₦airaland Forum

WaffenSS:
No respect for the dead.

They're just piled up like sacks of potatoes and obscenely photographed to be shared on social media for the macabre joy of voyeurs and diseased minds.

One weird attitude of Nigerians my brother.

I am unable to take the Ibafo highway road on Lagos/Ibadan Expressway on foot to my nearby office after seeing the corpse of a popular mad lady who was either killed or hit by a car. Many people move around this area and no one has deemed it fit to call relevant authorities.

Her corpse was carelessly kept aside on the highway and for 3days now, her corpse is still there. I checked from afar this evening again. Parts of her body were butchered the day I unknowingly passed very close by her corpse. If you see how people were passing her corpse unbothered and even staying around it to wait for bus and doing other things, you will think it is not a human-being lying down there.

I can't say if it was an attack or if she was hit by a car on that dangerously busy highway. To cross that road na work. That day I saw her, I was not myself throughout that day. I have still not gotten over thought of it.

Nairalanders, which number can one call in Ogun State to get relevant authorities to come and take her away pls?

wany:
Are you minding them,they can't take what they gladly dish out

You are very stu.pid for saying that.

Did you forget that it is the man who spends and struggles to marry a woman? If a husband cheats, the wife should divorce him if she hates it. That is why there is something called Divorce.

The thought of divorce can even change the man. Do you know it is painful for the man to spend and struggle to marry a woman and she revenges cheating.

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

Check your boldness and performance in bed. Those are what makes a man to them.

Are you bold in your interactions with outsiders and her?

daddymummy:
I have always said that as far as relationship is concerned, women are always taking what is good and leaving the bad ones for men.

These 2 scenarios also go a long way to support what I used to say.

Anything that is appealing is what women collect in a relationship, leaving the bad ones for men,

but men are so naive to see that women are exploiting them.


Anything that is good is what women grab.

Things like: A man's money belongs to both the man and woman, but a woman's money belongs only to her.

2)A man must approach a woman first so that she can feels desired, attractive and important.

3)A woman can slap a man, but a man must not slap a woman.

Anything that would make a man look important, women must oppose it.

That is why women condemn other women for fighting over men.

Because by fighting over men,it shows that men are important.

That is why women oppose other women for fighting over men.

But that doesn't stop women from fighting over men.

They would continue to fight over men.

Also if a woman is humble enough to approach a man, other women would hate and fight her, because she is making a man to feel important.

Like I said, anything that makes a man important,is always very painful to women.

But men are so naive and sex-focused to notice what women are doing against them.

I wish men can,at least for few months, stop running after women,stop staring foolishly at every woman who is passing on the road.

That is when they will start seeing women for who they are.

Too much sex mindedness is blinding some men to the reality on ground.

If they can do these,it is women who will come and be begging them.

But their desperation to have sex is even driving women away and is causing women to take the best part in every situation.

A person whom you feel you cannot do without may decide to stay with you only if she can take the best part of the relationship.

That is what is going on because men are so desperate to have sex.

I want to say the reason some women use the moniker "M" here in Nairaland, pretending to be male

Most men who use the moniker "F" here on nairaland, do so maybe just for the fun of it,or to dupe unsuspecting members of this forum.

But women who use the moniker "M" here on nairaland, do so to elevate their own female gender.

A statement could be made and suddenly a female with moniker "M" will come and speak in such a way that is demeaning to the male gender, while making the female gender look superior and desirable.

Men would think it is a man behind that moniker and they will be supporting her not knowing it is a woman posing as a man.

She is trying to sell an idea to the male gender that "Look, women are more important than you.Women are superior and males are inferior"

She is posing as a man because she believes that men are more likely to buy an idea that is demeaning to the male gender, if such idea comes from another man.

Before you know it, men would buy her idea because they would think: since a fellow man thinks we men are below women,then it could be true.Let me also look down on men"

Before you know it, men are fighting themselves and looking down on other men.

So you see how wise women are.


Like I used to say: Any thing that elevates the male gender is always very painful to women.

That is why they would do anything to make men appear sexually undesirable and inferior


While a man is using the moniker "F" just for the fun of it or to dupe unsuspecting members of the forum,

women are using the moniker "M" to promote their female gender while also trying to make males look inferior and undesirable.

Feminism is taking over. Women don't want to take their place as a woman anymore. It is a tool the devil is gradually using to make the woman challenge God's social order, just like the story of the apple in the garden.

Men can't pretend to reject laying with a woman or outrightly reject a woman. A major weakness. There are few exceptions like me though. The word Man carries immense weight. If care is not taken, women will overpower men in the nearest future.

[quote author=daddymummy post=102921299]I have always said that as far as relationship is concerned, women are always taking what is good and leaving the bad ones for men.

These 2 scenarios also go a long way to support what I used to say.

Anything that is appealing is what women collect in a relationship, leaving the bad ones for men,

but men are so naive to see that women are exploiting them.


Anything that is good is what women grab.

Things like: A man's money belongs to both the man and woman, but a woman's money belongs only to her.

2)A man must approach a woman first so that she can feels desired, attractive and important.

3)A woman can slap a man, but a man must not slap a woman.

Anything that would make a man look important, women must oppose it.

That is why women condemn other women for fighting over men.

Because by fighting over men,it shows that men are important.

That is why women oppose other women for fighting over men.

But that doesn't stop women from fighting over men.

They would continue to fight over men.

Also if a woman is humble enough to approach a man, other women would hate and fight her, because she is making a man to feel important.

Like I said, anything that makes a man important,is always very painful to women.

But men are so naive and sex-focused to notice what women are doing against them.

I wish men can,at least for few months, stop running after women,stop staring foolishly at every woman who is passing on the road.

That is when they will start seeing women for who they are.

Too much sex mindedness is blinding some men to the reality on ground.

If they can do these,it is women who will come and be begging them.

But their desperation to have sex is even driving women away and is causing women to take the best part in every situation.

A person whom you feel you cannot do without may decide to stay with you only if she can take the best part of the relationship.

That is what is going on because men are so desperate to have sex.

I want to say the reason some women use the moniker "M" here in Nairaland, pretending to be male

Most men who use the moniker "F" here on nairaland, do so maybe just for the fun of it,or to dupe unsuspecting members of this forum.

But women who use the moniker "M" here on nairaland, do so to elevate their own female gender.

A statement could be made and suddenly a female with moniker "M" will come and speak in such a way that is demeaning to the male gender, while making the female gender look superior and desirable.

Men would think it is a man behind that moniker and they will be supporting her not knowing it is a woman posing as a man.

She is trying to sell an idea to the male gender that "Look, women are more important than you.Women are superior and males are inferior"

She is posing as a man because she believes that men are more likely to buy an idea that is demeaning to the male gender, if such idea comes from another man.

Before you know it, men would buy her idea because they would think: since a fellow man thinks we men are below women,then it could be true.Let me also look down on men"

Before you know it, men are fighting themselves and looking down on other men.

So you see how wise women are.


Like I used to say: Any thing that elevates the male gender is always very painful to women.

That is why they would do anything to make men appear sexually undesirable and inferior


While a man is using the moniker "F" just for the fun of it or to dupe unsuspecting members of the forum,

women are using the moniker "M" to promote their female gender while also trying to make males look inferior and undesirable.[/]

Feminism is taking over. Women don't want to take their place as a woman anymore. It is a tool the devil is gradually using to make the woman challenge God's social order, just like the story of the apple in the garden.

Men can't pretend to reject laying with a woman or outrightly reject a woman. A major weakness. There are few exceptions like me though. The word Man carries immense weight. If care is not taken, women will overpower men in the nearest future.

inoki247:
lol which Nigeria are you talking about Nigeria from Mars or Pluto abi no b same Nigeria repeat the same failure during last election 2019...

Na dem in power rig themself back.

But some people are abnormal o.

How can you hate this man despite his outstanding charity?

They would sha say na Devil money with so much seriousness as if they are very sure.

DMerciful:
Finally na cow go break this contraption!

You, this man, just made my day
Hahahaha

They say they are their children and brothers and should not be killed but talked into changing and can be rehabilitated. That was why Gumi was meeting with the bandits. Herdsmen are their brothers too. Look at the Middle East too. Same thing. The Middle East countries don't do anything to tackle terrorism in their region but their Press TV and All Jazeera channels will jump out to voice their anti-west stance on the activities of the US in their region, the US that has vowed (foreign policy) to fight terrorism anywhere and everywhere after 9/11

crafteck:
Something like this is in lagos

Hahahaha
No talk dis tin again o, you hear?

Ahmed0336:
Ogbeni just smoke your weed cos Ronaldo is the shit men.

It is one thing to have a nuclear weapon and another thing to know how to use it.

He didn't do much in Juventus.

DaddyRochie1642:
Madam why my statement dey pepper you for body

Leave her...
Dem still neva understand say Feminism na the devil return to use woman challenge God's social order. Like he used the Biblical apple to make woman challenge God for am.

Davash222:
It's easier to find Chilled bottled water in Hell fire than to find a faithful Nigerian girl. Cheating is in their gene. Only God will save them.

And to think the emphasis is on men makes it funny. Even men now totally agree that cheating is in our nature.

I can bet my balls that Nigerian Women cheat more than men. They are just more skillful in covering it up than men.

kingsways:
Why Igbos??

Yorubas, Ijawss, etc would also have been killed if it happening their area

There is a special kind of hatred the north has for Igbo's. I am not an Igbo but it is unfair the way they are being treated.

Buhari, his cabal and cabinet contributing to the loss of lives and hardship on Nigerians will surely reap what they are sowing. Videos of the dead people in a truck in Plateau I watched last night really shattered me.

If you nor sabi rule, no be to resign?

I no dey insult the elderly but see where dis old cow Buhari and his old foolish cabal brothers have driven Nigeria to.

Dem no want kill Boko-Haram members, Fulani herdsmen and bandits because na their brothers, children and sons. Now we are here.

Every now and then, we see truckloads of these northern guys coming into Lagos. We still don't know what it is all about.

Lord, what have we done as Nigerians to deserve this failure of a northern government that we are under. Kill these bad elements to deter others, the northerners will not. They beleive that they are their children and/or brothers that can be talked into changing their ways or rehabilitated (bandits, boko-haram, Fulani herdsmen).

peacefull:
I was talking about legal and illegal sex worker. I didn't talking about someone who is collecting money after sex in relationship.
When did I support women who collecting money after sex in relationship?

To me, sex work is not proper work. I can't do that. Very very difficult work. Very very hard work. I can't imagine having sex with many many men because for money.
But I can't do, doesn't mean I can look down on them or their work. If that's legal sex work, I have nothing to say for them.
Because work is work.

If someone who think like only IT work, office work etc is good work or proper work, but look down on like cleaner work, factory work etc, maybe can't understand what I'm trying to say.
Work is work. They are working and they are making money for life.

Illegal sex work is different. Someone who collecting money after sex in relationship is different. Teenager looking for older men for money is different.
I was and I'm talking about legal sex worker.

I maybe can condemn about something wrong. But something wrong to me is not always something wrong to other peoples. And after condemn them, what is next? Just condemn them is maybe not difficult. But what is next? If I could stop them working there and they lost work, what is next? I should feed them till they can get another work?
I don't think I can do it. And that's very irresponsible act.

If I had to condemn them, I will condemn both men and women.
Because there is supply and demand. Not only supply or not only demand.

I can exchange opinion with them if they want. I can discussion with them if they want.
But I don't think condemn or blame them is good act.

I told you about one of my friend who is thinking about men are only for money and sex.
Around me, this kind of woman is very very few. Because most of my friends are hard working peoples.

I don't know why you are seems like angry with me?
When did I support or praise women who eyes on men's money?
Did I make you feel bad or angry?

If I made you feel bad, I'm sorry.

Yes I feel bad about the way you women think and how you give your opinion on things happening in the society.

You cannot do sex work but you are in support of sex workers. You should be able to do anything you support. People should look for jobs or business to do instead of going into something that is not proper.

I am not asking you to feed them or look for job for them or establish business for them. Do you know that your opinion on topics like this can either encourage or discourage somebody out there?

peacefull:
Why I should condemn sex worker?
Maybe not good work. But they chose that work.
If she has sex for money illegally, I maybe can condemn her.
But if that is legally, that's none of my business. That's their life and their work. At least they are making own money for their life.

I have responsibilty for condemn some Nigerian women?!
Why? And for What? Because I'm a woman too?

Please which news?
My country? or Nigeria?

If I'm not misunderstood about what she wrote on here, she doesn't eyes on men's money.
She doesn't follow men for money. That's why I like it.

And I still can't really understand that why some peoples seems like angry.
Because she doesn't follow their money? If she follow them because of their money, peoples are happy about that?

But if I'm not misunderstood, seems like some peoples are not happy about how women are rely on men's money or like you said women are eyes on men's money.

I'm really really confusing and I still can't understand.

So, you cannot condemn sex worker? That is why even in normal relationship, the girl is doing like a s.ex worker too. Collecting money because of the sex she is having with her guy even if she enjoyed it too.

I am not talking about legal or illegal work. S.ex work is not a proper work. Is it a proper work to you? It is because people like you cannot join your voices to condemn it that it has entered inside normal relationships too.

If you don't see it as your responsibility to condemn something bad because you are living your own life, when the effects starts affecting the society at large, you will be affected too.

I love how she did not follow the money of those guys that returned. We are just saying you women should join voices to condemn the wrong things done by your own gender.

Let more women be like her by speaking out against women putting their eyes on men's money which is very common and caused the men to return. Instead, women will say men are not condemning the wrong things done by their own fellow men too. As if it is a competition.

peacefull:
Ok! Maybe not simple like that.

Sex?!
Please I wanna understand well.
I'm sorry for disturbing you too much. I thought we are discussion about money and love?
Now sex?

My opinion is some peoples have sex for love.
Some peoples have sex for money.
Some peoples have sex for just having fun or just for satisfied their sex drive.

I have a one friend who always think men are for only money and sex.
Sex is like sports to her.

Women having sex for money should have a job and be working to make money instead of that. The responsibility is on you women to condemn such thing for it to be more effective. Unfortunately, it is not so because majority are doing it.

I give you an example: You must have heard in the news how fellow guys ganged up and condemn cross-dressing by guys by beating up crossdressers. Guys condemn it online with comments very well too.

The very few different type of women who are supposed to condemn the wrong things done by women don't do it. They think the men condemning it just hate or discriminate women.

Those men would not have returned to the OP to try and impress her with money if she was working or if the mentality of Nigerian women was different to work and spend their own money and not to put eyes on a man's money or sleep around for money.
CONDEMN WRONG THINGS DONE BY YOUR GENDER. JOIN YOUR VOICE.

ityP:
Truth is, he isn't different from any other Nigerian politician that has eyes for the presidential seat. They are all the same. Tinubu won't be better; neither would Osinbajo. Anyone wey win, na their wahala be that. Naija will never progress

What of Zulum or El-Rufai?

ityP:
Underate Bello all you like, that guy is doing a good job in publicising his presidential ambitions. He may not get it this time round, but he is a strong contender in the years to come. Just know that if he mistakingly wins APCs ticket, he automatically becomes president in 2023

My friend always says before Bello will become Nigeria's president, God should make it possible for him to japa out of this country.

peacefull:
Ok!
I just want you to know that I can agree and disagree both men and women.

Please what is difficult to say no if you don't wanna spend your money for that kind of women?
And why choose that kind of money money women?
You don't wanna spend your money but you spent it, then complain about that?
This is very confusing.

If you don't wanna spend your money, don't spend it.
Is it not symple like that?

I think I wrote this before that if someone who truly love you, she will not happy to see when you are using your money for meaningless.
But I think money money person happy to see when you are wasting your money for them.

It is not simple like that.

Naturally, a man needs a woman and the woman needs a man for sex. The issue is why have Nigerian ladies/women monetized it. Or are you saying what you are saying because it is the man who goes for it. Have you not seen/heard of women wanting and going for it too even as they are naturally pretentious.

peacefull:
Why gender?
I can agree and disagree both men and women.
There is no gender.

On this subject matter, it is women we are talking about.

peacefull:
I'm making something worse for Nigerian women on here?!
Oh! No no no! I never ever meant making something worse for Nigerian women. Never!! Why I should do that?!

If I'm making feel bad for Nigerian women on here, I'm apologize them. I'm very very sorry.

Do you know that if you condemn something with your voice and others join you to do the same, especially something relating to your gender, it will gradually solve the problem.

Unfortunately, you women (Nigerian women) don't do that.

I am not Igbo but Buhari and his government is pushing the Igbo's to the wall too much.

Nazgul:
Women love money madly, guys love sex madly.

Women dream of meeting cute rich guys who will buy the world and present it to them, guys dream of meeting a beautiful goddess who will give them the sex of their lives.

The goddess and Rich guy meet, the goddess opens her legs and the guy opens his wallet. Both parties are satisfied. Case close.

- The goddess enjoyed the sex too. She even
cli.maxed multiple times. You guys should
stop making it sound like the girl did the guy
a favour opening her legs. They are
capitalizing on it to even collect money join
too and taking guys for fools in the long run.

- And when she is h.orny and pretentiously
come to you for the D, you would still think
she came to give it to you and you will give
her what you think she likes in return -
MONEY.

- It's a Nigerian women thing. Other women
around the world don't have the mentality
of Nigerian women. They work for their money and spend their own money.

peacefull:
I'm really really confusing again

Women can't talking about love in Nigeria? Is it so bad things or taboo in Nigeria?
Talking about money is bad and talking about love is also bad?

Putting eyes on man's money?
I think this is not only about women. Both men and women.
And I think every where have that kind of peoples both men and women.

It is this defend that you keep defending your gender that makes the matter worse and make it remain the same. In this Nigeria, women have made men see them as people who like money more than love.

Why do you think those 2 guys returned to the OP to impress her? Keep defending your gender you hear? They should not earn and spend their own money.

OP, Kas Beats singer and evangelist? Kas wey sing the sexual song Fimilé be evangelist? Or na different Kas?

Don't be fooled by the rocks that I got
I'm still I'm still Jenny from the block
Used to have a little now I have a lot
No matter where I go I know where I came from (from the Bronx).

purples25:
I just stopped laughing.

Something I'm used to happened today. A guy that I had politely refused last year came to me this morning. He immediately told me he has a job now. Told me the full name of the company and everything else. Then he started asking me aggressively about where I have reached in life and all that.

I chatted normally with him, I told him I was happy for him. Later, he asked if he could call me at a certain time. When I told him he could, he started saying that it was not so before, that before, my anthem was that he cannot reach me for various excuses.

I laughed, because, I now understood the whole issue. He believed it was because of money that I didn't allow him access to me anyhow. I just told him that he shouldn't worry because my phone was bad. He continued to reply in a sour tone. The funny thing is that I have no business with his money, because I am sure that none will land in my palm...so why would i be tripping because he got a job?

Another guy I rejected politely acted normal at the time. But after years he came back, asking me with full spite about my marital status and my job. Lol. He told me how he has a company now. I knew that was true because I had seen evidence of it growing and info about it in public over the years. He insisted that we should be dating now. But it couldn't happen because i knew he was just bitter, and thought that i should fall now because he has made it.

Guys, its not all about the money. Some women don't use your money to survive. Some have parents and don't really care to be bound in chains because of indomie and egg, credit, or sharwama. There are more serious issues. E.g the relationship should be going somewhere. Sometimes its tribal or religious, maybe she knows her parents wont accept you. Why would a woman smell what she won't eat, just because of your feelings?

Guys, take a chill pill.

- Nigerian women should be campaigning aggressively that your fellow Nigerian women/ladies should stop putting eyes on a man's money and get a job and spend their own money on themselves.

- Men have spoken too much on it but it is ignored. So, maybe if it is coming from the mouths of same women, it will be taken seriously. You cannot pretend not to see it everywhere around you. It is what shaped the mentality of the two guys who returned to the OP.

- Only Nigerian women/ladies carry a different viewpoint about relationship. European ladies are crying out for help to get into relationship because work is affecting their social life. Naija ladies no dey work, na man money dem dey use. The ones working still put eyes on the man's money.

peacefull:
Oh.... Sorry, this is very difficult to me
I need take time for understand very well.

Ladys made men to believe money can buy love?
You think women force men to have money and buy their love?

To me, money can't buy love. Money can't buy someone's heart.
Relationship is not all about money.
Love, respect, trust, understand etc.

I didn't blame anybody. But to me, seems like some peoples attacking her.
Everybody have own thinking, own opinion etc.
So don't need to attack her. She has her opinion. I have my opinion. You have your opinion

Broke guy?
If I'm not misunderstand, that meaning is someone who don't have enough money or something like that?
What wrong with it? If there had love between borke guy and lady, what is wrong about it?
They can make it together! Make money, make more strong love, make more strong bond etc.
That's soooo sweet! Very beautiful love!

Me and my husband started our relationship about 16years or 17years ago.
Both of us were not rich. Still now, we are not rich person. But still together.
Of course, sometimes really had hard time about money. We had very bad experience.
But still together! Because we know our relationship, our marriage is not all about money.

Sorry, if I'm misunderstanding you and if I wrote strange things.
I maybe didn't understand well.
I'm sorry.

I will read your comment again and try to understand what you wrote very well.
Thank you for taking your time!
I appreciate you!

He is saying you (Nigerian) women should be campaigning aggressively that your fellow Nigerian women/ladies should stop putting eyes on a man's money and get a job and spend their own money on themselves.

Men have spoken too much on it but it is ignored. So, maybe if it is coming from the mouths of same women, it will be taken seriously. You cannot pretend not to see it everywhere around you. It is what shaped the mentality of the two guys who returned to the OP.

Only Nigerian women/ladies carry a different mentality. European ladies are crying out for help to get into relationship because work is affecting their social life. Naija ladies no dey work, na man money dem dey use. The ones working still put eyes on the man's money.