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XhosaNostra:
So what's the problem now? Forget about him & focus on your future plans. Just you & your child, with no human anchor weighing you down with negativity. You should be cartwheeling right now!
You'll meet new people, but don't repeat the same mistakes. Use contraceptives & don't fall pregnant again until a guy spells it out to you that he wants a family with you. Maybe you should also do a bit of introspection. Figure out why you're letting people step all over you. This joke of a relationship went on for as long as it did because YOU allowed it. When you're not getting what you want from a situation, walk away. That's for this one & for any future relationship you may have in the future.

In the meantime, relish in your newly-found freedom & single life because from now on you're not going to settle for less than you deserve, right? It's never too late to make New Year's resolutions or to turn on a new leaf & reinvent yourself. He's history. Finish. On to better things.

Good post...that man is damn selfish and needs a lot growing up to do...

You people block, un-block and block again and again...smh...childish at best..

You can't really do much about it since you are stuck at home in one place....if too much food gets you fat just try to minimise a bit of the portions you eat...

2cul2care:
AY always trying too hard to get attention

ANYTHING FOR THE GRAM

Attention seekers....smh

Nairasurplus:
That means she was not tested properly of corona virus before she was pronounced positive of corona virus.

It seems so...kaii

oyoolima:
Bride price should be abolished but there are a lot of kind, stable Nigerian men who despite paying bride price do not treat their wives as chattel and see their wives as equal partners.or whatever formula that works for them.

A decent human being will keep being decent no matter what.

I agree with the above....

It's possible...

senatordave1:
She has always been sick.ayade imposed her on cross river north so that he can easily takeover from her in 2023 as she replaced him despite massive outcry.she has always been in government positionz all her life.time for apc to test her strength in cross river north

Exactly.....she was sick and was not even supposed to go back as a Senator. She would have dedicated that time trying to take care of herself and getting the best medical care who knows, maybe could have been different story. But God knows best. May she RIP

majamajic:
23yrs old teaching teenagers ?


He must have been doing this for long

Exactly.....the age difference is too close for comfort. He can be their generation sef

Wow,, just wow! Some people get strong mind ooh

Wow so sad.....spiral effect of the covid 19 weather directly or indirectly would be felt. May his soul RIP

I remember him...so sad. May his soulful RIP

All these boys that called themselves "Men"....

Gentleboy15:
.........

I froze for like 10seconds. The reply was definitely not what I was expecting. It dawned upon me that I missed out on her. I remembered how I meet her and how the conversations flowed like an ocean. I could not help but think about how calm, beautiful and eloquent she was. Her shape was mind blowing. I only see that in movies or randomly. She carried herself while walking in such a beautiful manner. I was determined not to give up.

I called her after 5days...lol. I am a busy guy and we all know It's not easy surviving in Lagos. She answered calmly as usual. I inquired about her forthcoming exam and all our discussion was about the examination. I aired my opinion, I gave her candid advice and ended the call. We ended it this time around on a high note. I was happy.

2days later, I called her again and asked for a meeting nearby. She paused for seconds and managed to utter 'okay'. We decided to meet a place not far from her street. We agreed to meet by 7pm.

The meeting was a success. I enjoyed every bit of the discussion and I am convinced she did aswell. During the course of the discussion, I took my time to get to know her better, I also used the opportunity to introduce myself better.


We meet a day after the first meeting at the same place and time. I asked to use to the opportunity to know my house since we are staying quite close. It was such a coincidence, I never knew she was staying close to my area. I have never seen her around. All thanks to school sha.

Walked her down to my house. We talked and connected so deep. I asked to hold her hands but she declined. She gave in upon my consistent requests. We stopped at my gate. We went back to her house. On our way back, she asked me: "Why are you interested in me, I want to know." I knew this was the chance. I stopped both of us from walking, and I began to say all those sweet sweet words. I never knew I was good at that ooo. I was impressed at myself. She held my hands tight as I dazzled through with insane lines. We got to her house and I managed a hug oooo.

After a week of calls and chats. I put it to her to pay me a visit and she obliged. I was stunned. I asked myself "is this really happening?"

On the day we were to meet, i arranged the house and put everything in order. She came and was quite astonished about the compound and our house (I never talked about it).

I offered her drinks but she refused to drink anything. She was just trying to be safe. I hailed her for being sensitive. The atmosphere was so serene. Fan blowing at us. She was on an armless gown... Haaaaa... He curve na die.

We talked at length and one thing led to the other. We had sex. It was mind blowing. She was tight as anything. She did all her possible best to stopped at kissing but my mind games (may God forgive me) was too strong for her. My monstrous arsenal was just waving at her in full swing. It was a sweet experience for me but a bitter sweet experience for her according to what she said afterwards.

She made me realize that she has not given her boyfriend an ordinary kiss. She was beating herself. She accused me of being too hard to resist.... I know in my mind. I assured her of my love for her which I really meant.

She changed after the event. She blocked me om all social media platforms. She even barred my number. It's been 3 weeks now. If I call with another line she ends the call moment she discover it is me.


I am confused.


What exactly is my fault...

Let her be for now pls... She is confused and dissapointed at herself for falling for the temptation and also probably feeling guilty for betraying her boyfriend....
You didn't act in a way that portray the gentleman you claim to be...

Ohh she "works really hard"....

Omihanifa:
Is the bed still available ?

Yes. Location is wuse2

DenreleDave:
As for me, Jet Li is my favorite martial artist followed by Donnie Yen.. Na God save Jet Li say i Don dey watch him movies since I was small if not, I would have chosen Donnie Yen.

Jet li: though a lot of film trick but he doesn't take rubbish. I love his skills, so perfect. Twin warrior, The one, Chai too much action.. He very good with guns too, very good unlike Jackie Chan that can't use gun...

Donnie Yen: very reason.. 2nd best martial artist... The guy is too good wuh kung fu. He is good with guns too but he doesn't really use it
Ip man 1 2 3 4

Jackie: although I like him but his movies are most of comedy than action.. He jokes too much. Imagine, the way they beat him like small pikin only for him to be playing around in the name of fight .

If i want laughter, I would av bought comedy show na but Jackie makes film kinda boring to me with his style of joking around in a serious fight.

Oya it's high time to tell us your favorite martial artist

Cc: SweetCunt97 Ishilove

Jackie Chan
Jet Li
Donnie Yen

Indeed, you are married to an irresponsible man!

omosayo:
– We all have our Childhood dreams of love,marriage.
But how many people are living their dreams?

– If you are not living your dream who is to be blamed?

There are three Things to do to live your dream in Marriage

1: GET GOD INVOLVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE
Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain. It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep. (Psalms 127:1, 2 KJV)
– DEVELOP A BETTER RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD
– LIVE RIGHTEOUS LIFE
– BEGIN TO SERVE GOD

2: EMPLOY YOURSELF TO DO THE JOB

-DEAL WITH YOUR THINKING
– DEAL WITH YOUR BAD ATTITUDE
Attitude to money,in laws,in conflict,
– DEAL WITH THE WAY YOU TALK
Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. (Ephesians 4:29 KJV)
– UPDATE YOURSELF



3: REACH OUT TO YOUR PARTNER TO CONNECT
He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love. Stay me with flagons, comfort me with apples: for I am sick of love. (Song of Solomon 2:4, 5 KJV)
– ADRESS YOUR SPOUSE COMPLAINS
– GET MORE COMMITTED
– MEET YOUR SPOUSE NEEDS
– INCREASE YOUR COUPLE TIME:



Talk,Date,Play,laugh,joke,relax

Click to read more https://realmarriageclinic.com/3-ways-to-build-a-marriage-of-your-dream/

Good one..

espn:
So many devil in human skin roams this planet...

I tell you...that's why I don't look at anybody and envy them no matter what material thing they possess. Evil abounds

mildflame:
Nothing good ever comes of this club

This a very myopic and insensitive thing to say...smh

Gemma52:
A recently married Nairaland shares her maternity photoshoots.

Hope am glowing

Even though I'am not a fan of pregnant photoshoots, You look good...It's your thang! Wishing you a safe delivery

Vyolet:
1. NYSC certificates are mostly obtained before the degree certificate atleast for most schools, prospective corp members go to camp with statement of results.
2. Grade, no one wants others to really know the grade they graduated with to avoid unnecessary trolls.

Your number point says it all...atleast most!

Deranged fellows everywhere...

LUGBE:
Please you mean the bed and foam.

Not with the foam...wooden bed only

Jezyfreezman:
how abt d bed,

The bed is available...15k only. It's quite nice

XhosaNostra:
The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. So when someone is hateful towards another person, there could still be some unresolved feelings there.

I feel indifferent towards exes. So indifferent, in fact, I don't care whether they're homeless, doing well, dead or alive. I don't keep them as friends either, not because I'm bitter or anything like that. I just don't see the point in doing so. I'd be so uninterested in their lives after the fact, TBH.

well said...

Jezyfreezman:
I'm interested in the TV and rug, so what ur price

Sorry the stated items bought already...thanks

LUGBE:
Please do well and post pictures here, someone is already telling me he can pay #70,000 but i think it will be better the pictures are here,he may just change mind.

Only the bed available....N15k!

Really nice smooth bed..

Jaubdu:
I have this mental picture of having a home that gives peace of mind and none toxic. Place where morals and values are uphold, place where everyone take responsibilities over their actions,where no hypocrisy.Sense of worth and where honesty is a lifestyle,where respect and loyalty is earn not commanded,where I take the lead and lead by example.A home where I am not too proud to say sorry when I wrong,a home where material things is just a means to an end. Can there be such a home? Responsible responses are welcome.

Yes there can be such a home even in this perilous times that we are in. But first, you have to seek God's help in helping you to find that partner who shares the same core moral values and have an amazing heart like yours. When you are married to such person, I tell you almost every other thing will be added....

MadeINchenzen2:
This idea of dating do not usually end well, it makes no absolute sense being in a relationship with someone who isn't withing touching distance.

if u really want to be with someone then be decisive enough to tie knots rather than place their lives or status on hold, it will be hard to relate with him/her from a distance. Relationship is about relating with a person, how do u relate with someone who is miles apart.

You might argue that communication through calls and sms as well as video calls can help a relationship thrive, but make no mistakes... physical presence, communication, body language, eye contact, bonding is a big deal.

Most persons who subscribes into the LDR thing may actually have no place in the lives of their partners.

Do not be deceived.

Just break-up or friendzone him if he s not making moves to make u his wife and he plans on leaving the country.

Just break up or friendzone, if she just gained admission into the university.

Most guy/ladies into LDR are actually side Chicks, sugar boys and side boo's... u may be there as a faithful good guy or lady and the person you're waiting on isn't taking u seriously.

Valid observation...

Pascopele:
Name that old movie you think children of this generation have not watched?
1 foreign
1 Local
Scorpion king,
bone collector.
Assasin
Sarafina
Sound of music
Jurassic park,
the mummy,
parents trap,
Mr doubtfire, na indomie generation we get now sha
Living in Bondage

Above the Rim
The godfather
No Retreat No Surrender
Blood Sport
Cyborg