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Nope. . . he keeps trying to hook me up with several people.

Adam Brody:
@topic

How can there be shortage of Men when i am still available? You never hear about me ni?

After me, no other guy again. Anyother one is a counterfeit!

If these are the kinds of guys in shortage, it's probably better for the whole world.

Nope, she's a girl. . . I don't date girls

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=187412.msg3263279#msg3263279 date=1230072646]Madam Gbeborun, stop volunteering yourself [/quote]Volunteer myself ke? i no wan kill person abeg.

chamotex:
I don't need nobody anymore . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I wana be by myself. . . . . . . . . just wana be celibate.

_{*i got a couple of secret wifeys y'all don't know anyway*}

_{*writes it in journal*}
Really? A celibate man with secret wifeys? LOL! You don't know the meaning of celibacy. If you did, you would realize you're using the word in vain.
Just say NL girls are too troublesome and flirty for you.

busybein:
don't mind them,that is what they use to deceive people

shamless woman wrappers

LMAO!
LMAO @ tpia.

bluespice:
he he he
u is a male beech!

LOL - I agree. . . be more precise. He's the roomate's beech now cos she calls the shots!

You better tell your gf. Before you know it, you'll continually sleep with her roomate and then cause more wahala. If it was a mistake once, let it not be 40 mistakes. It's easier to get out of 1 mistake than 20 mistakes o!
At the same time, it was not by force. If you loved your gf, you would have mustered all the strength in you to resist the girl. It serves you right. Just pray you don't lose what you have going on with your gf.

Chamotex, you need to find you another woman. First it was smurf, she dragged herself away from you and now it's Missy B doing the same. What do you do to these girls?
_{*takes out journal*}

Ewoooooooo!
Missy B, are you not Ebony's partner again?
Na wa o! Chamo is a pro at being a celibate player.

It's 15k at mega plaza. I'm sure it's much cheaper elsewhere.

Na wa. . . I see one obsessive female.

I think he just knows it. For one thing when I care for someone, I tell him that a lot and I genuinely have concerns over his welfare. We talk about any and everything and if he's not happy, I try to make him a lil happier. Also through actions, a massage is awesome. Guys like you to show interests in their lives and you should try to understand their different hobbies.
So yeah, I agree with iice. . .

iice:
[color=#9900ff]With actions. . .I will always be there to listen to him, support him, encourage him.
I will always have his back. . .[/color]

I do just the same all the time.

I am really trying to be sympathetic with gaynners but I am laughing my head off.
I warned them seriously not to make noise about the whole Captain Fab thingy or they would jinx him. Did they answer me? Lai lai. I guess Arsenal can settle for 5th place sha. I don't see A. Villa letting down their guard.

JeSoul:
Phil Jackson is complaining about the Lakers schedule . . . played yday, will play today, fly home christmas eve and then face the Celtics next day.
  My question is this: will he be complaining if the Celtics & Hornets were bad teams?  Abeg he should stop setting the table of excuses why they'll lose come thursday    Every team in the NBA plays 3games in 4nights etc, every team has their stretch of a "tough schedule". Please no whining in basketball.

What is wrong with that man sef? LOL! He's just hating jare and looking for excuses in advance. Some teams have relaxed schedules now but will be more hectic towards the end. The way I see it, they should thank their stars for this. Let him complain well, no amount of complaints will change the schedule.

FBS:
@moonstone, I dey, and yes you can rejoice but it aint over yet until it is over. As long as the sky still remains blue, CHELSEA will succeed.

Lol - I find you very hilarious FBS. Was the sky not blue last season? What happened then? The season before nko? What is your excuse. You don cry finish? That was Chelsea's last chance to do well before the end of the year. Y'all missed it. May you be disappointed again next year (end of the season). . . AMEN!

The particular guy in this case is not a fool. He's just irresponsible.
However, Ladies 1 and 3 are humongous fools. . . head-to-toe. With wedding band, they are still sleeping with him? Lady 1 is the bigger of the 2 fools. I pity Lady 2 sha. I hope she's screwing other men abroad.

Awon ode meji! Hissssssssssssssssssssssssss!

yemmyse:
Am short about 4 ft. Very dark in complexion, with a very big head and enormous K leg. Havent had a girl friend in 20 years. What do i do?

You're a joker. . . if this is really true. There's someone for every one. You'll survive. Just keep praying and hoping.

NaJa HaJe:
Are you STUPID?  _{this is just a silly thread}

I warned her not to listen to karmamod.

NaJa HaJe:
iOh my Gosh . . . this is like having a buisness review; '' if you don't start rewarding me for my bedroom gymnastics I will have to look elsewhere for more proficient options''

Ah ahn. . . if gifts are a determining factor in a relationship, it's purely business now!

NaJa HaJe:
about what?

That she is not happy with no gift-giving.
If he refuses, let her get to steppin'
If he accepts, let them be happy.

I love Ed (CHUCK BASS) . . . he's so full of it.

MSMAMASITA:
I'm wondering how i should approach the christmas thing, should i just buy a gift and see if he gives me one and then if he does not have the conversation or tell him its overr?

what are my next steps?

TALK TO HIM! Ah ahn!

LOL - Winch friend? LOL!

davidylan:
True . . . and i hope the guy is for real. But i have my doubts.

I think he MIGHT be real.
I just think she's reading too much into this whole thing. The dude is happy with her. She should not let little things like this cause a problem. All she needs to do is talk to him about it. Let her know why she does not get gifts.

davidylan:
its not true. We are only more pragmatic.
Why shld i buy you a gift when i don't see a future between us? Why take you out to dinner when the only thing i can seem to think of hrs after that is what important thing i could have used the money i wasted on you for?

When a naija dude is down with you . . . you don't need to be told. Infact you will be the one embarrassed with too many gifts.
Dude is only interested in the OPs body full stop.

Pragmatic you call it?
Why should you not buy a gift for a girl you're dating? Every girl you're dating has the impression that you see some kind of future with her.
When SOME naija dudes are down with you, they will embarrass you with gifts but when a guy thinks that giving gifts should yield some kind of harvest, why not?
I disagree with you that the dude is on only interested in the OP's body. We can't be sure in his case. All those senators and big men giving money to young girls are doing that for what? Surprising women with trips to places for shopping? Those are gifts now and they are only interested in the girls' bodies.

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=210695.msg3259035#msg3259035 date=1230001317]Thank God you know i was hoping Naija girls have not downgraded to that level.I plead the fifth

Yes i buy gifts but not just for any girl and it has to be mutual i don't need no parasite,It is either we exchange gifts or we don't bother at all[/quote]Giving gifts is not trade-by-barter. I am sure the OP gives her man gifts and he just doesn't think so much of it.
Women are very giving. They only have different definitions of gifts. There's also a commensalism kinda of relationship where one person gains and the other gains or loses anything. That's how it should be in giving gifts.

Let's face it. . . naija dudes are not just that romantically-inclined

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=210695.msg3258992#msg3258992 date=1230000175]Naah i don't play that anymore go and ask any girl i have dated lately!   [/quote]Ah! Jawo! Recharge cards are not sensible gifts anymore. What gift are you giving girls these days?
Don't you give girls birthday gifts? Don't you give them Val's day gifts?
I say the guy is either cheap or he's just ignorant of the effect of gifts on a girl.
She's bound to give him a great time in bed after she gets a gift.

KarmaMod:
Na lie!   Naija girls at least are smart. Giving it up for something. hahahaaaa

seriously stop with the "my friend" bullshit. If she doesnt have a computer, let her use your dam computer to make the thread you selfish loon or just quit lying

Pick one.

She will soon get tired of my friend, my friend.
Karma, don't put this girl in trouble abeg   Her "friend" will listen and before you know it, they will call you a homewreck.

OP, talk to him. They might be stubborn goats but they hear once in a while

A-40, if you like, deny your girl gifts. is it not you giving recharge cards? Yeye! LOL!

I think the problem is most of them do not see anything special in gifts. As for me, I love gifts and surprises so I can understand where you're coming from. I'm guessing he just does not see a big deal in giving you gifts.

Don't listen to Karmamod o! If you withdraw sex, he will get it somewhere else

Pataki:
@ Moonstone,

Did I not tell you when we saw that when these two guys (Adam Brody and Vanweed) combine, there will be commotion on nairaland? How will it be if tumfulu now joins them?

I cannot help but laugh seriously.

LOL! You are not serious at alllllllllll! You want to join them? Be their manager now! LOL! Don't encourage them just yet though.

weedinLA:
Nigerian girls are all bastards and real bitches!!!!!

Awww, did they break your heart? You might still marry one of them. Don't be so quick to judge.
Nigerian men are not better though.

Morenike, Is that shoe from where I think it is? I almost bought the sage ones.

All lakers have to do is continue their losing streak for 2 more games and Hornets will be right up there with them. We face them on Tuesday and I'm quite nervous about that.

For Denver, Anthony is injured and cannot play the next two games. Maybe they will still be able to rise above this.

Thank you Y-Hustler, you have just made me puke or at least think about doing that.

Let her be. That girl will run you down.
You are her boyfriend ke? Did you guys go out on dates?
What were you doing to give her that impression? Like someone said it's hard for a guy and a girl to be just friends cos one likes the other. You should have made it very very clear to her that you just wanted to be friends.

doyin13:
I am going to be ignoring all the males on this thread.

ibkaye. . . . .so when should i come and carry u to nando's

Agbaya, oniranu . . . what for? Leave the girl alone. I'm scared of her being 10 feet away from you.