


No I am not wrong. My response to you was to pray for the spirit of discernment, you left that one and jumped on a post to another person. I guess that is how you care too much. Anyway, I stand by my post, but since you want to make that post about you, I will take out time to address one of your posts. I don’t know anyone that has been severely dumped because they are too caring. You mean, 1,2,3,4 all left you because you CARE TOO MUCH? Interesting

Who are these people telling you, you care too much? What exactly is care too much? Lol

So these people highlighting your good quality, care to share why none of them decided to step in and marry you? Why they haven’t introduced you to their male friends? Put in a good word for you?

Are they your EXes?

Only an EX can genuinely tell you why they picked someone else over you. Ask you EXes why they left you, there must be one thing that would be a constant and I am sure that thing wouldn’t be caring too much, at least not in a positive way.

Care too much? Pfffttt!

I honestly do not care if you ignore me. You are not the one fcking or doing giveaway for me.

majamajic:


I remember dating a girl that has multiple bfs , she said ' let's keep it till weekend , so u can have me in full ' , I said ok . She not knowing I have multiple gfs then too , one problem solved . On Val day don't just keep to a particular girl , she can disappoint u . When I use to celebrate Val , I keep around 7 main chicks, at the end I might get only 4 .

Eweeey!
Don't tell me you were a community preek back then
I give up!

Ishilove:
Is it that Nairalanders don't read and comprehend before commenting?

Karleb:


Let's tell our selves the truth from time to time abeg!

Age has a lot to do with specs for both men and women, especially men.

This pressure is needed, and I don't even think it's a bad. It's better than being involuntarily single even though you dearly desire marriage as a woman. You can compare it to the pressure of writing an examination, it isn't bad, in fact some students wouldn't read if they don't see examination timetable.

That aunty need to sit tight because, older women always find it harder getting married. It's a fact!

I know of an aunty that died late last year @50, no husband or child, in terms of beauty I'd rate her at least 6/10.

What saved another one I know is the fact that someone introduced her to a widower, it's been 6 years after the marriage and the aunty looks old. If she had missed that mam, I'm not sure if she wouldn't be miserable by now.

I just feel pity for this aunty because according to her story, she na good woman but she needs to buckle up. Life doesn't care if you are good or not.

Karleb:


That's you. Your reality is different from hers besides, you might be one unserious person who isn't interested in marriage.

Your chances of marrying your spec at that age is really really low, in fact, at 42, most guys of your age or older are now happily married.

It's hard for some guys at that age to find a partner unless they are rich, not to talk of a woman.

I hope you are not trolling though.

All I'm saying is that no one can decide another's specs and age has got nothing to do with this.
Nobody needs all these pressures and I think it's time we stop giving out all these negative vibes all in the name of advice for

Karleb:


Shey if you be man, you fit marry 36 yr old aunty?

The guy gave a solid advice, if she sees anyone serious even if they don't tick all boxes, let her marry o! By the time she knacks 40 without an assurance, her age alone will repulse guys.

This one no be woman hating o!

sandra50:
He is talking like someone is about to die..

sandra50:
Imagine..I didn't find his comment funny at all.

toujurs:
It's not a negative energy, it's the truth. Either she takes it or not, her choice. , At 36 she should be smarter now. So you expect her to still wait for her spec at 36 abi, so she could get to 45yrs at her parents house abi

toujurs:
My dear you are right on that bad character side oh, Any lady i see still single at 32 and doesn't even have a boyfriend, i see them as disrespectful ladies with bad characters, as a reason for them being single at such old age.

On the part on about being faithfull, i agree with you, you can't put all your eggs in one basket, that other guy that is telling you he likes you, keep me at a side. I said keep oh, i didn't say you should be knacking him. While you stay with the main guy. Incase main guy mess up. Even in business you can't invest all your money in one business na, Most of you ladies are smart, it's good to be faithfull and loyal. But human will always be humans. Madam ehn at 36yrs. Any guy that comes and his serious, just accept the person. It's just four years remaining for your time to give up. Or you inject a sperm and take care of your child, if you are lucky you will give birth to a boy

sandra50:
Thanks dear..really appreciate

TheGift:


If S/He shares it here then it is no longer a family secret.

Shalommy:
The time you were jumping from one olosho to another did you inform us? Oops.. Better commit suicide than to spread the virus. Chaii..

Rosulala:
HIV can be cured its our family secret portion,...chat me on WhatsApp 09031902212

etrange:


Congrats.

Himtulie247:
I don collect my own

Please where are you? ayam standing at the junction that would bring me to the exact location of this food that ayam seeing laidis
Gimme direction mbok!

Sammy101111:
I was in this kind of shit hole before but i thank God am out
Me and my ex started dating fine if i dont text her a day or call her she will not sleep sometimes when she at home lonely she will beg me to come online we should chat we should send voice note. Most time am always at work busy she will call me i will call her back.Any time i collect salary i call my woman give her money to buy food stuff at home for me because she spends most of her weekends with me . The day i can never forget i met my ex through her friend. So one day she kneel down begged me started crying that if i leave her she will kill her self or do something crazy that now she left all past life and bad memories and create a new life with me i told her not to worry i pet her she smiled cooked that day. From that day i even improved more i started planning how to move from the house am staying as a bachelor to rent a new place we will just move in as couple after our marriage this year was the plan . on November i found out my babe was flirting with a guy i even challenged her i cried that night because she did not know the plans i have for her so i just lock up . she was the one at fault yet i still forgive her we still move on some weeks later she started giving me silly excuse she busy that is why cant call or text i was like babe you are busy okay oh sometime i will call her 5 times she will not pick or call she will call back the next day i started noticing she was seeing someone then i just exist my self from the relationship i stopped calling her or text her now we just use to view our status .but me i done move on

worldclass68:




That days wasn't ur day.....

Aswear.. Since that incident happen na so all my classmates just dey gimme space cos I dey stammer then and small thing dey vex me
The only person wey no dey fear me na my best friend that year cos she sef no dey gree for me, we dey fight give each other marks for body still settle within 10minutes .
Anytime wey fight start laidis between us, nobody dey gree separate us na we by oursef go give awasef break from fighting cum start to dey laugh after few minutes wey awa minds don cool down

Uche1993:




Ask around from where we both come from he can never be a father to the child except he performs the necessary rites, Davido did the same, if he did not do what was necessary there is no way that child will bear his name. Don’t give me any ring oh, just give my child a name and be his/her father period!

Ishilove:

I was catching vibes of early 20s naivety from his post.

Wo, make all of them getat. Love is blind but na inside marriage eye dey clear.

The girl sef that is a final year University student is writing like a JSS3 student. I could even write better when I was in JSS 3.