₦airaland Forum

ralmix:
My Gf came visiting today, we've been dating since late 2018...
Ever since we've been dating i don't think I've had any positive upliftment but I've always ignored it to be one of those hard trying times of life due to the fact that i have a hustler mindset so i cease to belive anything spiritual (but since 2018 my life has had a drastic change that i do question God what have i done wrong).
But something happened today that got me worried, I've been trying to keep it to myself but honestly i still keep thinking about what she said today.
The last time she came visiting she wore one of my vest when she was going and which she new quite well i have few cloths and I'm managing.
While we where making love i hit her so good and she spilled some words i heard correctly she said 'oh baby this is so good ah I'LL MEET PLENTY LUCK TODAY' those was her words when we where making love and immediatly i heard that i just stoped and slowed down.
When she was going she noticed the mood swing but i tried my very best to put up a smilling face because i was scared to ask her infact it's kind of stupid to ask her such, but i asked her about my vest and she told me since her coming to my place that day wasn't planned so she didn't come with it.
Guys I'm scared ever since this afternoon i' ve been reading articles online relating to people using someone glory or those kinda stuff.
Lease i forgot to mention this my girlfriend has been suportive financially in particular since 2019 up till date and she's not cease to stop.
There was a time things was so hard for me that she had to move in with me to my parents house (where she spent roughly a year) and she put up her best behaviour.
I feel she's the one for me and i want to marry her
But this issue today got me worried or am i the one just blowing it out of proportion.

You are deceived. She is not your problem. Your both destinies had longed been lost since you started living in sin. Both of you repent from immorality and run to Jesus for salvation and restoration.

Sunnycliff:
A disgrace to the Noble medical professionals

Aren't there two sides to a story?

biGDhAp:
.. someone like me wouldnt go near a pregnant woman not to talk having sex with her, be it my wife..



there's in built irritation I get when I sight a pregnant woman..

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Inzaghifilippo:
Im sex starved and i dont have a girlfriend. Im thinking of going to a brothel but im scared. Guys in the house, are prostitutes clean? I will use a condom sha. For those in warri, please who know any brothel around?

2Tim.2.22 - Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.

pimplucious:
My old man went for his usual glaucoma check up yesterday and I went with him. Doc on duty decided to run a quick check on me with some hand held device and informed me there and then that I’ve got it too but advice to do a confirmation check.

And it turned out I definitely have glaucoma but at the early stage. There you have it bro it is definitely hereditary according to the doc.

I advice you go for check and if positive you resume treatment ASAP early detection is key as it can be aggressive sometimes.

Glaucoma is the commonest non-infective cause of irreversible blindness in our environment. It is a progressive irreversible loss of vision.

Loosely speaking, it is 'the hypertension of the eyes', caused by an abnormal rise in eye pressure (AKA intraocular pressure). Just like elevated BP does not necessarily imply hypertension, elevated IOP does not equal glaucoma per se. However, it could be indicative and tgerefore needs 'watching'
If you have a family hx of glaucoma or noticed to have raised iop, then you would require monitoring.

Glaucoma, especially the primary open angle type is not hereditary. It is familial. It means that if a family member has it, other members of the family have a 4-9times higher risk of developing it than the general population. There are other causes of glaucoma like drugs (antidepressants etc), direct injury to the eyes as well as other medical conditions.

The key take home is that once glaucoma is identified, management is possible, either medically or surgically to prevent further vision loss. Earlier loss cannot be reversed. This underscores the significance of early diagnosis. Monitoring and early diagnosis are impt for better management outcomes.

If you have a family member with glaucoma, if you are short sighted or have been told you have raised iop, endeavour to do at least 6-12 monthly eye check/tonometry, or as frequent as your eye doctor prescribes. Desist from using any kind of eye drop (like i have seen ppl promote here) meant to treat glaucoma. Follow your eye doctors advise.
If you are diagnosed of glaucoma, pls stop driving or operating any vehicular machinery until given the clear, for your safety and that of the general public.

Davash222:
God can’t say that!!

Then you don't know his character. He is a merciful father and a Righteous King. Righteousness and justice are the foundations of his throne. He is a righteous judge who metes out justice except mercy prevails.

God is merciful, but he is Judge of the living and dead. We need to keep courting his mercies.

MANGAM:
Its the nature of men to cheat and sleep around. The only thing a man sees in every woman is sex. The man loves with is peniss and the woman with her heart. God created us this way.
It takes a lot of maturity and self control not to cheat as a man

Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.

Deal with your sins than 'normalizing' them.

ahnie:
Hello am an isoko lady ...please akanwu(potash)isn't added in iribotor.... neither is red oil.

I prolly think the op got it correctly.
Good morning.

I think there maybe different variation to this delicacy. My mum use to add akanwu, and some palm oil, just a tot of it.

MRcocaFanta:
There is a soup called Irhibotor by the Urhobo people in Delta State.

The soup is cooked without fire and it's been a life saver to Urhobo or delta students in the University or polytechnic when they are so broke.

The most cheapest soup in NIGERIA.

As a lady from Delta State, especially an urhobo lady, if you can't cook the Irhibotor soup then you are not a real Urhobo woman.

The soup is part of the culture, lol.

When you have a fever, you can take it with yam or Eba and your fever will definitely disappear. Lol

Introducing the Urhobo Irhibotor soup.

I miss iribo-tor badly, very badly. Was a lifesaver way back.

This is a respected prophet of God. Lets mark these utterances against the 'sons of perdition' They have stirred the hornet's nest

hooha:
Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding, wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch, I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why you really need to do a proper check before you marry. In those days where many people were good, you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy, you ought to be careful.

I will show you things that you mustn't skip before you marry your fiance or fiancee.

(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and until the love begins to flow without energy, before you can say you are good to go. If you still put pressure trying to impress your partner to love you, please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere. But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly, then you may proceed to marry.

(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you proceed with wedding.

(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet, palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be validated with time. So no matter how you love your partner or how your partner wishes to marry you, give it the test of time. Give it time to see if whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As they normally say "time will tell".

(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind, please go back to God to ask questions. Until you have true and persistent peace, don't marry that person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.

(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is time for love and time for serious business is not a good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you have much access to enjoying your partners availability, don't marry. When I talk about availability here, I don't mean that your partner may not be in situations were you cannot access each other, but even when such situations come, you will still see the urge to be together; not that he or she will be operating an intentional love on schedule.

(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are swallowed and until you are able to swallow the imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is good to have a large heart, but if you find it so difficult to take some things from your partner, do not marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a very long journey.

(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical tests before marriage.

May God help you to have a successful marriage with a God-fearing person.

Additional:

1.Deliberately flee pre-marital sex and every worldly and man-made standard used to verify sexual compactibility. No matter how sensible they appear. If you had mis-stepped in this respect, decide to do right, going forward.

2. Intentionally choose to use God's prescription for marriage as a guide. It seems archaic, but have consistently proven to sustain marriages. For best outcome, avoid combining man-made and God's standard.

Mycoten is antifungal. Vagina fungal infections are not sexually transmitted.

You are only sure of today. Whoever you are, make peace with God through His son, Jesus Christ, now that you can. Tomorrow isn't guaranteed.

Certifiedbadman:
There are certain habit people exibit after sex,which is totally bad... They are as follows.
1. Never be in a rush to pee after sex, if need be not, snuggle alittle, to avoid acidifying the spermatozoa
2. Never take plenty of food or wine after sex, it drainges down your total system function.
3. Never use any methol instrument or cream after sex, to avoid being minimizing your erectile strength.
4. NEVER Sit in a postrated position, it damages the pelvix.
thank you and be cautioned.

Very uneducated. Poor copying

frankmoney:
Medicine
Nursing
IT related courses ( but you need to know what you are doing )
And maybe land survey ..... though it's debatable.

Nursing, IT ok. Medicine? Run away.

This makes for an interesting read.

Firstly, Priscilla is not chris' mother-in-law, and vice-versa, technically speaking.

Chris has lost Faith (his late wife) and his integrity, Priscilla has messed up her marriage, Kwange has lost Rose, Faith and possibly Priscilla. The only solution here is large doses of forgiveness to be mete out.

In hind-sight, Mr Kwange's permission of his wife to go stay with another man at the latter's emotionally vulnerable period, thgh commendable, was an error

Chris' vulnerability, having been recently widowed, with Priscilla's desperation for a child and to prove her fertility, was like fuel and fire.

Finally, the deed is done. Chris is remorseful, Priscilla regrets her actions but has been vindicated, thgh blessed with a child while at it.

Finally, it shld be settled at family level.

My suggestion:

1.Mr Kwange (who is also guilty of adultery; having been frolicking with other women, and pride) shld forgive himself, Chris and Priscilla. Afterall he has lost Rose (his first wife) , and Faith (his daughter). He should now consider marrying one of his 'side women' if he cant accept Priscilla back.
2.Priscilla shld keep this precious baby and name him/her Kwange, in honour of the man she rubbed shame on.
3.Chris shld consider marrying Priscilla..

Let their lives go on.

money121:
Alh. Yusuf Fatai Oko Oloyun was later laid to rest in his home town.

May Allah forgive his sins and grant him Jannah
Amin

In reality, there is no eternal rest for anyone who at the point of death hasn't made peace with God thru His Son. So God's word says.

Death is a certainty, life after death is a reality. Lets make our ways right with God.

This, and many other enviromental events are easily explainable by science..

But..

Heaven and earth would pass away, but not a single of God's word would.

The wise should be looking at His proclamation in the past, world events and making peace with Him.
He is still in charge and His word would come to pass.

Naijaalive:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/372511-just-in-yoruba-actor-toyosi-arigbabuwo-is-dead.html

What a loss!!

What you do with the redemptive provision of God through His son, Jesus, determines your eternal fate. Too great a risk not to devote one's life to God thru Jesus

Cheato64:
I and Oma have dated for more than 2yrs, I intend getting married to her. When we started dating she told me from onset her genotype is AS. I taught I was AA because I did the test when I was like 10yrs.

We decided to go for HIV test just to be sure even though we had unprotected sex. On doing the HIV test, the attendance whom we didn't ask, checked our genotype, performed all the test because she taught we were couple and since it's an Anglican Church hospital and we came together, it means we are planning to get married.

The result came out HIV negative for both of us, blood group O+, while she's AB and genotype we were both AS. She insist we call it off, 2yrs courtship just like that.

Oma is a nicest person I have ever known after my mom, she takes care of me, I eat healthy, I don't repeat clothes both inner and outer wears. She makes sure I work out regularly, I don't do house chores yet my friends envy me whenever they come visiting.

Name any good thing Oma has it. Now Oma has moved on but I can't, I kept on looking for a lady like Oma, now I understand why most men talk trash about Nigerian women (no offense) and when I meet a lady the first thing I ask is her genotype.

I can recall I asked a lady her genotype even before asking for her name. I can't keep a relationship all I think about is my sweet Oma. She has moved on so she claim but we still talk and she told me she has a man right now even though we still sextexting, we talk how much we miss each other it's been over 6 months since we last saw, she relocated to delta while am in Enugu.

I invited her which she decline but invited me which I accepted I intend going this weekend and I will ask her to marry me, if we get married there is a possibility our first 2 children won't carry the sickle cell anemia. My friend is telling me not to do it but my mind is made up.

It's BIG TROUBLE if you chose to go ahead, especially if you live in Nigeria. Both of you would be unhappy for a long long time. Your kids may not forgive you for being selfish. Like someone said, visit sickle cell clinics and see for yiurself.

However, If you live elsewhere, say UK/US, i know its POSSIBLE to go ahead and have healthy children. I have seen scd patients who look healthier than some of us.

1.With IVF technique you could screen out embryos with sickle gene and implant only the normal ones. Very expensive, even with insurance. Not happening presently in Nigeria, as a treatment option.

2.With natural insemination, prenatal screening can be done at 16wks of pregnancy to determine genotype of the developing baby, andif SCD, decisions can be taken from there.. Not yet happening in Nigeria as a treatment option

3. A child with SCD can have bone marrow transplant before development of complications and with good medical care live a healthy life. A couple of successful cases have been done in UBTH with good outcome, i'm not sure if its still happening, considering the geometrically progressive decline in hospital infrastructure. Its very expensive, and with attendant complications.

All in all, its not worth the anxiety and stress that comes with it.

Its up to you..

stone350:
since he didn't rape them.. ur daughters should also be blamed..
but which kind of home training did u give ur daughters sef.. that they all open leg for him like that. it means they also wanted to taste it

Father is abroad, mother is chasing vanity. What do you expect from parental deficiency?

philhaggson:
My House Boy Impregnated All My Daughters, Help Me!
opera.com
The fear of housemaid is the beginning of wisdom. That's all I could say when I discovered that my three lovely girls were impregnated by a dirty house boy.
I only thought I was trying to help the poor boy who came from a very poor background. I picked him up from the village since my husband stays overseas and I am also working as a bank.manager. I needed someone to help me do my house chores and also stay at home while I travel.
I told my mom in the village and she told me of a young boy who is struggling to eat. He wasn't even going to school anymore because his father is late and his mom is a full housewife. I decided to bring him into my home since he was from a good family background, besides, his mother is a good Christian. I never knew I had shot myself on the leg. All I was trying to do was to help a poor boy.
I took him into my home and made him attend a private secondary school so he can write WAEC that year. The 18-year-old boy repaid my kindness to him by sleeping with all my three daughters (19, 17 and 15 years of age).
It all happened in the space of two months. That was six months after he joined us. My 19-year-old girl is preparing for university, while the 17-year-old just completed her secondary school and the 15-year-old is still in school.
What a wicked world! How do I tell their father that our three lovely kids are pregnant for the same man?
Should I just take them to the hospital and terminate their pregnancies?
Now I understand why people don't help anymore. They will end up repaying you with evil.
My worst regret was helping someone. I'll never help anyone again. I need your advice, please

You abandoned your children to strangers for career, you reaped the fruit. You are the problem, not the houseboy. At your rate of family negligence, a housegirl could have also corrupted your children.

9jaBlogger:
http://igberetvnews.com/1226871/world-war-iii-checkout-us-vs-iran-military-strength/

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Seun

Making direct military comparison between Iran and USA is misleading, because major wars are multi-party. Modern warfare has gone beyond 'shiny brand new' hardware.

China and Russia are potentially allied to Iran, so does North Korea (enemy of my enemy) , which would significantly have impact on any US-Iran conflict dynamics

Iran has been complicit in all conflagration in the middle east without direct involvement. They are masters at indirect/proxy warfare, an act the USA maybe alien to.

The present disturbance may not lead to a world war but would change things permanently. A form of terror may arise from this.

God is in charge. His righteous judgement on the nations would be justified.

Pride goes before a fall.

Charity begins at home..

If you enjoy what you consider immoral songs, your children would like them even more..

If you dress to kill or slay, all in the name of 'open eye', dont worry, your children would literally go out naked, its a matter of time..

If you lie and cheat, your kids would know, they would do out-lie and out-cheat you, its only a matter of time..

How proper chlidren turn out to be starts from how disciplined parents are themselves.

bigass123:
Truth be told, good parenting is increasingly becoming more difficult.
It takes a lot of discipline, commitment and close monitoring of your ward. You can control what they're exposed to within your house but what of when they get outside the house. The school, among friends even the church. They pick up stuffs from their peers.
May God help us in this generation

Good parenting is increasingly becoming difficult because parents have increasingly become bad (with all this brazen show of immorality on social media, to think that these pple would have kids someday).

Fruits don't drop far from their source. Children learn a lot from parental examples. Raising correct children requires parents to be correct first. There are tons of healthy multimedia content out there suitable for kids. There are technologies that make control even better than possible yesteryears. But If you tolerate toxic entertainment whether in secret or open, dont expect your kids not to be entertained from them too, either in secret, open or both. There is peer influence, but charity does begin at home.

The prescription for raising good children amidst societal decay and decadence is abundantly clear in the (presumably outdated) bible. The prescription works.

Jaynom:
Lol .. but of course! Matthew Ashimolowo ran away from UK because of Fraud too

Are you sure he committed fraud or you read it somewhere? The reality maybe different (i'm not his church member).

Obviously, leaders need to up their games with respect to administration, accountability and governance compliance, in church business.

Its not very easy to run a big church in the UK, especially cos they are registered as charities and the Charity commission has regulatory oversight. Some churches are facing a tough time with the govt, in a society that is happily non-religious. No doubt some churches are 'for-the-money', thgh many genuine ones have been caught up, and cast in the light of fraud. A few instances are, where, even muslims have been appointed to manage churches, just cos they fail to comply with governance guidelines, some of which frankly speaking, may not be fit for churches, since they are not companies per se.

Govt control over churches (and invariably a potentially persecutory tool) , is subtle. UK church leaders who are genuine servants of God need to adapt. The era of founding fathers being the 'emperor' is over.

Designer123:
This is Nigerian-class not world-class

Below is a world-class hostel in Germany.

Why are people above saying this is a philanthropic gesture when the rent is 300K per annum? There is difference between philanthropy and investment (business).

Thank goodness I'm not alone.

This is commendable, though when i saw 'world class', i had something something else in mind

AnanseK:
CT scan doesn’t change outcomes if there are no suitable hospitals and competant surgeons to do the brain surgery.

I agree. I was talking in general sense..

simplepee:
Rip


The post be sounding like Solomon grundy; married on 29,admitted on 29th,coma on 30th,died on 6th...

Too much stress from the celebration or village pipo.

Heard of berry aneurysm? Stress.. Headache.. Coma.. Berry not unlikely, not village people. Probably a slow leak, that's why he died days later.

An early brain CT could have changed the outcome..Too bad he was a Nigerian in Nigeria.

Im just too weak to comment on this. Police wahala, DSS high handedness, kidnapping, senseless extra-judicial killing.. Its just so exhausting abeg. Pls when wld Nigerians have peace

goatface:
The Nigerian Bar Association has reacted to the Friday invasion of the Federal High Court, Abuja, by operatives of the Department of State Services in an attempt to rearrest Mr. Omoyele Sowore, who had been released less that 12 hours before.

See the full statement:

DESECRATION AND ASSAULT ON THE FEDERAL HIGH COURT BY DSS: NBA URGES ALL NIGERIANS TO DEFEND THE RULE OF LAW


The Nigerian Bar Association is greatly dismayed at the exhibition of primitivity, thuggery, insane passion for lawlessness, contempt and disrespect for the rule of law by the agents of the Department of State Services (DSS) within the precints of the Federal High Court, Abuja while attempting to re-arrest Citizens Omoyele Sowore and Olawale Bakare earlier today.

Eventually Sowore and Bakare were re-arrested by the DSS inspite of being on bail granted by the Federal High Court.

The NBA has been properly briefed – beyond the shameful videos of the incident in public domain- by our members who witnessed the disgraceful and crass violation of the hallowed precincts of the law by the officers of the Department of State Services, an agency of the Federal Government of Nigeria. The NBA finds it disgraceful that this ‘court riot’ occasioned by the high handedness and insensitivity of the security operatives interrupted judicial proceedings and made the Presiding Judge to abandon judicial proceedings because of safety concerns.
The Nigerian Bar Association strongly condemns the action of the Department of State Security, which is another in the series of impunity and lawlessness exhibited by the DSS. The invasion of the court by the agency of the Gederal Government of Nigeria runs contrary to the avowed assurances of the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria that he will ensure that the Federal Government and agencies under it obeys court orders. The disrespect of the court by the DSS is legendary and unrivalled.

Few days ago, the officers of the Nigerian Police Force exhibited similar traits when it also invaded the precincts of the High Court, Effurun to arrest Mr. Ademi-Akpeto, Chairman of Sapele branch of the NBA. Many Nigerians are still in unlawful custody and not charged to court. Nigerians are now under siege by security agents who have no regards for the law and the courts.

The NBA urges all Nigerians to be alive to their responsibilities as citizens of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and is ready to partner with all Nigerians and civil society organisations to ensure that the rights of Nigerians as guaranteed by Chapter 4 of the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, 1999 as amended are not trampled upon by by any agency of government.

The NBA therefore, demands as follow:

1. That the Federal Government of Nigeria and the National Assembly immediately investigate the shameful conduct by the DSS and ensure that all persons found culpable are duly punished in accordance with the law.

2. The immediate suspension of the Director General of the Department of State Security from office. We make this demand bearing in mind the fact that the DSS under his leadership has established itself as a brutish and irresponsible agency that derives immense pleasure from violating the fundamental rights of Nigerians and disrespecting court orders.

3. That the National Assembly should review the laws setting up the DSS and indeed all security agencies in Nigeria with a view to repositioning them to be more responsible and responsive to the public.

4. That the Attorney General of the Federation, being the Chief Law officer of the Federation takes over all the political cases or cases involving politically exposed persons presently handled by the DSS.

The above demands of the NBA is without prejudice to the consultations presently going on amongst critical stakeholders in the legal profession and the judiciary on how best to ensure that this sad incident does not re-occur.


https://punchng.com/full-text-nba-reacts-to-dss-court-invasion-sowores-rearrest/

If this is all the NBA can do, then it has also failed. There is no hope. I was overly expectant of a more active and drastic response, alas, an empty press release

What a lost world. We now celebrate pregnancy without marriage. We have become shamelessly proud of doing the wrong thing