₦airaland Forum

Oluromantic:
He shd see a doctor. Eczema is not a skin problem, it's a blood impurity symptom.

You said it in a wrong way but you have a point. Its an allergic issue that presents itself in the skin

Some people find relief by changing their diet or taking antihistamines

tobianthony:
Aloe vera the plant ...very good.

But to be honest take a bath Evey evening . Soon as you get back home take a shower .

With clean, sterile water. And it shouldnt be too hot

We need more information/ history

Use soap and cream thats for sensitive skin and not the normal type

Please get him to a dermatologist if you havent already. We can keep advising you to rub different concoctions on his face but then someone needs to examine him

IjebuWarrior:
There's nothing like 'Largos' in Portugal, my Okoro bloda. 'Lagos' is a Portuguese term for Lagoon. Don't come here spewing out nonsense.

Lagos is a town in Southern Portugal

Tokziby:
How would u feel if u see little kids like 2-3years making out The video went viral some few weeks back. If u don't see any thing bad in what Naturist are doing then it means u won't see anything bad in that video.
What if a Naturist boy visit your daughter or niece and goes nude, what would u do?

I dont know how you got that from my post, i didnt say theres nothing bad in it, i said that people who indulge in it are not the majority

Every day on front page they assault our sensibilities with nauseating photos of mutilated corpses from one ritualist or jungle justice or the other, does that make us all animals in human skin?

IamCharles123:
The guy is not a real nigga, according to one nairalander.

dont you mean a real niggarrrr

mercyviv:
Idiot! Oh, I never knew there will come a day I'll use that word...but the guy deserves it!!

Lol you were so annoyed you forgot to ask us if we are a teacher

mamatwiny:
So finally, Chioma ends up as a baby mama.
Chai chai.

According to Anambra tradition, that son belongs to Chioma's father. Congratulation to Uli ppl. Another man will train up your son!

At Obo, if you truely love your son, go and pay her mother's bride price now!

He has done introduction already so i believe he will complete the rites

Tokziby:
Guy forget that thing, oyinbo people are the greatest hypocrite of all times, u only get arrested for public nudity if not registered. Have u ever heard of World Naked Bike Run that happens yearly in London that is used to celebrate body positivity in their warped mind. Or world no pants day. Or even Naturist that can have an entire family Naked!!! Little boys and girls seeing their parents in their full glory. In fact oyinbo people are just animals with human brains.

Yeah apart from naked bike rides, protests, art exhibitions and intentional stuff that has a point behind it.

I mean if you just tried it incidentally you would be approached by police for disturbing public order

Yeah naturism is a movement that rejects the notion that unclothedness is shameful. Its an interesting concept but still only specific to some people. Most people dont like it

I dont see them as animals but I think people overestimate their influence and then get confused when they change their mind and start doing another thing

subtlemee:
If I was one of the baby mamas I'll be feeling low

They will have to find some coping strategy because its not as if the guy will just have 1 child with his wife

Baby mama is a risky business... not for the fainthearted...

madridsta007:
Should have gone to the States for the delivery.
American citizens would have had a new member.

The British are not too generous; even kids who have lived there for 17 years but not born there are fighting with the Home Office for their Red Passport.

Of course they will give him, all that home office wahala is just for poor people

Those ones that find out they are not British when they're applying for university at 18 years old it's their parents fault, either their parents are dubious or they were disorganized with the papers

Strawberryg:
U saw adeleke,u saw adedeji and u saw David buh only noticed dat IFEANYI isn't sounding a Melody to ur AFONJA rotten eardrum...
Fu¢king tribal bigot

Hahaha

Great! More grease to your fingertips

hamrof:
ain't saying am not taking the responsibility but does that mean the end of her life?

Have you asked her what she wants to do before you came to ask us

What if she doesnt want it...

Does she want you to marry her? Does she want to go to university?

Since youve implicated your mum as the genesis of the whole thing (which i think is crazy unless she specifically told you to go and impregnate a high school student) have you asked her for advice?

solex2346:
Urinating after sex comes naturally in most time,it prevent diseases from entering into ur system especially STD,the urine itself is harmful to the bacteria. there are alot benefits in urinating after sex. but the most important thing to know is that,peeing after sex is good for both man and woman

No!! Urinating after sex will not stop you from getting an STD.

Even washing your private parts after sex cannot stop you from collecting it if the person has

Thats the case all over the world and not just Nigeria

Being gay is just more disgusting to people

Even in religious scripture it hardly mentions lesbianism and focuses more on male homosexuality

I heard somewhere that most women display some natural bisexual traits, to an extent But I dont know what relevance it has

Because society tells us that without men, we are useless.

If you dont want to see it then stop using vindictive terms like "evening newspaper" to describe people

honestly they like black guys a lot

You would expect them to be more racist but no

The guys like black women too

Focusmind:
Illiteracy is the major cause of high birth rate among poor people in Nigeria. Upwardly mobile middle class are now cutting down on the number of children they want because of their considerations for other things.

They rather prefer quality to quantity of children. I will rather have a single child that I would train in the best of universities with all the exposures to succeed in life than having 5 kids that would sap all the energy I have and poorly train them without them being successful in future and being nuisance to the society.

Well they say "illiteracy is a disease", its a bit more complicated than that even though its true

The main aim of having plenty of children is to increase probability that

-at least some will survive to adulthood
-more manpower for working on the farm or family endeavour
- somebody to hand over the farm to and look after them in old age

The quality of being literate means the person is more likely to be able to access decent healthcare, school facilities and other instruments that will help them to maintain their lives and make enough money to eat and live comfortably without relying on their children

After youve accessed those things and youre no longer afraid of your children dying before they are 5 years old or not being able to help you plant cassava, you will begin to consider more abstract things like "Do I have enough time for these children?" "Is my child happy?" And all that other stuff

So it can be easy to label people "illiterate" but really we need to do better by them and offer them better choices in life.

Or we can act like China and brutally enforce a crazy policy that will help us streamline our economy in the long run

Chidimizzle:
He or she is truly bitter. Lamenting how s/he was denied a First class s/he 'merited' yet it's here downgrading the result another person worked hard for. I don't understand the species of idiots on this forum, it's unbelievable.

Lol dont mind them. Every type of craze must have an origin

anochuko01:
very funny argument

Lol abi

RedCreme21:
Dont mind them. They would trust an innocent face not minding the terror behind it as it evil is written on ones forehead.

The pic was dramatic, intentionally.

As in, she's clearly trying to pass the message that she's totally done.. dont know why people must miss the point and say something else

lilwetdick:
Christianity actually brought lot of immorality even though it stopped many ritual practices, it brought lot of crime like rape due to pornography, greediness, theft and corruption, brutal sti and stds, sex with minor, pre-marital sex and lot of more.

African culture before Europeans came had less crimes compared to what we see today, you could buy things without the seller there, you just drop your cash and go. trust was high because there was skin in the game for offenders.

even if you to African villages which have nt be corrupted by Christianity, you will notice peace of mind, non existence crime, people living in harmony with nature and the community, the community first before the individual.

What!

Christianity didnt do those things, colonialism + our stupid behaviour did. Prudish and hypocritical attitudes to sex are what lead to increased sex-related societal problems

Christianity =/= rubbish human behaviour and African tradition is not necessarily free of it either. Both of those are just particular ways of looking at the world.

Its the way we are fast to abandon some of our philosophies that creates a vacuum... like certain cultural festivals being banned because of one mushroom church that doesnt understand anything while the Europeans that brought the Bible still celebrate their native mythology and culture, even though they recognise that its not real

A lot of stuff happened in those days that wasnt fair. Saying that there was low-crime is a false equivalency because what constitutes a "crime" in the two cultures is not the same

lilwetdick:
if you wanna see human at his real form, go to nude beaches which are numerous in western countries

Yeah at a beach the law will not be enforced. Or protests like that naked bikeride. It depends on your intention.

But ordinarily if you try it on the street a policeman will apprehend you and ask you to cover yourself because you are making your fellow citizens uncomfortable

Trimque2k1:
No disrespect to ladies,but u know d nipple is not that sexy else they would have chosen to show it off too

Lol no, they cant show it off because its the sexiest part (an erogenous zone) and its taboo

Most of your pictures will be taken down if you upload with nipple and you would probably arrested for indecency in some countries if you walk about with it

Ilamina:
It's not only nigerians that do this
Because I met two indian girls in the library
Who said they can't marry indian men that were born and raised in india

truly it would be difficult for them to marry someone from india, thats just the truth. Societies like india, nigeria, algeria have extreme attitudes concerning women

People born and brought up in countries that have completely opposing ideas about relationships and marriage will be an exception if they marry

But there is a difference between a homegrown guy marrying an oyibo girl and an oyibo guy marrying a homegrown chic.

And it depends on the upbringing and orientation of both parties...Some homegrown folks are quite liberal and some oyibo-born kids were raised in a strict, conservative environment because their parents didnt want them to join bad gang

Tokziby:
When the Europeans came, they called it barbaric cos they had the sexual orientation and they gave them clothing. However, we still maintained our morality. As time went by, we started learning about their way of lives and gradually things started changing till date while we're discardeding our culture. Ironically, the same Western people that called nudity barbaric are the same people going back to nudity with full blown sexual awareness

Yeah! thats what it means to be under subjugation. The same people who created anti-gay laws in our country are now castigating us for enacting them

They invented smartphones and exported them to the world, now its only poor people that rely on smartphones for their income. Wealthy oyibo people try to limit their time online as much as possible

That should teach us to think for ourselves next time and stop blowing up minor issues at the expense of important ones

Everybody will focus on breasts instead of child abuse or sexual crimes that happen when people are hypocritical about issues concerning sex. shior

OvaSabi1:
It is not your time to step in anything. Where are you in life presently? Are you in school? Are you working? Why don't you have your own house or pay your own rent? Are you their father?
This vindictive mentality will pull you back from achieving great things in life. Just imagine at your age and level, you're making a whole nairaland topic on how to discipline another person's children.

Lol your moniker really says it all. Is it not better to solicit for advice about an issue than go ahead and commit atrocities in the name of "I too know"?

You have obviously not experienced how painful it is as a child to be castigated unnecessarily by snobby relatives, only to watch them change their tune years later when it comes to their own children

If you dont want to advise him then why comment? What have his age and level got to do with recalcitrant children?

1Sharon:
Contrary to your first paragraph, I disagree ghanaians and jamaicans aren't similar at all.

Jamaicans and Nigerians are more similar to each other and I'm not just saying that cos I'm Nigerian.

I agree with you, Nigerians and Jamaicans have the same stubbornness, arrogance and fighting spirit

Ghanaians seem more like Trinidadians, more gentle, more thoughtful/realistic but still with some corrupt behaviours

1Sharon:
Let jamaicans have multiple ethnicities and let's see how together they would be

Actually jamaica has plenty of ethnicities, their motto is even "Out of many, one people". They have ethnic Indians, Chinese, Jewish, Arab and Scots-Irish as well as blacks

Black Jamaicans suffer in Jamaica the most because their society grades people on ethnicity/skin tone. Thats why they have a big problem with bleaching and a lack of opportunity for black people is why so many of them emigrate to other places

The comments here are typical of Stupid Nigerian mentality, how can someone "look" abusive

what does an "abusive" person look like?

Thats how they will marry one mad woman and come back here to call mods to move their case to front page