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Lots of ignorant people, you guys need to read up about the Lagos environmental law.

What most don't understand is all these people arrested have been issued notices, different court hearing which they ignored, what follows is arrest for contempt of court.


Some are owing as high as 200k, the person besides my house said he paid last in 2020, how on earth will someone not pay waste bill for 2 years they brought notice and he started running helter skelter, those PSPs are private businesses.

All those owing ( especially those with humongous bills) if you know what's good for you before the matter gets to court go and settle with your PSP, if e enter court Lagesc/Kai will enforce ballif can/ will seal your house Lawma the regulatory agency itself won't intervene and trust me nothing absolutely nothing will happen, just noise on Twitter and police Pro will tell you they are within the confines of the law.

When you now get to the court, you see that money on the bill you are avoiding to pay you will pay in full, all those arrested will bail themselves out and you will also pay fine to the court, it's better not experienced oo.

Ignorance is not an excuse and let me shock you, it's not an option to give Lawma PSP your waste, you cannot say you don't want the PSP, that itself is an offence.

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Troubledman:
I never wanted to involve parents or friends. But she brought them in, in a spate of anger in December last year. When I saw some incriminating things on her phone and left the house. She called all my family, my friends, her family. Reporting me for leaving the house.

When my family tried to get involved then, I told them to stay out of it as it was my family issue. So my own family has never been involved. They're involvement now is because we've been paying a visit here for about a week now and she decided to act up in the presence of my mum.

Other times she waits to get into the room before shouting, but yesterday was really a shock to me. Shouting at me in the presence of my mum.

Ironically, she's going about telling people that I was the one shouting at her, which is a big fat lie, I swear on it. I respect my mother too much to shout in front of her. Heck even in the middle of the night. My mother still told me to apologize to her and I did. She made me apologize thrice.

So she did all of this in your parents place? Dragged your mum in her own house.


I would have said it's unbelievable but I have met my own share of troublesome ladies to belive you.

Pele oo OP. It is well.

Which kain wahala is all these now, first it was suya chicken now this one. Nawa

You guys sha want us salivating

Nawa ooo, will try this sometimes

Loool it used to be like that in Lagos State owned hospitals back then ( that was when they write receipt by hand) when I did my IT in one of their lab until the govt intervened, now I doubt you can steal shishi from the system.

Blood bank was where the money was, I think it was 3,500 per bag back then. The state should get a unified payment method across all their hospitals. Technology has made things easier now.

Richy4:
I double checked to see if I was at the wrong section or if it was still family section..
However,U are not making a mistake.. Go ahead and may the gods be with you

grop1040:
I agree, i would have done better, probably make up an excuse, or just out rightly tell him NO.

Good you know, now do better.

It's as simple as ' Egbon my wife's car won't be available too, she needs it to do some runs' shikena. He would try to question your authority but ignore him.

It's not a fighting matter

eyinjuege:
How can you follow your brother to your wife's shop to go and get her vehicle?
It means you wholeheartedly support him, which is why you followed him there in the first place.
Why can't you just be an adult and let your no be no?
Will you allow your wife bring her brother to borrow your own vehicle?
Your wife should have been giving you hot fire at home for the multiple disrespect your family has brought upon her, all because of YOU.
She seems to be a very calm woman.
That's why at times, it's not good for women to be docile with in-laws and husbands that will bring disrespect to them through their families

The more I read his story the more irritated I get, he cannot talk direct to his bro, he wants his wife to do the rejecting, she should use story to prevent him from taking the car indeed. He can't simply say my wife's car won't be available. Now he's calling her manipulative

This guy knows what to do he just isn't ready yet.he still sees his wife as the problem while he and his people are the problem.

The level of disrespect is so terrible and seems the wife needs to do something about it at this point, the only problem is they all are looking for who they will blame for their family's discord and maybe she doesn't want to fall into that trap.

Yes nau, some people think it's until you show breasts before you can look good, all her outfits were very nice, decent and classy.

Look out the gown very lovely and classy, zero cleavage yet she's stunning.

Lovely,

Happy married life,

Beautiful dresses, lovely wedding gown, even the dresses for trad were so beautiful, all very decent.

Acidosis:
Congratulations to the couple!

As for Banky and his wife, no surprises. Banky W is a pastor ordained by Tony Rapu. Banky and Mr. Blessed (Mercy Chinwo's husband) are pastors at Waterbrooks Church, Lekki.

Wait Banky W is a pastor at waterbrook? I thought he was just a member.

1.You would need your brother around to help run some errands since you are hosting Inlaws, I don't know the type of Inlaws you have but either way you would surely need help also considering the insecurity you stated it makes sense for your brother to be around.

2.Also considering your hubby is very fetish, I won't advise you stay alone with his people, his people too might be very fetish, him saying your brother should leave raises an eyebrow considering the type of person he is.

3.I just feel you hubby is looking out for a fight, he knew saying your brother should leave would make you object.

4.Be very careful with his people, I don't trust fetish people and don't take your hubby's threat likely.

VenumX:
grop1040

You did not confront your brother when he was shouting at your wife. Now that you are suspecting something else, you still don't want to confront him.

You think that your wife doesn't have sense? You want her to be the one to start the bad blood. Even your own mother wants your wife to fall into your family trap so that the three of you( you, your brother and your mum) will have someone to blame for any bad blood in your family abi?

If you like, don't confront your brother yourself. Ode.

Abi nau, so they will say she is the one that scattered their family and they will still blame her again.

Mom007:
Even before looking at your gender, I knew a man wrote this comment. My dear Sir, the rules are different with women o. What a man will settle with just a word a woman has to shout and fight to get heard. Our gender is sadly marginalized. If you tell a man no, I'm not interested, he thinks you are telling him to try harder. If you tell a man, sorry, I'm married,(as if you even need to, e no get eyes to see ni?) , he thinks you are telling him to give you gifts and try to outdo your husband in order to get you. They keep pushing until you get firm by either insulting them or giving them a brain resetting slap. Why must it degenerate to all that when the man can simply set boundaries and keep his brother away from his family?

The OP is a weak man, him and his mum can't face the step brother but they want the wife to do so. He can't set boundaries, avoiding all to confront the brother but he is accusing the wife of cheating and running DNA test up and down. Imagine the nonsense. I am so pissed.

We have lots of boys on these forum, men with solid marital experience know the OP is wrong. A disrespect to your wife is a disrespect to you as the husband simple.

I posted this on your post in family section I will post it here again.



Women have truly suffered oo.

Nawa.

You are blaming her for what? You and your mum can't stand up to your step brother and you expect your wife to do so, are you aware that anything she does will be seen as disrespect to your half brother?

Your brother is shouting down on your wife, controls her up and down, did something that disgusting as giving her meat he chewed from without her knowledge and you people did not deem it fit to boot him out, now you are suspecting her of cheating simply because she knows you will never stand up for her.

She is enduring all that rubbish because she knows you are a weak man, she knows you will never stand up to your brother and you have made her the sacrificial lamb for your brothers excesses. If she says pim or acts with the same energy we all know what the result would be, she would still be blamed.

Weak- that is what you are.
It's even more disgusting that you can't see your weakness. Rubbish.



It's been long I read such nonsense,i was really pissed merely reading it, I just wonder how your wife feels.

Women have truly suffered oo.

Nawa.

You are blaming her for what? You and your mum can't stand up to your step brother and you expect your wife to do so, are you aware that anything she does will be seen as disrespect to your half brother?

Your brother is shouting down on your wife, controls her up and down, did something that disgusting as giving her meat he chewed from without her knowledge and you people did not deem it fit to boot him out, now you are suspecting her of cheating simply because she knows you will never stand up for her.

She is enduring all that rubbish because she knows you are a weak man, she knows you will never stand up to your brother and you have made her the sacrificial lamb for your brothers excesses. If she says pim or acts with the same energy we all know what the result would be, she would still be blamed.

Weak- that is what you are.
It's even more disgusting that you can't see your weakness. Rubbish.



It's been long I read such nonsense,i was really pissed merely reading it, I just wonder how your wife feels.

This stuff was all over Facebook too and the girl sounded so real from the few lines I listened to.

Nawa oo.

Lool it's like the OP has a personal issue with morayo. Shuu go and sort out your issue with her abeg. Chochocho people.

They discuss any and everything on the hot topic,

From Mercy Aigbes scandal, to Ooni of ifes wife matter , to the students trapped in Ukraine, The Bianca slap, BRT lane matter to practically any trending topic, heck they even discussed 2nd wife issue(yul edochie)

bukatyne:
Well, she brought it out herself

Yeah right.

Gloriousgbola

It actually happens

It is why some people say it is better to wild out or ho out in your youth. So when you are older you have seen it all and cannot be swayed

That of course assumes you will not get lost in the game in your youth though

Well lots get lost in the game at youth and they never ever get back and then some tiny few who repent and become good guys

I remember this dude Victor. Guy was su throughout school. Anyways guy went on nysc came back and was asking guys Oya when do we hit the club?

My former ceo na my age. As guy rose and got power, his latent ashawo manifested fully. Enough affairs. Some sef you go dey shake your head. Today his first wife has divorced him and left the country with the kids. But he has a new wife so...

Hopefully as that one was fking him as adultery, she knows how it goes

And then there are the guys who you clearly can see want to chop life but don't have money. One of my paddy in school whose dad was a lecturer used to joke about pics from his dad's youth and how dad na player.anyway the dad got a rector job and promptly started knacking small girls so much that the sons were all embarrassed

Lool at latent ashawo

I actually feel the ones that money is the motivator are the worst set, anyone money can change the character has always exhibited a fake personality / character and it might even be oblivious to the person involved , money/power is always the true test.

truthsayer009:
Yes you are right, they are aren't old fashioned in looks and communication but their mannerism will be far different from those ones I mentioned up there.[b] Also, just to note that women who date for at least one year physically can most times tell if the man is a jaiye-jaiye kind of man, the red flags will be showing no matter how subtl[/b]e. Once you are engaged to somebody that is always hiding their phone. Going outside to talk etc You know whats coming. Lets not lie, we all see the signs.

Yeah right but some humans are masters at deception, they are so smooth and it's only by divine intervention you know their real self.

bukatyne:
I totally agree with this.

The next question is if the godly man seeker is godly herself.

This reminds me of a story I heard; I know the actors

Babe was in 'town' and married godly bobo. Nagged him to be jaiye jaiye and as per fast learner, he learnt beyond the syllabus.


Added chronic adultery & abuse to his clubbing & hanging out with 'the boys'.

Madam kuku carry her kaya like that. After all, the man is her creation.

Well maybe he was a coded jaiye jaiye to begin with.

Just saying tho.

truthsayer009:
I get what you're saying & I agree it is not synonymous, Tyler Perry is in show business so he definitely cannot be boring but there are some kinds of "exciting" environments he cannot be seen because of the image he portrays. Your spouse may not want to watch Big Brother or Love Island where people are banging themselves on live television because he deems it unholy but you may find it interesting & think he is acting old fashioned. You may enjoy wearing skimpy stuff out & about, around the house even when visitors are in but he is feeling somehow ontop of that decision.

My point is, men who are less likely to give you problems aren't moved by popular fun lifestyle or trends which ultimately shields them from a lot of temptations but some women don't enjoy being with that type of person. They want a lively guy/man who is in vogue.

Now I agree with the bolded

I think I get what you are saying now, was just surprised with the Godly men are boring statement.

truthsayer009:
Yes there are Godly men who aren't old fashioned like Pastor Tobi Adegboyega of Salvation Proclaimers Anointed Church & Apostle Suleman, but I'm sure you know the women in Nollywood don't rest from the pricks of such Pastors.

Oluwa ooo it is well.

But not all Godly men are old fashioned, I am sure you get my point, even the Tyler perry and kirk Franklin you mentioned are not old fashioned

Timmi:
Married and never cheated for 36-years. The fear of the Lord kept me from cheating in spite of temptations. Not by power, nor might but by the Spirit of God.

Hallelujah, the fear of God

God bless you sir.

I hope the men are polygamous in nature Geng can see that it's very possible to stick to one woman, it was possible then and it's still valid for this generation.

truthsayer009:
This Godly men that Nigerian women seek of is what I don't understand, majority of Nigerian women will completely dislike the idea of marrying a man that is actually Godly, because they are conventional and old-fashioned, similar to a Fuddy-duddy. Most of those relationships doesn't even get to the serious stage because she is already complaining of the whole thing being boring. I don't feel the spark bla bla bla.

You want a Godly man but your crush is Burna Boy & Kizz Daniel? It seems everyone wants a bad-boy that would be faithful. Why is Kirk Franklin or Tyler Perry not your crush instead.

At bolded hahaha

But there are Godly men who are not old fashioned, but then there are somethings you wouldn't catch the God-fearing man doing.

@ 2nd bolded I seriously wonder too. You want a Godly man stick to that and take the whole package.

Richy4:
Social media made it look like all men cheats... there are 100 men out there who are faithful... but immediately one of them cheats, all camera will go off on the 99 faithful men and focused on that one unfaithful man that cheated...Because of that, it will now affect the 99 men who were innocent in all ramification..

That's just how the world roll... How many men/women have been celebrated for marrying for 30, 45 or even 5yrs...
But immediately they speak of divorce, it will be picked and the concentration will be there...

The media has made the world concentrate more on the negative than the positive...If a man opens a thread on Nairaland and say...
***I just want to announce that since I got married in 2018, I have never cheated on my wife***
<<U can imagine eyes that will be rolling in front of the laptop/phones...
<<Some will ask why he was announcing what he ought to be doing...
<<some will say.. oh!! do you need a medal and
<<others will say so many negative and unprintable stuffs just to downplay it...

So to answer your question... YES THERE ARE MEN OUT THERE WHO TAKES THEIR SACRED VOWS SERIOUSLY...But chose to stay calm because it's 'not worth celebrating'

You are right oo

@topic there are men who do not cheat. Thank you.

dankorode:
how can I watch it online too?

I just googled 4x100m women relay race and checked under videos, the clips are there. Can't post links because of antispambot.

junglej:
The girl that ran the third leg is a beast. Not only did she cover the gap, the momentum and cheer she gave to the girl on the final leg was just so phenomenal. Na 200 meter she run sef. 100 for the race and the other 100 to cheer her team mate

Lool, I had to go watch the clip online, she cheered the lady on the last leg,she almost escorted her to the finish line.

Superb team work.

onegig:
She didn't tell you the truth.

Probably she was divorced and didn't get the consent form from the other parent to travel with the kids. I am 110% sure she wasn't denied because of difference in the Surname.

Is her name not on their birth certificate?

Heck it's even a lot stressful for ladies who changed names. All your previous history, you have to go explain. Present marriage certificate, newspaper prints and whatnot just to authenticate your identity. I can not wrap my head why a lady would change her name. The hassle alone is enough turn off. But whatever works for people. Imagine you had to remarry? Lol. Affidavit for affidavit for affidavit of change of name? Why give yourself such headache ?

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Lool the stuff is very stressful, thankfully it's s one off thing and there's provision for maiden name almost everywhere.

Affidavit
Newspaper
BVN
NIN
Passport
PVC

Change all the changeable, very tedious something. My friend just did/completed hers after 9 years of marriage.