Just be disciplined and do almost everything in moderation...seek God's wisdom and His grace upon you. Different people make it through different means in life..
Eulalia: A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.
bdchange: I believed sex should be enjoyed between both parties involved, so discuss with him why you can't have it everyday like he wanted it. He has high sexual urge but he should be reasonable with his sexual partner so that both can come to concord on how to go about it. It shouldn't be done in a selfish manner.
olamikunle213: I understand the fact that some of us knows all these but let's try and educate some people that have no idea how these state names were formed.
Interesting15: Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.
The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.
The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).
Listen, I don't care what modernism or so called civilization is saying. This is the Will of God, and any contrary opinion doesn't matter. In fact, anything contrary will always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.
So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).
Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship
So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you have backslided already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".
This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God
That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.
Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!
neoclassical: No. 3 is all we need at the moment. We need to seek the face of God. There is too much evil in the world today. Corruption everywhere, wickedness in high places, self centredness, high handedness and aggressive pursuit for material things. People are out to make money by all means these days. Family members and friends see nothing wrong in whatever you do as far as you are making cool money. Everybody wants to 'hammer'. If you follow the right way, people will mock you and tag you an unserious person even in your family. Friends will desert you, only to come back when you make it again. Same people will go to church, cry, pray and donate money. Pastors see them as serious members in church. People buy grades and certificate in school, use connection to make it in life, while intelligent ones who have no connection and money have poor results, no connection, no job. Everything revolves around money. Why won't God be angry? The world is evil.
You've said almost everything that's wrong with us at the moment. The Bible has warned us about perilous times. For us who are truly called by His name let's just keep asking for His grace to soldier on in faith and remain steadfast..
What do you expect from a system that keeps celebrating and bringing out clowns to hold key public positions all in exchange for a piece of porridge...
We know the covid-19 situation has kept us at home instead of being in our various churches worshiping and praising God. However, this lock down won't be a barrier to us. Our praise is limitless.
So, let's share our Favourite Nigerian Gospel Songs at the moment.
It doesn't matter if the man died on Friday or before then....he is dead. Let him RIP. All that back and forth fights and arguments online is irrelevant..
goldenboyofpsy: Wonderful.. you mean he's a married man and you never knew or had slightest idea...
It's strange the news that we hear these days. Hank God for you sha.
I don't understand how one will get to the point of marrying someone and they won't have the faintest idea about something as improtant and obvious as that...
xendra: and the victim is standing there with her instead of being cared/or in a hospital ah!!
I need to leave this country
I don't know ooh..... all because the police will want physical evidence first to pursue the case. So annoying. People are treated like animals in this parts.
mantosa: The Covid-19 moment is bliss, torturous and resurrecting – all positive and negative times to many people. While a large population of the world has fallen ill and died due to the horrible lash of the Covid-19 virus, others are making use of this challenging moment to find peace, solace and purpose while stuck in their homes. Well, for some, it is a time to make terrible decisions which will be instrumental in how they spend the coming months once the pandemic comes to a halt (I hope we all make it out alive). We should all agree that we do not need to be found doing some things during this period.
Talking to Exes
Most people are bored and have never learnt nor mastered the art of loneliness before now. They would rather be with people who are carefree towards them. Some people have been stuck at home for weeks and are left with their phones, tablets and laptops – in this situation; they make bad decisions by keeping in touch with exes who hurt them in the past. By this, they are creating opportunities for the toxic people to come back into their lives.
Over-eating
Okay, let’s say you have not run out of supplies and you have not been shopping. In fact, you have all the types of food, snacks and drink in your refrigerator and you think eating is the only solution to boredom then you are setting up yourself for disaster by being obese and overweight after the pandemic. People should put their health and wellbeing in their hands except you are ready to shop for new clothes after the pandemic.
Excessive screen time
Phone, laptop, television and video games – all these are sources of distraction but are still far from what people need right now: Soul meditation and healing. It is very okay to watch movies and play games but this moment is for reflection and people should not toy with it. I’ll recommend more time for meditation than time for social media through addictive screen time.
Excessive intimacy
Not everybody can relate but couples stuck together at home should abstain from sex except they are ready to be parents. Not to be exaggerating, couples will tend to be more intimate in this period and things may go wrong if care is not taken especially when condoms and pills get exhausted.
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Bad combination, I say