Family › Re: Should I Give my working Class Wife Allowance? by nedekid: 8:36pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by nedekid: 8:30pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Akwamkpuruamu: All I have to say here are my experiences in my marriage. I have been married for five years now with two kids, Girl and boy. What works for me in my home may not work for you.
1. Tolerance is the first thing every man should have in marriage. You see women, your wife, they can dare you to a fault. Especially when your wife knows that you can't physically assault her based on your personal decision not to lay your hands on her, she will push you to the wall. How do I overcome that temptation, I walk out or I pretend as if I'm not hearing her nags by paying 100% attention to my phone. 2. SEX: This is an issue that most women use as a bargaining chip or power over a man especially when she believes you are 100% faithful to her. HOWEVER, if she understands that you get side chick, she will to an extent understand that she doesn't have the monopoly of denying you that. I'm such a man that I'm soft hearted. If I want to deny her money which is my own bargaining power when she denies me sex, I think about how I will feel to see her starved or deny her what she can put to look good, I just give. 3. It's not always good to hand over your finances to a woman to manage. NA LIE, every woman is selfish. If she's not selfish to using the money for her personal needs, she sends it to her family. I no de give my wife wetin I no say if she no gimme account well of how she spent it e go vex me well.
.... To be contd What if you don't have financial control over her, does that mean the marriage wount work? Imagine you both relocate and she gets a job, and gets empowered financially, I bet it the marriage will be in problem. Nacking and cash should not be used as leverage in marriage oh. NB: Hope you don't do that bullshit called joint account.  |
Family › Re: Couples With Thriving Marriages, Please Share Your Story by nedekid: 8:22pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
nabiz: married for 9years when we hardly eat, and till date we have never had a problem that last more than 12 ours. We did not just married till life do us apart, our marriage is till life and eternity. 9 years of marriage without pastor, fried or family members to come and settle us. My wife is the woman any man can have. I have the most wonderful family a man can think of Good for you. So far all is great. 9 years is not a long time though. Meanwhile, don't share secrets, quarrels with anybody, worse still, your pastor. |
Politics › Re: Obi Is A Simp Who Cry Like A Teenage Girl Dumped By Her Boyfriend - Omokri by nedekid: 8:13pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
N3TRAL: All doubts regarding the authenticity of the telephone leak has been laid to rest. Kenneth Okonkwo, his spokesperson, affirmed it.
Bishop Oyedepo didn't deny it.
What's currently in contention is why Peter Obi saw the election as a religious war and the safety of our telephone privacy . Maybe the Muslim Muslim ticket? |
Politics › Re: Court Awards ₦30M Against Marianne Ahmadu Ali For Locking Up Aide In Dog Cage by nedekid: 5:56am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Tobest94: the lawyer should have filed for battery and false imprisonment Seems the lawyers did that in the civil suit while seeking for damages and hence the reasonably high compensation. Don't forget the civil suit is to seek for redress, do not think it can send the defendant to jail. A criminal suit is the one the police initiates when a crime has been commited and a procesutor then charges the person to court. In that case jail term or option of fine is handed out. Seems that was not done. Ofcourse that is where the madam could have prevented it due to her status and influence. A layman's opinion. |
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Agriculture › Re: US Authorises Importation Of Oha Leaves From Nigeria by nedekid: 9:49pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Emuforlife1: They want us to accept everything they import to us while they ban almost everything we are capable of importing just to make our currency inferior to theirs. This, is one of the reason other part of the World are supporting Russia against this Western imperialists. Naa, rather it's the other way round. We export to them, our currency gets stronger. |
Politics › Re: Obiajulu Uja Arrested At Abuja Airport Mentally Challenged – Lawyer by nedekid: 9:33pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
That man obviously has mental challenges. Depression, mental breakdown. He should be in a hospital. He is certainly not a riff raff. A lawyer with masters degree in law from university of Exeter. Someone that could afford to buy 3 tickets for 1 flight. |
Crime › Re: Video Of Yahoo Boys Under Punishment For Failing To Catch Clients by nedekid: 9:21pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Are you sure this hk oga wount be nacking them?  |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Proposing To Another Nigerian Man (Pix/Video) by nedekid: 9:18pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Rubbish!! |
Travel › Re: My Nasty Experience With Nigerian In New Jersey by nedekid: 5:31pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Oga, take her to small claims court. Get your $100 and some nice damages. Have records of all your expenses, eg Uber, other transport. She go pay. Is judge judy in that your area? |
Celebrities › Re: Portable Begs Police After Arrest (Video) by nedekid: 5:22pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
No biggie, everybody kisses arse once in a while. No big deal in eating the humble pie to achieve your arm. This his case is just there. If police decides to go ahead and charge him, court will grant him bail sharp sharp. Anyway, hope he is wiser henceforth. |
Romance › Re: Married Men Sleeping With Married Women. by nedekid: 5:14pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
ComputerOperato: I used to think karma is real but I'm beginning to doubt that. The more I see and experience things in this world, the more I realise no one size cap fits all. Some will suffer the consequences of their acts, others will go scot free and even prosper. Bottom line, don;t let your wife/girlfriend to be mounted by another man. Ditto for husbands and girlfriends. Nothing. Absolutely nothing will happen (As long as it is consensual).
Rich men and women have sex (cheat) the most. Yet they and their children continue to prosper and rule people. Don't rely on karma. It may never come. As in, if they cane a man's wife, the man should go out and cane about 5 people's wife too? As in spread the nacking love around?  |
Travel › Re: US Based Nigerian Lady Shares How She Spends All Her Finances On Bills (pix/vid) by nedekid: 4:47pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: US Based Nigerian Lady Shares How She Spends All Her Finances On Bills (pix/vid) by nedekid: 4:26pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
oloyedewaris: And what's wrong with that,
Get a job and your life will be better, instead of looking for typos on naira land Nairaland ie one word. Use "." at the end of your sentence. Anyway, you are improving.  |
Travel › Re: US Based Nigerian Lady Shares How She Spends All Her Finances On Bills (pix/vid) by nedekid: 2:29pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
oloyedewaris: Lmaoo, educated but doesn't know it could be a typo, you must have think I'm one jobless keyboard warrior
You're education is actually a waste You sha go wound person with laugh.. 
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Politics › Re: Eze Fredrick Nwajagu Arrested For Threatening To Invite IPOB To Lagos by nedekid: 1:28pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Lol, haba, the man was just joking naa, he should have released a video where him and his goons had cameras to show they were acting home video. Lol Well, I don't see any big deal in what he said. He said the shops of his people were being destroyed and the security agencies were not doing their work to protect them. That he might have to resort to self help. Anyway, people should not make statements that will heat up the polity. On the other hand, how come this fellow is arrested and the agbero, threatened and then carried out his threat, yet no arrest? |
Education › Re: Reactions As Student Flaunts His Lexus, Mocks Lecturer’s Car (video) by nedekid: 1:21pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
Westerhoffe:
 If they banned students from bringing cars to that school now, some people will complain. Now see this tactical embarrassment. Not if they ban, it should be banned. Anyway, thank God for some schools. Even if you are president elects child, you will trekk like every other student. To check into school hostel, bags are searched, no coke drink is allowed or sold on campus as it will affect random blood test done on students to ensure they are not using drugs. To leave the campus, parents must send email requesting exit. A student therefore cannot leave the school premises. It seems harsh, but it is for the best. No distractions of driving around in cars, flexing, looking for petrol, clubbing etc. |
Travel › Re: US Based Nigerian Lady Shares How She Spends All Her Finances On Bills (pix/vid) by nedekid: 1:09pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
oloyedewaris: Bub not dumb to the extent of thinking a shot person can fight back Better write in your native language. It is allowed. See yah life? when them say go school, una no gree. |
Politics › Re: Man Dragged Off Flight For Saying Tinubu Must Not Be Sworn In As President by nedekid: 9:33am On Apr 01, 2023 |
This one is simply a rabid mad man. If you have issues with tinubu, go to his house, you have further issues, go to court. Which one you then come and disturb paying passanger on a plane? Abeg he should join portable in cell, maybe they can compose tune together.  |
Politics › Re: Agberos Hijack Onitsha As Helpless Traders, Motorists Groan by nedekid: 9:28am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Na wah. I thought this issue of revenue collections on the roads had stopped years ago. Those days, agbero revenue collectors will go as far demanding payment for having a radio in your car. Seems they are back and stronger, they have to be cut to seize asap. Abi did the anambra oga use them during the last elections and it is payback time? |
Celebrities › Re: Portable Denies Knowing That Those That Came To Arrest Him Are Policemen (Video) by nedekid: 8:56am On Apr 01, 2023 |
This matter is not a big deal. The most the police can do is what they have done now. Picked him up on a weekend. He will be charged to court on Monday as said by the police. Unless the judge wants to make a scape goat out of him and give a long application for bail hearing date, portable will be bailed. I am sure there is no case here and even if there is, option of fine will sort it out. Snyway, lawyers can explain better. |
Travel › Re: US Based Nigerian Lady Shares How She Spends All Her Finances On Bills (pix/vid) by nedekid: 8:38am On Apr 01, 2023 |
kolnel: it's not possible, I pay $50 for the phone bill, internet package with Comcast is around $100, and both are optional. I thought as much. |
Travel › Re: US Based Nigerian Lady Shares How She Spends All Her Finances On Bills (pix/vid) by nedekid: 6:25am On Apr 01, 2023 |
oloyedewaris: Did you just say defend yourself, don't be such dumb
Can a dead person defend himself
We've seen cases where a 6 years old child shoot his teacher because of a disagreement All you wrote there, the grammer, the logic, shows you are the dumb person in this discussion. |
Crime › Re: 2 Chinese Nationals Jailed 6 Years Each For ₦50 Million Bribe by nedekid: 12:13am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Tobianojoel: There should have been no option of fine. 10 million naira for each of the two counts for each Chinese national involved is extremely ridiculous. The judgment is a back to square one despite the judge's initial gragra Which one pays naija, to keep them for 7 years in jail, be feeding them, treating them, spending money on them. Or to collect 40m cash money from the 2 Chinese and use to do better thing eg renovate a prison yard, feed prisoners etc. Abeg forget about morals here, as it is said, naija don cast already.  |
Crime › Re: 2 Chinese Nationals Jailed 6 Years Each For ₦50 Million Bribe by nedekid: 12:07am On Apr 01, 2023 |
inoki247: Lol....
No wonder China dey reject our loan offer dem don go arrest Chinese people wey dey supply dem loan....
The 10million bail option too small the Judge suppose set dere bail with same amount we are owing Chinese at least to help us write off our debt with China  Nigerian awaiting trial or in Chinese jails are more. Watin you want make their judges do to reciprocate? |
Crime › Re: 2 Chinese Nationals Jailed 6 Years Each For ₦50 Million Bribe by nedekid: 11:57pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
JASONjnr: Will be released soon as their government bribe some persons involved... They have option of fine on each count. So no need to bribe anyone. |
Health › Re: She Falls Asleep After Every Sex by nedekid: 11:52pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Nothing person no go read for this nairaland. |
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Travel › Re: US Based Nigerian Lady Shares How She Spends All Her Finances On Bills (pix/vid) by nedekid: 10:28pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
kolnel: I hope this does not discourage anyone, I live on the East coast and Yankee has changed my life. It's all about being focused, why have a car Note if you are working a minimum wage job. She counted 1k for phone bills, 1k for internet, as a yankee person, is that possible? |