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That's how people will not mind their business.

At least its covering all her body and the style is not bad, its decent and she's married, that's all that matters. Nobody would have complained about the gown some 20yrs ago. At least old mamas wore turtle neck long sleeves for wedding .


By the way the lady is beautiful -that last picture

Is it the same Prof Dapo Asaju that was once chaplain at LASU?

If the same person, he's actually quite a disciplined and easy going fellow.

I wonder why people are comparing this with the Ebola case , should everything be about politics

People are already mentioning one past minister for health .

This is a different different thing entirely, different sceneario.

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Everybody is quick to blame NIPOST, Nigerians sef, the stuff arrived Colombo in sri Lanka now, they forwarded it and it got to their country, its the fault of the srilankan postal agency.

In real sense there's really nothing nipost can do because they had forwarded it to the country's postal agency (except they should be able to confirm if that guy has picked it up) Its in the hands of srilankan postal agency now,

People use NIpost too now and they deliver, though not at the speed of the private agencies but they deliver. Received an item similar to that and it was sent by the countries postal agency and we received via Ni post.

There is a possibility that that dude has collected the stuff, how are we even sure that its not like here in naija that sometimes you go to the post office and collect your package, what if he had collected it.

It may be a scam

remedick:
The tracking shows Colombo, buyer is in Sri Lanka

Bros colombo is in srilanka

Hello classictutors is there a way I can get about 35 tubers in Lagos at wholesale price It's for personal use.

mimicue:
Gas cooker 10k oven glass broken
Car seat used 10k
Baby carrier with net 1,500 new
Baby bed and stand 10k

Pictures?

Pictures of the gas cooker , and how much is the voltage regulator?

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A marriage based on betrayal of trust?

Let's hope the wifey doesnt betray the husband's trust. How can you plan a wedding with someone and then go ahead to marry the hubby of the lady(your best friend) with whom you were planning her wedding.

Even if he was going to marry another person( which is bad enough) it shouldn't be the bestie

First things first you are already married, doing the solemnization or not doesn't change that fact (I wonder why peeps think TM is not proper marriage , God honors it oo, white wedding is feferity but its not wrong )

Considering the fact you had someone that appreciates your "level" and you didn't get parental consent. You should have looked for someone of the same tribe that is ready to start at your "level" so you can receive parental blessings too.

You budgeted 1.5m for the whole wedding they want to take a hall of 2M , let them pay for it now.
She has started telling you she misses lekki , I suspect you may stay around surulere, I thought you should leave and cleave sebi its the same mainland you ve been living and she knows its muscle you drive, its normal to miss home as a new bride but this preference of both of you staying in lekki when she knows you possibly can't afford it is wrong.

By the time you get married for a while choice of hospital when preggy, choice of schools for kids will cause plenty wahala.

As for the saying that he shouldnr allow the brides family to pay for the wedding , where I come from culturally its the brides family that plans almost everything (with due consideration to in-laws) hosts, even pays for most things but the hubby/ family will drop something, some cow plus other stuffs , some cash, it all varies per family. The brides family can decide to spend 10million on their daughters wedding, its their money BUT the lady now doing this unnecsary comparism when you already know how he is financially doesn't sound wise.

Since you are already married (I dnt believe in that bride price returning stuff I believe its a form of divorce except in cases the marriage was not valid ) Cancel the white go to registry but bros be ready for tough times ahead.

Sighs*

Sorry OP

Nawa oo The length of those dresses sha.

Honestly, Ibadan is a very good place to live, affordable accommodation in decent areas no Lagos wahala, no terrible traffic like Lagos, food is also quite affordable. Forget all those brown roofs we see on social media, its quite little compared to decent areas, there are very good places in Ibadan, Even the old places like agodi , jerico, Bodija estate are quite okay not to talk of the new estates built.

Enjoyed the latter part of my Nysc.

Lagos wahala is too much.

I wonder why people are shouting discrination, is it because you are not dancing to the front? I would shout discrimination if they decide not to dedicate the boy at all.

If there are no rules, there will be no offences.

First of for most a lot of churches won't even solemnize you if you have had sex before the marriage, what some may do is discipline you and then they do church blessing. People seem to forget For every sin you commit there are consequences even after you have repented and forgiven,

if your church rule is no open dedication. (Which I believe its to serve as an example to others, because the next thing will be arrh sebi sis xyz did it and they dedicated her baby openly so now its my turn and they are doing double standard) do the closed dedication, it doesn't make your child less dedicated to God.

I have heared of a church that won't announce the birth of children born out of wedlock on the altar, but they will come and do proper naming ceremony if you invite them because the child is innocent should we say those ones too discriminate by not announcing the baby's birth on the altar?

There are standards that need to be met.

I don't think there's anything against the bible in what they did. Dedication is dedication either open or closed.

Can someone with an extra year or a 3rd class graduate with honors? Its like I am seeing 3rd class honors on that result .



Anyway SR doesn't disapoint waiting for more revelations.

Tundellinium:
As I'm reading your post it's as if I should just punch you. Your thinking is very shallow! God! Who says this if not selfish girls! Do you consider the mans point of view!!!

Lool, you want to punch someone you have never met what will happen if you see the person face to face

So what should I have said ? He should divorce his wife or stop giving her alawee or he should punch her.

golddust6000:
hmm, see talk o. You mean men should marry and pay their wives monthly salary? So marriege is now Employment? The dude was angry because her wife is disrespecting him, how can he pay her salary on what ground? If marriege were to favoring the women i rather remain single orgo for sorrogation, women wahala to much, even adam sef tire for them. One thing i can diggest on what op narrate was the woman have high taste, she want to be among the big girls in school. I dont care how ugly a woman can be, if she respect me i can buy her the world

Lool Oga read my post again , I am neither in support or against OP placing his wife on allowance simply because the dynamics of different families are different.

I was only stating that it sounded more like an employee ,employer relationship when he mentioned the December bonus part, sounded funny to me since he decided to use that statement. Either way directly or indirectly a lot of women receive allowance from their hubby , except wives don't get money from the husband's again.

Well as for the disrespectful part, I don't support any one disrespecting anybody either wife or hubby.

Don't let women wahala tire you ooo, one can't do without them.

HumanistMike:
So how much do u think she's entitled to then?

Its not really about how much she's entitled too, it sounds so mathematical and more like a business transaction that's my view anyway . I do think 30k is okay just that the way he brought out the percentage aspect sounded quite funny.

Never tell your friends everything about your relationship some ladies tell it all and its not good.

See decent wedding gown, covering everywhere yet she is still glowing.

I still can't understabd how people feel you must be naked to look good.

I love the gown and that hat

BlossomBright:
Good afternoon house,please how do I get to this direction from IJAIYE. Thank you.


RCCG Lily Of The Valleys Chapel
31, Olatunde Onimole Str, by Princeton School, Off Adelabu Str, Aguda, Surulere, Lagos.

I believe you can find your way to oshodi, from oshodi take Ojuelegba from ojuelegba or barracks by the BRT bus take keke going to orile bode Thomas (dont enter orile- costain) drop at bode Thomas junction and take a bike to that RCCG or better still the princeton school.Its treakaable about 10minutes walk if you pass through the census market.

If you want to walk from the bode Thomas junction after alighting from the vehicle you follow your right, you will see one Nigerian film village, continue walking, you will see NYsc secretariat and a police station ,opposite the police station there's a small market, pass through the market to the other side, its a short cut once you come out you are on olatunde onimole, once you look up you will see one of the gates of Princeton.

"Tell Dad to tell me himself" - very rude statement.

Parents cannot talk to children again nawa ooo

The guy and the lady here don't look white

Apart from that why use a child to depict the monkey, it looks so aladin and Jasmine, the outfits -style of clothes, the hairstyle of the lady almost everything looks synonymous to aladin and jasmine.
The hairstyle, even the earrings and necklace, style of the top and a major color of the outfit of jasmine was blue. The monkey also wore that cuplike stuff on his head in the cartoon.

If it was a child that was used in the cartoon its a different thing entirely but considering it was a monkey.

It doesn't even matter the race of the child used but why use a child to represent a monkey? Its offensive enough to do that not to talk of using a black child to represent a monkey when it seems you are from another race. People will find this offensive , very offensive.


There's no way they can say this is not about the aladin cartoon and we all know who the child represents , BTW where's magic carpet and the genie.

Anyway it does look like they were just having fun sha, but its not funny at all.

Made me remember that song a whole new world.

Pheww , Thank God it didn't fall on anybody this time around.

I still can't get the image of that lady that was crushed by a container at this same mile 2 late last year out of my head.

skypeme:
30,100 / 175,000 x 100% = 17.2%
I add 2.5% increment to my wifes salary every Dec

You are making it sound like its an employee employer stuff, December bonus abi issorait

So sorry OP

So she gets around 30k as pocket money every month, and you pay all the bills buy everything needed and pay fees and school stuffs.That should be okay for her manage for personal effects I think, people earn 30k as salary nau.

That aside I see a lot of"I" "I" "I" in your statements its not all about you bro, You also mentioned the primary duties which you say is baby sitting, cooking your dinner during the week and both dinner and lunch during weekends, its quite a lot of work not as easy as it looks.

Not giving her her pocket money as a form of punishment translates to you not taking up your responsibility as a husband , you are meant to provide for her and take care of her and that should not change because of a misunderstanding especially since she has no source of income yet, where do u expect her to get money from if you seize her allawee.

Its better you communicate (not confront) to her let her know you were not happy with the extra she added on it, ask if she needed some extra stuffs at that time, ask why she did it was the 30k not enough for her that month?
Its not easy being in a position of being totally drpendednt and not having any money of your own, you need to see from her own view point too. She may have had extra need (you didn't mention she has inflated stuffs for you before ) and didn't want ti tell you about it since you already think she's not satisfied with the 17.2%





I don't know if its just me but I found the repetition of 17.2% in your narration quite amusing. OP no vex oo lool. How did you come to the conclusion that its 17.2% she's entitled too loool.

There could be a clause that the will should be read after a number of years.

The major problem here is he sees nothing wrong with it, if he did it would have been easy to advise. The one way you can stop having sex with him is if you separate or if he becomes repentant (even at that a separation is still necessary even if its for a while)

Is a relationship all about sex? Why every time you meet.

By the way I don't think he's a believer its that simple.

FCSC.

I participated in the 2013 recruitment, till today we didn't hear anything , in fact I gave up when my friend told me that her friend was in her house and someone came to visit them(I guess a prominent person) and he asked if she had not gotten a job, there and then he asked about her docs any way the long and short of the story is that her appointment letter was brought to her house. Her house ooo, she started the job ooo even before we that applied online of line etc.


Federal jobs are majorly by connection if you don't have human connection you got to have divine connection.

As most of us don't have senator or God father , we look unto God , all things are possible .

By the way the grade one graduated with doesn't matter at all.

Did you sleep with her? I asked because when people hear "ex" there's always an assumption that sex is involved.

I am suspecting you didn't , so recommend her now its not an issue in my opinion .

You kissed her and patted her and she was happy about it abi.

I pity u oo bros.